That Based Dating Podcast

A show where your favorite former boss babe feminist deconstructs and reconstructs the meaning of life, relationships, male/female dynamics and politics.

Unhinged + Bumbling around 04/18/2025

Unhinged + Bumbling around Dating apps don’t have to feel like an endless scroll of awkward bios and bad selfies. In this episode, we’re talking all about how to create a Hinge or Bumble profile that actually feels like you—and draws in the kind of energy (and people) you’re really looking for. We’ll walk through photo tips that highlight your natural vibe, how to answer prompts in a way that feels playful and genuine, and why being real always beats trying to impress. Whether you’re new to the apps or just ready for a fresh start, this episode is here to help you show up with confidence and clarity. Spoiler: You don’t need a yacht pic or a perfect life. Just a little intention—and a clear smiling face! Unplugged dating link - /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/36226700

Porn starves connection 04/18/2025

Porn starves connection Porn Starves Connection In this episode, we confront a cultural elephant in the room: pornography. “Porn Starves Connection” dives deep into how porn consumption can erode authentic relationships, numb emotional intimacy, and rewire the brain’s reward systems. We explore the science behind dopamine overload, the psychological and spiritual toll on both viewers and partners, and the growing body of research linking porn to increased loneliness, anxiety, and relational disconnection. Brittanie gets personal about her porn experiences and how it can devastate a marriage. If you’ve ever felt the tension between desire and disconnection, this episode is for you. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/36226365

Stop FAILING at dating apps 03/16/2025

Stop FAILING at dating apps In this episode, Brittanie of that based babe dives into the biggest mistakes people make on dating apps—and how to give yourself a no BS good profile. Are you concealing too much or overselling yourself? We break down why finding the right balance is key. Plus, we discuss how many people forget their “target market” (spoiler: it’s the opposite sex, not your friend or your mom) and why crafting a profile that actually appeals to potential matches is a game-changer. Finally, we explore the power of authenticity—because nothing beats being confident in the real you. Tune in for quick, practical tips to upgrade your profile and start making better matches! /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/35712600

Marrying a Trophy Wife w/ The Patriot Barbie 03/07/2025

Marrying a Trophy Wife w/ The Patriot Barbie On this episode, Brittanie sits down with Lindsey, the Patriot Barbie for a no-nonsense chat about love, liberty, and second chances. They dive into why premarital counseling is the ultimate relationship check-in, how picking a woman of character over a pretty face saves you from a lifetime of regret, and the surprising redemption divorce can offer when the man who "checks all the boxes" flops. It’s a based take on dating and building a marriage that lasts—without the rose-colored glasses. Get yourself a real trophy wife after you listen to this new episode. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/35579920

That Based Fiancé 02/21/2025

That Based Fiancé As a break from dating content, our host Brittanie, sits down with her fiancé Chris to spill all the details on how they first met. From the first spark (that took time to get) to the moment they knew it was real, they’re giving you the unfiltered story—complete with laughs, surprises, and maybe even a little bit of fate. Was it love at first sight, or did it take some convincing after the failed first kiss? Tune in to hear how their journey started and why they’re now engaged! /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/35382600

So you’re in the “friend-zone” huh? 02/07/2025

So you’re in the “friend-zone” huh? Welcome back to the podcast that breaks down the harsh truths about modern dating from a no-nonsense, based perspective. If you've ever found yourself stuck as the "nice guy" while she chases after someone else, this is the show for you. We dive deep into why men (and rarely women too!) end up in the friend zone, the mistakes they make, and how to escape it by embracing confidence, masculinity, and reality. No sugarcoating, no simping, no women hating just raw, unfiltered advice to help you level up your mindset and take control of your dating life. Tune in and break free from the friend zone for good. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/35198825

