Married Into Crazy with Snooks and Lovey

"Marriage Coaching for Love, Laughter, and Overcoming Adversity" - We met on a blind date and when we got engaged 4 months later, my heart was pierced...not by Cupid's arrow, but by a serrated steak knife and that's when our journey began. That's when we realized we both Married Into Crazy! We are just Real Folk sharing real talk about Love and Life while occasionally tackling a few taboos, stereotypes, and misconceptions confronting the institution of marriage (and relationships at large). Though we can't speak for everyone, we can offer our unique perspective. If you've ever wanted to be a fly on the wall and listen to another married couple’s random conversations, stick around and get your "ear hustle" on with a couple that truly Married Into Crazy!!!

Why Couples Divorce & How To Reset The "WE" In Your Marriage | Ep. 338 01/28/2026

Why Couples Divorce & How To Reset The "WE" In Your Marriage | Ep. 338 In this foundational episode, Snooks and Lovey open up about their remarkable 29-year marriage that began with a near-fatal stabbing and survived a near-divorce just four years later. They introduce listeners to the powerful concept of "Resetting the We" and the Six Seasons of Marriage—a framework that helps couples understand where they are and communicate more effectively. Drawing from their recent marriage group session with Intentionally Yours (led by Cloyce and Sheila Dickerson), the hosts walk through each marriage season and share vulnerable insights about where they currently are in their own journey, including navigating grief after losing their son and adjusting to raising their grandson together. The episode delivers actionable wisdom about the importance of regular "check-ins," maintaining individual identity while strengthening the "we," and never forgetting the plot of your own love story. Whether you're in the honeymoon phase or the valley season, this episode equips you with tools to stay connected and build a resilient partnership. Key Topics Discussed ✅ The Origin Story of Snooks & Lovey -How they were "tricked" into meeting each other -The dramatic stabbing incident 5 days after engagement -Lovey's two open-heart surgeries and miraculous recovery ✅ The Fourth Anniversary Divorce Request -How Snooks asked for a divorce at Morton's Steakhouse -The wake-up call that changed everything -Their journey through counseling, coaching, and healing ✅ The CRAZY Method Explained -Compassionate -Real -Accountable -Zealous -Yielding ✅ The Six Seasons of Marriage -Honeymoon/New Beginning: Excitement, discovery, and hope -Building Season: Careers, finances, parenting, and goals take center stage -Valley Season: Illness, grief, conflict, betrayal, or burnout -Adjustment Season: Major life transitions requiring patience -Refining Season: Old wounds surface, growth is uncomfortable -Harvest/Renewal Season: Peace, friendship, and gratitude deepen. ✅ "Resetting the We" Concept -Understanding that resets aren't about failure—they're about realignment -How each spouse can be in different seasons simultaneously T-he importance of respecting where your partner is. ✅ The Power of "The Check-In" -Why weekly or bi-weekly check-ins prevent disconnection -How to implement check-ins without feeling awkward -Using check-ins to stay present and maintain connectedness ✅ "Don't Forget the Plot" - Divorce Attorney Wisdom -Insight from The Diary of a CEO podcast with Steven Bartlett -How couples lose their original story when life gets busy -Why supporting characters (kids, jobs) become the main characters -The danger of writing separate stories under the same roof ✅ You, Me, and We -Maintaining individual identity within marriage -Honoring what attracted you to each other initially -Committing to the collective "we" ✅ Community & Support Systems -The importance of having strong couples in your community -"As iron sharpens iron" - how couples sharpen each other -Avoiding isolation and toxic couple friendships 🎯 Who Should Listen to This Episode? ✔️ Married couples seeking to strengthen their relationship ✔️ Couples experiencing communication challenges ✔️ Partners navigating major life transitions (new baby, job change, relocation) ✔️ Couples dealing with grief or loss ✔️ Engaged couples preparing for marriage ✔️ Marriage counselors and coaches looking for frameworks ✔️ Faith-based couples wanting Christian marriage guidance ✔️ Anyone who feels disconnected from their partner ✔️ Couples raising grandchildren or blended families ✔️ Listeners who enjoy authentic, vulnerable storytelling /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39893165

