Going Dutch
God’s light lies within each of us waiting to be liberated from the bonds of going it alone. Join Randa Stratton Dutcher in Going Dutch each Thursday as she shares personal experiences and is joined by experts in healing, life coaching and many others. Each episode will share ideas to assist you in building your understanding of relationships with yourselves, a spouse, friends, children, and most importantly God.
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From Heartbreak To Healing With Angus Scott
03/28/2025
From Heartbreak To Healing With Angus Scott
In this episode, the host reconnects with Angus Scott to discuss his journey from financial planning to relatonship coaching after experiencing two divorces. Through deep self-reflection, he uncovered patterns that held him back and discovered powerful tools for transformation. Now, alongside his partner Maya, he helps men and women heal, attract helathy relationships, and create "10 out of 10 Epic Love Stories." Using techniques like Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Hypnosis, and Dr. Gottman's research, they speacialize in identifying "Energetic Leaks" that unknowingly sabotage relationships. Their clients gain clarity, confidence and the tools to build lasting, fulfilling love. Connect with Angus +1 (928)225-9617 FB IG Website
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Rising Above The Storm With Lindsay Taylor -Soul Soldier-
03/20/2025
Rising Above The Storm With Lindsay Taylor -Soul Soldier-
The podcast episode features Linsday Taylor, a licensed therapist and founder of Soul Soldier Speaks, who shares her jouney of turning personal loss into a mission to support those struggling with suicide, addiction and grief. She discusses her work at the Hope Institute, a specialized center for suicide treatments using evidence-based therapies like CAMS and DBT. Lindsay's passion stems from her own experiences with loss, including the passing of her son, and she emphasizes the importance of finding purpose in pain, bringing hope to others in their darkest moments. She also introduces her upcoming book, The Rise of a Soul Soldier, and talks about her new ventures, including a course called The Peaceful Mother and colunteer work in prisons. Lindsay highlihgts the distinction between control and influence in parenting, advocating for love, grace and self-regulation as key factors in supporting children facing mental health struggles. She closes by sharing her belief that healing as individuals and parents has a generational impact, reinforcing her dedication to helping others rise from their struggles. Linsday Taylor is a licensed therapist, speaker, author and podcaster dedicated to transforming pain into purpose. Specializing in grief, suicide prevention, addiction recovery and parent support, she brings over a decade of experience guiding individuals and families through life's toughest battles. After losing her 17-year-old son to fentanyl, Linsday turned her grief into a mission hope. Through her podcast Sould Soldier Speaks, her book, The Rise of a Soul Soldier, and advocacy she empowers others to heal and build the life they desire. A mother of four, she believes healing is a movement- one that starts within and ripples into families and communities. Lindsay reminds every wounded warrior that their life is a miracle bringing love and light to life's battlefield. Together, we rise. Website: Solcial Media: Ig @_soul_soldier Soul Soldier Speaks Podcast on Spotify, apple podcast-and youtube-
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Episode 58- "Your Wingman" with Glenn Lovelace
03/06/2025
Episode 58- "Your Wingman" with Glenn Lovelace
In this Going Dutch podcast episode, Randa Dutcher talks with Glenn Lovelace, a coach helping men navigate business and personal growth. Glenn shares his journey of overcoming financial struggles, a near-fatal accident in 2023, and personal transformation, crediting his wife Amber’s strength. He discusses his coaching philosophy, his business Progress Creates Happiness (PCH) Marketing, and his upcoming book, Heal the Boy, Forge the Man. Glenn emphasizes resilience, faith, and recognizing miracles in life's toughest moments. Glenn is a performance coach for men. He’s had over 3,000 one on one clients since 2008. Married since 2004 and has 7 kids from newish baby to 16 years old. His marriage has challenged him more than anything else, but it has also forged him into the man he’s become. Glenn’s story bounces from failure to failure, much like most men. He found himself in a dark corner 10 + Christmas Eves ago, ready to “be done”. He survived himself. He turned back to the one thing he could control - himself. The gym became an essential part of his daily recipe and in 2017 he won $100,000 transforming. Glenn lives by the daily simple processes that create lasting value and happiness. He preaches “progress creates happiness” and “your goal is my goal”. He currently coaches men for his business and has helped men overcome the mind to create ultimate control over emotions helping men feel it all and still move towards their goal. His unique process looks a lot like the movie “Hitch” except we’re chasing change and goals. His process has been branded as “The Wingman Method”. You can find him in the following places, BUT he’s most available 1 on 1; whether a client or not, he’s all in on helping others reach their goals… Follow Glenn Lovelace - - -
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Growth and Resilence with Jeff Vukobratovich
01/06/2025
Growth and Resilence with Jeff Vukobratovich