That Based Dating Hot Takes 01/31/2025

That Based Dating Hot Takes In this explosive episode, we dive deep into the world of Britt's spicy dating beliefs, breaking down the harsh truths, uncomfortable realities, and controversial hot takes shaping modern relationships. Are traditional gender roles making a comeback? Is dating truly a rigged game? And is the red pill mindset the key to "winning the game". Join us as we challenge mainstream narratives, debate the toughest dating dilemmas, and uncover what advice isn't being given in the world of dating pods. Tune in every Friday for the spiciest takes on dating! /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/35102080

11 RFK Jr gives a speech + we forget about Harris and Trump giving theirs 08/29/2024

11 RFK Jr gives a speech + we forget about Harris and Trump giving theirs Today's show provides a recap of the leading candidates in the upcoming election, including independent RFK Je. We are highlighting their speeches and latest campaign developments, focusing on the significant news of Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s recent endorsement. We examine how it could shift the dynamics of the race and, we'll explore the renewed focus on children's health within Donald Trump's campaign. We question what this pivot means for his strategy and how it might influence voter perceptions. Will Trump keep his promises to Rfk Jr. or is it more political theater? Join us as we unpack these critical updates and their potential impact on the election landscape. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32795917

10 Walz This Way, Unburdened by Bears That Have Been + Evolving Masculinity 08/09/2024

10 Walz This Way, Unburdened by Bears That Have Been + Evolving Masculinity On today's podcast, Chris and Brittanie deep dive into a variety of timely current event topics. The episode begins with a quick analysis of Kamala Harris’s vice-presidential pick, Tim Walz (who they've never heard mentioned before this week) and exploring the political impact on the current campaign. The discussion then takes a turn towards the bizarre as the hosts recount the events surrounding the RFK dead bear incident, and what type of character assassinations will continue to befall the independent and third party guy himself as the election looms. Finally, the podcast tackles the complex and evolving concept of modern masculinity, examining how traditional gender roles are being redefined in today’s society by sports, schools, and pop culture. Watch Brittanie's appearance on Luke's podcast here https://rumble.com/v59u11o-dow-crashes-1k-points-economy-unburdened-by-what-has-been.html /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32516972

09 Biden’s probably dead + Secret Service Conspiracies 07/23/2024

09 Biden’s probably dead + Secret Service Conspiracies On this episode, Chris offers a bold prediction about President Biden's untimely departure from this world - even though the powers that be seem to be concealing some bomb shell information on that front. He and Brittanie discuss a recent secret service gaffe that has everyone talking about the potential for government inadequacy and the potential attempted assassination being an inside job. Join them as they dissect the current political landscape, from behind-the-scenes drama of Trump winning the first election to the public spectacle in blue cities and beyond. Tune in for insightful analysis, surprising revelations, and a healthy dose of humor as they navigate the ever-entertaining political circus at hand. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32258112

08 The Anti War Deep Dive + Chris’ Crush on Tulsi 07/19/2024

08 The Anti War Deep Dive + Chris’ Crush on Tulsi In this episode, we dive into Chris and Brittanie’s evolving feelings about war and how their experiences led them to become passionate anti-war voices. Through their stories, we’ll see how real-life events can change beliefs and perspectives. Whether They chat about history, peace movements, the Gulf War and the "War on Terror" and their personal transformations on the topic. They also touch on the RNC and Trump's growing support from liberty minded folks, despite some of his less ideal views. There are some beetlejuice references, a Tulsi Gabbard hot take (literally) and some anecdotes about veterans affairs and veteran treatment post service. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32215522

07 Trump got Shot + Navigating Modern Dating 07/14/2024

07 Trump got Shot + Navigating Modern Dating In our latest episode, we tackle the shocking news of Donald Trump being shot. We share our immediate reactions and those we we’ve seen from political leaders, media outlets, and the general public. Transitioning from the heavy topic of political violence, we shift gears to a more personal and noteworthy subject: modern dating woes. In today's fast-paced world, finding genuine connections can be challenging. We discuss the complexities of dating in the digital age- we go from navigating dating apps to dealing with male perceptions of female dating experiences. Our conversation highlights the frustrations and humorous moments that often accompany the search for love, offering relatable anecdotes and practical advice for those feeling disheartened by the modern dating scene. Finally, we explore the journey of finding a life partner and the quest to build a lasting relationship. Drawing from personal experiences and expert insights, we discuss the qualities to look for in a potential spouse, the importance of compatibility, and the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or in a committed relationship, this segment aims to provide valuable perspectives and encouragement for anyone seeking to find and keep their perfect match in today's complex world. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32128577

