Buttrfly Effect podcast
Stories of recovery from codependency for individuals and families living with the dysfunction of a loved one's struggle with drug, alcohol or other addictions. Each episode focuses on life transformation, self-love, emotional healing and personal empowerment
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Episode 38: Powering the Brain Through Recovery
01/09/2024
Episode 38: Powering the Brain Through Recovery
Recovery is a brain thing, according to Dave and Susan Kenney, founders of the Emergo Academy, a recovery treatment and education program who describe themselves as "brain upgraders." In their conversation with Host Gail Ferguson Jones, the Kenneys describe their trademarked "Actualized Recovery" approach for replacing the temporary pleasure of addictive substances and behaviors with happier and healthier pursuits. The goal is to help users move beyond sobriety by rewiring the brain to make different choices. You can learn about the Emergo Academy at: Learn more about the Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program or order my book at: or contact me at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 37: How to Handle the Trifecta of Holidays
12/19/2023
Episode 37: How to Handle the Trifecta of Holidays
This holiday season is often the most challenging for those who love someone struggling with addiction and those who are newly sober. In recovery circles, the celebrations that run from Thanksgiving through Christmas and New Years is referred to as the trifecta of holidays. In this episode, host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Kate Duffy, founder of Tipping Point Recovery Inc. and Recovery Conversations, about how families can best address the unique difficulties that might arise during the Yuletide season. Kate is a recovery coach and interventionist who guides families and their addicted loved ones through the recovery process. You can learn more about Tipping Point Recovery at: You can learn more about the Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program at: Or contact Gail Ferguson Jones at Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by mixaundbandcamp at:
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Episode 36: Gray Area Drinking. A Slippery Slope
11/28/2023
Episode 36: Gray Area Drinking. A Slippery Slope
When it comes to taking that first drink of alcohol, most of us don't expect to get hooked. After all, consuming alcohol is legal and seen as a socially-acceptable way to unwind. However, It's so easy to depend on that nightly cocktail, beer or glass of wine to relax at the end of the day, unwittingly heading into gray area drinking, a slippery slope toward alcoholism. In this episode, Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Meg Geisewite, author of "Intoxicating Lies. One Woman's Journey to Freedom from Gray Area Drinking." She shares how she slipped from normalized drinking to full-blown dependency. Meg offers a signed copy of her book and membership to her "Write Back to You" writing program on her website: You can learn more about The Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program, or purchase a copy of my book and get other resources at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaundbandcamp, at:
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Episode 35: Prodependency. A Different Perspective
10/24/2023
Episode 35: Prodependency. A Different Perspective
When loving someone struggling with addiction, it's often hard to see the best in them because of the chaos and confusion they bring into our lives. The situation may also bring out the worst in us. But Dr. Robert Weiss offers a different perspective on such troubling relationships, which he talks about with host Gail Ferguson Jones. Dr. Rob, a licensed therapist for nearly 30 years, has coined the term Prodependence, an approach which encourages loving support for addicts, which he says is preferrable to detachment from them and their problem. He is Chief Clinical Officer of the Seeking Integrity Treatment program, and author of 11 books, including, "Prodependence. Beyond the Myth of Codependency." He recommends these important steps to help loved ones heal and cope: Don't go it alone. Seek help. Find a source of support. Don't ignore your own self-care. Set boundaries Spirituality/hope/faith Learn more about Dr. Rob and his books and program at: You can also hear more about prodependency on his YouTube channel: Learn more about my Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching program at: or email me at: . Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund Bandcamp at: .
