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The Power of Intention, High-Income Skills, and Overcoming Financial Hurdles | ASK ME ANYTHING
09/24/2025
The Power of Intention, High-Income Skills, and Overcoming Financial Hurdles | ASK ME ANYTHING
In Part 2 of this Ask Me Anything Ryan and Kipp tackle real listener money questions - from Roth vs. traditional 401(k)s and how to start saving at 48, to scaling rental portfolios, buying land, and running a meat processing business. They also discuss high-income skills, the psychology of debt and “usury,” and whether cashing out investments to pay a low-rate mortgage makes sense. Packed with actionable prudence, blunt honesty, and practical frameworks for financial decisions. Tune in, take notes, and move to action. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro 01:33 - Roth vs. Traditional 401(k) (Mike Cole) 04:22 - Biggest moves at 48 with nothing saved (Lonnie McIntyre) 10:57 - Scaling rentals: use equity or let it pay off (Jeremy Fulmer) 14:07 - Considering closing 401(k) to buy land (Mike) 16:57 - Starting a meat processing business (Jeff Kessler) 23:18 - Experience vs. price: creating convenience & premium services 26:21 - High-income skills & why connection matters (Jonathan Webster) 34:05 - Usury, debt culture & values (Jason Cole) 41:51 - Paying off mortgage vs. investing (Chris Edmondson) 47:35 - Iron Council / Order of Man promo & outro Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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SHAWN STEVENSON | Using Bio Feedback to Fuel Your Body
09/23/2025
SHAWN STEVENSON | Using Bio Feedback to Fuel Your Body
If all it took was a basic understanding of food to get lean and healthy, all men would have visible abs and never need the scale. The reality, however, is that most men don’t have the abs and, although they may have the scale, they’re not really willing to get on it. It turns out that the science of food and how it reacts with our body goes so much deeper, including the mental and emotional realm. My guest today, author of , , has spent decades of his life understanding the basics and nuances of the fuel we call food and our relationship with it. We cover why not all calories are the same, how culture impacts our eating decision making process, how placebos are more effective than you’d think in curing illness and disease, why the diversity of what you eat is just as important as how much you eat, and why you are what you eat. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Catching Up & Setting the Stage 01:24 – Changing Family Food Culture 03:25 – Redefining Health & Culture in America 24:31 – Biological Age vs. Chronological Age 37:52 – The Truth About Dairy & Processed Foods 40:31 – Calories, Metabolism & Food Quality 46:20 – Context Matters: Fueling for Your Goals 01:11:36 – Training, Nutrition & Recovery Insights 01:13:34 – TRT, GLP-1 & Lifestyle Foundations 01:18:05 – Vitamin D, Deficiencies & Aging 01:21:14 – Nutrition & Movement After 40 01:24:43 – Rapid Fire: Protein, Food Choices & More 01:30:13 – Supplement Risks & Safe Practices 01:31:43 – Closing Thoughts & Where to Connect Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Nice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
09/19/2025
Nice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the truth behind the phrase “Nice Guys Never Win.” He explains how the tendency to avoid conflict, suppress needs, and chase approval leads to weak boundaries, indecision, and frustration in relationships and careers. Ryan outlines the real costs of “nice guy syndrome” and challenges men to reclaim respect through clarity, honesty, and decisive action. He closes with five daily practices to help men stop self-betrayal and start leading with conviction. This episode is a direct, no-fluff call for men to stop playing the victim and step into responsibility. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Defining the Nice Guy 02:13 – Consequences of Nice Guy Syndrome 04:32 – Indecisiveness and People Pleasing 06:53 – Suppressing Needs and Passive Aggression 09:18 – Inauthenticity and Fear of Judgment 11:43 – Playing the Victim 13:51 – Confusion, Distrust, and Frustration 18:43 – The Cycle of Anger and Resentment 20:46 – Five Daily Practices to Overcome 27:58 – Closing Thoughts and Challenge Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING
09/17/2025
What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle pressing questions from the Iron Council, all centered on money. From understanding the habits of wealthy men, to real vs. nominal gains, to the psychology of budgeting and investing, they cover practical insights that cut through financial confusion. The guys also dive into real estate, Roth strategies, and why prudence matters more than market timing. Tune in for a candid, actionable conversation on building and stewarding wealth with wisdom. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:05 – Opening and headlines 11:41 – Wealthy habits vs. average habits 21:44 – Real vs. nominal gains 24:49 – Selling a house and liquidity decisions 35:07 – Budgeting and psychology of money 43:23 – Wealth and dishonesty mindset 46:24 – Borrowing against equity 49:14 – Rentals vs. 401k 50:57 – When to sell real estate investments 53:16 – Backdoor Roth explained 59:47 – Iron Council promotion 1:02:57 – Social and community links Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything
09/16/2025
JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything
What you think of yourself is directly correlated with the kind of man you are or will become. If you believe yourself to be a victim of circumstances beyond your control, you will be. If, alternatively, you believe the world is conspiring for your benefit, it will be. It is quite literally self-fulfilling prophesy. My guest today, Jay Jairdullo, knows exactly what this is like after spending 25 years in law enforcement and now a college wrestling coach, he has had to redefine himself over and over again. Today, Jay and I talk about what he calls “false masculinity,” avoiding slipping back into old patterns, the importance of core values, overcoming the victimhood mentality, and keeping yourself and others off pedestals you don’t belong. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Building Brotherhood and Friendship 04:00 – Self-Image and Overcoming Excuses 10:00 – Shifting Identity and Mindset 14:00 – Lessons from a Career in Law Enforcement 18:00 – Loyalty, Support, and Marriage Dynamics 22:00 – Rebuilding Trust and Reputation 26:00 – Focusing on Positives vs Negatives 30:00 – Emotional Intelligence and Fatherhood 33:00 – Leadership: Autocratic vs Democratic 36:00 – Masculinity, False Masculinity, and Clarity 41:00 – Values, Vision, and Decision-Making 46:00 – Aligning Actions with Identity 48:00 – Retirement, Reflection, and New Purpose 52:00 – Connecting Through the Iron Council Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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When Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
09/12/2025
When Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler addresses the troubling rise of political violence and cultural hostility, urging men to step up as protectors, providers, and leaders. He lays out a clear roadmap of four key actions—protecting your family, speaking out against destructive ideologies, stepping into positions of influence, and building strong brotherhoods. Ryan also shares upcoming plans for local Order of Man chapters and emphasizes why good men must refuse to stay silent any longer. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – The power of prayer and courage 05:00 – Protecting your family and building skills 07:00 – Financial security as protection 08:30 – Speaking out against dangerous ideologies 14:15 – Stepping into positions of power 16:40 – Building influence through business and community 18:30 – The importance of brotherhoods 21:30 – Call to action and next steps Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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CHARLIE KIRK | Are Men the Enemy?
09/11/2025
CHARLIE KIRK | Are Men the Enemy?