06 Biden's Declining Health: The State of the Presidential Nomination 07/07/2024

06 Biden's Declining Health: The State of the Presidential Nomination Biden's Declining Health: The State of the Presidential Nomination On this episode, we get into the recent medical emergency surrounding President Joe Biden. With mounting concerns about his health and questions about his cognitive state, and let's be honest - there's no more questions as to if he's capable of serving another four years- so we explore the implications for his fellow members of the Democratic Party. Join us as we examine the potential contenders within the Democratic ranks who could step in if Biden is unable (and he clearly is) to continue his term. From Vice President Kamala Harris to other key figures, we analyze the clown show that is the democratic front runners. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/32040657

05 Debate Breakdown (including RFK Jr!) 07/01/2024

05 Debate Breakdown (including RFK Jr!) New Season!! Episode 2 – Breaking Down the Debate In this episode, Chris and Brittanie get into the latest presidential debate, dissecting key moments, senile performances, and not-so-surprising frustrations. They also spotlight independent candidate Robert F. Kennedy Jr., exploring why he's becoming a favorite among voters seeking alternatives to the two-party system. Tune in for insightful analysis and fresh perspectives on the 2024 election landscape on this episode and beyond. /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/31964097

04 The Covid Regime + Chris Joins the Pod! 06/21/2024

04 The Covid Regime + Chris Joins the Pod! Help me welcome my favorite man and most of all my beloved Chris to the podcast! We get to hear about his candid account of Covid on this episode plus we explore the emotional and psychological impacts of facing a "global pandemic" in isolation, miles away from family and friends after a break up. Chris shares the highs and lows of his journey — from the initial shock of Denver's lockdowns to the daily experience of maintaining mental health without the support of close physical connections. We talk about the small victories, especially where he learned about the vaccine being a bad choice - and how he wishes he could go table whip the pharmacies Jesus style knowing what he knows now about the "medicine". Review the pod wherever you listen to them - especially if it's a 5 star review! Send any questions comments or rants in via email /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/31838062

03 Masculinity with Peter and John Pt 1 01/30/2024

03 Masculinity with Peter and John Pt 1 On this episode we deep dive into what it means to be a masculine man and how that has changes in the past few decades -- and how it differs between the United States and abroad. Check out Peter's Podcast Find him on IG Peter_Feliciano /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/29722708

02 Trans Agenda 01/25/2024

02 Trans Agenda /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/29651478

01 Dating Woes 01/13/2024

01 Dating Woes Join us on the topic of dating, male female relationships, and health masculine and feminine living! /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/29471328

044 Safisfizers and Maximizers 09/01/2023

044 Safisfizers and Maximizers Often in life, we are challenged to avoid making mistakes, to not own up to our mistakes if we make them, and certainly we lean on our reputation for forgiveness in the unavoidable wake of being mistaken. It seems like the crushing weight of not choosing the right partner, early on, weighs heavy on many of us. On today’s show, I suggest letting go of the fear that you are unworthy of the love that you long for. I believe that everyone is a personal magnet for the love they deserve. Sometimes we get the love that we deserve, and it forces us to become better people. I have been made better by the men who have let me down, rejected me, and lead me astray on my journey. I have been refined to a higher purpose, and I am no longer in fear of my shadow self. Since I am finally able to see my dark side, I can avoid being a maximizer- always looking for the next best option. Share your thoughts with me on IG @dailydoseofbpod or Brittanie Jay on Facebook /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27912684

