Order of Man
Failures, victories, wins, and losses. We're exploring, uncovering, and unpacking the most valuable life lessons learned from the most successful men on the planet. Conversations include Jocko, Chris Williamson, Ben Shapiro, Dave Ramsey, David Goggins, Tim Tebow, Shawn Ryan, Cam Hanes, Terry Crews, Matthew McConaughey, Adam Carolla, Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, Mark Manson, and so many more. If you want to learn how to be a better man, we've got you covered.
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Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING
03/25/2026
Closing Uncommunicated Loops, Building an Integrity Tour, and Developing a Value System | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this AMA episode, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into integrity, self-sabotage, and what it actually means to live as a man of principle. They break down the four quadrants of the battle plan, discuss why men struggle with consistency, and explore how unresolved guilt and avoidance quietly drain energy. Listener questions cover everything from building brotherhood and fitness routines to fatherhood and cultural influence. Ryan also shares a powerful story about his “integrity tour” and why owning your mistakes—without excuses—can completely transform your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening + mindset on agreement and self-awareness 16:00 - Transition into listener Q&A 17:18 - The four quadrants of the battle plan 27:40 - Boxing training and fitness consistency 34:12 - How past wounds shape your mission 49:34 - Misconceptions about Order of Man 52:49 - Building brotherhood from scratch 57:58 - Fathers vs culture: the real battle 01:00:25 - Men’s Forge event + closing thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within
03/24/2026
GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within
Today, we’re talking with a man who chose courage when it would’ve been easier to stay quiet. Back in May of 2020, during the height of COVID restrictions, he stood up for himself, and paid the price, facing serious fallout including a wrongful termination suit in a time when being a cop was already under fire. This is a conversation about what it means to stop living through other men, to stop outsourcing adventure, and to answer that internal call - even when it costs you everything. We get into his mission to row the Pacific, the realities of isolation, risk, and mental warfare, and what it takes to prepare - physically, operationally, and emotionally - for something this extreme. From growing up on a fishing boat in Alaska to navigating fear, family, and the unknown, this is about courage through adversity - and what a man discovers when there’s nowhere left to hide. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Reconnection After 6 Years 00:30 - Speaking Out Against COVID & Losing His Job 01:12 - Fired from the Police Department 03:41 - Failed Lawsuit & Letting It Go 05:52 - From Police Work to Jiu-Jitsu Entrepreneur 07:18 - Faith, Purpose & Looking Back on Hard Times 08:20 - The Idea to Row Across the Pacific 10:14 - From Inspiration to Action 12:05 - The Boat, Gear & No-Support Mission 14:01 - Is This Reckless with a Family? 16:25 - Why Men Need Adventure 19:23 - Commitment, Risk & No Turning Back 21:27 - Survival Logistics: Food, Water, Safety 24:25 - Team Dynamics & Avoiding Conflict 27:50 - Mental Cycles in Extreme Environments 30:03 - The Power of Mission & Purpose 33:52 - Biggest Fears: Ocean, Isolation & Survival 37:40 - Fear vs Excitement Mindset 41:02 - War Stories & Conditioning to Danger 46:21 - Conversations with Family & Wife’s Support 49:53 - Why His Wife Believes in Him 52:48 - Identity, Risk & Living Fully 56:43 - The Reality of Life on the Boat 59:04 - Training, Nutrition & Physical Prep 01:00:37 - How to Support the Mission Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
03/20/2026
Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
We’ve been sold a dangerous lie - that the goal of life is comfort. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down why comfort is quietly destroying ambition, discipline, and purpose in modern men. What feels good in the moment is often the very thing holding you back long-term. If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or drifting, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything. Ryan shares 5 practical ways to reintroduce challenge into your life, build discipline, and become the man you’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Lie of Comfort 00:35 - Why Comfort is an Addiction 01:10 - Life is Too Easy (Not Too Hard) 02:15 - The Slow Fade Into Mediocrity 03:00 - Comfort Mimics Progress 04:20 - Do One Hard Thing Daily 05:30 - Eliminate a Comfort Crutch 06:45 - Stop Hiding (Accountability) 08:40 - Schedule Discomfort 10:05 - When Comfort Destroys Your Life 11:50 - Earn Your Comfort 13:10 - Comfort Creates Weak Men 15:30 - Ask “What’s Required?” 17:00 - Final Challenge Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING
03/18/2026
Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer listener questions on masculinity, business, relationships, and personal discipline. They discuss common misconceptions about manhood, why men can’t succeed alone, and the hidden “inner work” behind strong masculinity. The conversation also covers social media side hustles, financial decisions, building business networks, and how to break out of destructive habits. Ryan and Kipp also tackle relationship dynamics, including respect in marriage and the real reason attraction fades in long-term relationships. This episode is packed with practical advice on taking ownership, building momentum, and becoming a better man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Opening conversation 02:33 Iron Council preview call announcement 03:14 Question: Beliefs about manhood that proved wrong 16:50 Question: Is my social media side hustle a waste of time? 25:53 Question: Thoughts on peptides 29:48 Question: Is $2,200 rent on $6K income realistic? 36:00 Question: Building a construction trade network 43:44 Question: Breaking destructive habits and starting over 49:05 Question: Respect and cooperation in marriage 53:11 Question: Why wives lose attraction Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward
