10 MINUTES TO LESS SUFFERING
Feeling stressed or anxious? 10 Minutes to Less Suffering is your quick daily boost for emotional relief and peace of mind.Each episode delivers practical mindfulness techniques, effective stress management tools, and compassionate insights to help you navigate life’s challenges. Whether you’re facing anxiety, uncertainty, overwhelm, or everyday pressures, these short, inspiring episodes fit effortlessly into your busiest days. Ideal for busy professionals, parents, young adults, and anyone seeking mental wellness without the time commitment. Start your journey to less suffering today. Hosted by Allison Carmen, bestselling author, life strategist, business consultant, and coach.
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The Key To Finding More Joy in 2026: Right Sizing Our Problems
01/02/2026
The Key To Finding More Joy in 2026: Right Sizing Our Problems
Every year brings challenges, uncertainty, and problems that can feel overwhelming. While it is not possible to control how many problems arise, it is possible to change how much space they take up in daily life. This episode explores the practice of right sizing problems and placing them back into their true proportion so they do not drown out peace, clarity, and joy. Through a personal story and practical reflection, listeners are guided to recognize how fear, uncertainty, and discomfort can quietly expand suffering even when much of life is still working. Listeners will learn simple mindfulness techniques to reduce stress, quiet mental noise, and regain perspective during difficult times. This episode offers tools for self improvement, emotional resilience, and navigating uncertainty with greater calm without toxic positivity or denial. A grounding listen for anyone seeking less stress, less suffering, and more emotional balance in 2026. A Poem: The Root of the Problem Problems arrive demanding space, noisy and persistent, echoes of repetition. They lodge with a sense of permanence Yet time moves anyway, a force beyond even a problem’s grasp, guiding change, softening urgency, leaving without notice. What remains, often, is not what demanded attention. It is the love that stayed. The heart that kept beating. The steadiness that did not announce itself. Life held together in the quiet nature of the moment. Remembering often arrives late, the quiet recognition that what felt consuming was temporary, and what felt ordinary was doing the real work. Problems pass. What roots us does not. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Manifesting Our Dreams In 2026: Reducing Fear, Stress, and Self Doubt In The New Year
12/26/2025
Manifesting Our Dreams In 2026: Reducing Fear, Stress, and Self Doubt In The New Year
How can you manifest your dreams in 2026 while reducing stress and anxiety? This episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering offers a grounded self help approach to manifestation that focuses on mindfulness, intuition, gratitude, and emotional resilience. Listeners explore how fear, uncertainty, and the need for control can increase suffering and block clarity. The episode explains how pausing, listening to inner guidance, and staying present can support better decision making and personal growth. A simple “maybe” practice is shared to help quiet self doubt, reduce anxiety, and restore hope during times of uncertainty. This episode is ideal for anyone seeking stress relief, mindfulness, emotional balance, and a healthier way to hold goals related to relationships, career, money, and overall well being in 2026. Guided Affirmation for 2026 I take a gentle breath. I allow my body to settle. There is nothing I need to fix right now. I bring to mind something I hope for in 2026. I do not need to force it. I simply acknowledge that it matters to me. I trust myself. I trust life. I release the need for certainty. I release the pressure to have all the answers. I listen to the wisdom of this moment. I allow clarity to come when it is ready. I do not need to push. I do not need to resist. I am open to guidance. I am open to possibility. I remember what is already working in my life. I remember my resources and support. I hold my dreams with openness and gratitude. I allow them to unfold in their own time. Maybe more is possible than I can imagine. Maybe things are already moving in my favor. Maybe everything will be okay. I take another gentle breath. I let these words settle. I move into this year with trust, presence, and hope. What I seek is seeking me. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Chop Wood, Carry Water in 2025 and 2026: What Is The Moment Asking?
12/19/2025
Chop Wood, Carry Water in 2025 and 2026: What Is The Moment Asking?
This episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering explores the Zen teaching “Chop Wood, Carry Water” and what it means to meet life as it is. The focus is on coherence, staying present without fragmenting yourself, and responding to each moment with steadiness rather than fear or control. Listeners will learn how this teaching applies to everyday challenges, success, loss, and uncertainty. The episode offers a simple, practical exercise to help reduce stress, stay grounded, and stop abandoning yourself when life feels overwhelming or unpredictable. This episode supports anyone seeking more inner stability, clarity, and peace while navigating change and moving from 2025 into 2026 with greater presence and resilience. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How To Keep Perspective When Life Feels Stressful
12/12/2025
How To Keep Perspective When Life Feels Stressful
Life can feel heavy when stress, worry, and daily challenges take over our perspective. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, I talk about how easily we lose the larger view of our lives and how that loss of perspective can quietly steal joy, peace, and appreciation for what we have. When we are caught in the moment, even small problems can feel overwhelming. I share simple, practical ways to hold a larger perspective, including acceptance, working with uncertainty, and remembering that everything is always changing. These practices can help daily stress feel lighter and allow space for gratitude and possibility, even during difficult moments. In this episode, I explore • Why stress narrows our perspective • How daily challenges can feel heavier than they need to • How acceptance can soften difficult moments • How the maybe mindset can reduce anxiety • How to hold pain and gratitude at the same time This episode is for anyone feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or weighed down by life. You do not have to deny your feelings to find perspective. You can feel what you feel and still stay open to joy, meaning, and hope. This is an encore episode and an important reminder that even when life feels hard, a larger perspective can help you breathe easier, stay grounded, and remember that you will find your way. And maybe, the best is yet to come. Poem: A Larger View This moment feels heavy. It asks for all of your attention. But life is bigger than this moment. Bigger than this worry. Bigger than what feels unresolved. You have been here before. You have doubted. You have worried. And still, you found your way. Hold what hurts without letting it take everything with it. Let this moment exist without letting it define your whole day or your whole life. There is love here too. There is something steady beneath the noise. You do not need to solve everything now. You only need to widen the view. This will pass. Something else will come. And maybe, even now, everything is still okay. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Self Love: A Key To Getting Over Heartbreak And Letting Go Of The Past
12/05/2025
Self Love: A Key To Getting Over Heartbreak And Letting Go Of The Past
Do you ever feel that if you understood your past better, especially the heartbreaks, breakups, or painful relationships, you would finally feel at peace? Many of us believe that if we could gather every detail of what happened, why someone acted the way they did, or why love fell apart, our stress and anxiety would disappear. While insight and processing our feelings are necessary, emotional healing also requires self love, acceptance, and the courage to let go of what we cannot know. This encore episode explores how releasing the need to know and the need to be right is an important part of healing heartbreak and creating space for calm, clarity, and inner peace. You will learn why the mind holds on to unanswered questions and how letting go of the past helps you reconnect with yourself in a deeper and healthier way. This is a path of self improvement that strengthens emotional resilience, mindfulness, and personal freedom. Through gentle guidance and grounding reflection, this episode will help you: • Ease the pain of heartbreak by releasing old stories and unresolved questions • Reduce stress and anxiety related to past relationships • Stop replaying conversations and searching for closure outside yourself • Build emotional strength, self love, and self acceptance • Break patterns of overthinking, self blame, and rumination • Strengthen mindfulness and inner peace so you can move forward with clarity • Open the door to new possibilities, confidence, and emotional freedom If you are healing from heartbreak or trying to let go of a painful past, this episode offers a soft and supportive space to return to your center and reconnect with your true self. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How To Stay Aligned When You Feel Like Everything Is Pulling You Off Center
11/21/2025
How To Stay Aligned When You Feel Like Everything Is Pulling You Off Center