I revisit my 2020 conversation with Charlie Kirk, recorded during a time when we discussed pressing issues around masculinity, responsibility, and the future of our culture. In light of the tragic news of Charlie’s passing after the horrific shooting at Utah Valley University on September 10th, 2025, I share this episode in his honor. We cover topics such as the hyper-feminization of boys, the need for strong male role models, and the responsibility men carry to lead with courage and conviction. Let’s honor Charlie’s legacy by carrying forward the work he dedicated his life to. Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING
09/10/2025
Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle questions from the Order of Man community around productivity, energy management, and living with greater intention. From balancing family responsibilities with work, to eliminating distractions and staying aligned with long-term goals, they dive deep into practical strategies men can apply right now. They also cover tools for planning, handling setbacks with resilience, and the value of family meetings. Plus, updates on the Iron Council and the importance of choosing growth over mere compliance. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 News headlines – Phillies “crazy Karen” 08:32 Shifting AMA format & topics 09:18 Work-life balance & energy 19:07 Refocusing after interruptions 22:36 Full alignment in planning 31:22 Income and spending trackers 32:15 Writing vs. digital planning 34:39 Recommended tools 42:48 Weekly family meetings 47:03 Best time to plan 51:19 Mindset when plans go off track 01:00:29 Iron Council promotion & Facebook group Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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DAVID PISARRA | When Your Marriage Ends, Do This…
09/09/2025
DAVID PISARRA | When Your Marriage Ends, Do This…
If you’ve ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don’t know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children. My guest today, , has made it his life’s work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:17 – Introduction and Context 01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce 02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership 08:33 – Marriage as a Contract 12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements 17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women 20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment 21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation 25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice 28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations 31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences 36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment 37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce 39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships 43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders 46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders 49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces 52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House? 54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles 57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities 59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact 01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce 01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges 01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy 01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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How to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
09/05/2025
How to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down what it really means to be vulnerable “like a man.” He challenges the popular narrative that vulnerability is strength in itself and instead explains how it should be used as a tool for growth. Ryan outlines why discernment matters, how goals must shape openness, and why solutions must accompany weakness. Listeners will walk away with a sharper, more practical understanding of vulnerability—stripped of fluff and grounded in responsibility. This episode is a call for men to embrace honesty without falling into the trap of empty exposure. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Rethinking vulnerability 02:30 – Vulnerability as weakness 04:40 – Exercising discernment 09:00 – Setting goals for openness 11:20 – Pairing vulnerability with solutions 18:00 – Vulnerability plus solutions equals results 20:20 – Iron Council promotion 22:45 – Closing thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Daily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHING
09/03/2025
