The Game Changer With Dr. Sharalyn
Lead differently. Influence deeply. Win big. If you're an executive, entrepreneur, or visionary leader ready to break the mold, this podcast is for you. Hosted by Dr. Sharalyn Payne—speaker, researcher, strategist, executive performance coach, and trusted advisor to high-level leaders—Game Changers delivers bold strategies, mindset mastery, and the frameworks used by the world’s most influential people to lead with power, clarity, and purpose. Each episode is designed to help you execute at the highest level—consistently, build unshakable influence that lasts, create a legacy that outlives your success. No fluff. No clichés. Just transformational leadership for those who don’t just want to play the game—they’re here to change it. Subscribe now—and get ready to lead at a level the world can’t ignore.
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Episode 25 - The Courage Advantage: Why Conflict is the Catalyst for Leadership
11/18/2025
Episode 25 - The Courage Advantage: Why Conflict is the Catalyst for Leadership
In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, Leah Brown—global legal leader, award-winning executive, and strategic advisor—reveals why conflict is the proving ground for influence, innovation, and integrity. In a world where leaders are pressured to keep the peace, Leah Brown argues the opposite—conflict isn’t the enemy; it’s the ignition point of true leadership. According to Harvard Business Review, 57% of employees avoid conflict, even when it costs the organization time, trust, and millions in rework. But courage isn’t just a character trait—it’s a competitive advantage. And leaders who master courageous conflict outperform the ones who avoid it. Key Takeaway "It's so important to sort relationships with people before you're in a difficult situation because you need to know who you can trust before you get there." Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged you, inspired you, or gave language to something you’ve been carrying, share it with a leader who needs it. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 24 - The Leadership Lead: Mindset Shift Every Founder - and Leader- Must Make
11/11/2025
Episode 24 - The Leadership Lead: Mindset Shift Every Founder - and Leader- Must Make
Episode Description In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, founder coach Andrew Poles reveals what truly separates high-performing leaders from those who burn out trying to do it all. Having coached over 10,000 entrepreneurs, Andrew breaks down the mindset shift every founder must make to scale sustainably, the hidden traps in transitioning from operator to CEO, and why great leaders master storytelling as a strategic tool of influence. He also shares how endurance training in ultramarathon mountain biking has shaped his philosophy on mental resilience, leadership pressure, and performance at the edge. Key Takeaway: “The business will only grow at the speed of your mindset.” — Andrew Poles Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged how you think about change, share it with a leader who’s building the next big thing. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 23 - The Anatomy of a Game Changer: Disrupting Without Breaking What Works
11/04/2025
Episode 23 - The Anatomy of a Game Changer: Disrupting Without Breaking What Works
Every high-impact leader faces this tension: how do you drive disruption without destabilizing what already delivers results? In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, Dr. Sharalyn Payne unpacks the anatomy of a true game changer—those rare leaders who can build the future while honoring the foundation. You’ll learn how to introduce bold innovation without burning out your people or breaking the systems that sustain performance. This is disruption by design, not destruction. Key Takeaways: What you’ll take away from this episode: Not all change is progress. Game changers discern before they disrupt. Protect the pillars. Don’t break systems that sustain performance. Sustainable innovation balances risk with rhythm. Real influence is measured by stability during change, not just speed. Disruption done right builds legacy. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged how you think about change, share it with a leader who’s building the next big thing. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 22 -Resilience at Scale: How Leaders Build Teams That Withstand Pressure
10/28/2025
Episode 22 -Resilience at Scale: How Leaders Build Teams That Withstand Pressure
In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, we unpack the secret to building resilience at scale. Dr. Sharalyn reveals how high-impact leaders design systems, rhythms, and cultures that sustain performance—no matter the pressure. You’ll discover how to move beyond survival mode and lead teams that not only endure adversity but emerge stronger, sharper, and more unified on the other side. Key Takeaways: What you’ll take away from this episode: Resilience isn’t individual—it’s institutional. True resilience is a culture, not a personality trait. Pressure exposes what systems never supported. What breaks under stress reveals what wasn’t built for scale. Recovery is a leadership strategy. The best teams win because they know how to restore, not just respond. Cohesion is your multiplier. Trust and communication amplify performance under stress. Leaders who normalize recovery create cultures that outperform through chaos. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged you, share it with one leader you know who’s navigating a season of pain. Because resilience multiplies when we don’t walk through it alone. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 21 - From Food Stamps to Diplomat: Leadership Lessons from the Frontlines
