Black Parents Aging Podcast
Black Parents Aging is a podcast for busy black women who are navigating the changing parent/child dynamic with their aging parents or grandparents. Now you are the one worrying about your parents. This show will provide weekly tips and advice about how to have hard conversations with your parents, what you need to know about their finances, health and overall wellbeing. All coupled with a healthy dose of comical relief and coco butter (no one will be ill prepared and ashy on our watch!)
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SN 4 EP 7 (part 2): The Role of a Death Doula with Neiasha Russell
01/15/2025
SN 4 EP 7 (part 2): The Role of a Death Doula with Neiasha Russell
In this week’s episode, Olivia dives into an eye-opening conversation with special guest Neiasha Russell, a compassionate and experienced death doula. If you’ve ever wondered what a death doula does, or if you’ve struggled to have conversations about end-of-life planning with your loved ones, this episode is for you. Neiasha shares her heartfelt journey, how her mother’s passing inspired her to help others, and practical insights for navigating grief and legacy planning. We know these conversations can feel overwhelming, but by the end of this episode, you’ll feel equipped to take the first steps toward approaching these topics with love, dignity, and confidence. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What a death doula is and how they support families and individuals. Neiasha’s personal story of losing her mother and how it shaped her career. The misconceptions and fears around death, especially in the Black community. How Neiasha’s work intersects with estate planning and legacy building. Practical ways to start conversations about mortality and grief with loved ones. Resources Mentioned: Harriet’s Daughters: Learn more about Neiasha’s nonprofit organization supporting girls who’ve lost their mothers to cancer. : Find training and resources on becoming a death doula : Visit for more information on estate planning and related legal services. Connect with Us: Visit our website for additional show notes and resources: . Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who could benefit from the discussion. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!
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SN 4 EP 7 (part 1): The Role of a Death Doula with Neiasha Russell
01/08/2025
SN 4 EP 7 (part 1): The Role of a Death Doula with Neiasha Russell
In this week’s episode, Olivia dives into an eye-opening conversation with special guest Neiasha Russell, a compassionate and experienced death doula. If you’ve ever wondered what a death doula does, or if you’ve struggled to have conversations about end-of-life planning with your loved ones, this episode is for you. Neiasha shares her heartfelt journey, how her mother’s passing inspired her to help others, and practical insights for navigating grief and legacy planning. We know these conversations can feel overwhelming, but by the end of this episode, you’ll feel equipped to take the first steps toward approaching these topics with love, dignity, and confidence. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What a death doula is and how they support families and individuals. Neiasha’s personal story of losing her mother and how it shaped her career. The misconceptions and fears around death, especially in the Black community. How Neiasha’s work intersects with estate planning and legacy building. Practical ways to start conversations about mortality and grief with loved ones. Resources Mentioned: Harriet’s Daughters: Learn more about Neiasha’s nonprofit organization supporting girls who’ve lost their mothers to cancer. : Find training and resources on becoming a death doula : Visit for more information on estate planning and related legal services. Connect with Us: Visit our website for additional show notes and resources: . Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who could benefit from the discussion. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!