Interfaith Marriages - A Muslim/Christian Love Story That Proves Faith Is More Than Words | Ep. 337 01/14/2026

Interfaith Marriages - A Muslim/Christian Love Story That Proves Faith Is More Than Words | Ep. 337 Can you truly love someone who prays differently than you? What if their faith journey looks nothing like yours? In this deeply personal episode of Married Into Crazy, hosts Snooks and Lovey interview a couple that get vulnerable about their interfaith marriage as a Muslim-Christian couple navigating love across religious lines. But this isn't your typical interfaith dialogue—this is about the real, messy, beautiful truth of falling in love with someone's heart before their religion. Richard and Patrice share their powerful story of how they discovered something revolutionary: authentic faith isn't measured by how well someone can quote the Quran or recite Bible verses—it's revealed through daily actions, choices, and how they treat others. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ The moment they realized love transcends religious labels – How taking time to truly know each other revealed a shared devotion to God that went beyond denomination ✨ Why actions matter more than religious performance – The couple discusses how they learned to recognize genuine faith through kindness, integrity, and compassion rather than theological debates ✨ Navigating family expectations and cultural pressures – Real talk about dealing with families on both sides who questioned their interfaith union ✨ Finding common ground between Islam and Christianity – The surprising spiritual connections they discovered when they stopped focusing on differences ✨ Practical wisdom for interfaith couples – Honest advice for anyone considering or currently in an interfaith relationship ✨ Redefining what it means to be "equally yoked" – Challenging traditional interpretations and finding spiritual partnership beyond religious labels This conversation will challenge everything you thought you knew about interfaith relationships, religious compatibility, and what it truly means to love God. Whether you're in an interfaith relationship, considering one, or simply curious about how love and faith intersect across religious boundaries, this episode offers profound insights delivered with Snooks and Lovey's signature humor and authenticity. Perfect for: Interfaith couples, anyone questioning religious compatibility in relationships, people interested in Muslim-Christian dialogue, those seeking authentic faith expressions, and anyone who's ever wondered if love can truly conquer religious differences. Get Your Tickets to the 2026 Winter Ball & Marriage Conference : https://marriedintocrazy.ticketlocity.com /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39724790

Your Goals Don't Have To Match - How Couples Can Win Together In 2026 | Ep. 336 12/31/2025

Your Goals Don't Have To Match - How Couples Can Win Together In 2026 | Ep. 336 Ready to conquer 2026 with your partner? In this powerful episode of Married Into Crazy, hosts Snooks and Lovvy tackle one of the biggest relationship challenges couples face during New Year planning: Do your goals need to be perfectly aligned with your spouse's? After 29 years of marriage (and surviving near-death experiences, a divorce request, and countless goal mismatches), these certified Gottman relationship coaches reveal the truth: You don't rise to the level of your goals—you fall to the level of your systems. What You'll Learn: ✅ Why goal alignment is overrated – and what actually matters for relationship success ✅ The "Harris Intercept" method – a Venn diagram approach to identifying shared priorities vs. individual pursuits ✅ How to support different goals without resentment, shame, or feeling left out ✅ The accountability framework that prevents conflict when one partner falls off track ✅ Real talk about fitness, business, and personal goals – when Snooks wants pizza and Lovvy's doing 75 Hard ✅ The C.R.A.Z.Y. framework – Five pillars that saved their marriage (Compassionate, Real, Accountable, Zealous, Yielding) Episode Highlights: 03:44 – The stabbing story: How Lovvy survived a near-fatal attack by Snooks's ex just 5 days after getting engaged 13:16 – Do couples really need the same goals? The debate begins 17:00 – The "Harris Intercept": A game-changing tool for negotiating priorities 22:00 – When one partner is eating pizza and the other is on 75 Hard: Real-world goal conflicts 28:29 – James Clear's wisdom: "You fall to the level of your systems, not rise to your goals" 32:40 – Snooks gets vulnerable: Learning to be compassionate, real, and yielding in marriage Whether you're a singlepreneur, couplepreneur, or marriedpreneur, this episode offers actionable strategies to make 2026 your best year yet—together or individually (but still connected!). Resources Mentioned: Atomic Habits by James Clear – The book that transformed their approach to goals Married Into Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference – February 6-7, 2026 (tickets at marriedintocrazy.com) Gottman Method Couples Therapy – The framework Snooks & Lovvy use in their coaching OL and Sway Interview – Episode on singlepreneurs, couplepreneurs, and marriedpreneurs Shoutouts: 🎤 Joel Kibble (10-time Grammy winner from Take 6) – Speaking at the Winter Ball 📻 Lady Charmaine (97.5 KDEE Sacramento) – Upcoming interview on January 8th 💍 Anniversary Shoutouts: Cloyce & Sheila Dickerson (Jan 1), Terrence & Davina Hansford (10 years!), Dominic & Malik Mullins (Jan 6) Connect with Married Into Crazy: 🌐 Website: www.marriedintocrazy.com 📧 Email: 📱 App: Download the Married Into Crazy app for exclusive coaching content (including "Raise the BAR" curriculum) 🎟️ Event Tickets: Married Into Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference – February 6-7, 2026 /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39573110