10/22/2025
Episode 21 - From Food Stamps to Diplomat: Leadership Lessons from the Frontlines
In this episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne sits down with Michael Dillard—Global Speaker, Executive Coach, and Financial Literacy Advocate—to unpack how one man’s unexpected journey from humble beginnings to global diplomacy became a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and purpose-driven leadership. Michael’s story isn’t just inspiring—it’s instructional. From growing up on food stamps and grit to serving across six countries as a U.S. diplomat, Michael reveals how to recover from burnout, reclaim your energy, and lead with lasting impact. If you’ve ever felt like your path was anything but linear, this episode will remind you that sometimes, the accidental path leads to your authentic calling. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Follow Michael Dillard Connect with Call to Action If this conversation moved you, don’t just listen—lead. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn Podcast and join a global movement of game-changing leaders who lead with conviction, impact with intention, and transcend what’s expected.Because influence isn’t about titles—it’s about transformation. 🎧 Subscribe. Share. Step into your next level of leadership. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 20 - Living with Intention: Building a Life of Purpose and Impact
10/14/2025
Episode 20 - Living with Intention: Building a Life of Purpose and Impact
In this powerful episode of The Ultra Influential Podcast with Dr. Sharalyn Payne, we sit down with Larry O’Nan — a seasoned leader, consultant, and author whose career in nonprofit leadership and fund development has transformed organizations and lives around the world. Larry shares how “the freedom to fail” became a powerful catalyst for innovation, how understanding and applying stewardship principles can lead to transformation, and how intentional living and giving can turn fear and confusion into clarity and purpose. This episode is a masterclass in stewardship, leadership, and legacy-building from a man who’s spent decades helping others live—and lead—with impact. Resources & Mentions Go to the for show notes. Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Follow Larry O'Nan Connect with Call to Action If this conversation inspired you to lead with more purpose, share this episode with another leader who’s ready to elevate their influence. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com.
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Episode 19 - Leading While Healing: How Vulnerability Becomes a Leadership Strength
10/07/2025
Episode 19 - Leading While Healing: How Vulnerability Becomes a Leadership Strength
What if the very thing you’ve been hiding is the source of your greatest strength? In this episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne challenges one of leadership’s most damaging myths — that strength means silence. She explores how leading while healing isn’t a contradiction, it’s a calling. When leaders embrace their humanity, they don’t lose influence — they amplify it. Drawing from research, real-world examples, and her own experience working with world-class executives, Dr. Payne reveals how vulnerability fuels trust, deepens connection, and transforms culture from the inside out. This conversation will remind you that you don’t have to be healed to lead — you just have to be honest while you do. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode resonated with you, share it with one leader you know who’s navigating a season of pain. Because resilience multiplies when we don’t walk through it alone. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email leadership@smpistrategies.com
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Episode 18 - Breaking Free from Mental Prisons: Redefining Resilience and Leadership
09/30/2025
Episode 18 - Breaking Free from Mental Prisons: Redefining Resilience and Leadership
In this powerful conversation, D. Logan shares his raw and inspiring journey—from growing up in the confines of a religious cult to navigating the battlefield of Iraq, and facing the darkest moments of suicidal ideation—twice. What could have broken him instead forged a relentless pursuit of purpose. Today, as a live television Director, he’s not just living his dream but also unpacking the very strategies and mindset shifts that made his success possible. What you’ll take away from this episode: • The hidden cost of survival and how D. Logan turned trauma into resilience. • The mindset of reinvention—moving from despair to purpose. • Keys to breakthrough success from military service to directing live TV. • The power of storytelling in transforming pain into impact. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Follow D. Logan Connect with Call to Action If this episode challenged you, share it with one leader you know who’s navigating a season of pain. Because resilience multiplies when we don’t walk through it alone. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email