In this episode of the Going Dutch podcast, host Randa Stratton-Dutcher interviews Jeff Vukobratovich, a former gym owner turned real estate entrepreneur. Jeff reflects on his journey from building a fitness community through his gyms to transitioning into real estate after feeling burnt out. He emphasizes the importance of balancing personal development, family, and professional aspirations. Jeff shares insights about the value of resilience, cultivating meaningful relationships, and staying committed to routines that support physical and mental well-being. He also discusses his ongoing mission to inspire others through a forthcoming life coaching program, encouraging authenticity and incremental growth in overcoming challenges. Jeff Vukobratovich is a 39-year-old Arizona native born and raised in Gilbert and currently residing in Queen Creek. I'm happily married to my incredible wife, Jessica, and am the proud father of two daughters, aged 4 and 8. For over a decade, I've been deeply involved in the fitness industry, owning two gyms from 2010 to 2022. My passion for fitness coaching eventually intersected with the world of real estate in 2020. In April 2022, I made the strategic decision to sell my gyms and pivot entirely to real estate. Today, along with my two partners, I am on a mission to revolutionize the real estate market. But my interests don't stop there; I am also devoted to personal development, life hacking, and helping others unlock their full potential. Along with balancing my career ambitions, I place a high emphasis on family, aiming to raise two strong, educated women and build the healthiest marriage possible. I'm also in the early stages of developing a life coaching program, with more details to come at the beginning of next year. LINKS: Here is the link to my Blog and Instagram if anyone is interested in reading about my life, my experiences, and what I'm focusing on for myself and others/clients. BLOG: INSTAGRAM:
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Episode 56 My Biz Bestie with Business Coach Nicole Roufs
10/26/2023
Episode 56 My Biz Bestie with Business Coach Nicole Roufs
In Episode 56 of the "Going Dutch" podcast, titled "My Biz Bestie," we delve into Nicole Roufs' incredible journey from brokenness to resiliency. Nicole's transition from an esthetician to a holistic health enthusiast was sparked by witnessing the transformative power of chiropractic and homeopathy on her own child. Her dedication led her to co-own a wellness clinic and become a trusted business coach. In this episode, we explore her path to becoming a God-led coach, helping her clients achieve miraculous business success. From Nicole... Get a sneak peek into our coaching journey with a free 30-minute Connection Call! 🚀 During this virtual session, we'll uncover your vision for your business, identify any obstacles in your way, and even help you clarify your vision if it's still a bit hazy. ❤️ I'll also introduce you to my coaching approach, and together, we'll decide if we're a great match to achieve your goals. 🤝 Let's connect and kickstart your transformation journey! 🌟
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Episode 55-What's In Your Toolbox?
08/25/2023
Episode 55-What's In Your Toolbox?
Join Aaron and me again as we explore a few topics. I apologize for the first time about something. The report on The Shine Bright Retreat, Aaron acknowledges me, and we share how to start your own toolbox. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 54 With Aaron Dutcher: Luck and Universal Laws
07/27/2023
Episode 54 With Aaron Dutcher: Luck and Universal Laws
What started out as no fun shifted into laughter. Join my husband Aaron and I on another podcast as we cover many topics. Consistency and the laws of the universe are like the unbreakable rules that govern everything around us. Picture them as the bossy bosses of the universe, telling everything how to behave. These laws are like invisible threads that hold everything together and make sure everything follows a predictable pattern. From the way planets twirl around stars to the tiniest atoms buzzing around, everything sticks to these rules. Think of it like a giant cosmic dance where everyone knows their moves! Because of these dependable laws, we can make sense of how things work and trust that they'll continue to work that way. So, if you drop an apple today, you can bet it'll fall again tomorrow! Consistency and laws of the universe make the universe an organized and reliable place to live. "Luck is preparation meeting opportunity. if you hadn't been prepared when the opportunity came along you wouldn't have been lucky..put yourself in an environment where the universe can reward you." Aaron Dutcher To learn more about Aaron Dutcher, his business, or relationships... To learn more about Randa, her retreats and coaching...
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Episode 53: Random Randa Thoughts
07/14/2023
Episode 53: Random Randa Thoughts
GOING DUTCH PODCAST EPISODE 53: RANDOM RANDA THOUGHTS God often presents us with small experiences that may seem insignificant at the time. However, these experiences serve as building blocks, teaching us important lessons, connecting us with influential people, and shaping our character. They prepare us for greater accomplishments in the future, revealing the purpose behind each step of our journey. By recognizing and embracing these little experiences, we can fulfill our larger calling with trust in God's guidance. Thoughts on Moses. I started singing in church at 3 years old. Acknowledge those who make a difference. Be aware that you never know when someone is speaking bad or good of you. If someone has offended you, let it go. It’s not “what is wrong with you, it’s “who” is wrong with you?”