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Episode 34: Addiction as Infidelity
09/01/2023
Episode 34: Addiction as Infidelity
One of the most disheartening and confusing aspects of a relationship with someone in active addiction is the loneliness and emotional disconnect. In this episode, Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Marriage and Family Therapist Travis Thompson about the challenges of loving a partner engaged in a "chemical affair" with drugs and alcohol. Travis, author of "To Those Left Behind. Helping Partners and Families Understand and Heal from Addiction," describes alcohol and drug abuse as an emotional affair. He says users tend to engage more with substances than with their partners, just as they might if having an adulterous affair. "It's safer to drink alcohol than to talk to someone," Travis says. "It's emotionally safer to use heroin than to tell your wife if you're ok or not." Learn more about Travis Thompson's counseling services or order his book at: Learn more about The Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching at: Reach me with comments, concerns or to suggest topics of interest for the podcast at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 33: Recovery From Chronic Pain Without Drugs
07/28/2023
Episode 33: Recovery From Chronic Pain Without Drugs
Can chronic pain be treated without the prescription drugs that are leading to an epidemic of addiction and death? Guest Elizabeth Kipp says "Yes." Kipp is an Addiction Recovery Coach and author of the book, "The Way Through Chronic Pain. Tools To Reclaim Your Healing Power." In this conversation with host Gail Ferguson Jones, she shares her 40-year struggle with chronic pain and her recovery from pain-pill addiction. Kipp also talks about the many stressors that cause pain and the traumas that feed it, while telling how she learned to live pain-free and recover from opioid addiction. Her book is available at: Learn about Kipp's recovery programs at: Purchase Gail Ferguson Jones's book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," and learn learn more about her Certified Peer Recovery Coaching Program at; Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 32: Addictions Rising Post-Pandemic
07/13/2023
Episode 32: Addictions Rising Post-Pandemic
There's been a steady climb in addictions since the start of the pandemic in 2020, according to Recovery Coach and Best-Selling Author David Essel, who said studies show alcohol consumption has risen 1,000 percent over the past three years. While alcoholism tops the list of addictions, porn and sex addictions are a close second, said Essel, who through his coaching program offers permanent solutions to all types of addiction. "Video game addiction is out of control," he says, noting a direct link between video games and social media to attention deficit among younger generations. In this conversation with host Gail Ferguson Jones, Essel says that all addictions offer escape and distraction from reality and every day concerns. Families and loved ones should understand that "addiction removes logic." Get his latest book, "David Essel's Permanent Alcohol and Life Recovery," and learn more about his coaching program, at: Get a free video, purchase my book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," and learn more about the Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program at:
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Episode 31: Emotional Sobriety in Early Recovery
06/22/2023
Episode 31: Emotional Sobriety in Early Recovery
What are the early days of recovery like after long-term active addiction? What does it feel like physically and emotionally to try to live free of substances after self-medicating for so long? Host Gail Ferguson Jones gets answers to these questions and more in a conversation with Certified Peer Recovery Coach Kirstin Gourlay, a relapse prevention specialist who has been in long-term recovery for 12 years. Gourlay explains: The three stages of recovery - physical, mental and emotional. The emotional challenges caused by Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS). The importance of having a Relapse Prevention Plan. The importance of loved ones pursuing their own recovery through a support community, therapy and peer recovery coaching. Get a free video, purchase my book and learn more about The Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program for those who love someone struggling with an addiction at: Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaundbandcamp at: .
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Episode 30: Boomers and the Risky Use of Drugs and Alcohol
06/08/2023
Episode 30: Boomers and the Risky Use of Drugs and Alcohol
After a lifetime of casual attitudes toward substance use among baby boomers, their rate of accidential overdoses and alcohol-related deaths are climbing. In this conversation, researcher Alexis Kuerbis explains why. Kuerbis is an Associate Professor at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College. Her research speciality is vlunerable polulations who use substances problematically. In this conversation with Host Gail Ferguson Jones, she explains that: Baby boomers are using drugs and alcohol longer into later life than previous generations. Misuse of prescription drugs for pain and other ailments is a growing trend among seniors, leading to addiction later in life, and sometimes accidental overdoses from drug interactions. Physical changes that make it harder to metabolize substances as people age are a leading cause of chronic illness and co-morbidity among older adults. Alcohol is the most widely-used and socially-acceptable substance and a common killer. It is also often a factor in the development of dementia. Seniors who recognize they have a problem with substance use usually respond well to treatment. She shares the signs families may look for to determine if an older loved one is indulging in risky substance use and how to strike up a conversation that could lead them to agree to treatment. Learn more about getting your loved one sober at: To learn more about The Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Program for those who love someone struggling with addiction (and get a free video) at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 29: Dangers of Teen Marijuana Use
05/18/2023
Episode 29: Dangers of Teen Marijuana Use
Did you know marijuana use is a growing cause of suicide among teens? Guest Laura Stack of Johnny's Ambassadors says as more state's legalize recreational use, the potency is reaching dangerous levels and leading to serious mental health issues, especially among youth. Stack's son, Johnny, was an honor student with a promising future who suffered a mental break from marijuana use that led to his suicide. In her conversation with Host Gail Ferguson Jones, Laura explains that: Contrary to popular belief, marijuana is more likely to cause anxiety and emotional distress than to calm or cure it Dispensaries in Colorado, the first state to legalize recreational use, are legally required to provide written warnings of the mental and emotional dangers. The cannabis being sold at dispensaries is often processed into "dabs" or "crystalline," which increases the potency to dangerous levels. The American Psychiatric Association is warning that there is no mental or emotional condition that is helped by marijuana use. Learn more about the teen prevention work of Johnny's Ambassadors at: Learn more about The Buttrfly Effect Peer Recovery Coaching Program for families at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 28: Might You Be Headed for Rock Bottom?