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Episode 17 - Turning Pain into Power: The Resilience Advantage of Game Changer Leaders
09/23/2025
Episode 17 - Turning Pain into Power: The Resilience Advantage of Game Changer Leaders
Every leader faces pain. But the Game Changer leaders? They don’t just survive it—they weaponize it. In this episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne unpacks eight powerful ways to transform setbacks into strength, struggles into strategy, and pain into purpose. Whether you’re a C-suite executive, middle manager, or change agent, you’ll discover how to turn your hardest moments into your greatest credibility. If this episode challenged you, share it with one leader you know who’s navigating a season of pain. Because resilience multiplies when we don’t walk through it alone. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged you, share it with one leader you know who’s navigating a season of pain. Because resilience multiplies when we don’t walk through it alone. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email
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Episode 16 - The Leadership Lessons No One Ever Told Me
09/16/2025
Episode 16 - The Leadership Lessons No One Ever Told Me
We were told leadership meant having all the answers, driving results at all costs, and never letting them see you sweat. But no one told us the truth— that you can hit every metric and still lose the room… that you can carry the title and have no one truly following you… that brilliance without credibility burns trust—and trust is the real currency of leadership. In this powerful solo episode, Dr. Sharalyn pulls back the curtain on the hard-won lessons no one ever told her about leadership—lessons forged in high-stakes boardrooms, billion-dollar transformations, and culture-shaping moments that could have broken her. This isn’t leadership theory. This is the real playbook elite leaders use to build trust, win loyalty, and create results that last. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If you’re ready to uncover your blind spots, elevate your credibility, and build a team that wins under pressure, this is the work Dr. Sharalyn does every day with elite leaders. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email
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From Chaos to Clarity: The Art of Strategic Simplicity
09/09/2025
From Chaos to Clarity: The Art of Strategic Simplicity
What if complexity isn’t a sign of strategy… but a symptom of misalignment? In this episode of The Game Changer, Dr. Sharalyn Payne breaks down the misunderstood leadership trap of over-complication—and shares how strategic simplicity can become your most credible leadership tool. This isn't about doing less. It’s about elevating what matters and eliminating what doesn’t. Dr. Payne shares a powerful leadership moment that revealed how even clarity-driven leaders must design simplicity that invites ownership, alignment, and momentum—not just direction. Whether you're leading culture transformation, enterprise strategy, or a high-stakes initiative, this episode will help you refocus your influence, remove leadership noise, and lead with precision. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. For consulting inquiries, speaking engagements, or to bring Dr. Payne into your organization email
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The Game Changer's Code: 7 Principles for Leading Like the Top 1%
09/02/2025
The Game Changer's Code: 7 Principles for Leading Like the Top 1%
What separates the world’s top 1% of leaders from everyone else? It isn’t luck, talent, or charisma—it’s a code. In this episode, Dr. Sharalyn pulls back the curtain on The Game Changer’s Code: 7 Principles for Leading Like the Top 1%. From credibility that commands trust to cultures that win without you in the room, you’ll discover the exact playbook elite leaders live by to achieve unstoppable impact. This isn’t leadership theory. This is the code. Learn it, live it, and lead like the top 1%. Show Notes Go to the for show notes. Resources & Mentions Download the Harvard Business Review – Research on credibility & leadership effectiveness Gallup – Data on vision-driven employee engagement McKinsey – Findings on adaptation and shareholder returns Subscribe to the Follow Dr. Sharalyn Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action If this episode challenged your perspective and elevated your standard, share it with a leader who’s ready to step into the top 1%. Don’t forget to subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. And for tools to put these principles into practice immediately, download the free .