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Episode 52: Friendship and Retreats With Dawn Shoenbein
06/29/2023
Episode 52: Friendship and Retreats With Dawn Shoenbein
Be a part of The Our guest on this episode of Going Dutch is Dawn Schoenbein. Dawn is an amazing, accomplished, and kind friend as well as a client. Dawn has little sub-communities all over the world. She may not be in close communication with these people all the time, but whenever they connect again, the bond is strong. What Dawn finds has made all the difference is the experiences they shared while they were in the same place. Going through unique experiences, challenges, or times of growth with another person can create a solid bond that lasts through distance and time. Being honest, real, and present when you are together again helps maintain this. One of Dawn’s greatest strengths is her ability to absorb, understand, and reshare information in a way that’s easy to understand. Her ability to practice non-judgment makes her easy to talk to. When you feel comfortable sharing, it helps build connections between women that feel safe. Dawn has been to all of my retreats. When she first went, she was not in the best place with her relationship with Christ. She wasn’t connecting with Him the way she wanted to. Through the tools she learned, she was able to find and build this connection in a more authentic way. Our connections with God and our savior are also safe spaces and relationships we can build on. You can say anything—there is no judgment from your divine team. When you show up to do the work, they are ready. The time and energy you spend deepening this connection will change your essence in so many amazing ways. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 51: Just Breathe
06/22/2023
Episode 51: Just Breathe
The other day, I had an incredible download about where I want to go, who I want to be, and the results I want to have. This led me to reflect on how that version of me would manage my day. One thought that stood out was this: I need to stay in the cold plunge longer. A cold plunge truly helps me reset. The longer I stay in, the greater the shift I feel. It’s one of my favorite tools to use. It’s a reminder that we all need to find a zone of discomfort and stay in it—whatever that looks like for you. Breathwork is also an effective tool for helping shift your physiology and mindset too. I use breathwork in the cold plunge at the beginning, and then I follow that up with a prayer and a song. But if you think about it, the prayer and singing are unique forms of breathing too. If you feel stuck, breathwork is something that could be impactful for you. Once you’ve tried it, ask yourself: What is the message? Your message may come in words, colors, pictures, or even a smell. That is your message for the day. This is one great way to start your way with intention. You start in creation so that you can start moving towards the goals you want. If you find an obstacle coming up, I can help you with that inside my coaching practice. We can discover the root of what’s going on so you can get unstuck and start living the way you want. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 50: What Makes You Great Part 2
06/15/2023
Episode 50: What Makes You Great Part 2
Today’s episode is part 2 of What Makes You Great. This conversation stemmed from a phrase my grandpa Glen Stratton always said: “Don’t forget how great you is.” This is something that has always stuck with me. At times when you need to tap into your strength, remember that your greatness is something that fulfills you, gives you confidence, and allows you to live up to your talents and gifts. What are you compromising on that’s keeping you from being great? Here’s a personal example: I love having fake nails, but I can’t play the instruments I love to play when I have them, so they are keeping me from my greatness. This is a simple example, but you get the idea. For you, this might be diet and exercise keeping you from being your physical best. Or it could be self-sabotage habits that keep you from your own emotional well-being. It could be a toxic relationship that drains you rather than serves you. What is it that you’re truly great at? What have you said “yes” to that your heart was a “no” for? These insights can help you figure out not only what makes you great, but how to allow yourself to embrace your greatness. Each and every one of us has our own unique gifts and abilities, and embracing this allows us to coexist in a beautiful way. You’re in your light and truth, and so are others. God made us this way. He wants us to be great, and that is worth celebrating. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 49: Suicide Ideation: Mental Health Awareness
06/01/2023
Episode 49: Suicide Ideation: Mental Health Awareness
Welcome back to another episode. This month is mental health awareness month, which is the focus of today’s episode. Trigger warning: This episode discusses suicide and trauma. I’m back in therapy, and in that space, I’ve been exploring shame. I never thought shame was such a culprit in my life until I started doing this work with my friend Joyce. What it’s revealed to me is that shame has been both a hindrance and a blessing in my life—and I’m ready to be done with it. I have used shame as a method of control to be a better mom, better partner, and more. But it’s a lie. I don’t need to shame myself to have control. The shame game is real, but I’m so thankful for the support I’m receiving right now. In high school, I went through major depression and was first confronted with suicidal thoughts. I would often use food as a coping mechanism. I was baking all the time and I felt really lonely. I had relationships, but they were all surface relationships. I never made any attempts, but I often had and expressed the dark thoughts I was having. As time went on, I got married and had kids, and I spent a lot of time just making my family a priority. I spent a lot of time doing, and not a lot of time being. There were some difficult years throughout my fifth pregnancy where those thoughts came up again, but after the birth, I became committed to my healing. You deserve healing too, whatever that looks like for you. Just taking a step in that direction is a big deal. Grounding every day keeps the darkness away. It recalibrates you into power and possibility. The door out of your worst moments is through your gifts and purpose. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 48 "Take a Step" With Jason Mow