Feeling pulled in a million directions? In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to lose your center, your clarity, and your sense of who you truly are. This episode explores two powerful concepts that can help you reconnect with yourself: resonance and coherence. You will learn why certain people, ideas, and experiences resonate with you, and why resonance alone does not always mean something is healthy or aligned. You will also discover the deeper state of coherence, where your mind, heart, body, and energy move together in harmony. This is the space where grounded decision making, calm, and genuine self-connection can thrive. With relatable examples, simple practices, and a calming guided reflection, this episode will help you: • Reset when stress, relationships, or the world feel overwhelming • Recognize the difference between familiar patterns and true inner alignment • Stop chasing validation or certainty outside yourself • Return to your center with breath, awareness, and compassion • Build coherence so your actions match your true intentions If you are craving grounding, clarity, and a deeper connection to yourself, this 10 minute reset offers a supportive space to come home to who you are. Stay aligned. Stay centered. Let coherence guide the way. The more you return to yourself, the more possibilities open. Poem: Return to Center In the rush of the world where noise piles on noise and every choice feels heavier than the last, I come back to this small, quiet space. A breath. A moment. A chance to return to the center I forget I have. Here, I remember that life does not ask me to be perfect. It only asks me to be present. To notice the way my heart softens when I stop chasing what was never meant to steady me. Resonance may call me outward, but coherence brings me home. A rhythm in my chest that whispers, You are safe. You are enough. You can gently return to yourself. So I sit with the truth that peace is not far away. It is never far away. It waits beneath the noise, beneath the wanting, beneath the stories I tell to feel less afraid. In these ten minutes I choose to trust that I can suffer a little less and live a little more right here, inside this breath. Lastly, you can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Nice or Kind? Seeing The Difference and Living From The Heart
11/14/2025
Nice or Kind? Seeing The Difference and Living From The Heart
In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, explore how shifting from being nice to being kind can reduce stress, support emotional healing, and create more authentic and mindful relationships. Listeners learn why niceness often comes from fear and people pleasing, while true kindness grows from compassion, honesty, presence, and an open heart. What you will gain from this episode • A clear understanding of the difference between nice behavior and true heart based kindness • Insight into why some relationships feel inconsistent or disappointing during stressful moments • Support for emotional healing, self trust, and clarity after confusing interactions • Tools to stop people pleasing and reduce daily stress and anxiety • Guidance for setting healthy boundaries that protect your emotional well being • Encouragement to act with more authenticity, presence, and self compassion • A calming reflection to help you connect with your heart and choose kindness mindfully • Inspiration to create relationships that feel safe, honest, steady, and emotionally supportive • Hope to live with more peace, connection, and present moment awareness This episode is ideal for listeners searching for self help practices, self improvement tools, stress relief techniques, emotional healing support, mindful living tips, present based awareness, spiritual growth, heart centered connection, and guidance for living with more peace and clarity. You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How Can We Change Our Lives When We Feel Stuck?| Overcome Fear and Trust the Unknown
11/04/2025
How Can We Change Our Lives When We Feel Stuck?| Overcome Fear and Trust the Unknown
In this inspiring episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, author and life strategist Allison Carmen explores the question so many of us ask: How can we change our lives when we feel stuck, afraid, or uncertain? Through deep reflection and real-life stories, Allison shares how embracing the unknown can open the door to transformation, healing, and possibility. You’ll learn how to quiet fear, trust your intuition, and use The Maybe Practice to find hope even when life feels impossible. If you’ve been struggling with stress, self-doubt, or major life changes — this episode will remind you that every moment is new and full of potential. Your dreams are real, your intuition is powerful, and the universe is waiting for you to say maybe to what’s next. Topics covered: How fear of uncertainty blocks change Learning to trust yourself and your dreams Finding peace and clarity through mindfulness The Maybe Practice for emotional resilience Believing in new possibilities — no matter your age or past You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Just Because A Thought Is Real Doesn't Mean It's True
10/28/2025
Just Because A Thought Is Real Doesn't Mean It's True
Our thoughts are real, but not always true. This episode invites listeners to look beyond the stories the mind creates and find freedom from worry, stress, and self-doubt. Through mindfulness and gentle awareness, it offers a path to calm and clarity in uncertain moments. Listeners are encouraged to trust that every thought can be met with curiosity and compassion, opening the way to inner peace, resilience, and a deeper sense of hope for what is possible. Poem: Our Thoughts Are Real, But Not Always True Our thoughts rise like waves on an endless sea, shaping the shore of who we think we are. They rush in, fierce and convincing, pulling us into stories of what might break, what might never come, what might already be lost. They feel real because they are. They move through the body, tighten the chest, quicken the breath, stir the storm. But truth lives somewhere quieter. It waits beneath the noise, in the still water that holds every wave. It asks nothing but a pause, a single breath, a question whispered to the mind: Is this thought true? The unknown is not our enemy. It is the open sky that can let every cloud of thought drift by. Calm is not something we find, but something we remember. In the space between belief and truth, there is peace. There is possibility. And there we can be, the sky, not the storm. You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Do You Think Life Is Against You?