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How to Inspire, Activate, and Awaken Greatness: A Leader’s Role in Unlocking Human Potential
08/26/2025
How to Inspire, Activate, and Awaken Greatness: A Leader’s Role in Unlocking Human Potential
Episode Summary: Greatness isn't reserved for the chosen few-it's waiting to be called out, nurtured, and stretched into its full expression. In this powerful episode, Dr. Sharalyn breaks down the bold responsibility of leaders to inspire, activate, and awaken the greatness in others. Learn how to see potential others miss, speak words that build confidence and credibility, and challenge people to rise beyond comfort into purpose. Show Notes: Links & Mentions: Free Resource: Download - Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Subscribe to the Ultra Influential Newsletter: Email for information on how we could work together. Follow Dr. Sharalyn: Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action: If this episode stirred you—share it with a leader who’s ready to stop managing and start multiplying impact. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite platform. Leave a review so more leaders can find and live this message.
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Lead Like It Matters Because It Absolutely Does
08/12/2025
Lead Like It Matters Because It Absolutely Does
Episode Summary: Leadership isn’t a job—it’s a responsibility with consequences that echo through careers, families, communities, and even the global stage. Every decision you make as a leader either elevates lives or diminishes them. There is no neutral ground. In this power-packed episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne delivers a wake-up call for leaders at every level—from the boardroom to the front lines—on why leading with intention, integrity, and impact is not optional. You’ll explore the moral, organizational, and societal costs of poor leadership, as well as the extraordinary competitive, cultural, and global advantages of leading like it truly matters. If you’ve ever wondered how your leadership shapes not just your organization, but the future, this is the conversation you can’t afford to miss. Show Notes: Links and Resources: Subscribe to the Ultra Influential Newsletter: Download - Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Follow Dr. Sharalyn: Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Call to Action: If this episode challenged or inspired you, share it with another leader who needs to hear it. And don’t forget to subscribe to Ultra Influential for more high-impact leadership conversations that transform how you lead.
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Behind the Scenes—The Real Life of a Change Agent
08/05/2025
Behind the Scenes—The Real Life of a Change Agent
Episode Summary: Every leader loves the idea of transformation—until the change begins to cost comfort, certainty, and control. In this candid episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, we step inside the hidden world of change agents—the courageous leaders who challenge broken systems, navigate resistance, and carry the weight of unseen battles. If you’ve ever led behind the scenes, felt invisible, or questioned whether your work mattered, this episode will speak to your core. Show Notes: https://www.ultrainfluential.com/podcast/behind-the-scenes-the-real-life-of-a-change-agent Links & Mentions: Free Resource: Download - Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Subscribe to the Ultra Influential Newsletter: Follow Dr. Sharalyn: Connect on LinkedIn: Connect on Instagram: Mentioned: Dr. Marie Feagins, Meghan Markle Call to Action: If this episode sparked reflection or courage in your own leadership journey, share it with another leader navigating change. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn for weekly insights to amplify your influence and impact.
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Secrets of a Trusted Advisor: How to Influence Power, Lead with Integrity, and Shape Big Decisions
07/29/2025
Secrets of a Trusted Advisor: How to Influence Power, Lead with Integrity, and Shape Big Decisions
Episode Summary: Every powerful leader has one person they trust when the stakes are sky-high—and it’s rarely the loudest voice in the room. In this episode, Dr. Sharalyn reveals the mindset, behaviors, and frameworks that elevate you from a behind-the-scenes supporter to a trusted strategic advisor. If you want to be the voice leaders can’t ignore, this episode is your playbook. Being trustworthy isn’t enough. Learn how to become the voice that shapes decisions, steers strategy, and earns respect in any room. Key Takeaways: The 5 qualities that separate a trusted advisor from a transactional professional Why confidence without ego is your most magnetic trait How to speak truth to power—without losing your influence The T.R.U.S.T. Framework™ that will elevate your leadership impact Power questions you can ask today to build executive-level trust Links and Resources: Subscribe to the Ultra Influential Newsletter: Connect on LinkedIn: Download - Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Timestamps: 0:00–1:00 – Opening: The power behind every decision-maker 1:00–16:00 – The T.R.U.S.T. Framework™: 5 traits that set trusted advisors apart 16:00–19:00 – Overview of the Game Changer Leadership Collection (Free Resource) 19:00–20:00 – Challenge to elevate your influence Call to Action: If this episode challenged you, share it with a leader who’s ready to elevate their influence. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. Leave a 5-star review and help more high-impact leaders discover this message. Download your free copy of The Game Changer Leadership Collection™. Share with your community of game changers, change agents, and influential leaders.
