Caregivers Out Loud
Powered by Family Caregivers of British Columbia and hosted by Bill Israel, "Caregivers Out Loud" will explore the ways in which the role of a caregiver can be both rewarding, while also emotionally, psychologically, and physically taxing. By sharing stories of caregivers and insight from community experts, we bring you perspective and connection, and ensure that you have support and balance from inspired caregivers, who are caregiving out loud. Please share this podcast with family and friends who could also benefit from hearing these stories. Discover more episodes and find more caregiving resources at https://www.FamilyCaregiversBC.ca or call the Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line toll-free in BC at 1 (877) 520-3267.
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Secondary Caregivers Relieving Primary Caregivers Through Circles of Care
06/12/2025
Secondary Caregivers Relieving Primary Caregivers Through Circles of Care
How can building a circle of care around yourself help you continue to deliver the best care? Even the most devoted and capable caregiver needs support in their role. From weekends away to help around the house, letting another caregiver take some of the demands off your plate keeps you well enough, in body and mind, to continue your important work. Greer Rosequist has plenty of experience being a caregiver, from her former career as a nurse in long-term and palliative communities to offering respite to her sisters, who provide daily care for their mother. This experience led her to a different kind of network—a circle of care—full of friends who serve as consistent supports to those in the group and beyond. What began as a gathering of four has become a coffee collective of a dozen. They step in to assist in whatever capacity they can, from visiting house-bound friends to pitching in on yardwork to staying overnight so a primary caregiver can take some time for themselves. Though Greer has a background in healthcare, she encourages everyone to help out in whatever capacity they can. Anyone can call up a friend with a simple offer of a cup of coffee. You don’t need nursing skills, Greer says. “You just have to be there.” Discover the impact of reaching out, as both a caregiver and a friend: How to balance care for others and care for yourself; Recognize and respect the boundaries inherent in being a secondary caregiver; Why it is helpful to appoint a spokesperson within your circle of care; The societal importance of enabling people to live in their homes as long as possible. Resources: Episode 2: Speak Out With Courageous Conversations in Caregiving - Episode 4: How to Make Time to Care for Yourself with Self Care and Boundaries - Asking and Receiving Help with Caregiving - The Embrace of a Caring Circle - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line - 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: [email protected] Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Juggling Roles: Finding Balance When Caring for a Parent
03/18/2025
Juggling Roles: Finding Balance When Caring for a Parent
How do you navigate the transition from child to caregiver of a parent while supporting both their dignity and your own wellness? Caring for an aging or ill parent comes with countless responsibilities, from prepping meals and scheduling medication to attending appointments and much more. While this shift to caregiver is, in some ways, a natural progression, it also requires you to navigate into a new relationship with your parent. As such, you need to learn how to balance respect and consent for their desires with your own health and happiness. Roma Palmer is a registered clinical counsellor who not only helps parental caregivers but also fills this role herself, first with her mother years ago and now with her father. Today, she shares what she’s discovered through her work and firsthand experience juggling family, career, and caregiving. Learn from Roma’s thoughtful and proactive approach that keeps respect and love in focus throughout this shifting relationship: The importance of involving your parent and family members in the caregiving decision process Tools for fending off isolation and scheduling breaks to take care of yourself How to ensure the division of caregiving labour is distributed openly and fairly Practices that prioritize the care recipient’s continued sense of identity at this tumultuous time Resources: “Building Your Personal Resilience” flipbook - Guilt and Making Decisions: Role of Adult Children in Assisting Parents - Connect with Roma Palmer - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line - 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Caregiving for a Partner: Intimacy Reimagined
12/10/2024
Caregiving for a Partner: Intimacy Reimagined