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The Truth About Diversity, Equity, And Inclusion In Marriage | Ep. 334 12/03/2025

The Truth About Diversity, Equity, And Inclusion In Marriage | Ep. 334 With their holiday hair on point and nearly 29 years of marriage under their belts (yes, you read that right—29 years next month!), this dynamic duo is here to drop some serious relationship wisdom rooted in Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) principles. In this 31-minute power-packed episode, Snooks and Lovey tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern relationships: equality versus equity in marriage. This groundbreaking conversation demonstrates how DEI principles are essential for marriage success—recognizing that each partner brings diverse strengths, backgrounds, and capacities that must be honored and included for true partnership to thrive. What You'll Discover: ✅ Why equity over equality is the foundation of inclusive, successful marriages ✅ How embracing diversity in partnership roles creates stronger, more resilient relationships ✅ The importance of inclusion in marriage—ensuring both partners feel valued for their unique contributions ✅ Why financial peace in relationships isn't just about money—it's about equitable distribution based on individual capacity and circumstances ✅ Real talk about carrying your weight without falling into the toxic trap of scorekeeping ✅ How to have difficult conversations that strengthen your bond by honoring each partner's diverse perspective ✅ Behind-the-scenes insights from a couple who's been practicing inclusive partnership for nearly three decades DEI in marriage means: Recognizing that partners come from different backgrounds, have different abilities, face different challenges, and contribute differently—and that's not just okay, it's beautiful. Snooks and Lovey show how celebrating diversity, practicing equity, and fostering inclusion creates the foundation for lasting love. #diversityandinclusion #inclusivelove #marriagepodcast #marriageadvice Get Your Tickets to the 2026 Winter Ball & Marriage Conference https://www.marriedintocrazy.com /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39247380

Queen's Corner: Choose Connection Over Perfection This Thanksgiving - Marriage Advice For The Holidays | Ep. 333 11/26/2025