043 Masculinity Overload 08/07/2023

043 Masculinity Overload Relationship dynamics in the 21st-century are difficult to navigate. While fragile and soy-fed men and women continue to fill up the dating pool until it reeks of toxic waste, many humans are still trying to sort through what to expect from their counterparts. On today's show I talk about the disparity between supply and demand of masculine ability. So many women find themselves working hard and pursuing excellence- which makes them uninteresting to the high performing masculine who seek nearly pure feminine traits. Will men breach this gap emotionally so they can be evenly yolked or will women move out of the workforce? Are single mothers who can still bear children really the worst choice for traditional men? It's always complicated. Tell me your thoughts! IG @dailydoseofb Facebook @brittanie jay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27680082

042 Barbie in Review 07/24/2023

042 Barbie in Review On today's show I address the plotless dystopian movie Barbie that I unfortunately paid to see. While assuming the film would be a nostalgic and probably left leaning film about pink and feminism- I was quickly surprised to find no plot line and a lot of misandrist mocking of men and traditionalist world views. While the expectation that this movie would be conservative is laughable, I expected at least a veiled pursual of extreme anti-male propaganda which ended up being the forefront plot. While the males in the movie were sad, pathetic losers- Barbie and the two supporting female leads have to fix the world by restoring women to the top. ⠀ This movie was a waste of two hours and fifteen dollars - should have just watched feminist twitter for two hours instead. Did you choose to see it? What were your thoughts? Share on IG (@dailydoseofbpod) or FB (@brittanie jay) /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27553185

041 Almost Christian 07/10/2023

041 Almost Christian On today's show, I discuss my history growing up in a Baptist church, and how that molded my religious views. While my intellectual knowledge of Christian theology is not some thing I happily ditch, I also can't claim to be someone who wants to label "Christian". I have developed virtue, not by knowing about a guy who died and rose again- but by realizing the deeper, richer meaning of Christ- and how we must all take up our cross and find responsibility in our lives by chasing meaning and truth. Enjoy the listen! Tell me what you think @dailydoseofbpod on instagram @brittanie jay on Facebook /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27425400

040 Rejection is Redirection 06/29/2023

040 Rejection is Redirection On today's show I explain my feelings around "losing" relationships and how it has always looked like providence in hindsight. Like many of us, I have felt the incredible stress that comes with feeling rejected - that deep abandonment wound that pops back up from childhood or losing a partner that had a deep meaning. While it can be difficult to get through losing someone in business, in friendships, or even intimate partners- esp when it triggers you- life will unfold and show you why you always deserved better. Tell me if you have experienced this beautiful redirection in your life! @dailydoseofbpod on IG @brittaniejay on FB /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27328710

039 Thief of Joy 06/16/2023

039 Thief of Joy On today's show, I explore how comparison, even to our hopes and dreams or fears can steal the joy of being. Whether it's being in a relationship with an ideal, instead of the person in front of us, or it's longing to feel like an upgrade from someone's ex - it's easy to get lost in comparison. Why do we settle for black and white thinking? Why do our brains construct things to cheer us up or make us sad? We can stay present and absent of comparison to have the most content joy. That's the real flex. Leave your thoughts on my instagram or Facebook! Follow on IG @dailydoseofbpod or Facebook @brittaniejay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27174906

038 Misogyny 06/13/2023

038 Misogyny On today's show, I confront facts and misinformation surrounding the word misogyny. While this word was once used only to denigrate the worst of opinions held against women - it is now a catch all term that includes an attack on behaviors that just a few decades back were considered highly polite- such as opening a door for a woman. I am no stranger to the horrific "manosphere" logic that degrades single mothers, sexual liberation, access to birth control and many other modern scernarios - but I think if we take a deeper look we will find most people are just seeking to cope with desperate situations. Empathy is the way we can curb misogyny and not further shaming men for vaguely distateful behavior. Have you seen real misogyny in your life as a woman? Has a woman ever mislabeled you as a misogynist? Chat with me on IG @dailydoseofbpod or @brittaniejay on Facebook /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27135003

