Order of Man
Failures, victories, wins, and losses. We're exploring, uncovering, and unpacking the most valuable life lessons learned from the most successful men on the planet. Conversations include Jocko, Chris Williamson, Ben Shapiro, Dave Ramsey, David Goggins, Tim Tebow, Shawn Ryan, Cam Hanes, Terry Crews, Matthew McConaughey, Adam Carolla, Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, Mark Manson, and so many more. If you want to learn how to be a better man, we've got you covered.
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Men and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/08/2025
Men and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler passionately defends hunting, addressing misconceptions and highlighting its ecological and ethical benefits. He explores the historical role of hunting in human survival, its impact on conservation, and the reverence of consuming what you kill. Michler provides data-driven arguments to counter anti-hunting sentiments, emphasizing population management, habitat preservation, and sustainable practices. He also offers practical advice for aspiring hunters. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges assumptions and celebrates hunting’s role in human tradition and environmental stewardship. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Addressing Hunting Misconceptions 04:09 - The Cycle of Life and Homo Sapiens 08:10 - Consequences of Stopping Hunting 10:33 - The Truth About Trophy Hunting 12:56 - The Decency of an Honorable Death 15:21 - Hunting vs. Slaughterhouse 17:43 - The Reverence of Eating What You Kill 20:04 - Sustainable Hunting Practices 22:27 - Hunters’ Contributions to Conservation 27:15 - Getting Started with Hunting Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The Paradox of Choice, When to Call it Quits, and Living the Intentional Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
08/06/2025
The Paradox of Choice, When to Call it Quits, and Living the Intentional Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp explore the tension between motivation and meaning in today’s self-help culture. They dive into headline topics like the Tim Kennedy stolen valor controversy, then tackle listener questions on marriage doubts, healing journeys, ex-partner conflicts, starting a podcast, and when to pivot in life. Expect honest, grounded advice around boundaries, intentional living, and balancing life’s demands without burnout. A must-listen for men navigating growth, fatherhood, and purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Tim Kennedy & the Stolen Valor Debate 08:29 - Should You Have Doubts Before Marriage? 16:35 - Mistakes When Starting a Podcast 22:34 - Growth & Healing: What's Top of Mind 27:01 - Parenting Disagreements with Your Ex 32:30 - When Is It Time to Quit or Pivot? 38:42 - Handling Overwhelm & the Four Quadrants 46:19 - Living an Intentional Life 55:31 - Reclaiming Your Identity from People-Pleasing 1:04:00 - Hiring Help: Building a Team for Your Mission Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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ED LATIMORE | Hard Lessons Learned from the Sweet Science
08/05/2025
ED LATIMORE | Hard Lessons Learned from the Sweet Science
Boxing is known as the “Sweet Science,” but the name doesn’t quite do it justice. The amount of work, effort, blood, sweat, tears, and beatdowns is anything but sweet. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t so many powerful lessons to be learned from what my guest today, , calls the “Hurt Business.” Today, Ed and I talk about how and why people either buy into you (or not), why the next win or loss is just a setup for the next experience of your life, the power of consciously choosing to start over in life and after setbacks, why you’re only as good as your last win, and why “old endings” are nothing more than “new beginnings.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Intro & reconnecting 02:05 – Early podcast memories 04:05 – Building influence through storytelling 06:20 – The power of brand over product 08:40 – Writing the memoir: process and lessons 10:21 – You're only as good as your last win 17:06 – Everything is an audition 23:33 – When to throw in the towel 30:10 – Why most people shouldn’t box 33:22 – Fighting serious people comes at a cost 35:01 – Who chooses a life of combat? 39:32 – The worst guy to fight 46:00 – Identity, curiosity, and starting over 48:56 – How to connect with Ed 51:20 – Nobody’s coming to save you 52:33 – Final thoughts & wrap-up Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
08/01/2025
Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler, in this week's Friday Field Notes, delivers an inspiring episode on becoming a steadfast presence for family and community. He shares seven actionable strategies to navigate life's challenges while supporting others, emphasizing clear communication, firm boundaries, and emotional resilience. Michler urges men to embody trustworthiness and capability, ensuring they’re the reliable "rock" others depend on during tough times. Packed with practical advice and motivational insights, this episode empowers listeners to lead with strength and serve those they love. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Challenges of Life 02:03 - Communicate Your Desires 04:14 - Have Clear Boundaries 06:41 - Do Not Lie 09:02 - Honor Your Word 11:20 - Stay Emotionally Level-Headed 13:41 - Become More Capable 16:04 - Build Your Presence 20:46 - Conclusion: Serve Those You Love Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/30/2025
Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, diving into listener questions on career leaps, mentoring kids, handling feedback, and setting boundaries. From advice on applying for a higher job to being a positive role model for a niece and nephew, they share practical insights for personal growth. The episode also explores the evolution of the Iron Council and the value of its community, offering actionable tips for men striving to thrive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Catching Up and Weekend Recap 03:59 - Applying for a Higher Job 08:05 - Being a Role Model for Kids 15:08 - Evolution of the Iron Council 25:19 - Handling Performance Review Feedback 35:31 - Balancing Boundaries and Openness 44:37 - Battle Planner Clarifications 48:44 - Staying Connected with Order of Man Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego
07/29/2025
AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego
We’re all tempted, at times, to allow our ego to get the better of us. Many of us feel like we’re on top of the world until the precise time we find ourselves on the bottom of it. My guest today, , found himself in just that scenario as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal tech on a routine assignment when he was blown up by an Improvised Explosive Device (IED) that caused him to lose sight and, later, his hearing. Today, we talk about the fear of being stuck, gratitude for our struggles and adversities, overcoming our greatest fears, how positivity and negativity are infectious, and how you can re-size your ego or have it re-sized for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:15 - Aaron's Military Background and Injury 01:10 - Details of the IED Incident 02:04 - Injuries Sustained from the Explosion 04:36 - Medical Evacuation and Tom Cruise Encounter 06:34 - Recovery at Walter Reed 08:31 - Realization of Permanent Blindness 09:20 - Mental State Post-Injury 11:12 - Family Support During Recovery 13:11 - Connecting with Fellow Injured Veterans 17:01 - Overcoming Suicidal Thoughts 19:46 - Adapting to Sensory Loss 21:30 - Battle with Bacterial Meningitis 25:17 - Inspiration from Eric Weihenmayer 26:58 - Transition to Running and Physical Challenges 30:49 - Learning to Run Blind 34:47 - Running Badwater 135 Ultra Marathon 40:34 - Experiencing Runs Without Sight 42:45 - Building Trust with Guides 44:45 - Loss of Balance and Adaptation 51:22 - Mastering the Art of Falling 52:13 - Future Goals and Ventures 54:02 - Launching Point of Impact Podcast 56:13 - Gratitude for Life’s Challenges 58:19 - Closing Thoughts and Appreciation Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
07/25/2025
Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the overwhelming stress men face in their roles as providers and protectors. He offers five practical strategies to manage stress effectively, emphasizing personal responsibility over societal expectations. Michler encourages men to identify stress triggers, eliminate distractions, prioritize health, break monotonous routines, and adjust life's tempo without losing direction. Through actionable advice and personal insights, he empowers listeners to reduce stress and enhance performance, ensuring they can serve their families and communities without crumbling under pressure. Join the conversation at facebook.com/groups/orderofman. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Stress and Masculinity 02:04 - Overview of Five Tips 04:18 - Tip 1: Identify the Root of Stress 06:34 - Tip 2A: Remove Stressors 09:01 - Tip 2B: Eliminate Distractions 11:28 - Tip 3: Prioritize Mental, Emotional, and Physical Health 16:05 - Tip 4: Mix Up Your Routine 18:27 - Tip 5: Change Tempo, Not Direction 20:48 - Recap and Call to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/23/2025
Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into listener questions, exploring themes of faith, letting go, and pursuing purpose. They discuss building male camaraderie through action, overcoming overthinking, and embracing "I don't know" to find peace. From marathon training insights to serving others and knowing when to offer empathy versus tough love, this episode offers practical wisdom for men striving to live with intention. Join the Iron Council brotherhood at orderofman.com for more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Catching Up 05:29 - Strengthening Faith and Prayer 12:39 - Marathon Training Insights 16:44 - Letting Go and Overcoming Overthinking 30:39 - Defining a Life Well-Lived 36:25 - Going All-In on Order of Man 46:07 - Empathy vs. Tough Love in Leadership 53:54 - Reincarnation Animal Discussion 57:19 - Battle Planner and Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health