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Break the Mold: Rethinking Traditional Leadership Models for a New Era
07/22/2025
Break the Mold: Rethinking Traditional Leadership Models for a New Era
Episode Summary: Most leadership frameworks weren’t built for today’s world. They were built for control—not transformation. In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, we expose the outdated models silently sabotaging your influence and impact—and lay out the new leadership models that drive innovation, trust, and legacy-building change. If you’re tired of leading from a playbook that no longer works, this episode will show you how to break the mold, redefine your leadership identity, and build a future-ready organization. Key Takeaways: Why Command-and-Control leadership is obsolete—and what’s replacing it The 4 new models of leadership: Game Changer, Ultra Influential™, Credible™, and Change Agent™ How to blend leadership styles to build agility, trust, and transformation Why being the “hero” is holding your team back—and what true legacy leadership looks like A strategic question to reveal which mold you need to break next Links & Resources: Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download - Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro & Hook 3:00 – Why Traditional Models Are Failing 8:00 – The Rise of Game Changer & Ultra Influential Leadership 15:00 – Credibility Over Heroism 22:00 – Change Agents Shape the Future 29:00 – The Ultra Influential Breakdown 31:00 – Final Challenge & Closing Call to Action: If this episode challenged how you lead—share it with a leader ready to evolve. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Download your free copy of the Game Changer Leadership Collection™. Leave a 5-star review to help more bold leaders find this message. .
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The 5 Things I Never Say to Insecure Leaders—And What I Say Instead
07/15/2025
The 5 Things I Never Say to Insecure Leaders—And What I Say Instead
Episode Summary: Some leaders hold the title, but not the confidence. In this episode of The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn, we unpack the five phrases that can unintentionally trigger defensiveness, power plays, and shut doors with insecure leaders. More importantly, you'll get practical, emotionally intelligent alternatives that help you lead with influence—even when you’re not in charge. You’ll also take the Gamechanger Influence Audit™, respond to a powerful real-world leadership challenge, and walk away with scripts that help you navigate ego-driven leadership dynamics with clarity, power, and strategy. If you’ve ever had to manage up, deal with power fragility, or lead from the middle—this is your playbook. Key Takeaways: Words matter more than ever. The wrong phrase can shut down trust and get you sidelined by insecure power. Emotional intelligence is a power skill. Learn how to reframe your language to elevate—not agitate—those above you. Influence is preserved through strategy. Get 5 exact scripts to stay credible and respected when stakes are high. Audit your leadership voice. Use the Gamechanger Influence Audit™ to recalibrate how you show up. You don’t have to hold the title to shape the room. Influence is a choice—backed by skill, not permission. Links & Resources: Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download- Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Related Episode: The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything Call to Action: If this episode shifted your thinking, don’t keep it to yourself. Share it with a leader who’s navigating power dynamics, managing up, or trying to stay influential in complex environments. Download the Game Changers Starter Kit—your strategic edge for leading with clarity, courage, and credibility: Leave a review to help other high-level leaders find this message.
