The Focused Mindset: Solution Focused Conversations
Developing meaningful relationships can be challenging, and communication seems harder than ever! With a solution-focused mindset, you can break free from what is limiting you and build lasting connections. This is the podcast that helps you achieve your highest hopes and learn solution-focused communication skills. Get tips on how to help the entire family break free from limiting beliefs and grow into the best version of themself. Take on a new approach to growth with TEDx speaker and the author of 30 Days To Higher Hopes, solution-focused expert life coach and school counselor Cher Kretz. The Focused Mindset will help you focus on what matters most to achieve at the level you have always dreamed about. With a clear focus and a growth mindset, you can reach your highest hopes! This podcast helps you focus on solutions as you navigate family life. Learn how to reprogram problem talk and replace it with a new and improved solution-focused communication habit. TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation
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Curiosity: The Key To Great Communication and The Solution Focused Approach (episode 241)
08/07/2025
Curiosity: The Key To Great Communication and The Solution Focused Approach (episode 241)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day conversation training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of maintaining curiosity in educational and counseling settings. She explores the barriers that prevent individuals from engaging fully in the solution-focused approach and emphasizes the need for patience and genuine curiosity when interacting with students and clients. Cher also shares her personal journey with the RAMP program, highlighting the challenges and insights gained along the way. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Curiosity and Barriers 02:29 The Journey of Becoming a Recognized School Counselor 08:14 The Importance of Staying Curious 15:26 Empowering Through Curiosity 20:28 Updates on the RAMP Journey
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Solutions Focused Intentionality: Lessons From ASCA and Lessons for Life (episode 240)
07/29/2025
Solutions Focused Intentionality: Lessons From ASCA and Lessons for Life (episode 240)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher talks about the unuque lessons she walked away with from the 2025 ASCA conference and about the transformative power of intentionality. She shares personal stories from her daughter's volleyball tournament, highlighting how setting clear intentions can shape our experiences and memories. Cher also discusses the importance of affirmations and how they can work hand-in-hand with intentionality to bring about desired outcomes. Key Takeaways: The significance of setting intentions before entering any event or situation. Personal anecdotes illustrating the impact of intentionality on experiences. The role of affirmations in reinforcing intentions and guiding actions. Insights into balancing professional commitments with personal growth. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Empowering Students Through Mentorship: Live recording of the ASCA workshop (episode 239)
07/26/2025
Empowering Students Through Mentorship: Live recording of the ASCA workshop (episode 239)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: Join Cher as she shares her experiences and insights on creating impactful mentorship programs in schools. Discover how solution-focused strategies can transform students into leaders and foster a supportive community. Learn about the challenges and triumphs of implementing mentorship at various educational levels, and how it can make a lasting difference in students' lives. This is a replay including all the slides from Cher's workshop at the ASCA 2025 conference. Key Points: Personalizing mentorship programs to fit different educational settings. The importance of solution-focused approaches in counseling and mentorship. Real-life stories of mentorship success and the positive impact on school culture. Strategies for training and supporting student mentors effectively. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Solution Focused Conversation Navigation: The Teachable Steps (episode 238)
07/23/2025
Solution Focused Conversation Navigation: The Teachable Steps (episode 238)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher Kretz discusses the GPS conversation navigation model, which includes gathering thoughts, planning for a preferred future, and taking action. She goes over a handout that she gave to the in one of her workshops. She emphasizes the importance of effective communication, mentorship, and encouraging others to share their thoughts and feelings. Cher also provides practical questions to facilitate meaningful conversations and highlights the role of educators in training students to communicate effectively. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Expect the Unexpected: A Solution-Focused Approach (episode 237)
07/10/2025
Expect the Unexpected: A Solution-Focused Approach (episode 237)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of expecting the unexpected and adopting a solution-focused mindset. She emphasizes the need to shift from a problem-focused approach to one that seeks solutions and celebrates small wins. Cher shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for educators and individuals to foster a positive mindset, set intentional goals, and engage in empowering conversations that promote growth and change. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Conversation 11:06 Solution-Focused Mindset 20:30 Transformative Conversations 29:42 Setting Intentional Goals 38:37 Embracing Change and Growth Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Dr. Ravi Iyer: The Power of Focus, ADHD Management and Thriving in Life
07/06/2025
Dr. Ravi Iyer: The Power of Focus, ADHD Management and Thriving in Life
In this engaging conversation, Cher and Dr. Ravi Iyer explore the transformative power of intentional focus, the journey to delivering a TED talk, and the importance of embracing one's unique abilities, including ADHD. Dr. Iyer shares his personal experiences of overcoming rejection, finding self-worth, and the significance of mindfulness in achieving clarity and connection. The discussion emphasizes the potential within everyone to harness their strengths and inspire others, regardless of age or past struggles. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. Takeaways Intentional focus is crucial for personal growth. Rejections can lead to unexpected opportunities. Self-worth is a journey, not a destination. ADHD can be harnessed as a superpower. Mindfulness techniques can help manage racing thoughts. The power of connection enhances clarity and understanding. Storytelling is a process of external and internal discovery. Community support is vital in personal journeys. Embracing one's unique abilities can inspire others. Life is a continuous journey of learning and growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ravi Iyer 01:31 Ravi's Journey to the TED Stage 04:46 The Process of TED Talk Preparation 07:14 Community Engagement and Impact 10:37 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome 13:10 The Power of Connection and Future Talks 15:52 Harnessing ADHD as a Strength 21:02 Therapeutic Approaches to ADHD 24:18 ADHD as a Natural Predator Architecture 27:03 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Embracing Potential 30:08 The Journey to Medical School 35:35 The Power of Focus and Connection 42:02 The Journey to Self-Acceptance