10/21/2025
Do You Think Life Is Against You?
When life takes an unexpected turn, when a relationship ends, plans fall apart, or disappointment appears out of nowhere, it can feel like everything is working against you. But what if life is still on your side, even in those moments of heartache and uncertainty? This podcast episode invites you to see challenges in a new way and find peace in the middle of change. When you stop believing that life is against you, you begin to open to the quiet rhythm of possibility, where healing and hope can start to grow. Even in pain there is movement. Even in loss there is life still unfolding with you. Take ten minutes to breathe, reflect, and remember that you are not separate from life. You are part of it, and within that connection, there is always a way forward. Poem: Life Is Still With You When the path breaks open beneath your feet, and everything you planned disappears into air, pause. The world is still breathing with you. The sunrise does not forget your name. The wind still carries new beginnings. Life is not against you. It moves through you, even now in every breath, in every quiet act of courage, in every small moment you choose to begin again. Allison Carmen You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Finding A Way To Step Into New Possibilities
10/17/2025
Finding A Way To Step Into New Possibilities
When life takes an unexpected turn and leaves us heartbroken or uncertain, it can be hard to move forward. This rebroadcast is a needed reminder for us all. Once we’ve taken the time to feel and process those emotions, the real MAGIC begins — MAYBE, ACCEPTANCE, GRATITUDE, INNER GROWTH, and letting go of what we can’t CONTROL. It’s a simple yet powerful formula for finding freedom, embracing change, and creating a new life filled with possibility. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation to help you reconnect with hope and take your next step forward! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt/Stop People-Pleasing and Prevent Burnout
10/10/2025
How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt/Stop People-Pleasing and Prevent Burnout
Feeling drained from saying "yes" when you really want to say "no"? You're not alone. In this episode on setting healthy boundaries, I explore the guilt, fear, and discomfort that come with honoring your true needs—and how mastering this skill can completely transform your life and relationships. You'll learn: ● Practical ways to stop people-pleasing and prevent burnout ● How to protect your energy and reduce daily stress ● Techniques for building respect-based relationships instead of resentment-driven ones ● Why discomfort is actually a sign you're choosing yourself Perfect for anyone struggling with work-life balance, relationship stress, or feeling overwhelmed by others' demands. Boundaries and Peace Affirmation When I say yes to everything, I drift away from myself. When I pause, when I breathe, I come home again. Discomfort is not punishment. It is the feeling of choosing myself. It is the space between suffering and peace. My boundaries are love. My rest is power. My honesty is freedom. When I honor my boundaries, I return to the center of who I am. From that place, what I give is true, authentic and rare. Each time I choose myself, I return with more love to give, more calm to share, and the world feels a little more whole. You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How to Stop Resisting Life | Finding Peace Through Surrender and Acceptance
10/03/2025
How to Stop Resisting Life | Finding Peace Through Surrender and Acceptance
So much of our suffering comes when life doesn't go our way. Traffic makes us late, meetings unfold differently than expected, or loved ones face challenges we can't control. In this mindfulness episode, you'll discover how our will can equal pain—and how surrender creates space for renewal. In this episode, discover: ● Why uncertainty can become an ally instead of an enemy ● How to ease stress by releasing resistance to what is ● Practical techniques for meeting everyday struggles with more peace ● The difference between giving up and giving over to life's natural flow Ideal for anyone dealing with control issues, anxiety about the future, or struggling to accept difficult circumstances. Affirmation Poem: When my will demands what life does not give, I meet the birthplace of pain. I breathe, I soften, I release. Uncertainty is not my enemy. It carries hope, renewal, and possibility. In the unknown, I am free. Surrender is not giving up. It is giving over. It is opening to life itself, allowing it to reshape me, polish me, make me whole again. Here I find less stress, less suffering, and the peace of flowing with what is. You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Building Trust in Yourself | Overcoming Fear and Embracing Uncertainty
09/26/2025
Building Trust in Yourself | Overcoming Fear and Embracing Uncertainty