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SN 4 EP 5 (part 2): Managing Family Dynamics and Tough Conversations During Holidays
12/18/2024
SN 4 EP 5 (part 2): Managing Family Dynamics and Tough Conversations During Holidays
Holiday reunions can be a mix of joy and stress, especially when guilt, shame, and family expectations come into play. In this episode, we dive into managing the emotional ups and downs that often surface during these gatherings. Licensed counselor Adriauna Clay-Potts shares practical tips to help you navigate family dynamics, prepare mentally, and maintain your peace. From positive self-talk to steering conversations in a healthier direction, we cover strategies to help you handle criticism or triggering situations with confidence and grace. We also explore how to support your parents without overstepping, using real-life examples to highlight the balance between respect and boundaries. Tune in for valuable insights to help you embrace the holiday season with empathy, understanding, and stronger family connections. Connect with Adriauna:http://www.firmlyrootedcounselingllc.com/ Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 4 EP 5 (part 1): Managing Family Dynamics and Tough Conversations During Holidays
12/11/2024
SN 4 EP 5 (part 1): Managing Family Dynamics and Tough Conversations During Holidays
Holiday reunions can be a mix of joy and stress, especially when guilt, shame, and family expectations come into play. In this episode, we dive into managing the emotional ups and downs that often surface during these gatherings. Licensed counselor Adriauna Clay-Potts shares practical tips to help you navigate family dynamics, prepare mentally, and maintain your peace. From positive self-talk to steering conversations in a healthier direction, we cover strategies to help you handle criticism or triggering situations with confidence and grace. We also explore how to support your parents without overstepping, using real-life examples to highlight the balance between respect and boundaries. Tune in for valuable insights to help you embrace the holiday season with empathy, understanding, and stronger family connections. Connect with Adriauna:http://www.firmlyrootedcounselingllc.com/ Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 4 EP 3 (part 2): Challenges of Being a Caregiver
12/04/2024
SN 4 EP 3 (part 2): Challenges of Being a Caregiver
Caregiving brings its own emotional rollercoaster, particularly when dementia is part of the journey. We share heartfelt stories that highlight the necessity of robust support systems and self-care practices that bolster mental and emotional well-being. We promise you that by tuning in, you'll uncover practical strategies for tackling the unique challenges faced by aging Black parents. From the importance of securing a reliable primary care physician to leveraging veteran assistance and insurance brokers, this episode is packed with insights drawn from personal experiences and community wisdom. Hear how proactive involvement and resourcefulness can be your best allies in ensuring the well-being of elderly loved ones, especially when the system seems stacked against you. Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 4 EP 3 (part 1): Challenges of Being a Caregiver
11/27/2024
SN 4 EP 3 (part 1): Challenges of Being a Caregiver
What if you suddenly found yourself balancing a demanding career, personal responsibilities, and the role of caregiver for aging parents? In this episode, we dive into this tender reality with Ciarra Joyner, a Title IX coordinator from North Carolina, and Maya Miller, a freelance photographer from Louisiana. Both women share their heartfelt journeys supporting parents with Alzheimer's and other health challenges, offering a raw and honest look into the sacrifices, emotional struggles, and logistical hurdles that come with caregiving. Through their stories, we explore the dynamics of intergenerational care in Black families, touching on the cultural nuances, sibling relationships, and tough decisions like placing loved ones in care facilities. Ciarra and Maya reflect on balancing their parents’ autonomy with the need to step into decision-making roles, all while navigating generational perspectives and family expectations. Their insights and strategies provide inspiration, encouragement, and a roadmap for those walking the same path. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 4 EP 2: Medicare Changes in 2025 - What Seniors Need to Know, with Duane Hamilton
11/20/2024
SN 4 EP 2: Medicare Changes in 2025 - What Seniors Need to Know, with Duane Hamilton
Duane Hamilton, owner of Hamilton Insurance Group in Atlanta, joins us on this week’s episode to unlock the secrets of the insurance world. From his beginnings in the mortgage sector during the chaos of the 2008 financial crisis to his thriving insurance business, Duane brings a wealth of knowledge across various insurance areas, including auto, homeowners, and life insurance. His focus, however, is on assisting mature clients over 40, and he shares his passion for helping them navigate the complexities of Medicare. With a genuine commitment to aiding clients in making informed choices, Duane dives deep into the challenges faced by seniors, such as medication costs and dental benefits, illuminating how personalized guidance can make all the difference. Discover critical insights on Medicare Advantage plans and how recent changes could impact your healthcare decisions. We cover everything from reimbursement alterations leading to increased co-pays to the importance of reevaluating your coverage during the annual election period. Learn about the open enrollment period and how you can adjust your plans without penalties. With Duane’s expert advice, we provide strategies for managing healthcare needs, especially for those with chronic conditions. If you're seeking informed, thoughtful assistance, this episode is an invaluable resource for confidently navigating the insurance landscape. Connect with Duane: Phone number: 770-744-1855 Website: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 4 EP 1: We Are Back!