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Scandal-Proof Leadership: How to Protect Your Legacy Before It's Too Late
07/08/2025
Scandal-Proof Leadership: How to Protect Your Legacy Before It's Too Late
Episode Summary: Even the smartest, most capable leaders can be blindsided by scandal—not because they lack ethics, but because they lack awareness. In this powerful episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne exposes the nine hidden leadership blind spots that quietly erode trust, weaken culture, and jeopardize legacy. You’ll learn how to build ethical reflexes, install accountability systems, and make decisions that will stand the test of public scrutiny. This episode isn’t just protection—it’s preparation. Key Takeaways: Unchecked success creates entitlement. Scandal often starts with small compromises, not big failures. The 9 Blind Spots every leader must confront—from feedback avoidance to ethical drift. Feedback is your leadership mirror. No feedback = no foresight. You don’t need PR. You need principles. Build the character before the crisis. Scandal-proof leadership is legacy leadership. High trust. High standard. No excuses. Links & Resources: Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download- Your free toolkit to lead with clarity, power, and credibility. Related Episode: The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything Timestamps: 1:00 – The storm that sinks most leaders 04:30 – Segment 1: The Seduction of Success & Power 08:20 – Segment 2: The 9 Blind Spots That Take Leaders Down 17:45 – Real Story: The Cost of Ignoring Feedback 20:00 – Segment 3: The Scandal-Proof Decision Framework™ 24:30 – Segment 4: The Real Cost of Scandal 25:00 – Segment 5: Living Legacy-Driven Leadership 26:00 – The Game Changer Leadership Collection overview 29:00 – Closing Charge Call to Action: If this episode challenged you, share it with a leader who values truth, trust, and transformation. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn. Leave a review to amplify ethical, high-impact leadership.
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The Inside Secrets of a Game Changer: How Transformational Leaders Think, Move, and Magnetize
07/01/2025
The Inside Secrets of a Game Changer: How Transformational Leaders Think, Move, and Magnetize
Episode Summary What sets Game Changers apart isn’t just strategy—it’s how they see, how they lead, and how they inspire. In this powerful episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne breaks down the 10 high-impact traits of transformational leaders who don’t just perform—they redefine the standard. If you’re ready to stop playing small, start commanding your space, and lead with magnetic influence, this episode is your leadership blueprint. Key Takeaways Visionary Intelligence is your competitive edge. Learn to see what others miss—and act on it. Strategic Agility wins. Master the ability to hold the big picture, short-term goals, and immediate needs at once. Game Changers don't perform—they lead. Discover how to elevate the standard and control outcomes without asking for permission. Credibility isn’t claimed—it’s built. Learn how systems, habits, and presence make you the go-to leader. Your influence is magnetic. Inspire others by becoming the leader who raises belief, not just performance. Links and Mentions Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download Related Episode: The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything Timestamps 00:00 Opening "Game Changers don’t wait—they create. 01:30 The mindset of a Game Changer: Vision, strategy, agility 08:00 The moves: How to lead, elevate, and design outcomes 14:00 The magnetism: Becoming the go-to and leading with presence 19:00 Coaching: Reflection questions and declaration 23:00 Final challenge: Born to change the game 24:00 Download The Game Changer Collection Call to Action If this episode resonated with you, share it with a leader who’s tired of blending in and ready to break the mold. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a review to help more leaders find this message. Tag your Game Changer moment using #GameChangerMoves.