037 Gold Digger, The Misnomer 06/08/2023

037 Gold Digger, The Misnomer I'm going straight for the jugular on today's show - while I look at the term "gold digger" and where it gets a basis. Are beautiful women really looking for a luxurious lifestyle? While many men look at the highest status guys and think they are attracting "gold diggers" (and that may be the case irregularly), they fail to recognize the deepest of truths about evolutionary biology. The hard truth is that women were not designed to hunt and provide. Our genetic make up, build, and muscularity leave much to be desired on that front. While we know the world is full of predators, on a subconscious level, we look for a man who can fend them off. These men have the discipline and skills to keep us SAFE - money is simply a biproduct. Sometimes money is used to confuse women into thinking a man is high status (and ambitious) when he is truly peacocking - in many instances a man who show dominance in his domain is paid in status. Women want to move that status closer to protect future offspring - and there's nothing gold digging about a mama bear! Are you convinced? Have any feedback? As always, I love to hear your thoughts. IG @dailydoseofbpod FB @brittaniejay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27086040

036 V is for Voluntary 06/07/2023

036 V is for Voluntary I've finally made a political episode- vaguely! Ha! On today's show, I explain the evolution of my beliefs. While I started as a very conservative Republican, I found my way to all out communism for a couple weeks, and then the rubber band went back to normal, and I found liberty amongst the rubble. Have you undergone a political change in your life? Have your politic shifted since you were a young adult? Do you share your parents political ideology? I love to hear your feedback as always. IG- @dailydoseofbpod FB - Brittanie Jay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27076986

035 Self Medicating 06/01/2023

035 Self Medicating On this episode, I chat about my feelings around self medicating -- a vague but necessary subject. Each of us knows what our unhealthiest self turns to and it becomes bad for us when we confuse the self medicating to be self serving. Regardless if it's porn, alcohol, cigarettes, cannabis, social media or something more nefarious like pharmaceuticals -- we have to be mindful of treating ourselves for wounds that we find inside. Our closest friends and allies should be leaned on when it comes to checking in on ourselves. From our view- whether we have a healthy outlet for our experiences or are are using a substance to cope - we often can't always see this truth for ourselves. Do you find yourself self medicating on occasion? Chat with me @dailydoseofbpod Facebook @brittaniejay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/27017661

034 Skeptical Government Skeptic 05/29/2023

034 Skeptical Government Skeptic Happy Memorial Day - and we've got a doozy of an episode where I unravel my inherent skepticism of even my own world view! While, I've been a proud Anarchist/Voluntaryist for a while, I've run into a lot of folks who seem to miss the importance of respecting individuals and not institutions. That means we have to also respect humans WITHIN institutions who genuinely want what's best for their community (even if it's misguided.) My experience with government workers is that most do want to help, serve, and care for their local folks and the country, but do not realize how counterintuitive their departments can be to the ideals of freedom and self ownership. If we stay skeptical and humanize statists, we can expect the same understanding in return -- and that's something worth celebrating. Find me on IG - @dailydoseofbpod Find me on FB- Brittanie jay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/26982366

033 Female Friendships 05/27/2023

033 Female Friendships Dedicated to my own Best Friend Today's episode is a reminder to all women how important it is to have female friendships. Not only is it more satisfying to live each day full of feminine energy, love, and folks who truly relate to your lived experience -- it is an essential practice to being in balance for other relationships. I am closer to myself than I have ever been, simply, because I have a friend to vent to and be witnessed by! I am more open to a romantic relationship that doesn't feel feminine, because I no longer have the need for a man to fill the role of a best friend for me. I feel that attraction is often lost in relationships when we relegate our partners to solely being our best friends, our teammates, our housemates etc - we can appreciate the specialness of a romantic connection after we have the other things on lock! I'm so thankful that I stopped competing with, stopped tearing down, and stopped ruining my female friendships. Nothing has made my life more satisfying than all of the women I know. Find me on IG - dailydoseofbpod Find me on FB- Brittanie jay /episode/index/show/gcgirls/id/26968470

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