03/17/2026
JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward
Today I’m joined by , a New York Times bestselling author who has spent years studying why so many of us procrastinate and how to finally get out of our own way. We talk about the real reasons people stall out—fear, rejection, imposter syndrome, perfectionism—and how comparison, when used correctly, can actually become a source of inspiration rather than insecurity. Jon also shares practical frameworks for focusing on effort instead of obsessing over outcomes, creating your own personal scorecard for success, and adopting a “let’s find out” mentality when it comes to pursuing goals and navigating uncertainty. If you’ve ever felt stuck between what you say you want and what you’re actually doing, this conversation will give you some tools to start closing that gap. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro & Jon Acuff returns to the podcast 01:14 - Why Ryan hates the term “Imposter Syndrome” 03:12 - Healthy vs destructive comparison 06:01 - “Audition your goals” instead of committing immediately 08:25 - Why men create fictional problems before starting 09:56 - Perfectionism and the “all or nothing” trap 12:21 - Thinking long-term to make better decisions 14:56 - “Noble obstacles” and how we sabotage ourselves 20:57 - The danger of attaching too much to outcomes 23:27 - Holding two opposing truths in leadership 25:26 - The “Let’s Find Out” mentality 27:57 - Why men need other men to push them 33:18 - Ryan’s story of channeling anger through wrestling 35:15 - The four permissions that beat procrastination 38:48 - Discipline vs desire 43:36 - Hustlers skipping the planning stage 45:12 - Becoming the best salesperson of yourself 49:22 - Why men overcommit their schedules 50:04 - How men hide inside hobbies 55:12 - Measuring success as a father 58:45 - Parenting example: the tattoo story 01:02:13 - Where to find Jon Acuff and his new book Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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How to Rebuild Your Life When You’ve Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
03/13/2026
How to Rebuild Your Life When You’ve Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Life can collapse faster than we expect. A divorce, financial loss, health issues, or the breakdown of relationships can leave a man wondering where to even begin again. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares six strategies for rebuilding your life when everything feels like it’s falling apart. Drawing from personal experience and years of working with thousands of men, Ryan explains why rebuilding doesn’t start with massive breakthroughs—it starts with small, disciplined actions that restore stability and control. If you're facing rock bottom—or helping someone who is—this episode outlines the mindset and practical steps required to rebuild stronger than before. Ryan covers why stabilizing yourself is more important than rushing into strategy, how taking full ownership restores your personal power, and why rebuilding your body is one of the fastest ways to regain confidence and discipline. He also explains the importance of simplifying your life, stacking small wins, and surrounding yourself with the right brotherhood so you don’t face the rebuilding process alone. Rock bottom doesn’t have to be the end of your story. It can be the foundation for becoming the man you were meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Intro 00:22 When Life Falls Apart 02:56 Where Do You Even Start? 03:33 Stabilize Before You Strategize 05:05 The Fundamentals: Sleep, Training, Nutrition 07:12 Creating Daily Structure 08:49 Take Ruthless Ownership of Your Life 11:20 Powerful Questions for Self-Reflection 12:40 Simplify Your Life Aggressively 15:28 Rebuild Your Body First 17:25 The Power of Stacking Small Wins 21:00 Why Brotherhood Matters 24:55 Why No Man Rebuilds Alone 25:55 Using Rock Bottom as Your Starting Block 27:19 Who Do You Become Now? 28:00 Iron Council Brotherhood 29:00 Final Thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Men’s Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING
03/11/2026
Men’s Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a wide range of listener questions-from AI and authenticity to divorce, brotherhood, and extreme ownership. Ryan shares lessons from his own divorce about reflection, accountability, and rebuilding your life after a major setback. The conversation also dives into why authenticity builds trust, the danger of labeling words as violence, and how men can start building strong brotherhoods even if they’ve spent most of their lives alone. If you’re feeling stuck in your career, isolated in life, or unsure how to take the next step forward, this episode offers practical guidance and honest perspective. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:04 - Introduction and lacrosse tournament story 03:46 - Listener question: AI and content creation 17:57 - Navigating divorce and staying afloat emotionally 30:17 - New Order of Man merchandise designs 32:14 - Ideals worth fighting or dying for 35:15 - Violence, language, and societal perception 42:16 - Building brotherhood from scratch 51:22 - Extreme ownership when stuck in a job 59:24 - Reflecting on advice given years earlier 59:50 - Episode closing remarks Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man