11/13/2024
SN 4 EP 1: We Are Back!
This episode marks the kickoff of another season—season three! Or four? Who's counting when the vibes are this good, right? This season, we've lined up some stellar guests and tackled topics we know you need to hear. Some are new and surprising twists that even we can’t believe are happening, and others… well, let’s just say we’re bringing back some crowd-favorites because, honestly, y'all need a refresher. Trust us! Expect real talk, fresh insights, and as always, a little humor to keep it light. So, mark your calendars - episode one drops next Wednesday (and every Wednesday after that!). And don’t forget, we love hearing from you! Your feedback and questions keep us inspired and help shape the show. Reach out on Facebook, call the law firm, or hit us up however you can - because we’re here for YOU. Catch you Wednesday - don’t miss it!
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SN 3 EP 10: Meeting with an Estate Planning Attorney
04/10/2024
SN 3 EP 10: Meeting with an Estate Planning Attorney
What happens when you choose to work with us? Tune in as we reveal the essentials of estate planning and probate law to secure your legacy. With a keen focus on the initial legal consultation, we lay down the groundwork for a successful attorney-client relationship. It's no secret that organizing your assets and understanding your family dynamics is the bedrock of a robust estate plan. We're here to guide you through the complexities of wills, trusts, and the probate process, ensuring your loved ones are cared for and your wishes are honored, with the bonus of making the legal side seem less like a chore and more like a strategic step towards peace of mind. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 3 EP 9: Estate Planning and Probate: Navigating Dementia and Aging, with Kim Snow (Part 3)
04/03/2024
SN 3 EP 9: Estate Planning and Probate: Navigating Dementia and Aging, with Kim Snow (Part 3)
When life serves up a stark reminder of its impermanence, as it did for Kim Snow with the loss of her sister and her father's dementia battle, the call to action becomes undeniable. Our latest episode takes us through Kim's experience, her emotional journey, and the critical wake-up call that pushed her toward ensuring her estate was in order. Kim's insights on the emotional rollercoaster and logistical hurdles of end-of-life care touch upon the universal truth of mortality and the pressing need to prepare for the inevitable. Diving into the heart of estate planning, we explore the treacherous waters of wills and digital asset management with Kim, whose sister's handwritten will sparked a chain of challenges. This episode highlights the collaborative power of estate planning teams, underscoring the essential roles of financial planners and attorneys who navigate the landscape of legal and financial readiness. Join us to learn the profound importance of a comprehensive approach to securing your legacy and safeguarding your loved ones from unnecessary distress. Links: Part 1 of Kim's interview: Part 2 of Kim's interview: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook Group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 3 EP 8: The Groundwork for Generational Wealth, with Tyrah Littles
03/20/2024
SN 3 EP 8: The Groundwork for Generational Wealth, with Tyrah Littles
Join the conversation with Tyrah Littles from McIntosh SEED, who takes us on a transformative journey from her initial dream of dentistry to becoming a cornerstone of community upliftment. Tyrah's narrative is a powerful testament to the unexpected paths that lead to profound community service - serving those who stand at the intersection of wealth and legacy creation. She articulates the essence of McIntosh SEED's mission: to nurture low-wealth families and neglected rural areas, focusing on the age group often overlooked, those between 40 to 60 years old. Her dedication to treating each individual with familial grace underscores the personal satisfaction derived from such meaningful advocacy. The heart of our discussion beats to the rhythm of McIntosh SEED's incredible work in building trust with African-American landowners to transform their land from burdensome taxes to sustainable assets. Weaving through the organization's history, Tyrah illuminates the growth spurred by the Sustainable Forest and African-American Land Retention Program and the strategic partnerships that fuel legacy-ensuring forest management plans. This episode not only provides a beacon of inspiration for land stewardship but also guides listeners to the untapped resources available for securing their family's future. It's a narrative of perseverance and empowerment, shedding light on the role of land in broader community development and the benefits that ripple through generations. Connect with Tyrah: Website: https://mcintoshseed.org/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tyrah-littles-a3b44828a Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 3 EP 7: Embracing the Challenge of Dementia Care and Navigating the Finality of Hospice Transition (Part 2)