Daily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler dives into daily efficiencies, planning systems, and the power of structure in building a productive life. He answers listener questions on balancing flexibility with discipline, handling unexpected events, creating rituals around planning, and becoming an early riser. Ryan also shares practical tactics like using buffers, after-action reviews, and categorizing different types of days to stay consistent and effective. Whether you’re aiming for better routines or long-term growth, this conversation offers actionable strategies you can apply immediately. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction and episode setup 02:14 – Balancing flexibility and structure 06:59 – Consistency with non-traditional work schedules 11:44 – Daily tactics for continual growth 16:30 – Handling the unexpected in planning 21:10 – Becoming an early riser 25:50 – Making daily planning a ritual 33:57 – Closing thoughts and resources Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It
09/02/2025
LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It
Over time, it’s likely that you have drifted off course. Like a boat without a navigator, it’s easy to let the current of reality, overwhelm, and frustration take you off course. My guest today, has been a father for over two decades and knows firsthand what the drift looks like as a dad and how to steer yourself back on course. Today, we talk about staying awake and vigilant when it comes to leading your wife and kids, the first “domino” to fall before things go horribly wrong, how to get your wife back on course if she starts to drift, in what ways do you become lethargic, monotonous, and bland in your life (and, what to do about it), and learning to build “conversations of curiosity.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 00:11 - Larry’s Knee Injury Discussion 04:33 - The Forge Event Recap 04:57 - The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood Book Launch 07:47 - Understanding the Drift 09:17 - Introducing Lance: The Avatar of the Drift 15:30 - Helping Your Spouse Overcome the Drift 16:12 - Getting Out of the Drift as a Man 23:51 - Coaching Consistency in Men 29:57 - Being a Man of Your Word 31:02 - Motivating Your Wife Respectfully 36:56 - Impact of Kids on Relationships 38:02 - Motivating and Guiding Children 41:50 - Creating Psychological Safety for Kids 47:22 - Building Trust Through Questions 53:30 - Navigating Single Fatherhood 55:09 - Finding Common Ground with Your Child 59:35 - Connecting with Larry and The Forge Event Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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How a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/29/2025
How a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional life. Drawing from his own recent experiences, Ryan offers practical strategies and hard-earned insights to help men navigate betrayal with strength, clarity, and integrity. He emphasizes respect, self-control, and learning valuable lessons rather than succumbing to anger or despair. This episode is a call for men to rise above hardship, establish healthy boundaries, and move forward with resilience and purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – Facing betrayal in life and business 04:37 – Responding with respect and rationality 06:50 – Treating innocent bystanders gracefully 09:12 – Learning the lessons from betrayal 11:32 – Recognizing red flags early 13:54 – Building strong boundaries 18:43 – Final thoughts and encouragement Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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When Vulnerability Goes Wrong, The OODA Loop, and Honoring Choice | ASK ME ANYTHING
08/27/2025
When Vulnerability Goes Wrong, The OODA Loop, and Honoring Choice | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging AMA episode of the Order of Man podcast. They kick off with light-hearted banter on Labor Day plans and "fake holidays," then dive into a headline sparking debate: Cracker Barrel's logo change and why people fixate on trivial issues. Listener questions cover helping kids handle bullies, pacing new relationships, picky eaters, prioritizing battle plan tactics, monetizing podcasts, hard-fought life lessons, and staying focused amid chaos. Packed with practical advice on masculinity, family, and self-improvement. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening Banter and Setup 00:58 - Weekend Plans and Labor Day Discussion 02:45 - Headline: Cracker Barrel Logo Controversy 11:50 - Helping Kids Navigate Bullies 25:11 - Pacing a New Relationship 37:23 - Dealing with Picky Eaters 40:38 - Prioritizing Battle Plan Tactics 43:23 - Monetizing Podcasts and Iron Council Origins 45:45 - Biggest Hard-Fought Lessons 01:07:22 - Maintaining Focus in Crises 01:21:49 - Episode Wrap-Up and Calls to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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TYE NICHOLS | From Fairway Dreams to Mainstreet Reality
08/26/2025
TYE NICHOLS | From Fairway Dreams to Mainstreet Reality