03/16/2023
Episode 28: Might You Be Headed for Rock Bottom?
Host Gail Ferguson Jones and Social Worker Taneshia Johnson discuss five ways to recognize you might be heading for rock bottom as a codependent. Taneshia, also known as TJ the Self-Care Coach, speaks from personal experience as a recovering codependent. She is also host of the Heal, Pray, Grow Podcast. Learn more about the resources Taneshia offers at: To learn more about my Buttrfly Effect Certified Peer Recovery Coaching program or to purchase my book, go to: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund Bandcamp at:
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Episode 27: What is Sober Curious?
03/02/2023
Episode 27: What is Sober Curious?
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Sans Bar owner Chris Marshall about the growing Sober Curious Movement. Sans Bar in Austin, Texas is believed to be the first in the U.S. to serve only non-alcoholic cocktails, wines and beers. The Sober Curious trend was the impetus for such establishments with the spread of the global observance of Dry January and Dry October, aimed at encouraging drinkers to examine their relationship with alcohol. After 10 years of sobriety, Chris missed the chance to socialize without the temptation of alcohol, and founded Sans Bar, realizing there were many others in recovery who would also appreciate the chance for social interaction in a sober environment. "What most people want is not alcohol," he says, "it's connection." Sans Bar also hosts alcohol-free events around the country. Learn more at: The Buttrfly Effect Recovery Program offers peer-to-peer coaching to those who love someone struggling with alcohol or drug addiction. Learn more at: . You can contact Gail Ferguson Jones at: Thank you for subscribing to The Buttrfly Effect Podcast. If you have questions or would like to suggest a topic, please leave a message in the comment section or via email. I'd love to hear from you. Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund Bandcamp: .
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Episode 26: Racial Disparities in Addiction and Treatment
02/16/2023
Episode 26: Racial Disparities in Addiction and Treatment
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Michael Askew, Executive Director of The Center for African American Recovery Development (CAARD), about cultural barriers to accessing treatment and maintaining long-term recovery faced by black Americans. In this episode, we talk about how African Americans were unjustly targeted by the war on drugs, how lives and families may be destroyed by felony drug arrests, and how families can encourage and support a loved one who needs treatment. CAARD advocates across the country for increased availability to treatment services in black communities and options to incarceration. Find further information at: Host Gail Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist, podcaster, speaker and certified peer recovery coach. Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer coaching for those who love someone struggling with addiction. Find further information about the coaching program, to purchase her book or follow her on social media at: You can contact The Buttrfly Effect Certified Peer Recovery Coaching program for a discovery call at Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund at .