03/13/2024
SN 3 EP 7: Embracing the Challenge of Dementia Care and Navigating the Finality of Hospice Transition (Part 2)
This week's episode is part 2 of a , so if you haven't had a chance to listen to that, we recommend that you start with it first. When faced with the reality of a parent's dementia diagnosis, the road ahead is anything but straightforward. Kim, our guest for the week, takes us along on her journey of caring for her father with Lewy body dementia. Her candid storytelling uncovers the unvarnished truth of coordinating a move to a care facility, the intricacies of finding compassionate caregivers, and the negotiations that come with ensuring the health and happiness of our most cherished elders. As we peel back the layers of dementia care, we witness the vigilance required to maintain our loved one's well-being, from the detection and treatment of common health issues like UTIs to the persistent advocacy needed in the face of healthcare bureaucracy. Kim opens up about the emotional toll of watching the decline of her father's health and the proactive steps she took to ensure he received the utmost care. Regular visits, understanding facility certifications, and direct dialogue with care providers emerge as critical elements in this complex and heart-wrenching chapter of life. Kim's proactive approach, including installing a monitoring camera, speaks volumes about the lengths we go to for peace of mind and the unconditional love we have for our parents as we accompany them through their final days. Part 1 of Kim's interview: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook Group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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SN 3 EP 6: Guarding Against Memory Loss, with Dr. Emily and Mitchell Clionsky
03/06/2024
SN 3 EP 6: Guarding Against Memory Loss, with Dr. Emily and Mitchell Clionsky
Could your daily habits be the key to preventing dementia? Let's unlock the secrets together with Dr. Emily and Mitchell Clionsky, esteemed dementia experts who join us to challenge the notion that our fate is sealed by genetics. Through their groundbreaking research and their latest book, , they arm us with proactive strategies that intertwine health management, diet, and physical activity to equip ourselves and our loved ones against cognitive decline. This episode goes beyond the surface, debunking quick-fix myths and providing listeners with actionable steps toward preserving brain health. In a nutshell, they talk about: - An overview of their new book, - Dementia is not inevitable; steps can be taken to mitigate its risk. - Dr. Emily's expertise in internal medicine and psychiatry, focusing on cognitive impairment care. - Dr. Mitchell’s role as a board-certified neuropsychologist, specializing in cognitive impairments evaluation and treatment. - Importance of exercise and obstructive sleep apnea treatment in dementia prevention. - Proactive measures including regular exercise, medication adherence, and alcohol moderation. - Head injury prevention and the importance of education in reducing dementia risk. … and so much more! Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: Connect with Dr. Emily and Mitchell Clionsky: Their book: ; Website:
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SN 3 EP 5: Guardianship and Conservatorship, with Olivia Smith and Nicola Robinson
02/28/2024
SN 3 EP 5: Guardianship and Conservatorship, with Olivia Smith and Nicola Robinson
This episode delves into the complex world of guardianships and conservatorships, which are pressing issues for families caring for aging parents. Explore the critical distinctions between guardians, responsible for personal needs, and conservators, who manage financial affairs, as Olivia and Nicola discuss the emotional and legal implications of assuming these roles for our elderly loved ones. The episode provides insight into court procedures, including the emotionally charged experience of having one's autonomy publicly scrutinized and the potential for family discord over appointment decisions - circumstances that could permanently alter family dynamics. The discussion extends beyond the courtroom, highlighting the profound responsibilities entrusted to guardians and conservators. Discover the essential safeguards, such as the guardian ad litem's protective role and the necessity of court oversight in significant financial matters, designed to protect the interests of individuals under guardianship or conservatorship. This conversation strikes a balance between compassion and legal proceedings, offering clarity on how to ensure our most vulnerable family members receive the care and dignity they deserve. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 3 EP 4: From Daughter to Caregiver: Navigating Dementia and Aging, with Kim Snow (Part 1)