05/22/2023
Episode 48 "Take a Step" With Jason Mow
Today we’re joined by special guest Jason Mow, who is the author of four books—three in historical fiction and another as an autobiography. He’s a retired first responder and a very strong person. He is also an incredible speaker who knows how to tell stories that will touch your heart. How can you put yourself out there and feel comfortable with self-promotion? This isn’t something that came naturally to Jason. Early in life, he felt drawn to running toward chaos—which led him to become a soldier and police officer. But when this was taken away from him after being wounded, he had to rediscover who he was. As a result, he began sharing his inspiring story with others. He wanted to reach more people, and the biggest obstacle he had towards promoting himself was simply taking the first step. Just starting is often the most difficult part of the process. For Jason, going on his first date after divorce was scary. Hugging a woman that was not his wife after 20 years was scary, too. Still, he knew that if he wanted to grow, he had to be willing to take that step. This is true in so many aspects of life; any area where you are approaching the unknown. You need to have the will to take that first step and be able to accept whatever consequences come of it. Throughout our lives, we have been telling ourselves what we can’t do. We’ve been training ourselves to fail. We have to reprogram our thoughts and our input so we can override the natural tendency to hold ourselves back. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 47 Where To Next?
05/18/2023
Episode 47 Where To Next?
In this episode, I pose the internal question of "Where to next?". In a moment of not knowing what was coming next, I recorded this vulnerable podcast. Being in business takes time and money. Publishing this podcast, publishing books, websites, etc all cost money! Is it worth it? Do I keep going? Listen in as I work through it in real-time. We don't always have to know what is ten steps ahead. We can plan and have dreams. And sometimes it seems futile. God is there waiting for us to keep striving. He will meet us where we are at. Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 46: Stay In Your Lane with Aaron Dutcher
05/11/2023
Episode 46: Stay In Your Lane with Aaron Dutcher
My husband Aaron Dutcher is back on the podcast again on this episode. We have some things in motion right now, but the path is not clear yet. I am a “gather ideas and then throw them at the wall and see what sticks” person, but I also get analysis paralysis. It's an interesting dichotomy. Still, we are planning on melding some cool ideas together and it’s exciting. A few months ago, we found ourselves busier than we’d been in so long. There were breakdowns on both sides, and as we went through that, we took turns carrying each other. That’s what a good partnership is. I recently expressed where I am in my journey in a particular area to someone. I didn’t feel judgment in sharing what I said, but I felt sadness. It made me realize when you share your growth and the other person isn’t on the same path, it can be difficult for them to honor you. When you are leaning into your vision or goal, you tend to stay in your own lane. It doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing or saying. I’m in my partnership with God, and I can persevere. When you’re up to good things, that’s your focus. A sign you might not be staying in your lane is jealousy. Another is feeling like you need to be busy. It’s not a light and truth experience, and when control and jealousy come up for me, I know I’m not collaborating with God. I have left the building, and it’s time to get back on my path. Join me on Instagram: Join Aaron on Instagram
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Episode 45: Consistency with Hollie Warnick
05/04/2023
Episode 45: Consistency with Hollie Warnick
This time I’m here in the studio with Hollie Warnick, and we decided to take a little time to hit record. Hollie is an author who created a dream journal, a podcaster, and a mom of four. She’s also a fun, playful person who exudes vibrancy. She’s felt free to let that authentic part of herself out more and more over the years. If you haven’t read “Healing Through Broken Relationships” yet, I highly recommend it—and not just because I collaborated on it. These stories are phenomenal. It’s so significant and moving to hear the stories right from the people who experienced them. It really highlights various types of relationships too. Recently I’ve noticed a validity to consistency. Actually, this was highlighted by my husband who noted that I didn’t crash before a recent podcast. When you keep at something, it helps you expand outside what you’re used to. It helps you get out of your own box. Hollie is right in it with me. She also sees the excitement of being on the edge; the precipice of what’s next. When she’s at the Grand Canyon, she gets this sense she wants to jump off and fly (but promises that she always remembers gravity isn’t on her side). There’s a sense that with this expansion comes a proliferating love and joy. It’s gravity versus freedom versus movement. They can all exist at once. What’s most interesting is that when we are expanding into a new space, we don’t even know what’s there yet. I know what I don’t know, but in this transformative space, you can ask to be shown. Connect with Hollie: Join me on Instagram:
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Episode 44: Choose To Risk-With Keira Brinton
04/27/2023
Episode 44: Choose To Risk-With Keira Brinton