Queen's Corner: Choose Connection Over Perfection This Thanksgiving - Marriage Advice For The Holidays | Ep. 333 Feeling the holiday pressure? In this Queen's Corner episode, Snooks shares powerful marriage advice for Thanksgiving: choose connection over perfection, see the goodness in your spouse, and embrace gratitude over stress. Perfect for couples navigating the holiday season together! #MarriageAdvice #ThanksgivingMarriage #RelationshipGoals #ChristianMarriage #HolidayStress #MarriedLife #GratitudeInMarriage #QueensCorner #MarriageCoaching #healthyrelationships 🎯 What You'll Learn: ✅ How to stop the "Pinterest-perfect" holiday pressure ✅ A simple grounding exercise to reduce stress (4-2-6 breathing technique) ✅ Why seeing your spouse's INTENT matters more than perfection ✅ How to express gratitude that strengthens your marriage ✅ Practical tips for hosting Thanksgiving without burnout ✅ The power of choosing connection over perfection 💡 Key Takeaways: • Don't run yourself ragged trying to make everything perfect • Ask for help and let guests contribute • See the goodness in your partner, even when things aren't perfect • Express gratitude verbally—your spouse needs to HEAR it • Marriage unfolds over time; appreciate the journey Whether you're hosting Thanksgiving, traveling to family, or just trying to survive the holiday season with your sanity intact, this episode will help you shift from stress to gratitude and strengthen your marriage in the process. 🎟️ UPCOMING EVENT: MIC Marriage Conference & Winter Ball 📅 February 6-7, 2025 🎭 Friday Theme: Denim, Diamonds & Dancing Saturday is packed with Powerful Speakers 📱 DOWNLOAD THE Married Into Crazy® APP: Get marriage coaching on the go! Available on App Store and Google Play. 💬 LET'S CONNECT: • Subscribe to the podcast for weekly marriage tips and relationship advice • Leave a comment: What's ONE thing you're grateful for about your spouse this Thanksgiving? • Share this with a couple who needs encouragement this holiday season TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Welcome to Queen's Corner 0:43 - Why Thanksgiving Can Be Stressful for Marriages 2:05 - Stop Trying to Be Pinterest Perfect 3:05 - Ask for Help (You Don't Have to Do It All!) 4:21 - Grounding Exercise: 4-2-6 Breathing Technique 5:19 - See the Goodness in Your Spouse 6:40 - Intent vs. Perfection in Marriage 8:06 - The Power of Expressing Gratitude 9:57 - How Gratitude Alleviates Holiday Stress 10:49 - Choose Connection Over Perfection 11:45 - Event Announcement & Closing /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39161255

The Shadow You Cast: Why Influence Beats Leadership For Husbands and Fathers | Ep. 332 11/19/2025

The Shadow You Cast: Why Influence Beats Leadership For Husbands and Fathers | Ep. 332 Every man casts a shadow his family lives in for generations. Is yours one of leadership or influence? Discover the difference that changes everything. ABOUT THIS EPISODE In this powerful King's Corner segment, Lovey explores the critical difference between leadership and influence for men, husbands, and fathers. Inspired by a conversation with friend Amos, this episode challenges conventional masculine leadership and reveals why your character—not your title—creates your legacy. KEY TOPICS COVERED: • The "shadow" every man casts over his family (and why it lasts generations) • Leadership vs. Influence: Understanding the difference • Why "because I said so" destroys your legacy • How to be emotionally present (not just physically there) • The Peter Pan metaphor: Why you need your partner to help you fly • Reflective questions every husband and father must answer TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction: The King's Corner 0:25 - The conversation that sparked this topic 2:18 - Every man casts a shadow 3:05 - What shadow did YOUR father cast? 4:10 - The trap of leadership without influence 6:54 - The shadow of influence: What it really means 8:06 - Leadership is the role, influence is the impact 9:28 - Daily examples: Are you leading or influencing? 11:41 - Qualities of healthy influence 14:46 - Building people vs. tearing them down 18:18 - 4 reflective questions for every man 20:38 - The Peter Pan lesson: Let your partner help you fly REFLECTIVE QUESTIONS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1. If my family lived only by what I DO (not what I SAY), who would they become? 2. Does my home feel like a place of pressure or peace? 3. When I leave the room, what emotional temperature do I leave behind? 4. Where am I relying on my title instead of my character? 🎯 WHO THIS IS FOR: ✅ Husbands wanting to strengthen their marriage ✅ Fathers building a lasting legacy ✅ Men seeking to lead with character, not control ✅ Anyone interested in healthy masculinity and family dynamics UPCOMING EVENT: Married and Crazy Winter Ball & Marriage Conference 📍 February 6-7, 2025 🎟️ Early bird pricing ends November 21st 🔗 Get tickets: https://www.marriedintocrazy.com 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for weekly relationship insights, marriage advice, and powerful conversations about building healthy, lasting partnerships. 👥 CONNECT WITH US: Website: @ Instagram: @marriedandcrazy Facebook: /marriedandcrazy Email: @riedandcrazy.com --- #MarriedAndCrazy #LeadershipVsInfluence #MarriageAdvice #FatherhoodMatters #HealthyMasculinity #RelationshipGoals #HusbandLife #FatheringWell #CharacterMatters #LegacyBuilding #TheKingsCorner #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #FamilyFirst #IntentionalLiving /episode/index/show/snooksandlovey/id/39073840