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How to Change the Game When You Weren't Even Given a Seat at the Table
06/24/2025
How to Change the Game When You Weren't Even Given a Seat at the Table
Episode Summary What happens when you’re brilliant, bold, and qualified—but still not invited? In this high-impact episode, Dr. Sharalyn pulls back the curtain on how ultra-influential leaders rise, even in rooms that weren’t built for them. You’ll discover how to shift from being overlooked to becoming undeniable, not by waiting for a seat—but by creating tables that transform culture. This is not just a mindset shift—it’s a movement. Key Takeaways Recognize the difference between being tolerated and being valued. Stop fighting for access to rooms that drain your brilliance. Reclaim your narrative and lead without permission. You don’t need a title to have influence—just strategy, presence, and preparation. Reveal the gap and offer vision. Game changers bring data, foresight, and undeniable value. Reinvent the outcome. If the door is closed, build your own and create the culture others want to join. Believe in yourself, even when others don’t. Your uniqueness is not a liability—it’s your leverage. Timestamps 00:00 – Opening: Why the system isn’t broken—it was built to exclude 01:00 – The lies leaders have been told about access and hard work 02:30 – Framework: The 4 Pillars of the Game-Changer Identity™ 06:40 – What happened when I wasn’t invited 08:30 – The cost of hiding: masking, silence, and culture-covering 10:15 – Truth bombs, reframes, and belief work 11:39 – Coaching challenge + action 15:00 – Closing charge: You weren’t meant to play small Links & Mentions Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download Related Episode: The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything Call to Action If this episode sparked something in you—share it with a leader who’s ready to stop waiting and start building. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a review to help more high-impact leaders find this message. Share this episode on LinkedIn or Instagram and tag @DrSharalyn. Visit for more tools to lead with clarity, courage, and conviction.
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Protect the Asset: Boundaries that Build Your Power and Eliminate Mediocrity
06/17/2025
Protect the Asset: Boundaries that Build Your Power and Eliminate Mediocrity
Episode Summary What if the real reason you’re exhausted isn’t your workload—but your lack of boundaries? In this transformational episode of The Game Changer, Dr. Sharalyn calls high-capacity leaders to stop leaking power in the name of professionalism. Learn how to establish boundaries that protect your peace, preserve your purpose, and elevate your leadership effectiveness. When you are the asset, protecting yourself is not selfish—it’s strategy. Key Takeaways Power without boundaries is a liability. Protecting your time, mind, and voice is essential for sustained impact and high performance. Mediocrity thrives in the absence of leadership standards. Every “yes” to misalignment is a “no” to your mission. Boundaries are not walls—they are gates of discernment. Learn Dr. Sharalyn’s Protect the Asset™ Framework to build powerful, enforceable standards. Dimming your brilliance to make others comfortable is a silent betrayal of your potential. Saying no is not a rejection—it’s a reallocation of power to what matters most. Timestamps 00:00 – 01:00 | Intro: Protecting the asset begins with you 01:01 – 06:30 | Opening monologue: Compromise, burnout & boundary myths 06:31 – 11:45 | Segment 1: The true cost of boundary breakdowns 11:46 – 16:00 | Segment 2: 7 subtle power-draining violations 16:01 – 19:00 | Segment 3: The power of one protected “no” (leadership vignette) 19:01 – 24:00 | Segment 4: The Protect the Asset™ Framework 24:01 – 28:30 | Segment 5: Power phrases to communicate clear boundaries 28:31 – 32:45 | Segment 6: Accommodated mediocrity and leadership misalignment 32:46 – 36:30 | Coaching moment + personal journal prompts 36:31 – 41:00 | Closing charge + final declaration: Protect the Asset Links & Mentions Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download Related Episode: The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything Call to Action If this episode challenged or empowered you, share it with a leader who’s ready to lead with boldness and boundaries. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a review to help more high-impact leaders find this message. Share this episode on LinkedIn or Instagram and tag @DrSharalyn. Visit for more tools to lead with clarity, courage, and conviction.