Keira Brinton joins as a guest today on this episode of Going Dutch. We had just recorded her chapter in our upcoming book. Keira is a newly divorced mother with five kids and also runs a business. At times, she doubts she will be able to do it all: raise five kids, be present in their lives, and do the work she feels called to do. For her, every day is a day of crazy, ferocious risk. She’s jumping and trusting God will be there. She’s been purposefully making changes that fit the vibration she wants, and has decided to approach life unafraid and demand what she is willing to work for. Making change feels risky, but it’s important to stay in a space where you feel uncomfortable if you want to grow. For Keira, she keeps pushing that edge. The more risk she takes, the more comfortable she gets. She has to keep pushing herself for more. No matter what, you have to follow what you feel called to do. Creations decay in the body, so you have to get them out. What you feel called to do has the capacity to help so many people. Putting parameters and dates on your results will help you realize your goals. Keira has an event coming up called Activate the Creator. Anybody who’s a creator—content creator, podcast host, entrepreneur—can have their magic unlocked at this event. You will also be given space to create while being supported by a breathwork facilitator. It’s going to be very activating and inspiring. Randa has opened up the Shine Bright Momentum Masterimind “SHABOOM”, a four month instensive coaching program. Group and individual coaching and a retreat at the end to seal up all that you’ll learn and celebrate all of your growth! Join me on Instagram: Join Keira on Instagram
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Episode 43: What Makes You Great? Part 1
04/20/2023
Episode 43: What Makes You Great? Part 1
In this episode, I didn't let my day being thwarted stop me from sharing this message. Recorded during my morning cold plunge because it assists me in being great. In the world, compromise is generally considered a good thing. I challenge you to consider the compromises you make. Do they sacrifice your greatness? Watch this episode on YouTube Find me on Instagram Listen to the complete library of the Going Dutch Podcast Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Apple music Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Spotify Listen to Randa’s music on YouTube
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Revitalized Womanhood With Gina Trimmer
11/17/2022
Revitalized Womanhood With Gina Trimmer
My guest today is Gina Trimmer from Revitalized Womanhood. She is going to talk to us about how Revitalized Womanhood began, helping women find their vision, and what it’s like to create a community. Gina’s journey started a long time ago. Even as a young girl, she was creating visions of her future with her friends. Now she realizes the full circle connection between what she does now and her youthful dreams. Family life got in the way for a while, but Gina soon found her purpose in leading this movement for women. The idea came in June, and it was already growing by the end of that month. Her podcast began in August with the official community launching in October. While the growth is exciting, there is also sadness in losing the one-on-one connections a small community has forged. We are all together in this life, and that is what Revitalized Womanhood is based on. A community you can go to and share your life, goals, and dreams without judgment. There is accountability, support, and safety, but there is also reflection and evaluation. Women can do hard things. It is time for the victim mentality to be left behind. Each day, take a tiny bite. Move closer to your goal one piece at a time, and ask yourself if what you are doing is moving you toward your goal. Always check in with yourself. You don’t have to be a put-upon woman. You can follow your passions. You do not have to do every little thing in your home. Teach your kids how to handle things. Level up yourself and those around you. Be you, love you. Connect with Gina: Join me on Instagram:
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Shame Game/Sound Bowl Healing
10/20/2022
Shame Game/Sound Bowl Healing
Today I want to talk about breaking down perceptions and telling the future. You can’t possibly know what the outcome of something will be, so don’t fall into that trap. You have the ability to change the end result. Life isn’t a foregone conclusion. In life, you have an almost certain future. It means that you are stuck in a self-fulfilling prophecy if you always think you know what will happen based on the past. You create the experiences over and over. Recently I had a breakdown, believing I knew how something was going to go. I retreated into the darkness and stopped using the tools I know to work for me. I went down the rabbit hole of why. Why am I doing this? Why am I here? I took some time to work on myself. Was this feeling purely emotional? Was it a self-fulfilling prophecy? Was it something physical? In truth, it was everything. I tried some supplements that helped to pull me out of the blackest depths. I went on a girls’ weekend to the Unstoppable Biz Conference. I was still in the midst of the darkness, but I realized that there is a part of me that doesn’t know how to communicate my needs. Instead, I hid in shame, dishonesty, and fear. Continuing to live in that space is contradictory to everything I believe. I believe in God, the Heavenly Mother, and Christ. I believe in atonement. I am here today to ask you, is there something you are holding on to? Let it go. There is nothing you can do to change the past. At the end of this episode, I share my morning song using my sound bowl. I hope it will bring you rest and peace as you listen. Join me on Instagram: Find all links (podcast, website, YouTube channel, music and more) here:
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Victory Recovery
10/13/2022
Victory Recovery