How do you maintain an intimate relationship when you become a caregiver for your spouse or partner? Sharing life as a couple means facing and overcoming countless challenges. For so many, the ultimate challenge begins when an illness is uncovered, and one of you must become a caregiver to the other. Rene faced this transition when her husband of 20 years was diagnosed with Parkinsons in his mid-40s. In the two decades since his diagnosis, the couple has navigated a dramatic shift in household and relationship responsibilities and must constantly work at alternative ways to maintain intimacy and joy in an often difficult day-to-day. In this episode, Rene Smyth details the ups and downs of how their relationship has changed, and Dr. Linda Franchi, a community counsellor with the Parkinson Wellness Projects, delves into the many facets of intimacy and the adjustments and adaptations spousal caregivers must embrace. Find harmony between the caregiver and romantic partner relationships: The numerous kinds of intimacy beyond the physical; New ways to lean into each other, even in the face of painful and unprecedented change; Practical ways to incorporate self-care into your caregiving duties; The importance of reimagining the bond that holds your relationship together. Resources: Find exercise classes, counselling, support groups, and education with Parkinson Wellness Projects - Learn more about Parkinson Society BC - Alzheimer Society of Canada, “How your intimate relationships can change” - “The Value of Peer Support” - “Parallel Paths: The Changes Experienced in the Caregiving Relationship” - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line - 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Planning Life's Final Choices: A Guide to End-of-Life Dialogue
10/21/2024
Planning Life's Final Choices: A Guide to End-of-Life Dialogue
How do you begin the difficult dialogue around end-of-life wishes for your care recipient? When you are the caregiver for someone whose health is declining, the reality of death can be overshadowing and feel frightening to acknowledge. So often, it’s as though we fear that simply speaking about death will speed it to our door. Karla Kerr, a funeral director and death doula in Victoria, BC, sees things differently. She approaches conversations with families who are facing or have just experienced death in an exploratory and compassionate way that recognizes death is inevitable. Respecting and upholding the wishes of care recipients can only be accomplished through practical, values-centred communication. Death has a tendency to reveal to us what is most important; engaging in these conversations can have a tremendous impact on the depth and intensity of our relationships, especially when we prioritize them when we still have plenty of time, rather than waiting until the end. Discover how Karla’s experiences with hundreds of families at this pivotal moment can inform your own conversations with your care recipient: The importance of acknowledging the inevitability of death and having reverence for the death process Why it is so beneficial to talk about what is most meaningful before the final moments The hard questions that will ensure you can take action with deference to their values and beliefs The positive impact of gratitude at every stage of our relationships Resources: Learn more about Karla Kerr, End of Life Planning and Care - A Caregiver’s Guide: A Handbook About End-of-Life Care - After Death Checklist from Government of BC - Proactively Planning for End-of-Life Blog - Canadian Hospice Palliative Care Association - Canadian Virtual Hospice - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line - 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Supporting Young Caregivers: The Overlooked Caregiver Demographic
02/13/2024
Supporting Young Caregivers: The Overlooked Caregiver Demographic
What difficulties develop when a child becomes a caregiver to their own parent? Studies show that young caregivers make up at least 12% of Canadian youth. One of these young people is Kristie Mar. At just 16 years old, Kristie set aside a significant part of her adolescence to become the sole carer for her mother, who was navigating schizophrenia and anorexia. The medical professionals, counsellors, and groups from whom she sought assistance, however, never gave her the title of “caregiver.” As such, it took her years to think of herself in this way or discover the resources that search term could unlock. Today, Kristie is a medical student and an active participant in this community. She wants to help increase awareness and resources for fellow adolescents who are thrust, so often unprepared and unsupported, into the role of caregiver for their family members. Hear the difficulties a young caregiver faced, caring on her own, including: The impact of expanding the narrow definition of “caregiver” to better identify young caregivers Where to uncover resources that help reduce the deep sense of isolation The many facets of childhood that are lost to young caregivers Strategies for maintaining mental health while balancing childhood and a very adult responsibility Resources: Powerhouse program for young caregivers - Managing expectations - Episode 11 How to Use Writing for Healing and Self Care - Episode 14 Creativity as a Form of Self Care - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line - 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X / Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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A Contemporary Approach to Palliative and Hospice Care for Family Caregivers and Their Recipients
11/14/2023
A Contemporary Approach to Palliative and Hospice Care for Family Caregivers and Their Recipients