02/21/2024
SN 3 EP 4: From Daughter to Caregiver: Navigating Dementia and Aging, with Kim Snow (Part 1)
Stepping into the role of a caregiver for an aging parent is a transformation that many of us will face, but are we ever truly prepared? This week, Nicola’s friend Kim Snow guests on the show to share her heart-wrenching yet insightful journey into the world of elder care after her father's diagnosis of vascular dementia. Together, they peel back the layers of early warning signs that are too often brushed aside and the harsh realities of financial planning that catch many families off guard. From initial signs and symptoms to navigating the healthcare system and financial challenges, Kim's journey sheds light on the emotional and logistical rollercoaster many families face when confronted with the realities of aging and cognitive decline. Kim's story is one of courage and adaptation, a testament to the resilience required when the parent-child dynamic is forever changed. Tune in to learn more about: - Kim's introduction and how she discovered the podcast while searching for resources to care for her aging father. - Kim's experience living in Brooklyn with her father, noticing signs of cognitive decline, and the challenges of obtaining a diagnosis during the COVID-19 pandemic. - The difficulty of advocating for her father's healthcare needs and the lack of centralized resources for dementia care. - Kim's emotional journey of coming to terms with her father's diagnosis and the impact on her daily life and career. - The financial strain of dementia care, including the high costs of assisted living facilities and the challenges of navigating Medicare and Medicaid. - Kim's decision to move her father to Georgia to provide him with better care and the process of building a new home to accommodate his needs. - The ongoing challenges of caring for her father as his dementia progresses and the importance of seeking support and resources for caregivers. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook Group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 3 EP 3: A Guide to Self-Advocacy within Hospital Walls with Monique Nugent
02/14/2024
SN 3 EP 3: A Guide to Self-Advocacy within Hospital Walls with Monique Nugent
When navigating the intricacies of hospital stays, the guidance of someone like Dr. Monique Nugent, a seasoned hospitalist and public health expert, can be a beacon of clarity. This episode was graced by Dr. Nugent’s presence as she unpacked the nuances of medical advocacy and how she ensures that her patients' journeys through the healthcare system are not only safe but also aligned with their primary care physicians' insights. As we traversed the emotional landscape of hospital walls, we realized how the presence of a hospitalist like Dr. Nugent could transform a daunting experience into one where patients feel heard and supported. In a nutshell, we chat about: - Dr. Nugent's background as a hospitalist and her dedication to improving the hospital patient experience. - The importance of communication between hospitalists and primary care physicians, as well as with patients and their families. - Challenges faced by African-American patients within the healthcare system. - The significance of relying on one's community for support and advocacy during hospitalization. - Cultural factors that may influence patient behavior in healthcare settings. - The crucial role of addressing mental health during hospitalization for overall well-being and recovery. - How patients' goals and values may evolve, significantly impacting their healthcare decisions. ... and much more! Connect with Monique: Website: https://drmoniquenugent.com/ Book: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook Group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 3 EP 2: Navigating Senior Financial Management with Barbara Scurry
02/07/2024
SN 3 EP 2: Navigating Senior Financial Management with Barbara Scurry