07/22/2025
NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health
We’re all well-aware of the stigma associated with men’s mental health. Men are often told overtly or covertly to be just be quiet, do your job, and get your work done. And, while there is certainly some validity to us getting the job done when people are relying on us, it’s also valid to consider the mental and emotional battles we often fight as men. Today, I am joined by retired Green Beret, Nick O’Kelly to talk about his time in service the mental and emotional anguish he faced, and what he’s done to overcome the challenges of anxiety, depression, and even suicidal ideation. We talk about how a man begins to confront these issues, finding the balance between bearing down and getting the help we need, how to find teams and avenues of support without feeling weak, and how to confront the stigma (even though we all deal with it) of men’s mental health SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Men's Mental Health Stigma 01:05 - Balancing Pride and Duty 03:12 - Debating Vulnerability 04:27 - Military Career Transitions 06:36 - Family Dynamics and Decisions 09:22 - Managing Career Expectations 11:36 - Spousal Support and Sacrifice 14:36 - Masculine and Feminine Dynamics 18:37 - Expectation Management Challenges 21:23 - Trust in Relationships 25:16 - Decision-Making Struggles 28:26 - Imposter Syndrome in Financial Planning 31:58 - Onset of Mental Health Struggles 37:55 - Consequences of Seeking Help 43:29 - Personal Anxiety Experience 47:32 - Spiritual and Physiological Factors 52:29 - High Achievers and Mental Health 54:16 - Connecting with Nick's Work Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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What You Do Is Who You Are | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
07/18/2025
What You Do Is Who You Are | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares an inspiring message about becoming the person you aspire to be through consistent action. Reflecting on his adventures, from Alaska to Africa, he emphasizes that small, daily habits shape identity and success. Michler addresses overcoming setbacks like divorce or financial struggles, urging listeners to combat imposter syndrome and act now. He breaks down practical steps across four key areas—calibration, connection, condition, and contribution—to live with purpose and achieve goals, encouraging men to take small victories and seek guidance to expedite progress. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:03 - Introduction and Reflections on Adventures 02:23 - Overcoming Setbacks and Imposter Syndrome 04:50 - Calibration: Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health 07:08 - Connection: Building Meaningful Relationships 09:32 - Condition: Prioritizing Physical Health 11:56 - Contribution: Adding Value and Financial Wisdom 14:22 - Celebrating Small Wins and Staying Consistent 16:39 - Closing Thoughts and Call to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Ruthlessly Work Towards Goals | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/16/2025
Ruthlessly Work Towards Goals | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos tackle listener questions on emotional intelligence, co-parenting challenges, manifesting goals, and personal growth. They share practical strategies for managing emotions, setting boundaries in difficult relationships, and taking action to achieve dreams. Reflecting on Ryan’s book Sovereignty, they discuss evolving perspectives on life’s past, present, and future. With personal anecdotes and actionable advice, this episode inspires men to show up authentically and pursue excellence despite life’s challenges. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 01:57 - Emotional Intelligence Strategies 22:00 - Navigating Co-Parenting Conflicts 38:15 - The Power of Manifesting Goals 43:36 - Reflecting on Sovereignty’s Past, Present, and Future 55:15 - Aligning Personal Goals with Purpose Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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DR. ERIC COLE | How Cyberthreats Endanger Men and Their Families
07/15/2025
DR. ERIC COLE | How Cyberthreats Endanger Men and Their Families