How can you build a healthier relationship with death and dying that will benefit both caregiver and recipient? Aaron Yukich is an end-of-life doula, mindfulness practitioner, and hospice care worker. In his work with the Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line, Aaron incorporates meaning-making and self-reflection into his sessions with caregivers, helping them uncover new ways to provide support to their care recipients without overlooking their own well-being. The end-of-life process has many varied aspects. Aaron helps caregivers navigate this intricate spiritual and emotional experience with grace, through activities and mindsets that can offer comfort and even joy. He also guides them in practical considerations, such as establishing often-overlooked financial and personal mental health support structures. Aaron shares his holistic perspective on providing end-of-life care: Moving through the transition from palliative to hospice care Resources for addressing the impacts of caring for a care recipient Imbuing the time your loved one has left with more meaning Considering death and dying through a lens of celebration and reflection as well as grief Resources: United Way Better at Home - Island Health Dementia Video Series - Discover a local hospice - Hospice care information and assistance - Hospice resources with a cultural focus - Navigating the End of Life: A Road Map for Caregivers webinar - Finding Peace at the End of Life: A Death Doula's Guide for Families and Caregivers by Henry Fersko-Weiss (2020 edition) - Caring for the Dying: The Doula Approach to a Meaningful Death by Henry Fersko-Weiss (2017 edition) - BC Grief and Bereavement Society: list of support groups and other help for BC residents (also some options are across Canada) Contact the Helpline at 604-738-9950 and toll-free 1-877-779-2223 - TalkDeath: death positive, grief and bereavement resources - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line: 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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How Brooke Ellison Maintains Dignity and Individuality as a Full-Time Care Recipient
10/16/2023
How Brooke Ellison Maintains Dignity and Individuality as a Full-Time Care Recipient
How would you retain your sense of self if you required full-time care? When Brooke Ellison was 11 years old, a car accident left her a ventilator-dependent quadriplegic. Her mother Jean stepped into the role of full-time caregiver, and their familial and caregiving relationship balance has continued for over thirty years. Dr. Brooke Ellison graduated from Harvard, wrote two memoirs, and is a frequent public speaker on resilience, leadership, and hope. In this episode, she reflects on her experiences as a care recipient—both then and now. Specifically, Brooke shares how she navigates disability and how her definition of this term has changed and grown over the years. Brooke shares what care feels like from the other side of the table: Why building a routine is so important when unpredictability is unavoidable How Brooke’s concept of disability as vulnerability has changed over the years The challenge of finding alone time when care needs are so pervasive Considering and communicating about the future despite its uncertainty Resources: Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line: 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Learn more about Brooke - Look Both Ways by Brooke Ellison - Miracles Happen by Brooke Ellison - Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Full-Time Caregiver and Mother: How Jean Ellison Balances Two Essential Roles
09/19/2023
Full-Time Caregiver and Mother: How Jean Ellison Balances Two Essential Roles
How do you honour both yourself and your family member when giving full-time care? In this episode, Jean Ellison speaks about her experience as a full-time caregiver to her daughter, Brooke, whose story of life as a ventilator-dependent quadriplegic is well-known and inspirational. For more than 30 years, Jean Ellison has balanced the roles of full-time caregiver and mother. While it was always clear to Jean that Brooke would live at home and not in a care facility, accepting her new reality and career trajectory was not a simple process. Jean strives to find happiness and laughter in every day, treating each one as a clean slate for both herself and her daughter. Get a glimpse into Jean’s challenging and heartening experience: What it was like to be trained and tested to care for her own daughter Who she has become despite an unforeseeable change in her life’s direction Where she finds the middle ground between home care and motherly compassion How hope and acceptance can combine to create a fulfilling life despite the obstacles. Resources: Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line: 1-877-520-3267 (Monday through Friday 8:30am to 4pm PT) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am to 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Financial Decision Making for Caregivers with Shannon Lee Simmons
03/31/2023
Financial Decision Making for Caregivers with Shannon Lee Simmons
At some point in our lives, we’ll all be faced with a tough decision we didn’t see coming. In most caregiving situations, people enter the caregiving role with love and passion. Then pretty soon, they begin to see some of the bigger implications, such as how finances are a big factor in the choices that affect the care recipient OR the caregiver themself. In today’s episode, we chat with Shannon Lee Simmons, a Certified Financial Planner and the author of a new book “No Regret Decisions: Making Good Choices During Difficult Times”, to tackle some of the anxiety and emotional stress for caregivers that come with making important financial decisions. And answer the question, how do we make good decisions during difficult times? Resources: Shannon Lee Simmon’s new book: “No-Regret Decisions: Making Good Choices During Difficult Times” - Connect with Shannon - FCBC Overview of Financial General Resources, Tax Benefits and Credits for Caregivers - Involuntary Separation Article - Government of Canada Benefits Finder - Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line: 1-877-520-3267 (Mon-Fri 8:30am-4pm PT) Canada Revenue Agency General Enquiries Line: 1-800-959-8281 (Mon-Fri 8 am- 8pm and Saturday 9am-5pm) Connect With Us! To read a full transcript of each episode, visit the Family Caregivers of BC website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am and 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative - Organized Sound Productions -
