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Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP075: Autopsy of a Dead Dream

Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast

Release Date: 07/22/2025

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Closing The 18 Inch Gap Podcast

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Today I start with a funny story about how I answered a belief in Santa from a bully from a neighborhood I was in while in one of my many foster homes. It ties into todays topic about what we still believe and the consequences that follow.   But I want to speak to you today about a belief you also need to outgrow and no longer give it anymore attention. It’s the belief that you “should be further along” often has nothing to do with reality and everything to do with comparison. When you release the pressure to prove yourself, clarity returns. Progress built from self-trust is always...

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Have you ever wondered what a dead dream looks like? What causes it?

This isn't just a conversation… it’s an examination.

Somewhere, deep within you—or someone you love—there was a dream. A dream once alive, vibrant, breathing with purpose.

But today… it’s gone.

Was it killed by fear? Starved by delay? Drowned in someone else’s opinion? Or did it simply go unloved and unnoticed for too long?

I’m your Dream Realization Partner, and in this episode, we perform the autopsy.

Together we’ll examine the wounds and  ask the hard questions.

Not to linger in loss—but to learn…
So that no other dream has to die the same silent death.

If you've ever wondered what happened to the fire you once carried—this is your moment to uncover the truth.

Let’s begin the autopsy."    

Quote of the week: When we give up on our dreams, we die while still alive.  Robin Sharma

Points covered:

Autopsy Report: Case #D.R.E.A.M.-00018
Subject: Deceased Dream
Pronounced Dead: date of abandonment forgotten
Examiner: Edwin Soler Your Dream Realization Partner
Cause of Death: Neglect, Fear, External Influence, Internal Conflict, and Systemic Starvation of Purpose

 

1. BRAIN — Ceased Dream Function

Diagnosis: Terminal Stagnation, the dream died when the mind stopped believing it was possible.

2. HEART — Loss of Emotional Pulse

Diagnosis: Excitement Arrest, the dream died when the heart no longer felt joy in the vision.

3. LUNGS — Respiratory Shutdown

Diagnosis: Inspiration Asphyxiation, the dream died from lack of inspiration and exposure to uplifting environments.

4. SPINE — Collapse of Conviction

Diagnosis: Backbone Breakdown, the dream died when it couldn’t stand up for itself.

5. HANDS — Function Lost

Diagnosis: Creative Paralysis,

the dream died because it was never built.

6. FEET — Directionless Wandering

Diagnosis: Visionary Disorientation, the dream died because it stopped moving forward toward its original vision.

7. EYES — Blindness to Possibility

Diagnosis: Dream Vision Obscurity, the dream died because it was never truly seen.

8. VOICE — Silence of Expression

Diagnosis: Communicative Suppression, the dream died when it stopped being spoken into the world.

9. GUT — Intuition Starvation

Diagnosis: Inner Knowing Rejection, the dream died when inner truth was silenced by outside noise.

10. SKIN — Identity Erosion

Diagnosis: External Identity Corrosion, the dream died when it was no longer safe to be seen.

 

FINAL CAUSE OF DEATH:

Neglect due to Fear, Lack of Nurturing Environment, and Chronic Misalignment with Purpose.

Manner of Death:

  • Slow and Preventable
  • Death occurred in stages, beginning with the silencing of inspiration, followed by the loss of vision, motivation, and finally, belief.

"If we had opened this dream up sooner, given it breath, voice, heart, and movement — it might still be alive today."
"But here’s the truth: the beauty of dreams is they can resurrect. If you’re hearing this and recognize these symptoms — your dream may not be dead… it may just be in a coma, waiting for you to revive it."

I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you.

If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable.

Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up.

What resonated with you today?  I want to explore how I can help you.  Remember that I offer my  Next-Level Dream Chat.  We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started.  Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect.

 

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