Considering how often we utilize technology, we don’t spend as nearly as much time as we should protecting ourselves against the inherent vulnerabilities and bad actors who would exploit the very tools designed to improve our lives. The fact of the matter is, cybersecurity has become a huge issue (only to become more relevant as technology advances). My guest today, , has spent decades learning, understanding, and teaching people how to protect themselves and their loved ones from cyber-threats. Today, we talk about the apps that are more dangerous than others, how best to keep your children safe from online predators, what he calls, cyber-hygiene, why passwords are dead and what to do about it, and why social media will never fully protect children. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:21 - Welcoming Dr. Eric Cole 00:26 - Importance of Cybersecurity for Families 01:24 - Dangers of Sharing Personal Information Online 02:47 - Targeting Vulnerable Individuals 04:26 - Impact of Technology on Parenting 05:45 - Prevalence of Child Exploitation 08:12 - Monitoring Kids' Online Interactions 10:00 - Social Media Security Measures 12:16 - Identifying Suspicious Accounts 15:00 - Limiting Kids' Access to Smartphones 19:09 - Balancing Technology Use 22:32 - Monitoring Social Media Comments 26:00 - Risks of Location Tracking in Photos 30:06 - Moving Beyond Passwords 32:31 - Avoiding Malicious Links 35:13 - Value of Online Protection Services 37:51 - Cell Phones and Privacy Concerns 43:03 - Importance of Software Updates 45:20 - Benefits of Using VPNs 46:43 - Upgrading Technology Safely 49:20 - AI as a Tool, Not a Replacement 52:43 - Practical Cybersecurity Tips 54:24 - Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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A Man’s Guide to Taking More Risks | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
07/11/2025
A Man’s Guide to Taking More Risks | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can embrace calculated risks to achieve success in relationships, health, wealth, and quality of life. He shares five actionable strategies—defining your vision, measuring risk versus reward, hedging bets, conducting a SWOT analysis, and seeking coaching—to ensure risks are prudent and aligned with personal goals. Michler emphasizes preparation and intentionality to minimize threats and maximize opportunities, urging men to act boldly yet wisely. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:26 - The Importance of Calculated Risks 02:10 - Know What You Want 03:52 - Measure Risk vs. Reward 06:11 - Hedge Your Bets 10:39 - Avoid Complacency 13:00 - Conduct a SWOT Analysis 15:24 - Seek Coaching 17:45 - Connect and Take Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Revisiting Your Vision, Reclaiming Your Sovereignty, and The Power of Disruption | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/09/2025
Revisiting Your Vision, Reclaiming Your Sovereignty, and The Power of Disruption | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, leadership, and life challenges. From choosing dream podcasts to reclaiming sovereignty in marriage, they share actionable insights and heartfelt advice. Ryan reflects on a decade of Order of Man, while both discuss overcoming mid-season slumps with mindset shifts and practical strategies. Tune in for inspiration, humor, and wisdom to become the man you're meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Intro and Banter 02:34 - Top Podcasts to Guest On 07:12 - First Cars and Nostalgia 11:20 - Crafting and Sticking to Your Vision 19:17 - Reclaiming Sovereignty in Marriage 33:18 - Order of Man: Proud Moments and Growth 37:07 - Rucking vs. Rolling in Q3 39:58 - Handling a Spouse’s Gas Tank Habits 46:32 - Beating the Mid-Season Slump 52:29 - Wrap-Up and Announcements Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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TAYLOR CAVANAUGH | Crack the Whip or Pull the Reigns?
07/08/2025
TAYLOR CAVANAUGH | Crack the Whip or Pull the Reigns?
Every man is different. Some men are intense and need to learn how to pull back on the reigns. Others are passive and need to learn how to crack the whip. My guest today, former Navy SEAL and French Foreign Legionnaire is a man who more closely resonates with the former but understands the implications of both. Today, Taylor and I talk about how and why men self-sabotage themselves, the importance of internal vs. external validation, how a “Battle Rhythm” helps a man maximize his performance, why success doesn’t “flash,” it “glows,” and why every man is searching for inner peace and clarity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:18 - Welcoming Taylor Cavanaugh 00:55 - Taylor’s Early Struggles and Navy SEAL Aspiration 03:55 - Roots of Self-Sabotage 06:04 - Strengths as Weaknesses in Military Life 09:10 - Backsliding Despite Purpose 11:39 - Transition to Civilian Life 14:45 - Building Internal Discipline 16:25 - Addressing Different Personalities 20:40 - Importance of Battle Rhythm 23:12 - Morning Routine for Clarity 25:36 - Turning Point from Despair 29:36 - Joining the French Foreign Legion 31:05 - SEAL Experience in the Legion 34:16 - Lessons in Simplicity and Patience 37:26 - Significance of a New Identity 40:35 - Starting Coaching from the Legion 43:48 - Connecting with Taylor’s Programs 44:50 - Closing Remarks Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The 4 Ways a Man Provides for His People | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
07/04/2025