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Caregiving From a Distance - a Long Distance Care Panel
02/01/2023
Caregiving From a Distance - a Long Distance Care Panel
Many caregivers are supporting care recipients from a long distance. This form of caregiving brings with it a unique set of challenges as we try to provide support from afar. In this episode, Bill guides a panel of long distance caregivers, Mary Chan, Karla Wilson, and Victoria Lougheed, through a dynamic conversation filled with positive energy and laughter. The foursome came together to talk about their challenges of caring while not being able to physically be there, and to share some insights including some beautiful moments along the path that have made their caregiving journey a memorable experience. Resources: Caregiving From A Distance - Tips For Long Distance Caregivers - Closing the Gap - Caring For Yourself While Caring For Others (webinar) - Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am and 4:00 pm. Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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The Dementia Journey: A Caregiver's Toolkit
01/01/2023
The Dementia Journey: A Caregiver's Toolkit
The experience of living and caring for someone with dementia is not always a universal experience and there can be different situations and patterns. However, there are some similar challenges caregivers face when trying to communicate with care recipients who are living with dementia. In this episode, Bill Israel speaks with Amelia Gillies, a Support and Education Coordinator with the Alzheimer's Society of BC about caring for someone living with dementia. Amelia shares stories she's heard on the support line, and also her own personal experience caregiving for people with dementia. Listen in as she provides education and suggestions for you to try when you’re caregiving. Resources: We’d love to share the First Link® Dementia Helpline as our primary resource: English: 1-800-936-6033 Monday to Friday 9 am to 8 pm Cantonese and Mandarin: 1-833-674-5007 Monday to Friday 9 am to 4 pm Punjabi: 1-833-674-5003 Monday to Friday 9 am to 4 pm Alzheimer’s Society of BC Creativity as a Form of Self Care episode Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Line at 1-877-520-3267 Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am and 4:00 pm Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Music as a Caregiving Tool
11/30/2022
Music as a Caregiving Tool
How can we break down barriers and humanize the caregiving process? Through the power of pure emotion, unlocked through music. No matter what your musical background is, music used intentionally can be beneficial to improve health and well-being. Not only for the care recipient, but for you as well, as a caregiver. Today, we’ll hear how music enhances the care experience. I sat down with Bev Foster, a co-founder of the Room 217 Foundation and its Executive Director. In this episode, Bev shares her experience caring for her dad and also for her grandmother who journeyed through dementia. Bev incorporated music into his palliative care and found that it was a very helpful tool both for her father and for herself. So much so, that Bev started a foundation to share music as a caregiving tool with other caregivers. Resources: Music Care by Room 217 Foundation Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street, Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am and 4:00 pm. Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Creativity as a Form of Self Care
02/15/2022
Creativity as a Form of Self Care
Engaging with creativity is a form of self-care that can benefit both a caregiver and a care recipient in many ways. In 2015, psychologist and art therapist Dr. Cathy Malchiodi cited multiple studies confirming that being creative can increase positive emotions, lessen depressive symptoms, reduce stress, decrease anxiety, and even improve immune system functioning. A 2016 study in The Journal of Positive Psychology supported these earlier findings, concluding that spending time on creative goals during a day is associated with higher activated positive affect (PA) on that day. Positive affect is the extent to which people experience positive moods, such as joy, happiness, and optimism. Higher positive effects lower stress and expand our perspective so that we notice more possibilities in our lives. In today’s episode, Bill chats with Faye Melling, a caregiver for her adult daughter. Faye talks about how being creative has helped her deal with some of the ups and downs in her caregiving journey. She also shares how her daughter is using artistic expression as a way to deal with some of the challenges she’s experiencing due to her condition. Resources: Article on outcomes of art therapy and colouring for caregivers of cancer patients: Article on how creativity is an advantage for self-care: Study on benefits of creative arts leisure program to caregivers: Study on the connection between heart, healing, and public health with links to psychologist and art therapist Dr. Cathy Malchiodi “Caregiver Well-Being” in the Resource Center at Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Facility Placement: Managing the Transition to Long-Term Care
01/11/2022
Facility Placement: Managing the Transition to Long-Term Care