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The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything
06/10/2025
The Leadership Lesson That Almost Cost Me Everything
Episode Summary: What happens when the system you’re called to transform tries to break you? In this powerful and personal episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne pulls back the curtain on a leadership moment that tested her purpose, credibility, and identity. This is not just a story of resistance—it's a masterclass in reclaiming your voice, realigning with your mission, and rising when the room wants you silent. If you’re a transformational leader who’s ever been punished for telling the truth or pressured to dilute your brilliance, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: Speaking truth to power costs more than popularity—it costs comfort. Your credibility is your most important leadership asset. Protect it at all costs. Loneliness is not always a sign you’re wrong—sometimes it means you’re leading. The system may resist your voice, but your voice is what shifts the system. Build an internal “Board of Credibility” to keep you grounded when things get loud. Links & Mentions: Visit: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download Timestamps: [00:00] The Breaking Point – When silence feels safer than truth [02:31] The Clash – The lonely cost of transformation [06:31] Gamechanger Debrief™ – Three reflective questions for trailblazers [08:01] The Revelation – You are the assignment [12:01] Stand Tall – Reclaiming your voice and legacy Call to Action: If this episode spoke to your soul, share it with a leader on the verge of shrinking. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a review to help more leaders find this message. Download your free leadership tools at
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The Influence Gap – Why People Aren’t Following Your Lead
06/10/2025
The Influence Gap – Why People Aren’t Following Your Lead
You have the title, the platform, and the results—but something’s off. People are listening, but they’re not moved. In this powerful episode of The Game Changer, Dr. Sharalyn exposes The Influence Gap—the often unseen breakdown between authority and actual impact—and why even the most visible leaders can become ineffective if alignment, credibility, and connection are missing. This episode delivers a high-performance recalibration for leaders ready to restore trust, re-ignite clarity, and lead with conviction that compels action. Key Takeaways: Influence without credibility is noise. Influence with alignment creates movement. Unclear vision, lack of accountability, and emotional disconnection are silent leadership failures that erode trust. Your leadership must connect with hearts, minds, and spirits—not just roles and results. The 5C Influence Reset™—Clarity, Connection, Credibility, Compassion, and Conviction—is the path to legacy-level leadership. True leadership transformation begins when you stop performing and start aligning. Links & Mentions: Newsletter: The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Connect on LinkedIn: Download the Explore coaching and consulting for executive alignment: Timestamps: 00:00 – Opening: The Wake-Up Call for Influential Leaders 04:22 – Case Stories: When Influence Breaks Down Behind Closed Doors 09:05 – The Gamechanger Influence Audit™ 12:14 – The 5C Influence Reset™ Framework 17:55 – Alignment Activation™ and Commitment Ritual Call to Action: If this episode challenged your perspective or sparked clarity, share it with a fellow leader who needs to hear it. Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform Leave a review to help more leaders find this message
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Unconventional Wisdom: The 7 Rules I Had to Break to Lead Well
06/10/2025
Unconventional Wisdom: The 7 Rules I Had to Break to Lead Well
In this bold and deeply personal episode, Dr. Sharalyn Payne shares the seven unspoken rules she had to break to lead with truth, clarity, and lasting impact. These aren't just theories—these are battle-tested decisions that shifted cultures, built trust, and elevated performance. If you’ve ever been praised for playing it safe while knowing you were born to lead differently, this episode will give you the permission—and the playbook—to lead from conviction, not convention. Key Takeaways: You don’t need to conform to be effective—credibility starts with alignment, not approval. Creating a subculture of honesty and excellence often begins by breaking the dominant culture’s rules. Letting others speak first creates psychological safety—and unlocks innovation. Feedback is only helpful if it’s true, timely, and aligned with your mission. Authentic leadership often looks like breaking the rulebook with wisdom and vision. Links & Mentions: Connect on LinkedIn: Download the The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome + What This Episode Is Really About 01:15 – Rule #1: Let Others Speak First 04:50 – Rule #3: Stop Hiding Your Faith 08:20 – Rule #4: Reject Feedback That Undermines Purpose 11:40 – Rule #5: Invite Friction to Spark Innovation 15:15 – Bonus Rule: Stop Pretending It’s Easy 17:00 – Signature Framework: The Unconventional Leader’s Code™ 19:00 – Power Question of the Day + Final Reflection Call to Action: If this episode resonated, share it with a leader who’s tired of pretending and ready to lead whole. - Subscribe to The Game Changer with Dr. Sharalyn on your favorite podcast platform. - Leave a review to help more leaders find this message.
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