The New Rules Podcast

We have one goal: to unlock authenticity. We believe it's the key to human flourishing. In The New Rules Podcast, Adrian Crawford and Bri Clark teach you how to challenge the status quo and embrace the gray zone. Here, critical thinking is inspired and encouraged as we discover the New Rules needed when navigating our rapidly changing cultural moment. Let's Write New Rules.

E94: Why You Need Doubt to Succeed 08/20/2025

E93: From Overstimulation to Wisdom: The Lost Art of Thinking 08/13/2025

E92: When Your Calling Affects Your Kids: A Conversation With My Daughters 08/06/2025

E91: Radical Honesty in a World Obsessed with Performance 07/16/2025

E90: Lessons We Wish We Knew Earlier with Tyler Burns & Du’Bois A’Keen 07/09/2025

E89: Solving Problems Is the New Creativity 07/02/2025

E88: Glass House Leadership in a Divided America 06/18/2025

E87: You Don’t Need to Be Loud to Lead 06/11/2025

E86: The Rules Are Changing: AI, Calling & Leadership 06/04/2025

E85: Leadership on the Line: Marty Linsky on the New Rules Podcast 05/21/2025

E84: This Era Demands Different Leaders. Are You One? 05/14/2025

E83: Building Weight in a Shallow World 05/07/2025

E82: Pressure, Panic & Precision: Why Great Leaders Are Fast & Clear 04/16/2025

E81: Find the Yes – NIL & Navigating Change When the Rules Keep Shifting 04/09/2025

E81: Find the Yes – NIL & Navigating Change When the Rules Keep Shifting In a world filled with uncertainty, leadership isn't about waiting for clarity—it's about finding the next “yes” in the midst of chaos. In this episode, Adrian and Bri dive into the challenge of building something meaningful when the rules keep changing. From NIL and the transfer portal in college athletics to launching new ventures in economic downturns, they explore what it means to lead, risk, and stay grounded in purpose—even when nothing feels stable. You’ll hear: - How to lead authentically when systems feel unfair or inconsistent - Why fear and apathy are the biggest threats in uncertain times - What “finding the yes” looks like in real-life decision-making - Lessons from launching businesses in economic downturns - How to develop the resilience to keep going when you're exhausted Reflection Questions: What’s one area of your life where you’re waiting for clarity before moving forward? Where are you blaming external systems instead of asking “What can I do?” What’s one risk you've been avoiding that could lead to real growth? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/36057770

E80: Building a Life That Holds the Weight of Your Calling 04/02/2025

E80: Building a Life That Holds the Weight of Your Calling What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t because of your vision—but because of your systems? In this episode we break down the hidden wiring of your life—the internal frameworks that either sustain your growth or sabotage it. This isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about building smarter. Adrian and Bri unpack: The reason vision alone will burn you out The daily decisions that quietly shape your future Why outdated internal systems are holding people back How to rebuild your rhythms to actually support your calling They walk through 4 core systems every leader needs: ✅ Behavioral Systems – The habits that support your direction ✅ Self-Awareness Mechanisms – Internal sensors that keep you grounded ✅ Adaptability & Flexibility – Structures that bend with transition, not break ✅ Purpose Alignment – A compass that ensures your systems lead somewhere meaningful If you’ve ever felt like your life is outpacing your infrastructure, this one’s for you. Reflection Questions What part of your daily routine needs an upgrade to match your goals? Where are you being rigid instead of adaptable? Are your current habits truly aligned with your long-term calling? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35961340

E79: Our Story is Proof That Delays Aren’t Denials || New Rules Podcast 03/19/2025

E79: Our Story is Proof That Delays Aren’t Denials || New Rules Podcast What if the delay isn’t a denial—but part of your preparation? We all hit moments where it feels like nothing is happening—where all the work, effort, and faithfulness seem invisible. But what if what you’re building is bigger than your timeline? 🎙️ In Episode 79, we dive into: ✅ How to know if you're in a delay or a dead end ✅ Why internal growth often comes before external results ✅ The challenge of building in the dark when no one is watching ✅ How to shift from frustration to focus on long-term impact ✅ Why movements don’t start with crowds—they start with consistency If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode is for you. 🔗 Watch now & stay the course. Your future is waiting. 📢 Reflection Questions: Where in your life are you struggling with delays? Are you focusing too much on external results while missing internal growth? What’s one thing you can commit to consistently, even when no one is watching? Check out Trillion Dollar Coach: The Leadership Playbook of Silicon Valley's Bill Campbell: 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35766590