For many people as they age, living as long as they can in their own home is ideal. We love our comforts, our routine, and our independence. But there comes a time when the decision to have more support or to move into long-term care becomes a reality, whether because of a medical condition or safety concerns. This decision can be a significant challenge as there are many factors to consider when needing additional support. In this episode, Janet Power, Executive Director of Sunrise Senior Living in Victoria BC, shares great information around transitioning to residential care and steps for gaining more support for the care recipient and caregiver. Resources: Moving from Home to Facility Flipbook FCBC Resource For Long Term Care, to arrange LTC through the Health Authority, call the local Home and Community Care Office. (The BC Health Authority General Enquiry Lines that we have listed in the back of our Quarterly Newsletter) If you are interested in receiving assisted living services or know of someone who might be in need of these services, you can contact the home and community care office of your health authority or you can have a health care professional make a referral on your behalf. Finding an Assisted Living Residence Don’t Judge a Book by its Cover- What to Look for in a Care Facility How to Check Care Facility Records Who Pays for Care? Online Tools and Apps: Route 65 was developed by EngAge BC, a non-profit operating arm of the BC Care Providers Association (BCCPA), in response to a visible gap in quality information about seniors’ living and wellness options in the province. On Route 65, seekers can find more information on independent living, assisted living, long-term care and home health care options. Route 65 also helps users navigate the seniors living and wellness continuum through our Glossary, Frequently Asked Questions and Resource pages, along with Walter, our 24-7 virtual concierge chatbot, who helps triage seekers to the most appropriate options. Call 1-877-955-6565 or learn more at . Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Moving from Home to a Care Facility - Next Steps
12/14/2021
Moving from Home to a Care Facility - Next Steps
Once the decision has been made that placement in a care community is necessary, caregivers are often faced with the “what next” question. Because there are different levels of care and each community has a different ‘personality’, it’s very important to be as prepared as possible for the transition. In this episode, we chat with Kathy Ajas, who for the last 17-years has worked in the retirement industry, including independent living, assisted living, and short and long-term care. Together, we explore questions caregivers have when considering moving to a new level of care with their care recipient. Resources: COVID-19 Survey Highlights- the Impact of COVID-19 on Caregivers Moving from Home to Facility Flipbook FCBC Resource For Long Term Care, to arrange LTC through the Health Authority, call the local Home and Community Care Office. (The BC Health Authority General Enquiry Lines that we have listed in the back of our Quarterly Newsletter). If you are interested in receiving assisted living services or know of someone who might be in need of these services, you can contact the home and community care office of your health authority or you can have a health care professional make a referral on your behalf. Finding an Assisted Living Residence Don’t Judge a Book by its Cover- What to Look for in a Care Facility How to Check Care Facility Records Who Pays for Care? Online Tools and Apps: Route 65 Route 65 was developed by EngAge BC, a non-profit operating arm of the BC Care Providers Association (BCCPA), in response to a visible gap in quality information about seniors’ living and wellness options in the province. On Route 65, seekers can find more information on independent living, assisted living, long-term care and home health care options. Route 65 also helps users navigate the seniors living and wellness continuum through their Glossary, Frequently Asked Questions and Resource pages, along with Walter, their 24-7 virtual concierge chatbot, who helps triage seekers to the most appropriate options. Contact 1-877-955-6565. Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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How to Use Writing for Healing and Self-Care
11/16/2021
How to Use Writing for Healing and Self-Care
Research shows that family caregivers who list self-care as a priority can better provide care, are at lower risk of burnout and becoming ill, and find more joy in their role as a caregiver. Starting with small acts of self-care can create the opportunity to see the benefits. Calling a friend who lifts you up, accepting help, finding five minutes for a cup of tea in silence, or closing your eyes and breathing for 10 breaths are all acts of self-care. Today we'll hear Rick's story, who shares his caregiving experience with both of his parents. Like many caregivers, Rick didn’t expect to be thrown into a caregiving role when he was. He quickly took on the many roles needed to ensure his parents were safe and well-cared for. Caregiving became a full-time job and it was during this time that he started to see his own health and wellness decline. He turned to writing to help him process his experience and feelings and this became a positive and reliant self-care strategy for him. In sharing his caregiving story, we hope you enjoy and feel supported by Rick's point of voice and maybe even consider your own favourite moments of self-care. Resources: Walking the Talk of Self-Care: Practical Strategies for Caregivers Webinar Caregiver Burnout and Feeling Stuck Learning Video Checking In on How You are Feeling Article Taking Care of Yourself: Self-Care Strategies for Family and Friend Caregivers Flipbook Learn more about FCBC Intensive Journal Writing Program What you Need to Know About Power of Attorney Online Tools and Apps: Wellness Together Canada Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Juggling Work and Family Caregiving