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Episode 25: The Dis-ease of the Lost Self
02/02/2023
Episode 25: The Dis-ease of the Lost Self
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Nikki Myers, founder of the international relapse prevention program Y12sr (Yoga of 12-Step Recovery), which weaves the art and science of Yoga with the practical tools of the 12 steps. Nikki is credited with coining the phrase "the dis-ease of the lost self" to best describe codependency. In this episode she shares how Yoga is essential to the "inside job." of recovery from codependency, a relational pattern of relying on other people or things for a sense of validation. "The issues are in the tissues," Nikki says, describing how Yoga restores balance and regulates the nervous system. She also says there's ``something for all of humanity" in the 12 steps. Learn more about Y12sr at: Gail Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist and certified peer recovery coach. Her book: "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," is available on Amazon. Her Buttrfly Effect Recovery program offers peer-to-peer coaching for the loved ones of those struggling with addiction. Find more information at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at
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Episode 24: Harmful Compromises and Negotiations
12/29/2022
Episode 24: Harmful Compromises and Negotiations
In this episode, host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Codependency Healing Expert Marshall Burtcher about the unhealthy compromises made in codependent relationships. Burtcher describes codependency as a survival strategy in which one's sense of self-worth is diminished by a need to seek validation from another. Through his Free the Self program, he helps people-pleasers, perfectionists and codependents learn to love themselves and build healthy relationships. Learn more at: Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist, podcaster and certified peer recovery coach, specializing in recovery from codependency for those who love someone struggling with addiction. You can learn more about her Buttrfly Effect program, her best-selling book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," or contact her at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at https://www.mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 23: Strategies for a Stress-Free Holiday
12/06/2022
Episode 23: Strategies for a Stress-Free Holiday
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Kevin Petersen of The Chronic Hope Institute about the best ways for families to deal with those who may disrupt their holiday celebration by overindulging in intoxicants or how to support loved ones who are newly sober. Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and Certified Peer Recovery Coach. Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer coaching specializing in recovery from codependency for those who love someone struggling with addiction. You can learn more about the coaching program, her book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," or contact her at: Petersen is a marriage and family therapist and founder of The Chronic Hope Institute, which offers family addiction coaching and training. Get further information at: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire me," by Mixaund at
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Episode 22: Is Saving Them Killing You?
11/22/2022
Episode 22: Is Saving Them Killing You?
In this episode, Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Positive Psychology and Resilience Coach Andrea Seydel about the ways misplaced loyalty to an addicted loved one may be harmful. She is also a best-selling author. In the conversation, Seydel shares some of the signs of addiction that she initially did not recognize, such as her loved one's mood swings, job loss, dishonesty and stealing. She advises those in similar situations to be willing to detach from the problem, and refuse to accept abuse and neglect. "Find the courage of focus on you," Seydel advises. "Realize that you matter... . Turn up the volume on loving yourself." For more information on Seydel and her book, "Loving You is Killing Me," go to: Host Gail Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist, podcaster, speaker and certified peer recovery coach specializing in recovery from codependency, also known as co-addiction. You can purchase her best-selling book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey of Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency," or contact her about her peer recovery program at The Buttrfly Effect Podcast is available on most platforms: Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at: .
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Episode 21: Shame and Codependency
07/22/2021
Episode 21: Shame and Codependency
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Darlene Lancer, author of "Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You." Lancer is author of seven books on the subject, including "Codependency for Dummies." In this episode, she explains how most people grapple with feelings of shame because of various life experiences, and the importance of admitting shame in order to overcome it. You can learn more about Lancer and her work at her website: . And you can find her book at: Gail Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist and certified peer recovery coach. Her book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom," is available at Amazon: Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer coaching for the loved ones of those struggling with addiction. Learn more at her website; , where you can also subscribe to her newletter. Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund at .
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Episode 20: Butterfly Rising
07/19/2021
Episode 20: Butterfly Rising
Host Gail Ferguson Jones announces the publication of her new book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom from the Cocoon of Codependency." The ebook edition will be on sale at Amazon for 99 cents on Tuesday, July 20 for one day only. The link to purchase the book at that price will be included in the show notes on that day. Here's what people are saying: "Gail Ferguson Jones knows the toxic reality of generational addiction and codependency all too well. She's also an inspiring example of someone who has broken the cycle and built a life of peace, joy and freedom. This book offers a blueprint for those desperate to reclaim their lives from the dysfunction and pain of co-addiction." Sherry Gaba, former co-star, VH1"s "Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew Pinsky." There will be a link to the book on Amazon in these show notes on July 20. Print edition will be available in a few weeks. Thanks in advance for your support on July 20, which will help me make the bestseller list. Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at https://mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 19: A Mother's Journey
06/17/2021
Episode 19: A Mother's Journey
Host Gail Ferguson Jones marks the one-year anniversary of The Buttrfly Effect Podcast with a compelling conversation with best-selling author Christine Naman, whose new book is "About Natalie. A Daughter's Addiction. A Mother's Love. Finding Their Way Back to Each Other." Christine shares her experience with her daughter's opioid addiction and recovery in her new book, which can be purchased at Amazon: You can find links to her other books on her website at: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and certified peer recovery coach who specializes in recovery from codependency. You can learn more or subscribe to her newsletter at: or contact her at to inquire about her coaching program. Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund at .