E78: Want More From Life? It’s Time to Grow Up 03/12/2025

E77: AI Boyfriends & Purpose: What Are We Actually Searching For? 03/05/2025

E77: AI Boyfriends & Purpose: What Are We Actually Searching For? 🔥 What if your greatest purpose is hiding in your deepest pain? Most people think of purpose as something they find—but what if it’s something you uncover? The journey to discovering purpose requires digging into pain, facing uncomfortable truths, and breaking patterns that have shaped your life. In this episode, we’re diving deep into: ✅ Why avoiding pain keeps you from discovering purpose ✅ How past struggles shape your future calling ✅ The role of “getting to the basement” in personal growth ✅ Why most people chase success but still feel empty ✅ How to identify the “silent assassins” of purpose in your life 🚀 If you’ve ever felt lost, directionless, or like something is missing—this conversation is for you. 📌 Reflection Questions: What’s one painful experience that has shaped who you are today? Have you been avoiding discomfort instead of facing it? What does success mean to you—and is it actually fulfilling? Want to check out Mask Off: Unlocking Authenticity In An Age Of Imposters? Click the link below! Interested in listening to the The Daily episode we referenced? Click the link below! 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules #NewRulesPodcast #FindYourPurpose #PainAndPurpose #SelfDiscovery #UnlockYourPotential #AuthenticityMatters #MindsetShift #GrowthMindset #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalResilience #LeadershipDevelopment #BreakPatterns #HighPerformanceMindset #LifePurpose #SuccessMindset #OvercomingStruggles #BuildingResilience #InnerHealing #FaithAndPurpose #RewritingYourStory #LeadershipMatters #DiscoverYourCalling #TransformYourLife #EmotionalHealing #PurposeDriven #TheJourneyOfBecoming #CreateImpact #SelfAwareness #MotivationForYou #PurposeOverSuccess #PersonalTransformation /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35514785

E76: The Truth About Culture: Why Most Leaders Get It Wrong 02/19/2025

E76: The Truth About Culture: Why Most Leaders Get It Wrong 🔥 What if culture isn’t what you say—it’s what you tolerate? 🎙️ Culture isn’t just a corporate buzzword—it’s the invisible force shaping every decision, every interaction, and every outcome in your organization. It’s not just about values on a wall or feel-good mission statements—it’s about what actually happens in the day-to-day. In this episode, we’re breaking down what culture really is, why most leaders fail at creating it, and how it determines success or failure. Whether you’re leading a business, a team, or even just yourself, understanding culture is the key to lasting impact, high performance, and alignment between vision and reality. We explore: ✅ What is culture, really? (Beyond the feel-good definitions) ✅ How leaders unconsciously create toxic environments (even with good intentions) ✅ The difference between culture and strategy—and why getting it wrong leads to disaster ✅ How to measure and improve culture in your business or team ✅ What happens when a company’s values don’t match its actions? ✅ How vision should attract & repel the right people ✅ The impact of culture on leadership, business growth, and team success 🚀 If you’re a leader, entrepreneur, or someone who just wants to understand how culture shapes everything—this episode is for you. 🧠 Reflection Questions: What’s one unspoken rule in your workplace or community that defines its culture? Does your organization’s stated culture align with how people actually experience it? Are you building a culture that attracts the right people—or repels them? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35338170

E75: Rewriting Time: Part 2 – Breaking Patterns to Create a New Future 02/12/2025