07/06/2021
Juggling Work and Family Caregiving
28% of Canadians or 1.8 million people, provided care to a family member or friend with a long-term health condition, disability or ageing need in the past year. Three-quarters of this group (6.1 million) were employed at the time, accounting for 35% of ALL employed Canadians. More and more people are becoming caregivers and a lot of these caregivers are balancing employment and caregiving. In today’s episode, we hear from Rachel, who not only witnessed at a young age her mother be a caregiver, but then found herself caring for her Mother in her adult life. Rachel is part of the ‘sandwich generation’, currently raising and nurturing her own child and family, maintaining a full-time job and caregiving for her mother in Ontario. Rachel is an employed caregiver. When we use the term ‘employed caregiver’ we do not mean someone with a formal job as a paid caregiver, but rather someone that manages paid employment and at the same time is responsible for caregiving for a family or friend. Referenced Report: Vanier Institute of the Family Report, 2017, Highlights: What it means to be an employed caregiver Being part of the sandwich generation - caring for children and caring for ageing parents Being a caregiver while maintaining a full-time job Challenges of caregiving within the workplace Key things that support work and caregiving Resources: First Link Dementia Helpline Supporting a Family Caregiver (a friend, colleague and/or employee) in the Workplace Webinar Work and Care Webinar Supporting Employed Caregivers Booklet Strategies to Make the Workplace more Caregiver Friendly Tips and Tools for Employees (Canadian Hospice Palliative Care Organization) Tips and Tools for Employers (Canadian Hospice Palliative Care Organization) Work and Caregiving: A Balancing Act (Ontario Caregivers Association) Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Grieving Before a Death
06/08/2021
Grieving Before a Death
When we think about grief, we often think of it as something that happens following a death. However, grief can begin long before death arrives. The grieving process can start as soon as a caregiver is aware that death is a likelihood or once death is on the horizon. Many caregivers dealing with an impending death will experience overwhelm, anxiety and dread. As well, before the death of a care recipient, caregivers grieve the loss of the person’s abilities and independence, loss of their cognitive abilities, loss of future dreams, loss of stability and the loss of their identity and the caregivers. Anticipatory loss is not just about accepting the future death, but of the many losses already occurring as an illness progresses. Courtney Doherty is a registered clinical counsellor with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. She currently works with Parkinson Society British Columbia, where she helped launch the counselling program in 2015. Today we talk about different forms and stages of loss and grief. And we talk about how a caregiver can plan for loss. Highlights: Ambiguous Loss and Anticipatory loss. Limbo or frozen grief process. The big role of a caregiver with the preparation of loss (logistics), identity change, and learning a new life (changes of emotions). Self-awareness of feeling the feelings and making them manageable. Resources: Anticipatory Grief Package: Information for Patients and Families Navigating the End of Life: A Road Map for Caregivers Webinar Advance Care Planning Webinar How are you Coping with Ongoing Losses? Article Links Mentioned in Episode: Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Groups Parkinson Society BC Resources Caregiver Support Line, Toll-Free in BC: 1-877-520-3267. Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Friends Caring for Friends - A Circle of Care Approach
05/11/2021
Friends Caring for Friends - A Circle of Care Approach
Have you ever said this to a struggling caregiver - “Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help?’ The offering has good intent, but many times people say it because they don’t know how to help, are uncomfortable, or want to be polite. And although 29 percent of caregivers in BC are in distress, you will still hear caregivers say: ‘I don’t need any help’ or ‘It’s okay, I’m fine’. Today we hear from Jim and how he supported his friend Art and Art’s wife Grace during Grace’s diagnoses and disease. Jim shares how in the process of supporting his friends, and at first it wasn’t with great success, he learned a lot about himself. We talk about the FCBC Circle of Care model and how it worked for Jim and his support group. Highlights: Watching a friend with caregiving How to support his caregiver friend and his wife who was ill and then dying Circle of Care concept and development with the support of Family Caregivers of British Columbia Strategies and tools to support Vulnerability, growth, and learning from a man's point of view The need to talk with other men and find his voice in communication and understanding Resources: The Embrace of a Caring Circle Article Family Dynamics and Caregiving Article Communication Tips for Caregivers