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Episode 18: Recovery is Spiritual Connection
05/20/2021
Episode 18: Recovery is Spiritual Connection
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with her friend Nick SantFoster, who found personal recovery through Al-Anon 33 years ago, after recognizing a pattern of dysfunctional relationships in his life. Nick is a retired professional photographer and visual artist who has developed an anthology of affirmations and quotations, titled "Recovering Wisdom." He says the collection of 365 days of wisdom is a tool for recovery. Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and certified peer recovery coach who works with the loved ones of those struggling with alcohol and drug addictions. To learn more or to subscribe to her newsletter, go to or contact her at Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire My," is by Mixaund at https://www.mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 17: Five Shades of Manipulation
04/22/2021
Episode 17: Five Shades of Manipulation
Host Gail Ferguson Jones and Certified Recovery Coach Deryl Glaze discuss the five most common manipulation tactics used by addicts to pressure their loved ones into enabling them. Glaze is an ordained minister and head recovery coach at Minnesota Adult and Teen Challenge. He is a motivational speaker who has worked in the recovery field for nearly 20 years. Through his Motivation Through Recovery program he helps recovering addicts discover their life's purpose beyond sobriety. For more information go to: Find Deryl Glaze's YouTube channel at: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and certified peer recovery coach who works with the loved ones of those struggling with addictions. You can at learn more about her Buttrfly Effect Program or subscribe to her newsletter at: You can contact her at: to schedule a discovery call. Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at:
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Episode 16: Benefits of a Personal Inventory
04/01/2021
Episode 16: Benefits of a Personal Inventory
Host Gail Ferguson Jones and Coach Barb Nangle discuss the benefits of 12-Step fellowship, especially the 4th step, which calls for taking a personal inventory. Barb is founder and CEO of Higher Power Coaching and Consulting and host of the podcast, "Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12-Step Recovery." She helps clients work through issues of codependency, self-sabotaging behavior and difficult relationships as they improve their relationship with themselves. Her latest offering is her "Better Boundaries with Barb" group coaching program. Learn more at: Listen to her podcast at: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and peer recovery coach who works with the loved ones of those struggling with addiction through her Buttrfly Effect program. Find out more at: Subscribe to Gail's newsletter or contact her for a discovery call at: . Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at: .
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Episode 15: Moving from Sobriety to Recovery
03/11/2021
Episode 15: Moving from Sobriety to Recovery
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Mike Wilson, president of Baystate Recovery Center in Beverly, Mass. He is a nationally-recognized certified interventionist, and author of the book, "Loving Lions. A Guide for Families Struggling with Addiction." Mike helps families get their addicted loved ones into treatment and teaches them how to support their recovery. For information on Baystate Recovery Center, go to: . Mike's book is available at: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and peer recovery coach, offering family services for those struggling with a loved one's addiction through her Buttrfly Effect program: . She can reached for a discovery call at
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Episode 14: Counter-Dependence
02/18/2021
Episode 14: Counter-Dependence
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Clinical Psychologist Barry Weinhold, who has coined the phrase "counter-dependence," which he describes as living a false self that keeps one from establishing intimate relationships. Weinhold is the author of more than 75 books, the latest of which is titled "Get Real. The Hazard of Living Out of Your False Self." He and his wife, Janae, are co-directors of the Colorado Institute for Conflict Resolution and Creative Leadership. In this episode, Weinhold discusses how counter-dependence, also described as radical self-reliance, is the inability to establish healthy relationships and, if untreated, leads to addiction, isolation and depression. To learn more about Barry Weinhold, his work and books, go to: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and recovery coach, who helps families reclaim their peace of mind and freedom from the dysfunction of a loved one's addiction. Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer coaching specializing in recovery from codependency. To learn more or to subscribe to her newsletter, go to or contact me at Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at .
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Episode 13: Answering the Question: Who Am I?