You ever seen an old house and think, “Man, I’d love to fix that up.”? Or, an old truck, and imagine the day where you and your children would drive around in that thing? Or, maybe an old project you’ve been meaning to finish but never got around to it? My guest today, Tye Nichols, feels the same way. In fact, he’s invested thousands of his own money to put into an abandoned golf course he’s had visions of reviving. Today, we talk about his dream of reviving his golf course, . We talk about finally believing in yourself, casting vision so other people will believe in you, overcoming doubters on your path, what to do when times get tough, and whether or not to “sell out” when it comes to chasing a dream. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Catching Up After Years 01:00 – Family Life and Moving Back to Maine 02:50 – Why Buy an Abandoned Golf Course? 05:55 – Building Trust and Taking Advice from the Right People 07:15 – Ordinary vs. Extraordinary 09:20 – Lessons from Jocko and Realizing People Are Just People 13:10 – Humility, Work Ethic, and Earning Opportunities 16:50 – Big Dreams for Fairway Fields 19:30 – Reimagining a Rural Golf Course 24:30 – Taming Nature and Learning the Hard Way 26:45 – Local Support and Community Excitement 28:30 – Making Ends Meet While Building a Dream 32:40 – Long-Term Vision and Scaling Up 34:40 – Overcoming Doubts and Finding True Commitment 37:10 – Support from His Wife and Family 39:25 – Turning Away from a Rough Past 41:00 – Rock Bottom and Deciding to Change 42:30 – Why Strangers Believe in His Vision 45:55 – People Want to Support, Not Tear You Down 47:30 – Advice for Men with Big Dreams 49:30 – Where to Connect with Tye Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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How to Initiate Boys Into Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/22/2025
How to Initiate Boys Into Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial question of how to initiate boys into manhood. Drawing from personal experience as a father and mentor, Ryan outlines key principles such as separation, challenge, risk, and meaning that help shape rites of passage. He emphasizes the importance of deliberate and intentional practices for raising boys into strong, capable men—especially in a society that often resists such growth. This episode offers fathers, mentors, and even single mothers clear considerations for guiding the next generation of men. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:40 – The challenge of raising boys in today’s culture 03:00 – Separation from women in rites of passage 05:27 – Building challenge and risk into the process 07:50 – Age-based milestones for boys 10:05 – Responsibility, puberty, and independence 12:21 – Honoring achievements with meaning 14:33 – Public celebration and recognition 16:58 – Marking and family mottos 19:16 – Reintroduction as young men 21:37 – Course promotion and final thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Choosing Your Battles, Finding God in Hardship, and Owning Your Addictions | ASK ME ANYTHING
08/20/2025
Choosing Your Battles, Finding God in Hardship, and Owning Your Addictions | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle powerful questions from the Order of Man community. From knowing which battles are worth fighting, to bringing God into past trials, to addressing blind spots at work without sounding like a complainer — they cover practical wisdom every man can apply. They also dive into handling public haters, having hard conversations about addiction, and reflecting on past interviews. Honest, challenging, and inspiring — this one’s packed with lessons for intentional living. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening and headlines 08:07 – Choosing your battles 19:45 – Inviting God into past trials 29:50 – Approaching leadership with blind spots 41:01 – Telling your wife about addiction 48:27 – Responding to public haters 56:45 – Interviews Ryan would redo 01:02:41 – Promotions and closing Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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PETE ROBERTS | Why Scrappiness Could Be Your Greatest Asset
08/19/2025
PETE ROBERTS | Why Scrappiness Could Be Your Greatest Asset
We all know that one guy who is tough, resilient, loves a fight, and can make things happen, even when he’s behind. I think, in a way, we all want to be that guy. I’m convinced that a man who is scrappy is a man who can achieve everything he wants in this world – even if it first seems out of reach. My guest today, , agrees. And, he knows a thing or two about the resourcefulness and scrappiness it takes to revive an American tradition – manufacturing. You know him as the founder of Origin and Jocko Fuel. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, how and why a man needs to define success, regular people building irregular things, what he looks for in people to hire and promote to leadership in his organization, and making yourself capable of carrying burdens. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Catching Up After Years Apart 01:15 – Origin and the Almost Reality Show 03:20 – Building a Brand with Authenticity 05:40 – Jiu-Jitsu as Life’s Greatest Teacher 10:40 – From Passion to Purpose in Business 18:50 – Regular Guys Doing Extraordinary Things 21:45 – Breaking Free from the System 25:40 – Ty’s Story: Taking a Risk on Yourself 33:05 – Spotting Talent: Deep Selects and Leadership 40:45 – Redefining Success and Carrying the Burden 46:20 – Breaking the Cycle for Family and Legacy 52:40 – Losing $6 Million and Firing Myself 01:00:15 – Restarting with New Purpose 01:06:20 – The Truth About Success and Struggles 01:08:20 – New YouTube Channel and Final Promotions Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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10 Ways to Make Yourself More Influential | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/15/2025