Today I am joined by my husband Aaron and also Brock Bevell from Victory Recovery. Together, we’ll discuss Brocks’ mission and recovery from addiction and how it has deepened his relationship with God. Brock was a police officer before being injured in the line of duty. That was the real turning point for him, as it fuelled his addiction and opioids began to run his life. Ten years later, Brock has been through detox and is now using his experiences to help others by running treatment centers. He is now running a counseling center with a fellow former addict. Following his experiences, his relationship with God has deepened. The renewed personal connection with God is what fuels him to this day. At the heart of our relationship with God is that He wants us to rely on Him. No matter the trials and suffering, He wants our hearts and our trust. Aaron shares his experience of self-medicating with alcohol and explains how it helped him find a deeper relationship with Christ. Instead of hiding away, Aaron now shares his struggles with others to help them in a similar way to Brock. Brock believes deeply in authenticity and only started to heal when he shared his story. Remember that we are only as sick as our secrets. Deceit and lies were a part of Brock’s life for a long time. From pornography addiction to his opioid addiction, lies were what fed the habits. Bringing it out into the open was what took away its power. It may not be a message everyone wants to hear, but to heal you need to preach it. You can find Brock here And here Watch this episode on YouTube Join me on Instagram:
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Unstoppable With Jennifer Neilson
08/11/2022
Unstoppable With Jennifer Neilson
My amazing friend and colleague Jennifer Nielson is on the show today. Jennifer travels the world doing wonderful things for women, helping them to heal. Starting her journey couldn’t begin until she had found her healing. She was looking for peace and clarity in her own life and also had an interest in social psychology. Now, Jennifer has a degree in psychology, healing, and energy work. Using her experiences, she is working to help other women find their peace while always working on herself. Healing is a daily practice. Jennifer is a person that goes full steam ahead into whatever she says yes to. For those that have trouble getting started on their journey, Jennifer explains that you have to understand the cost of success and do the work. There’s no free lunch. As a survivor of abuse, Jennifer has spent her life being resolute and working towards what is right. Life is about choices, and once she knows what needs to be done, even if it’s uncomfortable, she heads towards it. Embracing the discomfort and pushing through is the only way to move toward growth. No one has a perfect upbringing, and we aren’t responsible for the programming we receive as children. We are responsible for our adult selves and deconstructing who we were and who we want to be. As an energy healer and coach, Jennifer not only does one-on-one work with clients, but also runs retreats with the goal of giving women the tools they need to be emotionally independent and resilient. If we aren’t taught how to heal ourselves, we will always be dependent on others. Connect with Jennifer: Join me on Instagram:
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More On Connection
07/14/2022
More On Connection
GOING DUTCH PODCAST EPISODE 38: More On Connection I’m coming to you on an imperfect morning to be real and vulnerable from a space I love to sit in when I’m at my Dad’s in the summer. First, I really want to share all of the beautiful things I see, hear, and feel: the sound of tractors and crickets to the smell of alfalfa. The smells and sounds from the horses and cattle from a couple of fields away. It feels so good in my soul. The last few days have been a struggle. As I’ve been promoting the upcoming Connection is the Cure event for mental health awareness and suicide, a lot of darkness has come up for me. This conversation is important, and I thought perhaps my struggle might be similar to your struggle. Last night felt like a culmination of this stress as I created an argument with my husband. Relationships need work and care. They require thought, intention, and showing up to assist your partner in being the best they can be. When I shut down, our connection is muted and paused. When I am connected to the divine and to God, I’m more deeply connected to my husband. When I do activities I love, follow my purpose, and ride horses, my relationships are better. When we connect to our heart, that is the cure. It’s vital to the health of our souls. Friendly reminder you’re still invited to the free Connection is the Cure event in Mesa. Being involved in work that assists other people has the power to pull us all through a lot. I also welcome you to reach out if you’re interested in a coaching session, healing session, or if you’d like to be a co-author on our upcoming book. Join me on Instagram:
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Connection Is The Cure
07/07/2022
Connection Is The Cure
GOING DUTCH PODCAST EPISODE 37: Connection Is The Cure With September Frogley, Founder. She's a woman who rose from the ashes of brokenness to share something magical with the world. September is the oldest of three siblings. Her middle brother, an amazing light in this world, faced a lot of darkness in his life. He dealt with anxiety, depression, and turned to addiction to drugs and alcohol. In the last year of his life, the drugs induced a state of schizophrenia that would not leave him, even in sobriety. In May 2021, her brother committed suicide. Her family struggled greatly with this loss. Following this tragic event, September felt compelled to tell his story to help relieve suffering in the world. This led to her family creating Connection is the Cure, a space where mental health, addiction, and suicide are all open for discussion. When someone is deep into addiction, that addiction becomes the most important thing in their life. On the outside, it’s so easy to say “just stop”, but there needs to be consideration for the fact that their brain has changed. It’s not as easy to come out of addiction as you might think. At the core of resolving these issues is prevention—for both addiction and suicide. You can learn more and join the cause at September’s upcoming event in Mesa, AZ with Brock Bevell and Ben Fuller. It’s a totally free event. You can also support Connection is the Cure by following them on social and sharing their posts to get the word out. If you feel like all is lost, just keep putting one foot in front of the other. There is hope. Join me on Instagram: Learn more about Connection is the Cure:
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The National Anthem, A Spiritual Experience.