03/10/2026
RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man
My good friend Kipp Sorensen interviews me. I'm on the hot seat today and very excited to be talking with you about all things Order of Man, including the origin story of Order of Man, why we need to be careful of falling into the comparison trap, but how it can actually help you by comparing yourself in healthy ways to others. We talk about having healthy relationships with delayed gratification. Any misconceptions about what order of man does what we're doing now and into the future, how we've grown the movement, and how we continue to innovate and come up with new ideas. We talk about some of the tactics and strategies. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Cold Open & Fight Talk 03:12 Reversing the Roles — Ryan on the Hot Seat 05:30 The Origin of Order of Man 11:20 Launching the Iron Council 13:50 Commitment and Delayed Gratification 19:28 Why Ryan Never Quit the Mission 22:00 Lessons From Personal Struggles and Divorce 28:00 Commitment to the Mission vs Results 30:20 The Trap of Always Chasing “What’s Next” 34:28 Dealing With Pressure and Escapism 40:32 Handling Leadership Pressure 43:07 The Danger of the Red Pill Movement 48:00 The Problem With Modern Masculinity Influencers 50:53 The Real Men We Should Look Up To 53:25 What Men Often Get Wrong About Masculinity 54:47 The Intangible Side of Protect, Provide, Preside 01:00:37 Tactical vs Strategic Leadership as a Father 01:14:17 Being an Introvert With a Massive Audience 01:15:41 The Impact of Listener Stories 01:22:26 Call to Action for Men Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Why the Lone Wolf Dies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
03/06/2026
Why the Lone Wolf Dies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler challenges the cultural myth of the “lone wolf” man and explains why isolation is quietly destroying modern men. While movies, social media, and modern culture glorify the rugged individual who needs no one, the truth is the opposite - men were built for brotherhood, tribes, and shared struggle. Ryan breaks down why modern systems incentivize isolation, how loneliness leads to mediocrity and addiction, and what men can do to build real brotherhood again. From historical examples of men organizing to modern distractions that keep men disconnected, this episode is a powerful reminder that the strongest men aren’t lone wolves - they’re leaders of packs. Ryan also shares practical ways to build connection, including where brotherhood naturally forms and how to take the first step in creating it. In This Episode Why the “lone wolf” myth is a lie What actually happens to lone wolves in nature How isolation is affecting modern men Why systems and incentives push men toward loneliness How technology simulates brotherhood without delivering it The dangers of losing accountability and perspective Why strong men throughout history built tribes Practical ways to build real brotherhood today The three environments where men improve together Why shared struggle builds deeper bonds than conversation Resources & Links Iron Council Brotherhood The Men’s Forge Event Montana Knife Company Code: ORDERMAN Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The ‘Let’s Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING
03/04/2026
The ‘Let’s Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle powerful questions from the brotherhood. They discuss what lessons they are intentionally teaching their children, why so many men feel life is out of their control, and how to balance purpose with financial opportunity. They dive into navigating raises, friendships strained by marriage dynamics, changing your mind when confronted with new evidence, and what role men should play in addressing corruption and cultural issues. As always, this episode blends practical advice with direct challenges to step up, take ownership, and live intentionally. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Fireplace Story & Technology Comforts 07:06 - Teaching Kids What We Didn’t Learn 14:10 - Control vs Victim Mentality 24:33 - Purpose vs Money 29:48 - Changing Your Mind 37:18 - Investing for Your Kids 41:24 - Asking for a Raise 49:11 - Friendship & Marriage Boundaries 53:35 - Epstein Issue & Civic Responsibility 58:05 - Stop Talking. Start Acting. Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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RUDY REYES | Improve Your Position, Always
03/03/2026
RUDY REYES | Improve Your Position, Always
What does it mean to manufacture “do or die” intensity in a world that’s built for comfort? How do you improve your position always — not just tactically, but physically, mentally, and spiritually? In this episode, we dig into conditioning as a way of life, why wind is everything, why over-specialization weakens men, and how to build true work capacity through skill, strength, and nervous system development. We talk about leading from the front, refusing to put men on pedestals, removing the mask, and confronting the quiet war of self-deception and self-worth that so many men fight in silence. To unpack it, I’m joined by — Force Recon Marine, warrior-athlete, conservationist, and a man who has lived these principles from jungle warfare to rebuilding coral reefs with . Rudy brings a rare blend of intensity and benevolence, tactical precision and spiritual depth. This conversation is about becoming dangerous in the right way — stronger for your family, clearer in your identity, and grounded in the truth that you may never be “enough”… and why that’s liberating. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:26 - Improve Your Position Always 05:56 - Conditioning vs. Strength 14:20 - The Importance of Wind (Endurance) 20:43 - Position in Space & Neurological Health 22:05 - Rudy’s 3-Part Training Philosophy 30:50 - The True Meaning of “Fitness” 32:28 - The Danger of Over-Specialization 38:40 - Sergeant Reyes vs. The Real Rudy 42:53 - Respecting the Recruits on Special Forces 51:38 - How to Lead Men Effectively 56:14 - Taking Off the Armor After Service 01:00:03 - Dropping the Mask & Rebuilding Life 01:04:02 - Shame, Identity & Never Being Enough 01:07:22 - Changing How We Talk to Ourselves 01:11:15 - Building Impact Over Income 01:13:34 - The Man in the Mirror Standard Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The Rise and Fall of Shia LaBeouf | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
02/27/2026
The Rise and Fall of Shia LaBeouf | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler reflects on the public rise and fall of actor Shia LaBeouf to explore a deeper issue affecting men everywhere: isolation. While fame and success may amplify a man’s strengths and weaknesses, they cannot stabilize him. Ryan argues that the real danger is not failure, but a lack of brotherhood and accountability. Through personal insight and hard-earned experience, he challenges men to build strong systems and surround themselves with brothers who will confront, support, and walk with them - especially when life begins to unravel. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Rise and Fall of Shia LaBeouf 04:36 - Success Amplifies, It Doesn’t Stabilize 07:15 - No TMZ in Your Living Room 09:36 - Untouchable Men Become Unstable 12:05 - What Real Brotherhood Does 16:25 - Systems Over Willpower 18:51 - Fame Didn’t Destroy Him 20:09 - Who Can Confront You? 21:02 - Submit to Accountability 22:48 - A Call to Build the Brotherhood Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING
02/25/2026
Be a Better Man, Raise Your Sons Right, and Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Body | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week's Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive deep into ancestry, fatherhood, marriage, leadership, depression, and raising strong young men in a modern world. From guiding your kids with better standards, to rebuilding intimacy in marriage, to understanding what real vulnerability looks like, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. They also discuss how men often become their own biggest obstacle - and what to do about it. Plus, a conversation about movies that shape boys into men. If you're navigating fatherhood, marriage, or personal growth, this one hits home. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Ironman Training & Weekend Plans 09:05 - Family Ancestry & Legacy 15:51 - Raising Kids with Higher Standards 25:03 - What Women Mean by “Vulnerability” 28:47 - Are Movies a Good Way to Teach Boys? 40:35 - Marriage Struggles & Depression 53:02 - The Power of Brotherhood Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility
02/24/2026
FRANK SCHWARTZ | Not Your Fault, But Your Responsibility
There are things that happened to you that weren’t your fault. Maybe your dad wasn’t there. Maybe no one modeled strength, discipline, or direction. Maybe you were handed confusion instead of clarity and drift instead of standards. But while it may not have been your fault, it is your responsibility. And the moment you understand that is the moment your life begins to change. Today, my guest (Dark Helmet in the F3 Community, and I talk about what it means to stop blaming, stop guessing, and start leading. We’ll unpack why so many men feel disconnected from purpose, how to build direction through fitness, fellowship, and faith, and why your community needs you to set the standard - not apologize for it. This isn’t about shame. It’s about ownership. And ownership is where power begins. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Time Passing & Becoming Grandfathers 01:32 - 100,000 Men & What They’re Really Struggling With 02:39 - The Crisis of Purpose in Modern Men 05:01 - Why Brotherhood Changes Everything 06:21 - Leadership Without Pretending You Have It All Figured Out 09:59 - “It’s Your Dad’s Fault… Now It’s Your Responsibility.” 11:12 - Fitness as the Tool for Fellowship 14:16 - The Standard: Why Men Must Assimilate, Not Soften It 18:18 - Nice vs. Kind: The Truth About Real Love 20:23 - Candor: Telling Hard Truths & Demanding Them Back 23:58 - Nothing Gets Better Until Men Get Better 38:03 - A Battle to Fight: Turning Pain into Purpose 41:52 - Becoming a Higher Agency Man 44:44 - Changing Your Thinking & Building Momentum 47:47 - From “Can’t Do” to “Can’t Not Do” 49:31 - The Return to Virtuous Masculinity 52:24 - Why Men Need Tribe, Not Just Information Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
02/20/2026
5 Lies Women Tell Men | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan dives into five common phrases women say that often don’t match what they actually mean. This isn’t about deception or manipulation - it’s about understanding human nature, attraction dynamics, emotional safety, and relationship leadership. If men build relationships on what’s said instead of what’s actually happening beneath the surface, they risk frustration, confusion, and disconnection. Ryan breaks down: - Why “I’m fine” rarely means fine - The truth behind “He’s just a friend” - Why women don’t actually want a “nice guy” - The myth of the “dad bod” preference - What’s really behind “I don’t need a man” The goal? Stronger relationships, better discernment, and healthier dynamics between men and women. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro 00:15 - Why This Conversation Matters 01:00 - Lie #1: “I’m Fine” 05:10 - Lie #2: “He’s Just a Friend” 09:58 - Lie #3: “I Want a Nice Guy” 14:39 - Lie #4: “I Like Dad Bods” 17:55 - Lie #5: “I Don’t Need a Man” 23:37 - What This Is Really About 25:05 - The Men’s Forge Event 26:02 - Final Thoughts & Outro Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING
02/18/2026
Chase Vs. Pursue, Re-Writing Your Scripts, and Leading with Clarity | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp dive into powerful listener questions from the Iron Council and Facebook group. They break down the difference between chasing and pursuing, how to handle employee resentment after promotions, and how childhood beliefs silently shape the man you become. The conversation moves into leading through chaos, navigating marital strain, protecting yourself during divorce, and the real risks and opportunities of AI. Raw, unfiltered, and highly practical - this episode is packed with leadership wisdom for men navigating business, marriage, and modern life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:45 Chasing vs. Pursuing 07:42 Handling Employee Raise Fallout 22:13 Childhood Beliefs That Shape You 32:17 Leading Through Setbacks 41:17 When Is Enough Enough in Marriage? 45:45 The Truth About AI Risks & Leverage 01:06:06 Divorce Strategy & Legal Advice 01:09:17 The Last Time We Laughed Hard Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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RICHARD RYAN | Guarding Your Mind in a Digital World
02/17/2026
RICHARD RYAN | Guarding Your Mind in a Digital World
We’re living in a digital battlefield and most men don’t even know they’re fighting. The time we spend on our devices is unreal, and if it’s free, you’re the product. Algorithms and machine learning are engineered to hijack your attention, erode focus, and create compulsive habits. Today we’re talking about auditing your digital life, removing the noise to find the signal, and building the discipline to guard your mind in an age of constant distraction. Joining me is , author of , built on the principle that it’s better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war. We discuss digital detox, delayed gratification, accountability, and reclaiming the smallest locus of control so you can’t be manipulated by the forces competing for your attention. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Recording Begins & Digital Reality Check 00:50 - The Attention Economy: You Are the Product 03:00 - Negativity Bias & Why Outrage Wins Online 07:00 - Screen Time Audit: The Lifetime Cost 10:00 - Subscription Culture & Hidden Digital Leakage 12:30 - AI & Cognitive Atrophy: Guarding Your Mind 14:00 - Digital Detox & Withdrawal Symptoms 16:00 - The “Dead Internet” Theory 20:45 - Expediency & The Death of Delayed Gratification 22:30 - The Marshmallow Study & Impulse Control 28:00 - Compulsive App Use & “First Pickups” 31:00 - Addiction Substitution & Dopamine Traps 36:00 - Accountability & Why 95% Succeed With It 38:00 - Gratitude as Mental Armor 41:30 - Optimism, Awareness & Opportunity 49:00 - Incentives Drive Outcomes (Politics & Power) 55:00 - Personal Responsibility Over Group Dependency 58:00 - True Diversity: Strength Through Capability 1:02:30 - Warriors Garden & Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Men Have Lost Initiation | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
02/13/2026
Men Have Lost Initiation | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Men have lost initiation. There was a time when boys were tested before becoming men. They faced hardship. They endured pain. They returned changed - recognized as men. Today, that process is gone. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down: Why modern men feel lost The three elements of ancient initiation Why pain is necessary How comfort culture is weakening men Why nobody is coming to initiate you How to initiate yourself If you feel stuck, drifting, or chasing validation - this episode is for you. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Men Have Lost Initiation 00:26 When Boys Knew They Became Men 02:50 The Cost of Extended Adolescence 05:10 Comfort Culture Is Weakening Men 07:25 “Where Have All the Real Men Gone?” 08:05 The Three Elements of Initiation 08:30 Removed From Comfort 09:24 The Benefit of Pain 11:15 The Trial: Facing Fear 12:56 Recognition and Acknowledgment 14:49 Drifting, Chasing, and the Integrity Gap 16:35 Nobody Is Coming to Initiate You 17:14 Voluntary Hardship 18:45 What Initiation Looks Like Today 19:45 Brotherhood Is Modern Initiation 20:51 The World Needs Grounded Men 21:15 Questions Every Man Must Ask Himself 22:21 Do Something Difficult This Week 23:47 Steadiness Over Loudness 24:35 Choose the Fire 25:00 Join the Iron Council 25:20 The Men’s Forge Event 26:00 Final Challenge Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING
02/11/2026
Signal to Noise Ratio, Protecting Leadership Standards, and Why Curiosity Wins | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer powerful questions from the Iron Council on leadership, fatherhood, faith, discipline, and personal responsibility. They explore how to eliminate noise and live an integrated life, coach teenage boys through cultural conflict, raise resilient children, and avoid bureaucratic leadership traps. The conversation also confronts modern church culture, challenges the pursuit of comfort over growth, and defines what it truly means to be present as a father - even when work demands time away. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 03:50 - Signal vs Noise and Life Integration 14:27 - Coaching Teens Through Cultural Conflict 22:52 - Leadership Systems vs Human Judgment 34:41 - Faith, Masculinity, and the Modern Church 47:29 - Helping Kids Find Their Passion 52:31 - Defining Presence as a Working Father 56:19 - Men’s Forge Event Announcement Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty
02/10/2026
IAN WENDT | Securing Your Sovereignty
In a world that constantly pressures men to outsource responsibility, comfort has become a substitute for competence and dependence is sold as safety. But sovereignty isn’t something given to you by institutions, culture, or circumstance. It’s secured through discipline, ownership, and a commitment to lead yourself first. In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to secure your sovereignty—mentally, physically, financially, and morally—so no one else gets to dictate the terms of your life. My guest today, , joins me for a powerful conversation on reclaiming authority over your decisions, your time, and your future. We dig into the hidden trade-offs men make when they surrender control, the systems that quietly erode independence, and the practical steps required to stand firm as a self-governed man in an increasingly unstable world. This isn’t about rebellion, it’s about responsibility. If you’re serious about protecting what you’ve built and leading with clarity and conviction, this is a conversation you need to hear. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - The Evolution of Podcasting 00:13:36 - Ryan’s Origin Story and Order of Man 00:29:03 - The State of Masculinity Today 00:44:18 - Leadership, Standards, and Responsibility 00:59:03 - Marriage, Fatherhood, and Presence 01:14:32 - Building Brotherhood and Community 01:29:01 - Discipline, Business, and Personal Code 01:44:07 - Final Advice for Men Who Want More 01:58:34 - Closing Thoughts Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Clarity Creates Confidence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
02/06/2026
Clarity Creates Confidence | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Most men believe confidence comes after certainty - once they make more money, gain more experience, or eliminate risk. In this Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler challenges that belief and explains why clarity, not certainty, is the real source of confidence. Ryan breaks down how ambiguity quietly drains a man’s energy, why indecision exhausts the nervous system, and how avoiding clarity eventually leads to resentment, broken relationships, and missed opportunities. He also explains why most men don’t lack clarity - they lack the courage to act on what they already know. This episode is a call to action: stop negotiating with clarity, make decisions, and move forward calmly, deliberately, and decisively. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Confidence vs Certainty 00:38 - Why Ambiguity Drains Men 02:32 - How Indecision Exhausts Your Energy 04:34 - Clarity Calms the Nervous System 05:45 - Confidence Is Calm, Not Loud 06:30 - Why Men Avoid Clarity 08:08 - Clarity Requires Courage 10:16 - “Patience” as Avoidance 12:19 - What You Avoid Will Confront You 14:00 - Clarity Is Respect, Not Aggression 15:52 - The One Question You Must Ask Yourself 17:02 - One Decision Can Change Everything 19:07 - Confidence Comes After Decision 21:22 - Final Challenge to Get Clear Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Connect With Your Daughters, Uncommunicated Expectations, and Systems for Overcoming Divorce | ASK ME ANYTHING
02/04/2026
Connect With Your Daughters, Uncommunicated Expectations, and Systems for Overcoming Divorce | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle real-world questions from men across the globe. They discuss staying on the path after divorce, resisting the urge to chase new systems, and why consistency matters more than quick results. The conversation dives into parenting sons and daughters, raising boys through real-world apprenticeship, navigating estranged relationships with adult children, and how emotional regulation shapes leadership and influence. From fitness and fatherhood to boundaries, patience, and embodiment, this episode offers grounded wisdom for men committed to growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Weekend banter and life updates 03:35 - Systems after divorce and consistency 14:12 - Predictions, expectations, and relationships 21:26 - Taking young children into the outdoors 29:29 - Connecting with daughters as a father 35:55 - Teaching young men leadership and decisions 42:46 - Estrangement from children and self-leadership 51:48 - Men’s Forge event announcement and CTA Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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PAUL ROSOLIE | Guard What You Love, Or You’ll Lose It
02/03/2026
PAUL ROSOLIE | Guard What You Love, Or You’ll Lose It
What does it mean to truly protect something you love? And, what are you willing to sacrifice to do it? Today’s guest has gone farther into the wild than most people ever will, not for thrill or ego, but to defend one of the most threatened ecosystems on Earth. From the depths of the Amazon rainforest to the front lines of conservation, this is a conversation about courage, responsibility, and confronting fear head-on. My guest today is Paul Rosolie, a renowned explorer, conservationist, and storyteller whose life’s work is rooted in protecting the Amazon and the creatures that inhabit it. We talk about what the jungle teaches you about yourself, the modern war on nature, and his powerful new book, Junglekeeper, which challenges us to stop outsourcing responsibility and start defending what matters, personally and globally. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:15 - Encounter With an Uncontacted Amazon Tribe 04:10 - The Amazon Rubber Boom and Tribal Genocide 06:45 - Protecting the Last Wild Places 08:20 - Life Before Civilization 10:00 - Romanticizing Primitive Life vs Reality 12:35 - Modern Man’s Disconnection From Nature 15:35 - Why the Wild Shapes Strong Men 18:45 - Artificial Fitness vs Real Work 20:25 - Is Saving the Amazon Even Possible? 23:45 - Hope, Despair, and Media Manipulation 26:00 - Overpopulation and Ecological Limits 29:00 - Letting Nature Regulate Itself 34:20 - Conservation vs Human Arrogance 37:05 - How Storytelling Saves Ecosystems 40:55 - Why Extreme Activism Backfires 43:45 - Hunters as Conservationists 46:50 - Dropping Out and Going All In 49:55 - Near-Death Encounters in the Wild 54:25 - From Adventurer to Protector 56:00 - Hope as a Weapon Against Despair Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