Article Accepting Help is Essential for Caregivers Article Online Supports for Family Caregivers Article Creating a Gold Medal Support Network Webinar Build Your Support Team (by Ontario Caregiver Organization) Medical Assistance in Dying, MAID Webinar Online Tools and Apps: CaringBridge helps you create a free personal website to quickly share updates about your care recipient’s health journey. Share news and updates with everyone at the same time, activate your community and coordinate help, and receive emotional strength and support. Lotsa Helping Hands features a free Help Calendar where you can post requests for support. Members of your community can quickly find ways to help, and Lotsa will send reminders and help coordinate logistics automatically so nothing falls through the cracks. Share how things are going, update requests, and receive support and feedback. MealTrain is a free interactive online meal calendar with customized calendar dates, times and meal preferences. Invitations can be sent via email and Facebook including reminder emails, online journal updates and an optional donation fund add-on. Tyze Connecting Care is an online tool that brings people together around someone receiving care.If you’re helping to care for someone Tyze is a simple way to keep everyone informed and get organized. Send updates to everyone at once from anywhere, keep track of everything in one place, access appointments, store documents and let family and friends know how to help. There may be a cost involved depending on options selected. Ability411, they "answer questions and provide practical information about technologies, tools and equipment that increase independence and well-being for BC seniors, and support their families and care teams." Links Mentioned in Episode: Family Caregivers of BC Caregiver Support Groups Caregiver Support Line, Toll-Free in BC: 1-877-520-3267. Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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The Gift of Letting Go
04/01/2021
The Gift of Letting Go
Becoming a caregiver can creep up on you. Maybe it starts with dropping by your mom’s house to do her laundry or taking your dad to a doctor’s appointment or delivering groceries to your friend. Gradually, you find yourself doing more and more as the person you are caring for needs more support. You may not even realize it, you are making a commitment to care for someone else. Today we speak with Katrina who shares her experience of caregiving for her mother with Dementia. Katrina has strong values rooted in family and supporting family, which led her to care for her mother at home. Katrina’s episode is honest, raw and real. It is very inspiring to hear despite her caregiver challenges and lessons, she evolved and deepened her spiritual connection with self and with her mother. Highlights: Introspection during caregiving. Learning from the challenging and suffering moments of life. Her self-reflection and insight have helped deepen her connection with her mother and also advocate for her mother in the health system. Resources: New to Caregiving Flipbook- Challenges and Benefits of Caregiving: New to Caregiving: Finding the Right Information - Navigating the HealthCare System Resource -http://www.familycaregiversbc.ca/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Tips-for-Navigating-the-Healthcare-System.pdf Caregiver Support Line, Toll-Free in BC: 1-877-520-3267. Learn more about Katrina at Connect With Us! Family Caregivers of BC Website Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - Patients as Partners Initiative Organized Sound Productions
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Grief is a Human Experience
03/02/2021
Grief is a Human Experience
Grief is a human experience and it often feels messy or is accompanied by not knowing if you are "doing it right". Grief and loss can feel isolating. And many caregivers share different examples of grief, such as grieving the loss of your old life during caregiving and then also grieving the loss of the person you are caregiving for. Normal does not exist during grief and in today's episode, we chat with Tricia Wallace, a Clinical Counsellor with Parkinson Society BC about the topic of caregiver grief and loss and suggestions on how to work with these emotions. Highlights: Grief and the grief process. Mourning rituals and practices. Grieving during caregiving (loss of 'old life') and also loss of the person you are caregiving for. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Normal does not exist during grief. End of life planning. Resources on Grief and Loss: (Caregiver Grief Process and Life after Caregiving) - Explore the process of grief and get support from the privacy of your home. with Thomas Attig , written by Janet McLean on Thomas Attig Work - Support Line: 1-877-779-2223 Links Mentioned in Episode: https://www.familycaregiversbc.ca/family-caregiver-support-groups/ Caregiver Support Line, Toll-Free in BC: 1-877-520-3267. Connect With Us! https://www.familycaregiversbc.ca/ Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: https://www.facebook.com/FamilyCaregiversBC/ https://www.instagram.com/familycaregiversofbc/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/18122187 https://twitter.com/caringbc Thank you! BC Ministry of Health - https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/health/about-bc-s-health-care-system/partners/patients http://www.organizedsound.ca/
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Grief as a Healing Gift
02/02/2021
Grief as a Healing Gift