06/30/2022
The National Anthem, A Spiritual Experience.
GOING DUTCH PODCAST EPISODE 36: The National Anthem, A Spiritual Experience. OH SAY CAN YOU SEE? This question coupled with music is the first line that grabs your attention in The National Anthem. Can you picture it? Francis Scott Key, watching from a ship. He's asking you to envision the picture he's about to paint of his experience on September 13/14, 1814, in The Chesapeake Bay in Maryland. The National Anthem is truly my favorite song. Originally a poem, written after a difficult experience the writer, Francis Scott Key, endured. Before I sing the national anthem, I always take a moment to pray that as I sing every word, those in the audience will feel the experience of Francis Scott Key. I hope to remind the audience what a great place America truly is. My Fourth of July tradition of singing The National Anthem, attending rodeo, talking about freedom, and discussing our ancestors are close to my heart. As you listen to this episode, I've added my rendition of this song to the end. It is my hope that wherever you are on Independence Day, you'll stop and take a moment to listen to this song. Have gratitude in your heart and focus on the blessings of Freedom and the message of hope that even after a great battle, GREAT things still stand! The Flag was still there. Let it wave o'er the land of the FREE And the home of the BRAVE Join me on Instagram: . Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Apple music Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Spotify Listen to Randa’s music on YouTube website
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Angels and Grandkids with Amy Hill
06/08/2022
Angels and Grandkids with Amy Hill
Today I am joined by Amy Hill, my good friend who is the embodiment of a warm hug. Amy lives in Colorado. Amy is here with me to talk about her spiritual journey and her upcoming book “Angels Speak”. Amy started a journey 6 years ago when she tapped into Muscle Testing Academy. For a year, she had felt the pull, but the logistics of it were keeping her away. After reading “The Answer to How is Yes,” she took the plunge and realized it was where she was supposed to be. Since then, Amy has begun doing energy work and muscle testing for people and, with the pandemic, she has been able to do her work over zoom. The puzzle pieces continue to fall into place as Amy walks her spiritual journey. God gives us enough to handle. It’s hard sometimes not to fall into resistance to change and growth. Now, Amy has a book, titled “The Littles,” coming out that shares the message of angels. She was inspired by her grandchildren and the message she wanted to give and guide them. The book incorporates all the little things you do and how angels can be there to support and lift you in times of need. All her grandchildren have also become involved by creating art and illustrations for the book. For parents and grandparents out there, Amy wants you to let your grandchildren and children know that you are real. Keep a connection alive and get creative with how you connect. Technology allows us to get creative. For listeners, Amy is offering a free 15-minute energy healing session over zoom. Message her directly for this freebie. Email: Instagram: Join me on Instagram:
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Can I be God's Racehorse?
06/02/2022
Can I be God's Racehorse?