01/30/2026
Weak Boundaries Kill Relationships | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Healthy boundaries are essential - but most men don’t know what they actually look like. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down eight practical boundaries every man must establish in his personal, professional, and romantic relationships to build respect, alignment, and long-term success. These boundaries aren’t about control or ultimatums - they’re about clarity, self-respect, and creating relationships that truly work. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Why Boundaries Matter 01:10 - Why Men Struggle with Boundaries 02:38 - Grace, Communication, and Relationships 03:05 - High Fences Make Great Neighbors 05:05 - Alignment in Healthy Relationships 06:15 - Boundary #1: Reciprocity 07:26 - Boundary #2: Initiation 08:50 - Boundary #3: Flow 10:55 - Boundary #4: Capacity 12:08 - Boundary #5: Self-Abandonment 14:45 - Boundary #6: Regulation 17:30 - Boundary #7: Exit Boundary 22:55 - Boundary #8: Potential 24:10 - Identifying Triggered Boundaries 26:05 - Communicating Boundaries Effectively 28:40 - Join Iron Council 30:05 - Final Thoughts & Sign-Off Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Establishing Boundaries, Physical Touch Between Men, and Overcoming Jealousy | ASK ME ANYTHING
01/28/2026
Establishing Boundaries, Physical Touch Between Men, and Overcoming Jealousy | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan and Kipp tackle some of the most misunderstood challenges men face today. They break down how to establish clear and healthy boundaries - especially the role of reciprocity in relationships - and why unspoken expectations often lead to resentment. The conversation also explores the importance of physical touch between men and how appropriate, grounded connections build trust and brotherhood. Finally, they address jealousy, comparison, and social media, offering practical strategies for cultivating gratitude while still pursuing growth. This episode is a tactical, honest discussion on showing up as a grounded, intentional man in every area of life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening 06:57 - UFC Commentary and Attention Spans 12:07 - Taking Ownership Around Authority Figures 19:42 - Carrot vs. Stick in Self-Discipline 26:20 - Physical Touch and Connection Between Men 31:47 - Choosing a Word or Theme for the Year 37:04 - Boundaries, Reciprocity, and Resentment 48:50 - Discipling and Mentoring Young Men 56:50 - Overcoming Jealousy and Social Comparison 01:03:51 - Raising Boys and Recommended Resources Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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JOSHUA BECKER | Enough is Enough: How Owning Less Gives You More
01/27/2026
JOSHUA BECKER | Enough is Enough: How Owning Less Gives You More
Most men don’t realize how much of their anxiety, distraction, and frustration is tied to what they own—and what owns them. We live in a culture that constantly tells us to want more, buy more, and accumulate more, yet peace, clarity, and contentment feel further away than ever. Today’s conversation is about pushing back against that noise and asking a harder, more honest question: When is enough, enough? My guest is , author of . Joshua challenges the idea that minimalism is lifeless or empty and reframes it as an intentional act of stewardship, generosity, and purpose. We talk about consumerism, greed, anxiety, and the hidden cost of everything we own—and how living with less can actually free us to love people more deeply, live with greater clarity, and invest in what truly matters. This is a conversation about discipline, contentment, and creating a life that serves your mission—not your possessions. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Why Consumerism Fuels Misery 02:15 - The Inner Motivations Behind Overconsumption 04:49 - Selling With Integrity vs Manufacturing Need 07:10 - How Algorithms Shape Desire 11:44 - Purpose as the Filter for Consumption 14:42 - When Possessions Become a Burden 18:16 - Experimenting With Owning Less 21:13 - Reducing Phone Dependency 24:13 - The “Any Benefit” Mentality 28:01 - Wealth, Anxiety, and Possessions 32:20 - Wanting Less vs Earning More 34:06 - Money as a Magnifier 38:51 - What You Own Ends Up Owning You 44:17 - When Is Enough, Enough? 47:44 - Discovering You Have Enough Through Giving 51:59 - Generosity and Abundance 55:20 - Stewardship as the Antidote to Comparison 58:10 - Uncluttered Faith and the Hope Effect Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Suffer Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
01/23/2026