13 million Canadians or nearly half of the total population have provided care at some point in their lives. Yet caregiving may be a new term for many people. And often, unpaid caregivers do not identify with this title, as they feel it is part of their relationship with family or friends. In today’s episode, we speak with Pat, who acknowledges that she was initially unfamiliar with the term caregiver, but learned more about this important role as she supported her husband, also named Pat, through his journey with Parkinson’s Disease and dementia. Pat was engaged in a caregiver “learning process”, where she listened to her husband to better understand the effects of Parkinson's Disease in his daily life. Because of the value of their partnership, Pat’s relationship with her husband during his changing health conditions was sustained through humour and care. You will gain insight into her caregiving journey, awareness of the caregiving role, and the unfolding responsibilities; including end of life care and her current caregiving stages of grief, bereavement, and honouring her husband and life-partner. Highlights: Caregiving was a new term for Pat and then she was full-in caregiving mode. Supporting her husband with humour and care for their relationship was very apparent. Loss and grief - knowing he is still there with her by showing up in signs or thoughts. Giving back by supporting others in a caregiver support group. Resources on Grief and Loss: Article, By Janet McLean. Webinars around Grief and Loss: and Links Mentioned in Episode: Janet Fast, Institute for Research on Public Policy Study (December 2015). Caregiver Support Line, Toll-Free in BC: 1-877-520-3267. Connect With Us! Visit us at our office: #6 – 3318 Oak Street Victoria, BC V8X 1R1 Hours are Monday through Friday, 8:30 am and 4:00 pm. Telephone: (250) 384-0408 Toll-Free Line Within BC: 1-877-520-3267 Fax: (250) 361-2660 Email: Thank you! BC Ministry of Health -
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Trailer 2021
01/26/2021
Trailer 2021
No matter where caregivers live, you have access to support. Welcome to “Caregivers Out Loud”, a podcast powered by Family Caregivers of British Columbia. This season's podcast is hosted by Bill Israel who will be leading heartfelt, connective conversations with caregivers. By sharing stories of caregivers and insight from community experts, we bring you perspective and connection, and ensure that you have support and balance from inspired caregivers, who are caregiving out loud. Listen wherever you go by subscribing and listening to the podcast for free on your favourite podcast listening app or wherever you listen to audio. You can also listen, read through notes from each episode, and find additional caregiving resources on our website at . For direct support, call our Caregiver Support Line Toll-Free in BC at 1-877-520-3267, Monday to Friday, 8:30 am to 7:00 pm Pacific time.
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How to Make Time to Care for Yourself with Self Care and Boundaries
05/26/2020
How to Make Time to Care for Yourself with Self Care and Boundaries
When was the last time you felt truly rested? For caregivers, making time for self-care can feel almost impossible with all the other demands on your time. And yet, it is an essential skill to learn in your role as a caregiver. In our final episode of the season, we look to why self-care is a fundamental part of being a caregiver. Without self-care, how can you sustain caring for your family or friend and not run the risk of burning out?
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Why Speaking Up For Your Needs Matters
05/12/2020
Why Speaking Up For Your Needs Matters
Successful relationships are all about communication. In today’s episode, we share how for caregivers, relationships with others can be more complex than usual. It can be hard to find ways to speak up for your own needs. If you are the primary caregiver, recognizing your own need for support might be difficult - particularly if the care receiver is uncomfortable with the idea - but still, you need to make these choices for yourself.
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Speak Out With Courageous Conversations in Caregiving
04/28/2020
Speak Out With Courageous Conversations in Caregiving
Caregiving brings all sorts of challenges that call forth growth, and communication can be one of them. In today’s episode, we hear about why good communication with family members and healthcare providers is so important, and often difficult for caregivers. In your role as caregiver, you have to speak up for the needs of the care receiver as well as your own. You need to think about the future and what is in everyone’s best interests. This can be especially tough within families.
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Accessing Caregiver Support Networks
04/14/2020
Accessing Caregiver Support Networks
Today, we take a look at how few of us can “go it alone” as caregivers. Having relationships with friends or organizations can boost your emotional strength for the marathon of caregiving. We’ll examine different sources of support available to caregivers, how to overcome challenges that prevent you from reaching out for support, and what it is like to really acknowledge your role as a caregiver. You’ll hear from caregivers who struggled with overwhelm and the difference reaching out made to their l
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Trailer
02/18/2020
Trailer
Welcome to “Caregivers Out Loud”, a powered by Family Caregivers of British Columbia, hosted by Jodie McDonald.
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