Today, I’m talking about the Kentucky Derby and what the experience led me to reflect upon. It took place just a month before recording this episode and it was amazing. I watched it over and over again, and it made me think about coming in last. Not just on the track, but in life. This gave me pause as I reflected on when I feel alone, and how God has shown me that I am never alone nor beyond hope. The last-seeded horse, “Rich Strike” and jockey, “Sonny Leon”, won the derby this year. Every time he passed another team, it seemed like he would get stuck, but he never did. Every small opportunity was seized by this team, and they beat the odds 80:1. I wonder, if he had been seeded first, would the result have been the same? During the times in my life when I have been beaten down and said yes anyway, God has given me the guts and gumption to try that much harder, trusting I will keep going for as long as the race is. God puts me in the perfect position to make a difference in this race, giving me everything I need to cross the finish line. You don’t have to be in the race all the time, but when you are, you have to allow God to take the reins. He will move us through whatever opportunity we’ve been given. He has us at every turn, through all of the weather, and through all the breakdowns. His miracles will come. Say yes and give the reins up. Together, you will create joy, peace, happiness, and things will move in your life. Join me on Instagram: Be a Co-Author in the “Healing through Broken Relationships” book Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Apple music Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Spotify Listen to Randa’s music on YouTube Randa’s Website
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Fallen out of love? With Guest Aaron Dutcher
05/25/2022
Fallen out of love? With Guest Aaron Dutcher
In this episode, I’m joined by my favorite guest, my husband, to talk about the ups and downs of our relationship. Since we’ve been married and remarried, we have a few anniversaries around the holidays. We choose to celebrate each year in May, which is the anniversary of our first kiss. We were just teens when we met at a graduation party, and now we’ve officially been kissing for 27 years. We’ve taken the 27 years of gained experience, knowledge, and time taken figuring it out together and poured it into our book. When we talk to people about what has worked in our relationship or are offering advice, what stands out is that people really want hope. A little hope goes a long way. There was so much we didn’t yet understand during our first marriage. The second time around, we’ve been able to put together what support means to each of us. What it really boils down to is understanding the unique needs of your partner and communicating about them openly. The idea of falling out of love needs to be reframed. Even in difficult times, the depth of love may lessen, but you can never really fall out of it. This is especially true when you’ve had kids together. If you feel like you’re falling out of love, what you might actually be missing is a connection to The Divine. This can be an anchor to facilitate a greater connection to your partner. A relationship is a living, breathing organism, and it takes effort to maintain. Acknowledging where you may have more masculine or feminine energy, no matter what your role in the partnership is, can also help you navigate your differences. It’s not about being perfect. You will squabble, but you can learn to figure it out. Join us on Instagram: Be a Co-Author in the “Healing through Broken Relationships” book Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Apple music Listen to Randa’s EP “DUTCH7 Lullabies” on Spotify Listen to Randa’s music on YouTube Randa’s Website
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Everything Is For You With Dana Parker
05/19/2022
Everything Is For You With Dana Parker
Dana Parker is an intuitive life coach who has a true gift with words, as you’ll hear in this episode. She is certified in hypnotherapy, sound healing, and energy healing. She’s passionate about gaining the tools needed for her own healing journey and has been teaching personal development for over a decade, elevating the level of feminine voices everywhere she goes. We discuss how the way we speak to ourselves matters. I’ve often described myself as “little Randa,” and while this might be true for my physical self, these words do not describe all I am capable of in this world. It’s okay to take up space; to be big and be bold. Women share a common experience of judging their bodies, regardless of what they look like. It’s important to address and challenge the unhelpful thoughts we have about our bodies. Dana does not believe body love means loving your body every day. It’s simply acknowledging the difference between truth and stories. Loving your body is a choice, and it takes work. It’s about embracing all your body does for you, even in small ways. We all go through times of struggle, and Dana shares tips on getting through it in a healthy way. Allowing yourself to just be, even for a few minutes, can help you navigate a difficult transition. Moms tend to struggle taking alone time, but alone time is vital to showing up as the mom you want to be. All emotions are acceptable, and what you do with them matters. As a woman, you don’t have to hold in your anger or not say how you feel. Being accountable for your emotions and working through them in the moment will improve your relationships with the people you love the most. Meeting yourself with self-compassion will have a positive ripple effect in your life. Join Dana Apply to be an Author in The Healing Through Broken Relationships Book Join me on Instagram:
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Self Healing, Heals Your World
05/12/2022
Self Healing, Heals Your World
Do you invite the divine to bring light and life to your life and purpose? I’m so excited to share that I’ve finished my children’s book, and I’m more than halfway through writing my book about love and marriage. Also, I have an upcoming mastermind, called Shine Bright. This masterclass is about reigniting the light within you that has hidden your gifts or made your purpose feel impossible. It runs from June 1-August 31, 2022. This will be a small group so DM me ASAP to see if this is a fit for you! I’m doing this mastermind because when I woke up to my gifts during my divorce, it afforded me the time and space to weed out my fears, hone in on my gifts, and heal. When we as women say yes to our gifts, our relationships and our families heal. Recently, in a space of healing, I saw my heavenly mother. If you’re thinking it’s weird, maybe it is. But before you judge me, hear me out. I saw her as a sacred spider in a divine web, tapping different paths and activating creations—bringing light and divinity to these creations. Spiders are patient. They don’t pursue prey or scavenge. All that they need is brought to them. In the web of life, we can allow the divine to activate our creations in a way that helps us bring them to the world. How can you lead a legacy, and what is your legacy? I asked God these same questions, and the message I received was to start by supporting the next generation in realizing their dreams. I’ve been shown, one step after another, how the bigger picture becomes clearer. Slowly, we learn we’re being prepared for bigger and better things, with God as our collaborator and partner. It would be short-sighted to not invite God, our divine mother, and our angels, into everything we do if we want to make a big impact. Message me to apply for The Shine Bright Mastermind beginning June 1. Join me on Instagram:
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