Suffer Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Pain is part of life. Breakups, divorce, job loss, grief, frustration - every man faces suffering at some point. The difference between men who grow stronger and men who grow bitter isn’t whether they suffer, but how they carry it. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explains what it really means to “suffer like a man.” Not suppressing emotions. Not performing toughness. But learning how to metabolize pain into strength, discipline, clarity, and usefulness. Ryan shares five powerful principles that will help you stop wasting your suffering and start using it as fuel for growth, leadership, and resilience - in your work, your family, and your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Suffer Like a Man (Intro) 00:50 - Suffering Isn’t the Problem 01:45 - Why Men Numb Pain 03:11 - When Suffering Makes You Bitter 04:56 - Stop Resisting Pain 06:10 - Name the Pain 06:58 - Contain It, Don’t Leak It 07:23 - Explode or Implode 08:45 - Move Pain Through the Body 10:58 - Don’t Waste Your Suffering 11:35 - Extract the Meaning 13:12 - Let Suffering Make You Useful 15:18 - Suffering Builds Strong Men 16:42 - Suffering Is Part of the System 18:05 - Final Charge to Men Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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Optimizing Testosterone, When Masculinity Died, and Building Rites of Passages | ASK ME ANYTHING
01/21/2026
Optimizing Testosterone, When Masculinity Died, and Building Rites of Passages | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle some of the most pressing questions facing modern men. From the pros and cons of testosterone replacement therapy to rites of passage for men who were never initiated, the conversation dives deep into masculinity, leadership, and responsibility. They explore how men can give advice with confidence, navigate today’s confusing cultural signals around manhood, and prepare their sons for a challenging financial future. This episode is a powerful reminder that being a man is not a title - it’s a daily commitment to action. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening & Current Events 04:55 - Testosterone & TRT 12:35 - Rites of Passage Into Manhood 22:45 - Giving Advice With Authority 33:20 - Masculinity, Adolescence & Maturity 42:30 - Preparing Sons for the Future 50:30 - Wrap-Up & Iron Council Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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MARK WALSH | Why Modern Men Are Disconnected
01/20/2026
MARK WALSH | Why Modern Men Are Disconnected
Today’s conversation is a homecoming—back to the body, back to character, and back to what it means to be a man. My guest, , challenges the modern habit of living entirely in our heads—cut off from sensation, boundaries, and responsibility. We talk embodiment not as fitness or aesthetics, but using physical training to develop character, emotional regulation, and presence. From Stoicism and shadow work to doing hard things on purpose, this episode is about reclaiming awareness, expanding range, and building the discipline required to choose better behavior. We also confront the cult of modernity: hyper-individualism, happiness culture, pleasure-seeking that produces pain, and the loss of religion, community, and moral formation. Mark makes the case that happiness is secondary to meaning and commitment and that true freedom is forged through discipline, not the absence of limits. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Opening & Introduction 02:31 - What Embodiment Really Means 05:44 - Objectification & Modern Culture 08:13 - The Four Disconnections 11:49 - How to Come Home to the Body 15:08 - Training Beyond Comfort Zones 18:15 - Freedom, Range, and Choice 22:27 - Culture, Tribe, and Identity 27:13 - Modernity as a Death Cult 31:00 - Structure, Religion, and Meaning 34:24 - Happiness vs Purpose 36:57 - Rock Bottom of Modern Society 41:44 - Family, Institutions, and Masculinity 46:10 - Get Offline and Live Fully 49:30 - Emotions, Stoicism, and Control 52:00 - War Zone Story & Masculine Instinct 55:14 - Practices for Becoming Human 56:46 - Where to Find Mark Walsh Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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The Case Against Vulnerability | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
01/16/2026
The Case Against Vulnerability | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In today’s episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler challenges one of modern self-help culture’s most sacred ideas: vulnerability. While honesty, humility, and emotional awareness are essential to growth, Ryan makes the case that vulnerability - when practiced without discernment, responsibility, or purpose - often becomes performative, destabilizing, and counterproductive, especially for men in leadership roles. This episode is not an argument against emotion. It’s an argument for self-mastery, containment, and earned honesty. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro 00:37 - Why Vulnerability Became a Sacred Cow 02:45 - Emotional Awareness vs Emotional Exposure 04:55 - Vulnerability Without Discernment = Emotional Exhibitionism 07:40 - Oversharing Shifts the Emotional Burden 09:50 - Why Emotional Dumping Kills Trust & Attraction 12:55 - Leadership Requires Stability, Not Collapse 14:40 - Transparency vs Discernment 16:30 - Honesty Is Not a Lack of Self-Mastery 17:40 - Regulation vs Repression 19:20 - Lessons from Stoic Men & Great Leaders 21:10 - Earned Vulnerability Explained 23:00 - Secure Containers, Not “Safe Spaces” 25:05 - Responsibility Over Emotional Relief 27:00 - What Men Actually Need More Of 28:20 - Vulnerability Is Not the Goal—Integrity Is 30:20 - Final Thoughts & Call to Action Battle Planners: Order Ryan's new book, . For more information on the . Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course,
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