The 4 Ways a Man Provides for His People | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the multifaceted role of a man as a provider, extending beyond financial support. Drawing from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, he outlines fou key provisions: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Michler emphasizes equipping loved ones wit skills, emotional resilience, and a sense of purpose rooted in objective truth. With actionable insights he inspires men to lead their families toward abundance and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to ste into your role as a protector, provider, and leader. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00- Introduction to Providing for Your People 02:40 - Physical Provision: Meeting Physiological Needs 05:03 - Mental Provision: Ensuring Safety and Skills 09:47 - Emotional Provision: Building Resilience and Belonging 14:41 - Spiritual Provision: Guiding Toward Purpose 19:24 - Framework for Effective Provision 21:07 - Closing and Call to Action Visit orderofman.com/battleready Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Dealing with a Crossroad | ASK ME ANYTHING
07/02/2025
Dealing with a Crossroad | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this episode of the Ask Me Anything series, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into hard-hitting questions from listeners about fatherhood, masculinity, personal growth, and navigating life’s toughest transitions. They discuss what it means to be a man in today’s culture, the power of physical discipline, balancing martial arts training, and overcoming shame and failure. With raw honesty and practical insight, they challenge men to take ownership, build resilience, and lead with purpose—especially when life demands a reinvention from the ground up. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 News & personal updates 14:22 Devotional roles: husband, father, son 22:43 Thoughts on Liver King 28:18 Balancing jiu-jitsu with other martial arts 34:47 Leading yourself through life transitions 42:43 Fitness and its impact on mindset and leadership 52:53 Training goals into your 50s, 60s & 70s 55:34 Identity, inner dialogue, and breakthrough moments Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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DOUGLAS WILSON | Bold Men. Hard Truths. No Apologies.
07/01/2025
DOUGLAS WILSON | Bold Men. Hard Truths. No Apologies.
Is there a clear and deliberate agenda against men and boys in culture today? Or, is it simply a byproduct of the relative ease of modern times. My guest today, Pastor Douglas Wilson, makes the case that it’s a combination of both and, more accurately, than “modern times,” a result of “wealthy times.” And, if that is the case, what should men do for ourselves and for the future of our children and this world? Today, Doug and I talk about rebuilding strength and order in our lives and instilling it in our boys, how exactly men can step up against the lunacy and degeneracy we see in modern culture, why men make inferior women and vice versa, why reality calls for us, as men, to reckon with the dangerous times in which we live, and why masculinity cannot (and, should not) be legislated away. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Welcome 01:03 - Softness in Society and Masculinity 03:36 - Exploitation in a Soft Society 04:17 - The Need for Righteous and Hard Men 06:30 - Hard Times Create Strong Men 07:58 - Men's Role as Protectors 09:16 - Historical Context of Church Femininity 14:53 - Corporate vs. Individualized Worship 17:51 - Egalitarianism and Traditional Roles 20:27 - Reclaiming Masculinity in Culture 22:57 - Preaching for Truth vs. Consensus 24:30 - Learning Masculinity Through Imitation 28:54 - Single Mothers and Masculine Role Models 31:19 - Balancing Risk and Safety in Raising Boys 37:06 - The Impact of a Pampered Society 41:49- The Decline of Risk-Taking in Men 46:18 - Male-Female Dynamics and Patriarchy 53:29 - Masculinity as Sacrificial Responsibility 57:13 - Promoting Man Rampant and Other Works Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
06/27/2025
The BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability. Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Struggle of Male Connection 02:39 - Importance of Frameworks and Networks 05:06 - The BBQ Test Concept 07:32 - Question 1 & 2: Enjoyment and Resilience 10:01 - Question 3: Deep Thinker or Stooge 12:21 - Question 4: Principled Man 16:44 - Question 5: Capability 18:43 - Evaluating Your Circle 21:08 - The Iron Council Solution 23:30 - Call to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Dealing with Desperation, Developing an Eternal Perspective, & Fostering Vigilance | ASK ME ANYTHING
06/25/2025
Dealing with Desperation, Developing an Eternal Perspective, & Fostering Vigilance | ASK ME ANYTHING
Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into powerful listener-submitted questions around change, brotherhood, leadership, emotional vulnerability, and navigating fear in uncertain times. They explore how desperation and inspiration spark transformation, the traits that make up a strong inner circle, and the importance of vigilance in a chaotic world. Additionally, they explore spiritual perspectives, navigating major life transitions, and emotional expression as fathers. Real talk, real insight — this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance for men striving to lead with strength and clarity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening Banter & Headlines 08:08 – Desperation vs. Inspiration: How Change Happens 15:42 – Building Your Inner Circle 32:22 – Dealing with Eternity and Purpose 41:10 – Managing Fear in Uncertain Times 49:15 – Leading Through Major Life Transitions 52:43 – Emotional Expression as Fathers 59:00 – Iron Council Invitation & Wrap-Up Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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CODY JEFFERSON | Build a Life That Calls to You
06/24/2025
CODY JEFFERSON | Build a Life That Calls to You
Too many men are wandering around aimlessly through life doing just enough in their existence to make it through one more day. That’s part of the reason I founded Order of Man and bring in incredible men like my guest today, . Cody is on a mission to help men find their purpose and live a life they’re called to live. Today, Cody and I talk about why so many men feel they’re always behind and never enough, the pressures a man faces daily and how to relieve them correctly, the source of joy and peace in a man’s life, how your body will tell you a lot about your attitude and efforts in life, why men should focus on who they are, not what they do, and so much more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Friendship 01:11 - Trusting God's Timing 02:59 - Learning from Challenges 05:41 - Being Known vs. Being Seen 07:07 - Overcoming Vices 09:24 - Impact of Self-Sabotage 11:24 - Fear of Success 13:35 - Transition from Ministry 14:38 - Practical Self-Care 19:35 - Lessons from Past Mistakes 23:18 - Health Crisis and Realization 27:04 - Divine Inspiration 30:24 - Importance of Wise Counsel 34:57 - Death and Resurrection 40:13 - Understanding Purpose 43:14 - Calling to Help Others 46:46 - Judging Actions vs. Souls 49:36 - Overcoming Ego 53:16 - Areas of Growth 57:21 - Building a Deeper Connection Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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6 Books Every Father Should Read | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
06/20/2025
6 Books Every Father Should Read | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler shares six essential books for fathers in this heartfelt episode of *Friday Field Notes*. Reflecting on fatherhood’s profound impact, he draws from personal experiences, including a near-death hunting trip with his son. Michler recommends reads like *The Boy Crisis* and *Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters* to help fathers navigate modern challenges, raise resilient sons, and nurture daughters’ self-worth. Emphasizing sovereignty and emotional regulation, he inspires men to lead with purpose,0making this episode a powerful guide for fathers committed to growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood’s Importance 02:31 - Father’s Day Reflections 04:52 - Book 1: The Boy Crisis 06:09 - Book 2: Iron John 07:09 - Book 3: Wild at Heart 09:36 - Book 4: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters 11:02 - Book 5: Men’s Work 12:02 - Book 6: Sovereignty 14:31 - Closing Thoughts and Resources
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The 'Yes' Mentality, Becoming a Man of Honor, and When to Start a Business | ASK ME ANYTHING
06/18/2025
The 'Yes' Mentality, Becoming a Man of Honor, and When to Start a Business | ASK ME ANYTHING
Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle listener questions in this Friday Field Notes "Ask Me Anything" episode. They explore escaping life’s ruts, timing for starting a business, simplifying battle plans, staying disciplined, interviewing high-profile figures, and sharing advice confidently. Recorded early due to a hunting trip, their practical insights and relatable analogies inspire men to take action and live purposefully. Join the Iron Council at orderman.com/ironcouncil for more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and Hunting Plans 09:38 - Escaping Life’s Ruts 18:00 - Timing for Starting a Business 24:21 - Simplifying Battle Plans 34:31 - Maintaining Discipline 45:31 - Framing a High-Profile Interview 51:10 - Sharing Advice Confidently 01:03:21 - Iron Council Enrollment and Wrap-Up
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ORION TARABAN | Winning in the Sexual Marketplace
06/17/2025
ORION TARABAN | Winning in the Sexual Marketplace