E75: Rewriting Time: Part 2 – Breaking Patterns to Create a New Future What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you? 🎙️ Your choices today shape more than just your life—they create ripple effects for generations. In Part 2 of Rewriting Time, we shift from understanding past patterns to breaking cycles and shaping the future. Adrian and Bri discuss the power of intentionality, leadership, and decision-making in transcending time and leaving a lasting impact. We explore: ✅ Why critical thinking is a skill that will set you apart in the future ✅ How being present helps you make better decisions and strengthen relationships ✅ Why saying “I don’t have time” actually means time is controlling you ✅ How the mindset of “it is what it is” keeps you from taking action ✅ The legacy effect—how today’s choices shape the world for those who come after you 🚀 If you missed Part 1, go back and listen to "Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past" to get the full picture! 🧠 Reflection Questions: What’s one belief you hold about yourself that has shaped your decisions? Are you controlling your time, or is time controlling you? Where in your life are you letting fear hold you back from moving forward? What’s a small but meaningful habit you can change today to shape a better future? If your great-grandchildren were impacted by today’s choices, what would you want that impact to be? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules #NewRulesPodcast #RewritingTime #BreakingPatterns #MindsetShift #GrowthMindset #LifeAndLeadership #LeadershipDevelopment #AuthenticityMatters #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #TimeManagement #UnlockYourPotential #SuccessMindset #IntentionalLiving #FutureFocused #InspireChange #TrueLeadership #SelfImprovement #ReflectAndGrow #LeadWithPurpose #DecisionMaking #OvercomingFear #BreakingCycles #CreateYourFuture #OwnYourTime #ProductivityHacks #ResilientLeadership #NewEpisode #LegacyBuilding #EmpowermentJourney /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35240370

E75: Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past 02/05/2025

E75: Rewriting Time: Part 1 – Understanding the Patterns of Your Past What if the past isn’t behind you—it’s within you?" In Part 1 of this powerful two-part episode, Adrian and Bri explore how time isn’t linear; it’s dense, layered, and often hidden in the way we think, feel, and lead. The conversations we have today, the choices we make, and even the insecurities we carry are often echoes from the past—shaping us without us even realizing it. Through personal reflections and raw honesty, they unpack how family history, childhood experiences, and seemingly small moments have ripple effects in our lives. But this isn’t just about looking back—it’s about understanding the present and recognizing how presence is a skill that can transform relationships, leadership, and self-awareness. Key Takeaways: The Layered Nature of Time: How the past, present, and external influences overlap more than we realize. Hidden Time Capsules: Unprocessed moments from childhood that shape how we view ourselves and the world. The Legacy of Family Patterns: How inherited beliefs impact our identity and leadership styles. The Power of Presence: Why slowing down and being present is harder than it sounds—but more transformative than we think. Processing the Past: How to acknowledge your history without letting it define your future. Reflection Questions: What "time capsules" from your past might still be influencing your present decisions? Are there patterns in your life that you’ve accepted as normal but may be rooted in unresolved history? How do you define being “present” in your daily life? What distracts you from it? What’s one small moment from your past that shaped you more than you realized? How can understanding your past help you become a better leader, friend, or family member today? Don’t miss Part 2, where we shift the conversation to the future—how to navigate uncertainty, think critically, and create the life you’re meant to live. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/35152265

E74: The Fear of Authenticity and How to Overcome It 01/22/2025

E74: The Fear of Authenticity and How to Overcome It Authenticity is a word we hear all the time, but what does it actually mean to live it out? In this episode, Adrian and Bri dive deep into the reality of authenticity—why it’s hard, why most people avoid it, and what’s waiting on the other side when you choose to embrace it. We explore the pressure to conform, the fear of being truly seen, and the cost of showing up as your real self. If you’ve ever felt the tension between who you are and who you think you should be, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: The Fear of Authenticity Why stepping into your real self can feel terrifying—and why so many people avoid it. The False Self vs. The True Self Understanding the internal battle between who you present to the world and who you truly are. The Cost of Being Authentic Authenticity isn’t free—it comes with challenges, but the reward is a life of true impact and fulfillment. Why Most People Stay in Their False Self The subconscious reasons we cling to an inauthentic life and how to start breaking free. How to Master Authenticity in Your Life Practical steps to embrace vulnerability, build self-awareness, and step fully into who you were meant to be. Reflection Questions: Where in your life are you holding back from being fully authentic? What’s one fear that keeps you from showing up as your true self? How would your life change if you embraced authenticity, no matter the cost? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34944885