10 Ways to Make Yourself More Influential | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler shares ten powerful strategies to become more influential in every area of life. From building strength and dressing with purpose to mastering communication, practicing honesty, and making exceptionalism the standard, Ryan delivers actionable insights for men who want to lead with integrity and impact. He also emphasizes the importance of follow-through, consistency, and lightheartedness in building trust. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, these principles equip listeners to show up as the man they are meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:28 Build Strength & Muscle 04:56 Dress Your Age & Occasion 09:38 Learn to Communicate Well 14:26 Use Self-Deprecation 15:38 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Know” 18:39 Get Good at Saying “I Don’t Agree” 23:03 Be Ruthlessly Consistent 25:13 Make Exceptionalism Your Standard 29:43 Follow Through on Commitments 31:38 Laugh, Smile & Be Lighthearted 34:00 Bonus – Never Let Them See You Sweat 36:20 Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Becoming Self-Aware, Overcoming Infidelity, and Disincentivizing Bad Behavior | ASK ME ANYTHING
08/13/2025
Becoming Self-Aware, Overcoming Infidelity, and Disincentivizing Bad Behavior | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s AMA, Ryan and Kipp tackle tough listener questions on becoming more self-aware, navigating the pain and decisions around infidelity, and setting boundaries to disincentivize bad behavior in relationships and parenting. They also explore meaningful rites of passage for young men, fostering responsibility in teens, and the lessons they wish they could share with their younger selves. Honest, direct, and actionable, this episode blends inspiration with real-world strategies for men striving to lead with integrity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 03:18 First listener question – Skill, habit, or mindset shift 14:09 How much infidelity is too much to forgive 27:06 Considering separation over chemical dependency 39:55 Rite of passage for your son 46:44 Handling entitled teenagers 54:44 Advice to your teenage self 01:05:32 Promotions and closing remarks Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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ADAM LANE SMITH | How Men and Women Cause Each Other Pain
08/12/2025
ADAM LANE SMITH | How Men and Women Cause Each Other Pain
Why can’t women just understand men? Why can’t men just understand women? The short answer is, “we’re not supposed to.” If we were, we wouldn’t really have any need for each other, would we? My guest today, has made it his life’s work to get closer to helping men understand women and help us understand our own natural tendencies in relationships. Today, Adam and I talk about emotional starvation, the concept of CEO/COO between men and women, the ‘red flags’ that your marriage is struggling, what men and women do to cause each other pain, and how men can lead in their relationships much more effectively. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Finding Purpose and Chasing It 00:59 – Building a 200-Year Family System 02:51 – Two Worlds: Secure vs Insecure Attachment 05:55 – Teaching People Safety vs Creating Secure Attachment 07:27 – Maslow’s Hierarchy and Emotional Safety 10:46 – Safety for Men as Peace 14:19 – Security Starts Outside the Relationship 17:38 – Rebuilding a Marriage After Decades 20:53 – Invalidation and Dismissal in Relationships 22:23 – Venting vs Bringing Concerns 27:18 – The Purpose of Female Feelings as Data 29:36 – Men and Women’s Brains Are Meant to Interlink 32:05 – The Ancient Fear of Not Being Believed 37:25 – Emotional Starvation in Relationships 40:38 – Signs She’s Thriving or Starving Emotionally 45:13 – Four Levels of Safety Women Need 48:24 – Level 1: Physical Safety 50:07 – Level 2: Resource Safety 52:00 – Choosing the Right Woman for Your Circle 55:08 – Defining Masculine and Feminine Roles 58:32 – How Men Decide and Women Refine 01:02:05 – Level 3: Emotional Safety 01:04:29 – Level 4: Bonding Safety Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Men and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/08/2025
Men and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler passionately defends hunting, addressing misconceptions and highlighting its ecological and ethical benefits. He explores the historical role of hunting in human survival, its impact on conservation, and the reverence of consuming what you kill. Michler provides data-driven arguments to counter anti-hunting sentiments, emphasizing population management, habitat preservation, and sustainable practices. He also offers practical advice for aspiring hunters. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges assumptions and celebrates hunting’s role in human tradition and environmental stewardship. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Addressing Hunting Misconceptions 04:09 - The Cycle of Life and Homo Sapiens 08:10 - Consequences of Stopping Hunting 10:33 - The Truth About Trophy Hunting 12:56 - The Decency of an Honorable Death 15:21 - Hunting vs. Slaughterhouse 17:43 - The Reverence of Eating What You Kill 20:04 - Sustainable Hunting Practices 22:27 - Hunters’ Contributions to Conservation 27:15 - Getting Started with Hunting Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The Paradox of Choice, When to Call it Quits, and Living the Intentional Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