This episode explores how trust isn't just about people or outcomes—it's about leaning into uncertainty and engaging with life as it unfolds. If you've ever resisted pursuing a dream, applying for a job, or taking a chance because you didn't trust yourself or the future, this episode offers a new way forward. Learn how to: ● Use the power of "Maybe" to bridge the gap when trust feels impossible ● Build resilience and courage in the face of the unknown ● Trust yourself when you can't trust the outcome ● Move forward despite fear and self-doubt Perfect for career transitions, relationship decisions, or anyone feeling stuck by fear of failure. Full “Maybe” Trust Affirmations Releasing the past Maybe the past is behind me. Maybe what happened before will never happen again. Maybe the past has no power over who I am today. Trusting the present Maybe I can handle whatever comes my way. Maybe I am stronger than my fears. Maybe I can trust myself right now, in this moment. Maybe life is unfolding exactly as it should because it is. Opening to the future Maybe the future holds more possibilities than I can see. Maybe the unknown will bring me opportunities I never imagined. Maybe I will land on my feet no matter what happens. Maybe I will trust myself over time. Maybe the best is yet to come! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Radical Acceptance Practice | Finding Peace When Life Doesn't Go As Planned
09/12/2025
Radical Acceptance Practice | Finding Peace When Life Doesn't Go As Planned
Discover how letting go of resistance can bring more peace, ease, and openness to your life. When things don't go as planned, acceptance helps soften the pain, keeps you present, and allows hope for what the future may bring. In this episode, you'll learn: ● How to practice radical acceptance without giving up ● Techniques to stay present even during challenges ● Why accepting "what is" opens doors to "what can be" ● How to release the constant story that things should be different Affirmation: I accept life as it is in this moment. I allow myself to feel my emotions, but I release the constant story that things should be different. In this acceptance, I find peace, even in times of challenge. I trust that the unknown future holds possibilities I cannot yet see, and I remain open to healing, to hope, and to the beauty of what may come next. Perfect for anyone struggling with disappointment, unexpected life changes, or chronic resistance to current circumstances. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How Fear of the Future Steals Your Joy| Overcoming Performance Anxiety
09/05/2025
How Fear of the Future Steals Your Joy| Overcoming Performance Anxiety
As I approach the one-year anniversary of my TEDx talk, I'm reminded of an important lesson about fear, uncertainty, and love. Preparing for the talk stirred up tremendous stress and anxiety—not because I was unprepared, but because I became attached to the belief that everything had to be perfect. In this episode, explore: ● Why fear often arises when we refuse to accept uncertainty ● How to clarify your goals and separate fear from the present moment ● Ways the "Maybe practice" opens doors to creativity and possibility ● How to shift from fear into presence, gratitude, and love Suffering often comes from clinging to fixed outcomes. When we accept uncertainty as a friend, we create space for joy and new opportunities. Ideal for anyone facing high-stakes presentations, important events, or struggling with perfectionism and performance anxiety. And, by the way, the talk turned out to be pretty amazing! Here is the link! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Understanding Loneliness | How to Reconnect With Yourself and Others
08/28/2025
Understanding Loneliness | How to Reconnect With Yourself and Others
Loneliness is a deeply human experience that touches us in moments of transition, heartbreak, or even quiet everyday life. This compassionate episode explores what loneliness really means, how to recognize it, and how it can call us either back to connection or into the gift of solitude. In this episode, discover: ● Practical steps to reconnect with others authentically ● How to embrace solitude as an opportunity for growth ● Ways to release the need for perfect understanding from others ● Techniques for turning loneliness into self-acceptance and peace AffirmationI acknowledge the presence of loneliness without fear or shame. I recognize it as part of being human, and I choose to see it as a gentle invitation to reconnect with others, or to nurture my own heart and embrace quiet moments as spaces for reflection and growth. I release the need to be perfectly understood by anyone else. I am learning to understand and accept myself fully. In this journey, connection, peace, and love will find their way to me again. Ideal for anyone experiencing isolation, life transitions, heartbreak, or seeking deeper self-connection. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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When Holding On and Letting Go Both Hurt | Finding Freedom in Between
08/22/2025
When Holding On and Letting Go Both Hurt | Finding Freedom in Between
Sometimes holding on brings pain, yet letting go can bring its own challenges too. In this episode, discover why both holding on and letting go carry their own struggles—and how moving through them can open the way to freedom, healing, and new possibilities. You'll learn: ● How to navigate the pain of staying vs. leaving ● Why emptiness is the beginning of healing ● How uncertainty becomes your best friend in transitions ● Techniques to embrace new possibilities when you're ready Affirmation I honor where I am, whether I’m holding on or beginning to let go. I remember that emptiness is the beginning of healing, that uncertainty is my best friend, and that what I seek is also seeking me. In this moment, I am strong, I matter, and I am open to new possibilities. Perfect for anyone in the midst of difficult decisions about relationships, careers, or major life transitions. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Do We Need To Forgive To Move On?