E73: Brick by Brick: The Power of Faithfulness 01/15/2025

E73: Brick by Brick: The Power of Faithfulness Welcome to Car Chronicles! Today, we’re taking you on a drive—literally. These are the kinds of conversations we usually have on the road, but this time, we’re bringing you along too. In this candid and reflective episode, Adrian and Bri dive into the profound impact of faithfulness in leadership, relationships, and personal growth. They unpack the hidden value of staying present, the discipline it takes to remain committed to your purpose, and why “someday” isn’t a real plan. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of a big vision or feeling stuck in a season of waiting, this conversation offers practical insights on how to recognize the lies that hold you back, build an abundance mindset, and stay faithful to the work that truly matters. Key Takeaways: Why Faithfulness Matters: It’s not about grand gestures but the small, consistent actions that create compounding growth over time. The Myth of “Someday”: Waiting for perfect circumstances can paralyze your progress. Start where you are with what you have. Faithfulness vs. Personal Gain: True leadership isn’t about chasing personal success—it’s about serving others and staying committed to your purpose. Discipline and Growth: Discipline is the foundation for navigating tough seasons and preparing for future opportunities. Building an Abundance Mindset: How to cultivate gratitude and a positive outlook, even when resources feel scarce. Reflection Questions: What does faithfulness look like in your life right now? Are there any lies or limiting beliefs holding you back from progress? How can you practice being more present in your relationships and work? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34856130

E72: How New Rules Began: The Hidden Rules We Follow and Why They Need Disruption 01/01/2025

E72: How New Rules Began: The Hidden Rules We Follow and Why They Need Disruption We’re kicking off the New Year by diving into the story behind New Rules—how it all began, the moments that shaped its vision, and the purpose driving its growth. From an unexpected inspiration during the NBA Finals to the journey of creating a movement that unlocks human flourishing, this episode is filled with insight, reflection, and inspiration for anyone ready to write their own rules in 2025. Key Takeaways: The Origin of New Rules: Every movement begins with a moment of clarity. For New Rules, that moment came during the NBA Finals, when a Jay-Z commercial reframed how success could be defined. This sparked the idea to create a collective that challenges traditional measures of achievement and helps people redefine success on their own terms. Moments That Define Us: Life offers defining moments that demand a response. Adrian and Bri reflect on how being aware of these moments—and choosing to act on them—can alter the trajectory of your life. These moments often come disguised as challenges, but they hold the power to refine purpose and unlock potential. Writing New Rules for Yourself: Success isn’t about playing by someone else’s rules. It’s about creating your own scoreboard for life, aligned with your values and unique purpose. Bri and Adrian explore the courage it takes to break free from societal norms and live authentically, even when it feels risky or countercultural. Unlocking Authenticity Through New Rules: Authenticity isn’t a buzzword—it’s a practice. Through New Rules, individuals and organizations are guided toward self-awareness, resilience, and creating meaningful impact. This process requires an honest confrontation of fears and limitations, but it paves the way for true transformation. The Power of Internal Work: External success starts with internal alignment. Bri and Adrian discuss why meaningful change begins with doing the hard work of self-examination. They emphasize that transformation isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress, and the courage to continuously refine yourself from the inside out. Reflection Questions: What pivotal moments have shaped the way you see the world? How are you defining success in your own life? What rules do you need to rewrite to live authentically in 2025? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules Check out Rocket Fuel: /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34531525