Have you ever considered who'll help your aging loved one sort their bills and financial affairs as the years add up? This pressing question is gracefully answered by Barbara Scurry, a seasoned expert in senior daily money management, who joined us to share her dedication to aiding those facing the hurdles that come with age. Her company's mission is to provide an organizational lifeline to seniors struggling with visual, auditory, or motor impairments, as well as cognitive difficulties such as Alzheimer's or dementia. Barbara's journey from a marketing graduate to a financial organizer for the elderly is not just inspiring but a testament to her natural gift for bringing order to chaos, and her commitment to empowering a population that greatly benefits from such specialized services. In a nutshell, Barbara talks about: - What daily money management is. - Types of services offered by her company - Importance of having a trusted professional manage finances for seniors with cognitive or physical limitations. - Signs indicating a need for daily money management. - Addressing financial exploitation. - How to find a daily money manager. Tune in for an episode that's not just informative, but also a heartfelt guide to honoring the dignity and independence of our parents as they age. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: Connect with Barbara: Company: https://yourseniorpartners.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbarascurry/ Resource Mentioned: Website: https://secure.aadmm.com/
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SN 3 EP 1: Beating the Odds in Heart Health and Disease Management with Dr. Kathryn McFarland
01/31/2024
SN 3 EP 1: Beating the Odds in Heart Health and Disease Management with Dr. Kathryn McFarland
When your heart's in your throat and the world seems to stand still, that's when the true miracle of modern cardiology can shine. That's the lesson Dr. Kathryn McFarland, a dedicated cardiologist with a holistic approach to treatment, imparts as she recounts the life-altering moment that propelled her from endocrinology to the front lines of heart health. On our show, Dr. McFarland doesn't just share medical insights; she delves into the heart of community care, advocating for patient education and familial support. We tackle the heavy truths about heart disease's impact on African Americans and dissect the disparities in healthcare access, all while championing the preventative powers of a heart-healthy lifestyle and the transformative role of regular exercise. But our journey with Dr. McFarland doesn't stop at prevention; we navigate the often-unspoken symptoms of heart disease in women and the absolute necessity of self-advocacy. The road to recovery post-heart attack is long, marked by the milestones of cardiac rehabilitation and the struggle against depression—a path illuminated by Dr. McFarland's expertise. Tune in to explore how a symphony of lifestyle changes and medical interventions can keep the rhythm of our health in balance. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: Connect with Dr. McFarland: Website: https://kccwc.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathryn-a-mcfarland-609a579/
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Black Parents Aging Returns with Season 3!
01/24/2024
Black Parents Aging Returns with Season 3!
Welcome back to another exciting season of Black Parents Aging! After a brief hiatus, we are thrilled to be back, and what a way to kick off the New Year – Happy New Year to all our listeners! We've made some changes, and for 2024, we've decided to structure our episodes into seasons. This marks the beginning of Season Three, starting on January 31st, with 10 episodes. Later in the year, around fall, get ready for Season Four, another 10 episodes coming your way. So, in total, you can expect 20 fantastic episodes this year, giving us the time to curate excellent content and engage with incredible guests. Tune in for insightful episodes, real stories, and valuable discussions about navigating the challenges of aging parents. We're back, and we can't wait to share this season with you all! Stay tuned for next week's episode, and thank you for being a part of the Black Parents' Aging community. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3609569512434506 Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicola-robinson-a992545 Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-smith-5908ba19
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Sn 2 EP 12: Probate in Georgia
06/07/2023
Sn 2 EP 12: Probate in Georgia