Very few men think of relationships in the frame of the “sexual marketplace,” although the rules and principles of attraction and connection can very much be understood as an economic model, of sorts, of perceived value. And, the man who offers the most perceived value, is the man who gets the girl. Whether you’re married or single, understanding the intricacies and nuance of what makes a man attractive to a woman will help him get more of what he wants from her. My guest today, psychologist joins me to discuss these dynamics between men and women so we all get more of what we’re after in relationships. We cover the importance of knowing your value and knowing what is valuable to the opposite sex, why love has little or nothing to do with attraction, what is known as the “Madonna-Whore Complex,” the concepts of Captains and Passengers as it relates to dating and mating, the difference between talking and communicating, and how best to make yourself more attractive. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Captain and Passenger Roles 00:30 - Orion Taraban’s Background and Book Success 01:30 - The Role of YouTube in Building an Audience 03:24 - Orion’s Communication Style and Credentials 07:04 - The Captain and Passenger Metaphor 11:33 - Prerogatives of the Captain 12:23 - Liabilities of Female Captaincy 15:29 - Sexual Marketplace Dynamics 18:38 - Love and Relationships 20:15 - Male Sexuality and Objectification 26:16 - Attraction and the “Bad Boy” Myth 28:12 - The Two Women Concept 32:21 - Communication vs. Talking in Relationships 37:24 - Self-Knowledge and Attraction 41:14 - Double Standards in the Sexual Marketplace 47:20 - Body Count and Sexual Novelty 51:17 - The Coolidge Effect and Male Drive 56:13 - Monogamy and Historical Context 59:54 - Relationships as Economic Transactions 1:03:36 - Marriage as a Business Partnership 1:09:48 - What Women Want in Men 1:16:01 - Standing Out in the Sexual Marketplace 1:23:12 - Where to Connect with Orion
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Break Free From Imposter Syndrome | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
06/13/2025
Break Free From Imposter Syndrome | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this powerful episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles imposter syndrome, urging men to reject feelings of inadequacy and embrace their divine purpose. He challenges the notion of being an imposter, labeling it as selfish and rooted in insecurity. Michler provides a candid, no-nonsense perspective, offering five actionable steps to reframe negative self-stories, unpack insecurities, and lean on others’ belief in oneself. With raw honesty, he inspires listeners to recognize their worth and take bold action to become the men they’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:30 - Introduction to Imposter Syndrome 02:56 - The Selfish Nature of Imposter Syndrome 04:42 - Acknowledging Strengths and Weaknesses 06:54 - Value is Subjective 08:56 - The Comparison Trap 11:07 - You’re Not an Imposter, You’re Learning 12:57 - Imposter Syndrome is Just a Story 14:58 - Unpacking Insecurities with the Five W’s 17:07 - Journaling to Confront Insecurities 19:11 - Rewriting Your Past Story 21:22 - Crafting a New Story 24:50 - Leaning on Others’ Belief in You 27:05 - Rejecting Imposter Syndrome 29:11 - Moral Imperative to Be Your Best 31:18 - Closing Thoughts and Iron Council Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Extreme Emotions, Running From Your Problems, and Fighting For Your Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
06/11/2025
Extreme Emotions, Running From Your Problems, and Fighting For Your Life | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson dive into key questions from listeners on navigating relationships, living with purpose, processing intense emotions, and making tough life decisions. They also explore personal family traditions, the importance of frameworks and accountability, and how to know when it's time to pivot. With honest, practical insights and stories from their own experiences, this episode is packed with value for any man seeking growth, clarity, and strength in all areas of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Intro and catching up 01:38 – Navigating early relationship struggles 08:05 – Living life unabashedly 16:41 – Family summer traditions 20:17 – Processing strong emotions like anger and sadness 30:11 – Running away or moving toward opportunity 40:11 – What would you prioritize if your life was on the line? 45:06 – What to cut out to move forward 48:31 – Turning knowledge into action 54:24 – Preparing for the Forge event & final thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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ANDREW SHAW | Only You Are Holding Yourself Back
06/10/2025
ANDREW SHAW | Only You Are Holding Yourself Back