E71: 2024 Reflection: Authenticity is Hard 12/18/2024

E71: 2024 Reflection: Authenticity is Hard Leadership is a weight that many carry, but few truly understand. In this episode, we dive deep into the challenges, tensions, and motivations that shape leaders. From balancing vision with reality to finding purpose beyond the paycheck, we explore what it means to lead authentically in 2024. Bri and Adrian unpack lessons learned about carrying the responsibility of leadership, defining authenticity, and why motivation matters more than ever. Whether you’re a seasoned leader or just starting your journey, this episode will inspire you to embrace the challenges and find clarity in your purpose. Key Takeaways: Carrying the Weight of Leadership: Leadership isn’t about avoiding pressure—it’s about learning how to carry it well. We discuss how to stay grounded when the demands of leadership feel heavy and why it’s crucial to align your actions with your values. Purpose Over Paycheck: Motivation matters. Leaders who are driven by a deeper purpose—not just financial or external rewards—create lasting impact. We explore how to uncover your “why” and use it as a guiding force in your leadership. Stewarding Well: Leadership requires stewardship—of your time, your team, and your vision. We unpack what it means to manage resources wisely while keeping the bigger picture in mind. The Visionary-Integrator Balance: Visionaries dream big, while integrators bring ideas to life. We dive into the tension between dreaming and doing, and how leaders can thrive in both roles or collaborate effectively with others who complement their strengths. Defining Authenticity in Leadership: Authentic leadership requires resilience and clarity. We challenge the idea of perfection and discuss how being real with your team builds trust and long-term success. The Power of Reflection and Reset: As the new year approaches, we share practical ways to reflect on your leadership journey and reset your priorities to move forward with clarity and purpose. Reflection Questions: What drives your leadership—purpose, a paycheck, or something else? How do you navigate the tension between vision and execution? What’s one area of leadership you can improve on in 2024? 🎙️ Tune in to Episode 71: and discover what it takes to lead authentically and with purpose. Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34486250

E70: Confidence Won’t Fix Your Self-Worth 12/11/2024

E70: Confidence Won’t Fix Your Self-Worth What happens when your confidence shines in one area, but deep down, you struggle to believe in your worth? In this episode, Bri and Adrian explore the powerful differences between self-worth and self-confidence—and why understanding these differences is critical for growth. Through personal stories and practical insights, they discuss how self-worth influences relationships, careers, and how we show up in the world. From overcoming imposter syndrome to navigating spaces where you feel like you don’t belong, this episode is a relatable and thought-provoking guide to embracing your value. Key Takeaways: Self-Worth vs. Self-Confidence: Self-worth is the belief that you are inherently valuable, while self-confidence is belief in your abilities in specific areas. Motivation Matters: Healthy self-worth fuels a desire to add value to others rather than seeking approval or survival through achievements. The Role of Community: Having the right people around you helps you stay grounded and avoid arrogance or delusion. Reframing Failure: Failure is an opportunity to learn, not a reflection of your worth. Practical Tips to Grow Self-Worth: Capture your thoughts and evaluate your motives. Seek feedback from a select, trusted few rather than everyone. Walk into rooms with curiosity rather than a need to prove yourself. Reflection Questions: What happens when your confidence feels strong, but your self-worth doesn’t match it? What’s one step you can take this week to separate your worth from external validation? Recommended Resources: Worthy by Jamie Kern Lima, a powerful book on reframing failure and understanding your value. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34368915

E69: Leadership and Parenting: Do Either Ever Get Easier? 12/04/2024

E69: Leadership and Parenting: Do Either Ever Get Easier? This episode is a candid, freestyle conversation where we dig deep into the complexities of life, leadership, and everything in between. From the unique challenges of parenting sons and daughters to navigating big emotions and staying resilient in a world that demands so much, we explore what it really takes to show up authentically. We reflect on the importance of balancing who we are with who we’re becoming, diving into how resilience and adaptability shape not just our lives, but the people we lead. And yes, because it’s Thanksgiving season, we couldn’t help but share a few of our favorite holiday food traditions—because growth doesn’t happen without a little fun along the way. Key Takeaways: Parenting isn’t one-size-fits-all: learning to adapt to the unique needs of each child. Big emotions aren’t weaknesses—they’re opportunities for growth when handled with care. Resilience is more than a skill—it’s a necessity in navigating today’s world. How to stay authentic while balancing the demands of leadership and life. 🎙️ Join us for a raw and insightful conversation about what it means to thrive in life, lead with purpose, and find joy along the way. Perfect for the holiday season and beyond. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34265050