The transfer of a deceased person's assets to their heirs may appear to be a mere paperwork exercise, but the truth is far from a tidy package. It can quickly become a complex and unpredictable journey, fraught with various twists and turns that catch many off guard. This raises a crucial question: How can you shield your loved ones from this intricate web of legal and financial procedures and safeguard their cherished legacy? Join us in today's captivating episode as Olivia and Nicola navigate through the fog surrounding succession matters when a will is absent. They will expertly address all your pressing inquiries about the probate process specifically in the state of Georgia, ensuring you gain clarity and peace of mind. Tune in as they share about: What probate is Administration of Probate in the State of Georgia What happens when you don't have a will in Georgia The family heir tree in the probate process Top priority payments considered during probate Why it is important to involve an attorney in estate planning earlier The trickiest and stickiest point of the probate process What is the time frame for probate in Georgia … and so much more! Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 11: Power of Attorney and Bank Policies
05/31/2023
SN 2 EP 11: Power of Attorney and Bank Policies
In today's episode, Olivia discusses what to do if a valid power of attorney is rejected by a financial institution. While banks have legitimate concerns about fraud and elder abuse, this caution can create obstacles when using a power of attorney to access accounts. Olivia shares examples of banks requesting medical information or a doctor's note to validate incapacity, emphasizing the importance of understanding your rights and options with power of attorney. Tune in to learn more about navigating these challenges. Check out the SR Law Group: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 10: Estate Planning and Blended Families
05/24/2023
SN 2 EP 10: Estate Planning and Blended Families
Blended families have become very common in the current society. In this episode, Olivia highlights the common challenges that arise during probate and emphasizes the importance of making informed decisions in estate planning to prevent contentious situations. It is essential for parents in blended families to plan for their children's inheritance and not rely solely on the surviving spouse. By including provisions in estate planning that specifically address the needs of each child, parents can ensure their children are provided for and avoid potential conflicts down the line. Tune in to learn more! Check out the SR Law Group: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 9: Medicaid Asset Recovery: How It Works
05/18/2023
SN 2 EP 9: Medicaid Asset Recovery: How It Works
Many older adults and caregivers worry about the state's attempt to recoup from their estate whatever benefits it paid for the recipient's care after the Medicaid recipient dies. But with proper planning, it’s possible to avoid Medicaid Asset Recovery. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn the difference between Medicare and Medicaid, exceptions to estate recovery, the importance of understanding state-specific rules, and why you need to consult with an elder law attorney. Resources and links: Georgia Medicaid website: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 8: The Role that Gerontologists Play in the Lives of Senior Loved Ones, with Jeanna McKnight
05/10/2023
SN 2 EP 8: The Role that Gerontologists Play in the Lives of Senior Loved Ones, with Jeanna McKnight
Jeanna McKnight is a committed, service-oriented professional who has aligned both her direct-patient care, personal life experiences, as well as professional business experiences into a company that serves aging adults and their loved ones through their Golden Years - Graceful Living. Through her Caregiver Training, Advocacy, and Education on Senior Resources, Ms. McKnight aims to empower Care Partners with the tools that they need to bridge the gap in healthcare services. Her client-centered approach is focused on one goal - to improve or maintain an individual's quality of life so they're able to age gracefully with both dignity and comfort. In this episode, Jeanna shares about: Who a gerontologist is what brought her into the world of senior and aging adults How to know it's time to reach out to a gerontologist How her mediation services work and why you might need them ... and so much more Connect with Jeanna: Website: gracefullivings.com Phone: 866-484-7223
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SN2 EP7: Guardianships vs Conservatorships; Is There a Difference?
04/26/2023
SN2 EP7: Guardianships vs Conservatorships; Is There a Difference?