08/15/2025
Do We Need To Forgive To Move On?
Forgiving someone can feel especially hard when they never apologize or try to make things right. Even when we want to release the pain, the hurt can linger. In this episode, we explore a different way forward that helps you move beyond old wounds and make space for fresh joy, hope, and possibility. After listening, you may be inspired to learn about Hoʻoponopono, a traditional Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. It is a method that has brought me clarity, lifted my spirit, and deepened my ability to forgive myself. This is a rebroadcast, but it is an important one to remember so we can all let go, move on and live our best lives. Hoʻoponopono I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Do We Create The Distance To Our Happiness?
08/07/2025
Do We Create The Distance To Our Happiness?
When we resist the present moment because it doesn’t match our expectations, we create distance from our happiness. We tell stories about how things should be or fear what the future might hold, and in doing so, we miss the value and possibility in what’s actually here. When we accept what is and remember that uncertainty is a space of unlimited potential, we become more present, open, and available. This not only helps us get the most out of the moment, it is also a powerful recipe for creating a better future. Affirmation: I accept this moment as it is, and I trust that uncertainty holds the potential for something beautiful. I release the stories that create distance from my happiness and stay open to all that life has to offer. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Fix Ourselves or Be Ourselves?
07/30/2025
Fix Ourselves or Be Ourselves?
In today’s episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering, I explore the difference between constantly trying to fix ourselves and learning to fully inhabit who we already are. When we stop searching for solutions outside ourselves and begin to listen inwardly, we return to a place of clarity, presence, and strength. Affirmation: I don’t chase wholeness. I remember it. Even in heartbreak, in silence, in longing—Wholeness was never gone. I am not a problem to solve. I am not waiting to be rescued. Even when I ache, I am not less. Even when I stumble, I am not lost. I begin here. As I am. Breathing. Listening. Living. Healing is not becoming someone new. It is the soft, honest return to who I’ve always been. I can spend my life trying to fix myself… Or I can finally choose to be myself. One is endless effort. The other is freedom. I want to be free. Here I am. Not fixing. Just being. And Maybe that… is enough. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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The Pain Of Uncertainty Isn't Proof That Anything Is Wrong
07/25/2025
The Pain Of Uncertainty Isn't Proof That Anything Is Wrong
Inspired by a talk from spiritual teacher Guy Finley, this episode explores the idea that “the pain of uncertainty is not proof that something is wrong.” We often resist the unknown, assuming discomfort means danger or failure. But what if uncertainty isn’t the problem—what if it’s the path? This episode invites you to shift your relationship with not knowing, release the false comfort of control, and discover the peace and possibility that live in presence. The unknown isn’t the enemy—it might just be the beginning of something greater. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Are You Always Defending Your Perspective?
07/18/2025
Are You Always Defending Your Perspective?
This week on Ten Minutes to Less Suffering, explore a subtle yet powerful source of stress: the habit of constantly defending your perspective. From workplace decisions to personal relationships, many find themselves drained by the need to be understood, validated, or agreed with. But is it worth the cost to your energy, clarity, and peace? Discover how to recognize the emotional triggers behind this urge, why letting go of the need to be “right” can be transformative, and how choosing stillness over defense can lead to a more authentic, centered life. Thought-provoking and deeply relatable, this episode offers practical insights for anyone ready to reclaim their power—and their peace. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Emptiness Leads To Fullness
07/11/2025
Emptiness Leads To Fullness
To celebrate 300 episodes of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering, I’m revisiting one of the most meaningful episodes in the series. Inspired by a passage from the Tao Te Ching, this episode explores how the empty spaces in our lives—moments of uncertainty, loss, or stillness—can become the starting point for growth, creativity, and true fulfillment. We often rush to fill the void, but what if that emptiness is exactly where our next beginning lives? What if the unknown holds the very thing we’ve been waiting for? Thank you for being part of this journey. Maybe the best is yet to come! If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Are You In Your Softness Or Survival?