E68: How Process Attachment Holds Back Innovation 11/20/2024

E68: How Process Attachment Holds Back Innovation Is your attachment to the process holding you back? In this episode, we dive into Process Attachment Disorder—the unhealthy dependence on established systems and methods that can keep us stuck. It’s easy to get so focused on the how that we lose sight of the why. But real progress comes when we’re willing to adapt and stay loyal to the mission, not the method. Adrian and Bri explore the Control Paradox, why we cling to comfort and predictability, and how letting go of rigid processes creates room for transformation and innovation. From leadership strategies to personal growth, this conversation is packed with insights on embracing change while staying mission-driven. Key Takeaways: What is Process Attachment Disorder, and how does it hold you back? The Control Paradox: Why the need for control limits progress. How to stay loyal to the mission while being flexible with methods. Why purpose and values must always guide the process. The power of adaptable allegiance: letting go of personal preferences for collective gain. What’s one process or system you’re holding onto that no longer serves the mission? 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/34019022

E67: Why Success Feels Empty: The Real Meaning of Fulfillment 11/13/2024

E67: Why Success Feels Empty: The Real Meaning of Fulfillment Are you chasing goals that feel just out of reach? In our first-ever live episode, Adrian and Bri tackle the concept of Chasing Smoke—the relentless pursuit of dreams and expectations that often leave us feeling empty. Too often, we measure success by society's scoreboard, only to find ourselves disillusioned. But what if the real victory comes from defining success on your own terms? Broadcasted in front of a live audience, Adrian shares his journey of redefining his personal scoreboard, breaking away from comparison and societal pressures. He reflects on the challenge of balancing ambition with authenticity, explaining how true fulfillment comes not from achieving external markers but from living in alignment with one's calling and purpose. Bri adds insight on sacrifice and faith, emphasizing the importance of trusting that the time invested now will pay dividends in the future. Key Takeaways: The dangers of "Chasing Smoke"—pursuing success based on external expectations. How to redefine success by setting your own scoreboard in life. 🎯 The importance of sacrifice and resilience, and why sometimes saying "no" is essential for growth. Practical tips for discovering your purpose and remaining authentic in a world full of comparisons. How to build a legacy beyond the workplace by focusing on values that truly matter. 🌱 Join us on this journey as we dive deep in our first live episode, bringing real-time insights and raw reflections. Ready to stop chasing and start living with purpose? Reflect this week on what matters most, and consider redefining your scoreboard for a more fulfilling journey. Let us know how you’re shifting your focus, and check out the full episode for more insights! 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/33902462

E66: How Transformational Leaders Leave a Lasting Legacy 11/06/2024

E66: How Transformational Leaders Leave a Lasting Legacy Are you a leader who simply manages tasks, or are you someone who transforms lives? In this episode, Bri and Adrian dive into the critical difference between transformational leadership and transactional leadership. Too often, leaders fall into the trap of operating in a give-and-take dynamic, where interactions are merely transactions. But transformational leaders aim to create deep, lasting impact across every sphere they touch—whether in the workplace, their community, or personal relationships. Bri and Adrian unpack what it means to lead with purpose, focusing on long-term growth and developing people, rather than just achieving short-term results. They highlight how a transformational approach encourages trust, loyalty, and true engagement from those being led, and why these leaders leave a legacy far beyond the transactional. Key Takeaways: The difference between transactional leadership and transformational leadership. How transformational leaders impact lives deeply by creating meaningful connections and inspiring growth. The importance of purpose in leadership and how to move beyond simply managing tasks. Why transformational leadership drives higher loyalty and engagement from teams, fostering stronger relationships. Practical steps to shift from being a transactional leader to one that truly transforms. Are you leading just for results, or are you looking to transform lives? Evaluate your leadership approach this week. Think about where you might be operating transactionally, and identify one area where you can make a transformational shift. Leave us a comment or share your thoughts on social media about your leadership journey—what’s working, and where you’re looking to grow! 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. To check out the Dan Hurley interview mentions, click here! : Whether you are a corporate leader, parent, or any individual who finds themselves in a position of leadership - we hope this podcast brings you one step closer on the journey to becoming authentically yourself. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person? You can WATCH today’s episode on our Youtube Channel: Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules /episode/index/show/newrules/id/33646137

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