08/06/2025
The Paradox of Choice, When to Call it Quits, and Living the Intentional Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp explore the tension between motivation and meaning in today’s self-help culture. They dive into headline topics like the Tim Kennedy stolen valor controversy, then tackle listener questions on marriage doubts, healing journeys, ex-partner conflicts, starting a podcast, and when to pivot in life. Expect honest, grounded advice around boundaries, intentional living, and balancing life’s demands without burnout. A must-listen for men navigating growth, fatherhood, and purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Tim Kennedy & the Stolen Valor Debate 08:29 - Should You Have Doubts Before Marriage? 16:35 - Mistakes When Starting a Podcast 22:34 - Growth & Healing: What's Top of Mind 27:01 - Parenting Disagreements with Your Ex 32:30 - When Is It Time to Quit or Pivot? 38:42 - Handling Overwhelm & the Four Quadrants 46:19 - Living an Intentional Life 55:31 - Reclaiming Your Identity from People-Pleasing 1:04:00 - Hiring Help: Building a Team for Your Mission Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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ED LATIMORE | Hard Lessons Learned from the Sweet Science
08/05/2025
ED LATIMORE | Hard Lessons Learned from the Sweet Science
Boxing is known as the “Sweet Science,” but the name doesn’t quite do it justice. The amount of work, effort, blood, sweat, tears, and beatdowns is anything but sweet. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t so many powerful lessons to be learned from what my guest today, , calls the “Hurt Business.” Today, Ed and I talk about how and why people either buy into you (or not), why the next win or loss is just a setup for the next experience of your life, the power of consciously choosing to start over in life and after setbacks, why you’re only as good as your last win, and why “old endings” are nothing more than “new beginnings.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Intro & reconnecting 02:05 – Early podcast memories 04:05 – Building influence through storytelling 06:20 – The power of brand over product 08:40 – Writing the memoir: process and lessons 10:21 – You're only as good as your last win 17:06 – Everything is an audition 23:33 – When to throw in the towel 30:10 – Why most people shouldn’t box 33:22 – Fighting serious people comes at a cost 35:01 – Who chooses a life of combat? 39:32 – The worst guy to fight 46:00 – Identity, curiosity, and starting over 48:56 – How to connect with Ed 51:20 – Nobody’s coming to save you 52:33 – Final thoughts & wrap-up Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/01/2025
Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler, in this week's Friday Field Notes, delivers an inspiring episode on becoming a steadfast presence for family and community. He shares seven actionable strategies to navigate life's challenges while supporting others, emphasizing clear communication, firm boundaries, and emotional resilience. Michler urges men to embody trustworthiness and capability, ensuring they’re the reliable "rock" others depend on during tough times. Packed with practical advice and motivational insights, this episode empowers listeners to lead with strength and serve those they love. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Challenges of Life 02:03 - Communicate Your Desires 04:14 - Have Clear Boundaries 06:41 - Do Not Lie 09:02 - Honor Your Word 11:20 - Stay Emotionally Level-Headed 13:41 - Become More Capable 16:04 - Build Your Presence 20:46 - Conclusion: Serve Those You Love Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/30/2025
Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, diving into listener questions on career leaps, mentoring kids, handling feedback, and setting boundaries. From advice on applying for a higher job to being a positive role model for a niece and nephew, they share practical insights for personal growth. The episode also explores the evolution of the Iron Council and the value of its community, offering actionable tips for men striving to thrive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Catching Up and Weekend Recap 03:59 - Applying for a Higher Job 08:05 - Being a Role Model for Kids 15:08 - Evolution of the Iron Council 25:19 - Handling Performance Review Feedback 35:31 - Balancing Boundaries and Openness 44:37 - Battle Planner Clarifications 48:44 - Staying Connected with Order of Man Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego
07/29/2025
AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego
We’re all tempted, at times, to allow our ego to get the better of us. Many of us feel like we’re on top of the world until the precise time we find ourselves on the bottom of it. My guest today, , found himself in just that scenario as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal tech on a routine assignment when he was blown up by an Improvised Explosive Device (IED) that caused him to lose sight and, later, his hearing. Today, we talk about the fear of being stuck, gratitude for our struggles and adversities, overcoming our greatest fears, how positivity and negativity are infectious, and how you can re-size your ego or have it re-sized for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:15 - Aaron's Military Background and Injury 01:10 - Details of the IED Incident 02:04 - Injuries Sustained from the Explosion 04:36 - Medical Evacuation and Tom Cruise Encounter 06:34 - Recovery at Walter Reed 08:31 - Realization of Permanent Blindness 09:20 - Mental State Post-Injury 11:12 - Family Support During Recovery 13:11 - Connecting with Fellow Injured Veterans 17:01 - Overcoming Suicidal Thoughts 19:46 - Adapting to Sensory Loss 21:30 - Battle with Bacterial Meningitis 25:17 - Inspiration from Eric Weihenmayer 26:58 - Transition to Running and Physical Challenges 30:49 - Learning to Run Blind 34:47 - Running Badwater 135 Ultra Marathon 40:34 - Experiencing Runs Without Sight 42:45 - Building Trust with Guides 44:45 - Loss of Balance and Adaptation 51:22 - Mastering the Art of Falling 52:13 - Future Goals and Ventures 54:02 - Launching Point of Impact Podcast 56:13 - Gratitude for Life’s Challenges 58:19 - Closing Thoughts and Appreciation Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
07/25/2025
Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the overwhelming stress men face in their roles as providers and protectors. He offers five practical strategies to manage stress effectively, emphasizing personal responsibility over societal expectations. Michler encourages men to identify stress triggers, eliminate distractions, prioritize health, break monotonous routines, and adjust life's tempo without losing direction. Through actionable advice and personal insights, he empowers listeners to reduce stress and enhance performance, ensuring they can serve their families and communities without crumbling under pressure. Join the conversation at facebook.com/groups/orderofman. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Stress and Masculinity 02:04 - Overview of Five Tips 04:18 - Tip 1: Identify the Root of Stress 06:34 - Tip 2A: Remove Stressors 09:01 - Tip 2B: Eliminate Distractions 11:28 - Tip 3: Prioritize Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health 16:05 - Tip 4: Mix Up Your Routine 18:27 - Tip 5: Change Tempo, Not Direction 20:48 - Recap and Call to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/23/2025
Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into listener questions, exploring themes of faith, letting go, and pursuing purpose. They discuss building male camaraderie through action, overcoming overthinking, and embracing "I don't know" to find peace. From marathon training insights to serving others and knowing when to offer empathy versus tough love, this episode offers practical wisdom for men striving to live with intention. Join the Iron Council brotherhood at orderofman.com for more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 05:29 - Strengthening Faith and Prayer 12:39 - Marathon Training Insights 16:44 - Letting Go and Overcoming Overthinking 30:39 - Defining a Life Well-Lived 36:25 - Going All-In on Order of Man 46:07 - Empathy vs. Tough Love in Leadership 53:54 - Reincarnation Animal Discussion 57:19 - Battle Planner and Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health
07/22/2025
NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health
We’re all well-aware of the stigma associated with men’s mental health. Men are often told overtly or covertly to be just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. And, while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, it’s also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles we often fight as men. Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O’Kelly to talk about his time in service the mental and emotional anguish he faced, and what he’s done to overcome the challenges of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling weak, and how to confront the stigma (even though we all deal with it) of men’s mental health SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Men's Mental Health Stigma 01:05 - Balancing Pride and Duty 03:12 - Debating Vulnerability 04:27 - Military Career Transitions 06:36 - Family Dynamics and Decisions 09:22 - Managing Career Expectations 11:36 - Spousal Support and Sacrifice 14:36 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics 18:37 - Expectation Management Challenges 21:23 - Trust in Relationships 25:16 - Decision-Making Struggles 28:26 - Imposter Syndrome in Financial Planning 31:58 - Onset of Mental Health Struggles 37:55 - Consequences of Seeking Help 43:29 - Personal Anxiety Experience 47:32 - Spiritual and Physiological Factors 52:29 - High Achievers and Mental Health 54:16 - Connecting with Nick's Work Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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