GREG ANDERSON | Isolation, Fear, and the Fight Within
Order of Man
Today, we’re talking with a man who chose courage when it would’ve been easier to stay quiet. Back in May of 2020, during the height of COVID restrictions, he stood up for himself, and paid the price, facing serious fallout including a wrongful termination suit in a time when being a cop was already under fire. This is a conversation about what it means to stop living through other men, to stop outsourcing adventure, and to answer that internal call - even when it costs you everything. We get into his mission to row the Pacific, the realities of isolation, risk, and mental warfare, and...
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Comfort is the New Addiction | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Order of Man
We’ve been sold a dangerous lie - that the goal of life is comfort. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down why comfort is quietly destroying ambition, discipline, and purpose in modern men. What feels good in the moment is often the very thing holding you back long-term. If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or drifting, this episode will challenge you to rethink everything. Ryan shares 5 practical ways to reintroduce challenge into your life, build discipline, and become the man you’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Lie of Comfort 00:35 - Why...
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Stop Being Lazy, Beat Procrastination, and Eliminate Volatility | ASK ME ANYTHING
Order of Man
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen answer listener questions on masculinity, business, relationships, and personal discipline. They discuss common misconceptions about manhood, why men can’t succeed alone, and the hidden “inner work” behind strong masculinity. The conversation also covers social media side hustles, financial decisions, building business networks, and how to break out of destructive habits. Ryan and Kipp also tackle relationship dynamics, including respect in marriage and the real reason attraction fades in long-term relationships. This...
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JON ACUFF | Stop Procrastination and Start Moving Forward
Order of Man
Today I’m joined by , a New York Times bestselling author who has spent years studying why so many of us procrastinate and how to finally get out of our own way. We talk about the real reasons people stall out—fear, rejection, imposter syndrome, perfectionism—and how comparison, when used correctly, can actually become a source of inspiration rather than insecurity. Jon also shares practical frameworks for focusing on effort instead of obsessing over outcomes, creating your own personal scorecard for success, and adopting a “let’s find out” mentality when it comes to pursuing goals...
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How to Rebuild Your Life When You’ve Lost it All | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Order of Man
Life can collapse faster than we expect. A divorce, financial loss, health issues, or the breakdown of relationships can leave a man wondering where to even begin again. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares six strategies for rebuilding your life when everything feels like it’s falling apart. Drawing from personal experience and years of working with thousands of men, Ryan explains why rebuilding doesn’t start with massive breakthroughs—it starts with small, disciplined actions that restore stability and control. If you're facing rock bottom—or helping someone who...
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Men’s Tribalism, Using AI effectively, and What to Kill For | ASK ME ANYTHING
Order of Man
In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a wide range of listener questions-from AI and authenticity to divorce, brotherhood, and extreme ownership. Ryan shares lessons from his own divorce about reflection, accountability, and rebuilding your life after a major setback. The conversation also dives into why authenticity builds trust, the danger of labeling words as violence, and how men can start building strong brotherhoods even if they’ve spent most of their lives alone. If you’re feeling stuck in your career, isolated in life, or unsure how to take the next step...
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RYAN MICHLER | The Origin of Order of Man
Order of Man
My good friend Kipp Sorensen interviews me. I'm on the hot seat today and very excited to be talking with you about all things Order of Man, including the origin story of Order of Man, why we need to be careful of falling into the comparison trap, but how it can actually help you by comparing yourself in healthy ways to others. We talk about having healthy relationships with delayed gratification. Any misconceptions about what order of man does what we're doing now and into the future, how we've grown the movement, and how we continue to innovate and come up with new ideas. We talk about some...
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Why the Lone Wolf Dies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Order of Man
Ryan Michler challenges the cultural myth of the “lone wolf” man and explains why isolation is quietly destroying modern men. While movies, social media, and modern culture glorify the rugged individual who needs no one, the truth is the opposite - men were built for brotherhood, tribes, and shared struggle. Ryan breaks down why modern systems incentivize isolation, how loneliness leads to mediocrity and addiction, and what men can do to build real brotherhood again. From historical examples of men organizing to modern distractions that keep men disconnected, this episode is a powerful...
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The ‘Let’s Find Out Mentality, Establishing Boundaries, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING
Order of Man
In this week’s Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp tackle powerful questions from the brotherhood. They discuss what lessons they are intentionally teaching their children, why so many men feel life is out of their control, and how to balance purpose with financial opportunity. They dive into navigating raises, friendships strained by marriage dynamics, changing your mind when confronted with new evidence, and what role men should play in addressing corruption and cultural issues. As always, this episode blends practical advice with direct challenges to step up, take ownership, and live...
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RUDY REYES | Improve Your Position, Always
Order of Man
What does it mean to manufacture “do or die” intensity in a world that’s built for comfort? How do you improve your position always — not just tactically, but physically, mentally, and spiritually? In this episode, we dig into conditioning as a way of life, why wind is everything, why over-specialization weakens men, and how to build true work capacity through skill, strength, and nervous system development. We talk about leading from the front, refusing to put men on pedestals, removing the mask, and confronting the quiet war of self-deception and self-worth that so many men fight in...
info_outlineSome of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics for men are: attraction, compatibility, and what actually creates lasting connection with a woman. My guest, Laurin Ponce, helps us break down the difference between compatibility, connection, and chemistry - and why confusing those three is where most relationships go off the rails. We talk about what women truly find attractive in a grounded man, what it really means when a woman asks for space, why it feels like there are more rules for men, and how respect is built long before it’s ever given. From attachment styles and masculine frame to why women’s touch is medicine and how peace and respect create a relationship where both people feel safe and free, this conversation cracks open the unspoken dynamics most men are trying to navigate alone.
We also explore the practical side: non-negotiables, testing for compatibility, shared values, money, day-to-day living, and why partners are often mirrors and triggers for our own unresolved work. Laurin and I get into anxious versus avoidant dynamics, masculinity and femininity in modern relationships, emotional expression in men, vulnerability, physical attraction, and how connection is built - and rebuilt - over time
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Understanding Men and Women
01:07 - Is There a Line in “Figuring Each Other Out”?
03:22 - Masculine and Feminine Polarity
05:08 - The Bowl and the Water Analogy
06:46 - Why Respect Starts With Self-Respect
08:21 - Non-Negotiables in Relationships
10:05 - Compatibility vs. Chemistry
13:18 - Core Values and Relationship Dealbreakers
14:58 - You Can’t Out-Love Incompatibility
17:16 - Chemistry vs. Trauma Bonds
18:46 - What Real Chemistry Feels Like
19:29 - Peace and Respect in Relationships
22:47 - Creating Emotional Safety
26:52 - Masculine and Feminine Imbalance Today
30:30 - Polarity Always Finds Its Way
33:41 - Letting Go of Armor and Control
35:16 - Becoming the Partner You Want to Attract
39:13 - Consistency and Trust
40:10 - Physical Attraction and Discipline
43:02 - Connection Is Built Over Time
46:37 - Scarcity Mindset in Dating
48:02 - Where Men Should Start in Long-Term Relationships
50:32 - Rekindling Attraction and Intentionality
57:12 - “Cracking the Code” of Your Partner
01:00:29 - Never Get Comfortable in Love
01:05:05 - Serving Each Other Without Shame
01:06:23 - Where to Find Laurin’s Work
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