I believe that most men know they’re leaving room on the table for personal and professional growth and while their diagnosis may be correct, the prescription is wrong. Most men seem to believe that if only their circumstances were different (their boss, their wife, their financial prosperity, etc.), their lives would be better. But the reality is a new circumstances, without a change you yourself, will only produce more of the same. My guest today, , has made it his life’s work to help men break free from the patterns that are holding them back, many of them subconscious. Today, we talk about discipline, resilience, the importances of what he calls, “choice points,” the critical differences between taking fault and taking responsibility, and how many men have over-corrected against the attack on masculinity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 00:27 - Discussing Content and Masculinity 02:34 - Cultural Views on Masculinity 06:15 - Overទ - Reactions and Overcorrections 08:17 - Common Issues Men Face 15:17 - Masculine Traits and Relationships 23:24 - Starting with Self-Alignment 28:14 - Embracing Discomfort for Growth 35:42 - Physical and Emotional Integration 46:40 - Connecting with Andrew Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Your Integrity Gap is Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
06/06/2025
Your Integrity Gap is Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler delves into the concept of the "integrity gap" — the disparity between what men know they should do and what they actually do. He explores how this gap hinders personal growth, results, and relationships, urging listeners to bridge it through actionable steps. Michler provides six introspective questions to help men align their actions with their aspirations, fostering purpose and impact. Tune in to discover how to close the integrity gap and become the man you’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introducing the Integrity Gap 02:23 - Risks of the Integrity Gap 08:17 - Impact on Your People 10:41 - Who Are You Ideally? 14:56 - Who Are You Currently? 18:22 - What Needs to Happen Daily? 20:14 - What Information Do You Need? 22:38 - What Systems Do You Need? 24:50 - What Do You Need to Do Right Now? 26:34 - Adapting to Life’s Challenges Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Regain Momentum, Be a Manly Man, and Overcome Your Heart at War | ASK ME ANYTHING
06/04/2025
Regain Momentum, Be a Manly Man, and Overcome Your Heart at War | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle questions around forgiveness, grief, confidence, and masculine responsibility. They explore how to regain momentum after major life setbacks, navigate strained relationships with parents, and balance humility with confidence. The hosts also discuss toxic masculinity, fatherhood, and the importance of modeling strength and integrity. This episode is a call to rise above a “heart at war” and live as a man of purpose—even in the face of fear, trauma, and adversity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening & News Headlines 03:50 – Forgiving Parents Without Reconnecting 17:18 – Confidence and Humility in One Hand 24:35 – Facing Mortality & Leading Your Family 35:42 – Regaining Momentum After Loss 40:59 – Prioritizing Fitness vs. Financial Goals 48:37 – Why Most Men Stay Stuck 59:05 – Toxic Masculinity, Feminism & Prevention Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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ALEX GRENDI | Sex: How to Be Better at It and Get More of What You Want
06/03/2025
ALEX GRENDI | Sex: How to Be Better at It and Get More of What You Want
From the time we were little boys and young men, the topic of sex has always seemed to conjure up thoughts of embarrassment and shame. It’s unfortunate (to say the least) considering that most men equate sex with the woman in their lives an integral part of the relationship and connection. My guest today, , has made it his life’s work to explore men’s relationships with sex and how we can not only get more of it but make it more meaningful for ourselves and the women in our lives. We talk about porn’s impact on sexual relationships, how to overcome childhood shame around the conversation of sex, how to solicit and ask for feedback in your performance in the bedroom (including how to ask for what you want), why nice guys never get what they want from intimacy, and the psychological and physiological issues men deal with when with their lady. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:25 - Misconceptions About Men and Sex 00:56 - Shame and Societal Expectations 02:05 - Defining "Good" at Sex 03:22 - Impact of Pornography 04:32 - Healthy Perspective on Sex 06:01 - Creating Safety in the Bedroom 07:44 - Balancing Quickies and Intimacy 09:18 - Pornography and Performance Issues 10:54 - Navigating Religious Shame 12:02 - Talking to Kids About Sex 14:57 - Overcoming Shame and Insecurity 18:19 - Steps to Address Performance Anxiety 22:51 - Managing Stress for Better Intimacy 25:05 - Exploring Non-Genital Pleasure 29:24 - Importance of Foreplay 32:18 - Honoring Your Own Needs 36:14 - Mastering Edging Techniques 41:30 - Removing Ejaculation as the Goal 44:42 - Communicating Desires Effectively 50:28 - Leadership in Intimacy 53:06 - Reframing Sexual Intentions 55:42 - Connecting with Alex Grendi Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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