Both guardianships and conservatorships are court-ordered. Family members generally request them when their loved one can no longer make their own decisions, and someone else needs legal authority to act on their behalf. Depending on your loved one’s needs, you may decide to establish a conservatorship or guardianship. Tune in to this week’s episode as Olivia describes guardianships and conservatorships in detail, their similarities and differences, and what guardians and conservators do. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 6: Life Documents
04/19/2023
SN 2 EP 6: Life Documents
No one ever plans to be sick or disabled. Yet, planning for the future can make all the difference in an emergency and at the end-of-life. Being prepared and having important documents in a single place can give you peace of mind, help ensure your wishes are honored, and ease the burden on your loved ones. In today’s episode, Olivia talks about the benefits of life documents and why estate planning documents are only as good as the people you place in certain positions. Can they work well under pressure? Can they think soberly and make sound decisions in high-stress situations? Are they going to honor your decisions even if they don't agree with them? If you have a will but don't have these documents, you should tune in! Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 5: 9 Powers You Need in a POA
04/12/2023
SN 2 EP 5: 9 Powers You Need in a POA
Sometimes caring for a loved when may not stop at managing their medication, accompanying them to the hospital, and making sure the house chores are done. It could go as far as managing their finances because as people age, performing simple math problems can become challenging. This is where a power of attorney comes in. A power of attorney, or a POA allows a principal to appoint an agent to act for them should they become incapacitated. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn more about the ideal time for one to get a POA, why any POA should be affected immediately, and the 9 powers that one needs in a POA. There’s so much value packed in this episode, you might want to tune in with a pen and paper. Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 4: Understanding Beneficiary Designation Forms
03/29/2023
SN 2 EP 4: Understanding Beneficiary Designation Forms
Not too long ago, Nicola represented a husband whose wife had passed, and since the wife had not yet updated her life insurance after their marriage, all of the proceeds went to her parents who were not willing to pay for her burial out of the funds they received. This left the husband frustrated with the burial arrangements. This and many other beneficiaries' failure horror stories prompted Nicola to unpack the 8 different things that you should understand about beneficiary designation forms. Beneficiary designation forms are 800-pound gorillas when it comes to the distribution of assets after one's death; they trump last wills and testaments in court. So how does one do it right? Tune in to find out! Tune in as she shares about: What beneficiary-designated forms are The tax consequences and different planning opportunities The importance of: Remembering to name the beneficiary in the forms Naming both a primary and a contingent beneficiary Updating your beneficiary forms for major life events Reading all the instructions in the forms Making sure your beneficiary designations coordinate with your estate plan Understanding the potential consequences of using a beneficiary for the particular asset Not naming your estate as a beneficiary … and so much more! Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 3: Agape Senior Solutions with Rebekah Middlebrooks
03/24/2023
SN 2 EP 3: Agape Senior Solutions with Rebekah Middlebrooks
When your loved one or parent becomes entirely dependent on you, finding long-term care for them can be pretty overwhelming. If you are stuck on how to transition your loved one to senior care communities, this episode is definitely for you! In today's episode, Olivia is joined by Rebekah Middlebrooks, who runs Agape Senior Solutions. Rebekah‘s company was created out of the need to oversee the health and financial well-being of vulnerable adults. The company has helped over 100 families understand their loved one's specific care needs/wishes and provided both short-term and long-term solutions that give peace of mind Tune in as Nicola and Rebekah share about: How Rebekah got into senior care and why she’s still at it What Agape Senior Solutions is Why the name ‘Agape Senior Solutions’ What areas of services the company provides The feedback she's gotten so far around this amazing field Why you should take advantage of respite care Golden nuggets on how to transition when you see your loved one decline … and so much more! Check out Agape Solutions: Calls: 770 - 864 - 3588 Website: Facebook: Instagram: Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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SN 2 EP 2: Marriage is Not an Estate Plan
03/15/2023
SN 2 EP 2: Marriage is Not an Estate Plan
For many couples, the line between marriage and estate planning is blurry. Estate state planning between a married couple seems like it may not be needed because of the way that married couples generally own things and because wealth transfer between married couples is usually pretty easy. However, one thing is for sure: if you don't create and execute your estate plan, the state will do it for you. In today's episode, Nicola and Smith set straight the importance of estate planning in marriage/divorce. If you forget everything, there’s one thing that they both want YOU to remember: Marriage is not an Estate plan. Tune in as they talk about: Why getting married or divorced doesn't assure your safety from anything How the state will do the planning for you if you don’t do it Why younger couples should refrain from feeling it's too early to plan Other options other than a will Having the tough conversations to let people know what you have decided in your plan Thinking through the incapacity side of estate planning How valuable updating your Estate plan is … and so much more! Let’s continue the conversation on our Free Facebook group!: Connect with Nicola: LinkedIn: Connect with Olivia: LinkedIn:
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