Mistakes Were Made

Non monogamy for imperfect people. Hosted by a queer therapist and her husband of 15 years. Sarah & Alex share their experiences opening their marriage, and interview guests about the struggles & rewards of doing relationships your own way. Mistakes Were Made is part advice, part confession, part culture critique. But it’s all about learning from our missteps and stumbling toward liberation. Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/. Logo design by roy franklin of the Whatever Factory - https://www.whateverfactory.org/.

Shadow Alchemy: Season 6 Premiere! | Ep 80 10/02/2026

Ep 79: The 3 Phases of Opening a Marriage | Season 5 Finale 07/03/2026

Ep 78: Coming Out as Poly with Tabitha Kirkland 06/19/2026

Ep 77: Stop People Pleasing with Calvin Burnap 06/05/2026

Ep 76: Is Opening up harder for men or women? Part 1 05/22/2026

Ep 75: Lindy West was right 05/08/2026

Ep 74: Sarah's First Sex Party 04/24/2026

Ep 73: Relationship Care Plans with Karryn 04/10/2026

Ep 72: Lindy West’s Adult Braces Instant Reaction 03/27/2026

Ep 71: Love or Limerence? 03/20/2026

Ep 70: Community and Cancel Culture with Ramsey 03/06/2026

Ep 69: New Models of Masculinity 02/20/2026

Ep 68: The Poly Bi Male Experience with Quinn 02/06/2026

Ep 67: Taking care of your partner (and yourself) when they’re struggling 01/23/2026

Ep 66: Kin, Family and Community Love with Sophie Lucido Johnson 01/09/2026

Ep 65: Alone in a Crowded Polycule 12/26/2025

Ep 64: The Religion to Poly Pipeline with Tyson 12/12/2025

Ep 63: Jealousy, Anarchy and Psychedelics with Dr Nicole Thompson 11/28/2025

Ep 62: MWM Live at Liberating Love Festival 11/14/2025

Ep 61: Trauma-Informed Poly ~ Season 5 Premiere! 10/31/2025

Ep 60: Holding Boundaries, Meeting Needs | Season 4 finale 09/26/2025

Ep 59: Splitsville Instant Reaction 09/05/2025

Ep 58: Parents Fast for Gaza + Poly-tics (Encore) 08/15/2025

Ep 57: How to Fail at Sex with Calvin Burnap 07/25/2025

Ep 56: Poly Hot Tub Time Machine 07/04/2025

Ep 55: That Good Sex 06/13/2025

Ep 54: Are Het Relationships Hopeless? 05/23/2025

Ep 53: Good Grief with Queer Chaplain Kam 05/02/2025

Ep 52: How (Not to) Break up 04/11/2025

Ep 51: Love in a F*cked Up World with Dean Spade 03/21/2025