02/04/2021
Episode 13: Answering the Question: Who Am I?
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Paul Noiles, an addiction recovery coach specializing in substance use, behavioral issues and family dysfunction. He is the author of the upcoming book "Mistaken Identity. The Sacred Journey from Addiction to Awakening." Paul says the key to recovering from addiction begins with recognizing the source of pain in one's life and letting go of their mistaken identity. He said one connects with their true self when they can answer the question, who am I? To learn more about Paul Noiles, his coaching programs and his book, go to: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker, podcaster and peer recovery coach. Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer support for families struggling with the addiction of a loved one. To learn more and to subscribe to her newsletter, go to: or contact her by email at: . Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at https://www.mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 12: Addiction, Covid and the Holidays
12/17/2020
Episode 12: Addiction, Covid and the Holidays
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Jay Rivera, program director for CFC Recovery in New Jersey. He is a certified peer recovery specialist, a drug and alcohol counselor, and an interventionist. Jay explains how the social isolation of the Covic-19 pandemic is affecting the recovery community, and talks about the common challenges the holidays pose for substance users and their families and friends. CFC Recovery provides an array of services, including treatment, sober living homes, long-term aftercare and relapse prevention. To learn more; go to: Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, podcaster, speaker and recovery coach. She offers family peer-to-peer support, specializing in issues of codependency. For information about the Buttrfly Effect coaching program, go to: or email: [email protected].
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Episode 11: Love Addiction and Codependency
11/25/2020
Episode 11: Love Addiction and Codependency
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Psychotherapist Sherry Gaba, author of the new book, "Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love." Some may remember Sherry from her role on VH1's "Celebrity Rehab," with Dr. Drew Pinsky, and the spinoffs, "Sober House" and "Celebrity Rehab's Sex Addiction." Sherry is also a certified recovery coach specializing in love addiction and narcissistic abuse. She is currently offering coaching through her Wake Up Recovery program. You can learn more at or https://sherrygaba.com. And you can find her latest book at: Host Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker and recovery coach, offering peer-to-peer support for recovery from codependency. To learn more or to subscribe to her newsletter, go to or contact me at . Music for the Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at https://www.mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 10: Sober Life, Happy Wife
11/05/2020
Episode 10: Sober Life, Happy Wife
Host Gail Ferguson Jones speaks with Sheri Salis, co-host with her husband, Matt, of the Untoxicated Podcast, and co-author of the ebook, "He's Sober. Now What? A Spouse's Guide of Alcoholism Recovery." Sheri shares her experience of healing a marriage damaged by years of her husband's alcohol abuse, the need to overcome resentments, regain trust and rebuild intimacy. In Matt Salis's new book, "soberevolution: Evolve into Sobriety and Recover Your Alcoholic Marriage," he tells of his slide into alcoholism and his eventual commitment to sobriety. In the last episode of The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, he spoke of the challenges and triumphs of recovery as a married couple. The Salises offer support to struggling families through their Echoes of Recovery program. Information about their books, podcast and support programs is available at www.SoberandUnashamed.com. Host Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, speaker and peer-to-peer support coach. Her Buttrfly Effect Program specializes in issues of codependency. To learn more or to subscribe to her newsletter, go the or contact her at . Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at https://mixaundbandcamp.com.
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Episode 9: Recovering Your Alcoholic Marriage
10/22/2020
Episode 9: Recovering Your Alcoholic Marriage
Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Matt Salis, author of "soberevolution: Evolve into Sobriety and Recover Your Alcoholic Marriage." Matt and his wife, Sheri, are host of the Untoxicated Podcast, and offer a community of support through their Echoes of Recovery program. In the first of this two-part episode, Matt describes his descent into alcoholism, his denial of the affects his drinking had on his marriage and children, and his road to sobriety. In the next episode, Matt's wife, Sheri, will share the challenges of healing a marriage damaged by alcohol abuse. You can learn more about the Salises' books, podcast and coaching program on their website, SoberandUnashamed.com. Host Gail Ferguson Jones is an award-winning journalist, podcaster, speaker and recovery coach. She offers peer-to-peer coaching, specializing in recovery from codependency, through her Buttrfly Effect Program. Learn more and subscribe to her email newsletter at or via email at . Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," by Mixaund at .
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