07/03/2025
Are You In Your Softness Or Survival?
This episode explores the powerful difference between living from softness and reacting from survival. While we may long for peaceful, supportive surroundings, life doesn’t always cooperate. So how do we stay grounded and open when the world around us feels loud, rushed, or harsh? Through reflection and practical tools, we’ll look at how to generate calm, clarity, and love from within—regardless of our circumstances. Because softness isn’t about weakness—it’s about strength rooted in presence, gratitude, and trust. When we stop resisting life and start responding with awareness, we create space for more peace, possibility, and joy. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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How Can We Not Resist The Moment When We're Upset?
06/27/2025
How Can We Not Resist The Moment When We're Upset?
When life feels unbearable—when you’re anxious, heartbroken, or overwhelmed—it’s natural to push against the moment. You replay the past, resist what you’re feeling now, and fear what’s next. But what if the path to relief isn’t about fixing anything, but instead not resisting what you’re experiencing? In this episode of Ten Minutes to Less Suffering, we explore how to stay grounded in difficult moments—not by approving of what’s happening, but by loosening the grip of resistance, so you can find clarity, calm, and your next step forward. If you’re stuck in worry, regret, stress or fear, this episode is for you. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.
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Don't Wait To Be Happy
06/20/2025
Don't Wait To Be Happy
Ever catch yourself thinking, “I’ll be happy when…”? This episode invites you to shift that belief. Through presence, gratitude, and self-awareness, you'll explore how real peace and joy are built from the inside out—starting in this very moment. Tune in to reconnect with simple, steady practices that help you feel more grounded, resilient, and free. This is a repeat of one of my most impactful episodes—a message always worth revisiting. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my sincere wish is that this podcast has contributed to less suffering and more joy in your life!
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Why Do We Trust Our Problems More Than Our Solutions?
06/13/2025
Why Do We Trust Our Problems More Than Our Solutions?
Sometimes our problems feel heavy, solid, and impossible to move. They take up all the space in our minds—while our solutions sit quietly on the sidelines. But nothing in life is fixed. Everything changes. And when we stop clinging to the problem and step into the unknown, we open the door to possibility, clarity, and relief. In this episode of 10 Minutes to Less Suffering, learn how to shift your focus, ease the pressure, and embrace uncertainty as the birthplace of solutions. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my sincere wish is that this podcast has contributed to less suffering and more joy in your life!
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Resisting The Moment?
06/06/2025
Resisting The Moment?
When life doesn’t go as planned, we often slip in and out of presence—grounded one minute, resisting the next. In this episode, we explore what happens when we get caught in that tug-of-war between how things are and how we wanted them to be. It’s a real-time look at how resistance shows up—and how, again and again, we can shift, partner with what’s unfolding, embrace the flow of life, and discover more magic in our everyday experience. A rebroadcast from a holiday season a few years ago, but it feels especially relevant today. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my sincere wish is that this podcast has contributed to less suffering and more joy in your life!
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Are You Feeding The Best Part Of Yourself?
05/27/2025
Are You Feeding The Best Part Of Yourself?
There’s an old story about two wolves—one filled with anger, fear, and doubt; the other with love, hope, and gratitude. They live inside each of us, battling for our attention. Which one wins? The one you feed. In this episode, we explore how our daily choices—especially in moments of stress, uncertainty, or hardship—shape who we become. Do we feed the negativity that keeps us stuck, or the gratitude and curiosity that open our hearts and expand our lives? Listen to this podcast as an invitation to choose the thoughts, habits, and perspectives that help you grow—so you can meet whatever comes your way with more strength, openness, and possibility. If you found this podcast enjoyable, kindly consider subscribing and leaving a rating or review. Additionally, I'd appreciate it if you could share it with your friends to spread the love! You can also follow me on , , , , and . If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, (including a new audiobook), and my new Audiobook, Also you can check out my new or my new digital Above all, my sincere wish is that this podcast has contributed to less suffering and more joy in your life!
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