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Mindset Matters Especially in the Solution-Focused Approach (episode 235)
06/24/2025
Mindset Matters Especially in the Solution-Focused Approach (episode 235)
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Willpower For Hope-Centered Leaders (episode 234)
06/14/2025
Willpower For Hope-Centered Leaders (episode 234)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of willpower and agency, the role of community in sustaining motivation, and the need for compassion and understanding in educational settings. She emphasizes the finite nature of willpower, the significance of choosing a hopeful attitude, and the necessity of mindfulness and clarity in our daily lives. Cher also highlights the unique challenges faced by educators and the importance of recognizing the human element in their work. Chapters 00:00 Embracing Change and Flexibility 00:59 Understanding Willpower and Agency 03:00 The Role of Community in Sustaining Willpower 05:43 Compassion and Understanding in Education 09:28 Choosing Attitudes and Managing Energy 13:37 Finding Mindfulness and Clarity 17:22 The Science of Hope and Pathways Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Relational Hope: A Social Gift (episode 233)
05/09/2025
Relational Hope: A Social Gift (episode 233)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day conversation training here: Instagram: In this episode, Cher discusses the relational nature of hope as she reflectd on insights she gained while attending and speaking at the SF24 2025 conference. TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Marc Cordon on Mindset, Mental Chatter and His TEDx Journey (episode 232)
04/14/2025
Marc Cordon on Mindset, Mental Chatter and His TEDx Journey (episode 232)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this engaging podcast episode, Cher and Marc Cordon explore the transformative journey of preparing for TEDx talks, the mindset required for significant life events, and the personal growth that comes from sharing ideas. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of public speaking, the importance of community support, and how podcasting serves as a platform for learning and growth. The conversation emphasizes the value of vulnerability and authenticity in sharing one's message, as well as the impact of TEDx on personal and professional development. In this engaging conversation, Marc Cordon and Cher explore the transformative power of declarations, the journey to achieving TEDx talks, and the importance of self-talk in shaping our experiences. They discuss how accessing inner strengths and reframing past experiences can lead to personal growth, especially for those from marginalized communities. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of authenticity and cultural identity in leadership, while also addressing the role of chatter in our lives and how we can find our own unique paths. In this conversation, Cher and Marc Cordon explore the transformative power of positive psychology, the importance of authenticity in storytelling, and the challenges of navigating self-talk and identity. They discuss the impact of societal expectations and the concept of 'chatter' in our minds, emphasizing the need to acknowledge problems while focusing on what works. The discussion also delves into the dangers of toxic positivity and the significance of the Joy Revolution in fostering genuine happiness and growth. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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The Power of Insight in Coaching Conversations (episode 231)
03/28/2025
The Power of Insight in Coaching Conversations (episode 231)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the concept of solution-focused coaching, emphasizing the importance of empowering individuals through insightful conversations. She highlights the distinction between coaching and counseling, the role of questions in facilitating insights, and the significance of fostering hope in conversations. Cher encourages listeners to adopt a solution-focused mindset in their daily interactions, aiming to elevate conversations and promote personal growth. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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A New Look at Giving Support: MTSS Solution-Focused Style (episode 230)
03/13/2025
A New Look at Giving Support: MTSS Solution-Focused Style (episode 230)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of viewing situations from multiple perspectives, particularly in the context of Multi-Tiered Systems of Support (MTSS) in school counseling. She emphasizes the need for tailored support for individuals, whether in educational settings or family dynamics, and highlights the significance of communication and ownership in fostering positive relationships and solutions. The conversation encourages listeners to adopt a solution-focused mindset and consider how they can providecomprehensive support to those around them. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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How to Shrink Any Problem with Solution-Focused Strategies (episode 229)
03/05/2025
How to Shrink Any Problem with Solution-Focused Strategies (episode 229)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode Cher Kretz discusses the importance of adopting solution-focused practices in school counseling and in your personal life by knowing how to deal with a problem. She emphasizes the need to shift conversations from problem talk to solution talk, introducing strategies like 'shrinking the problem' to help you manage their issues more effectively. Cher also highlights the significance of visualizing problems in the context of one's life and future opportunities, encouraging listeners to believe in their ability to overcome challenges. takeaways Solution-focused practices lessen problem talk and expand solution talk. Meeting clients where they are helps in guiding them forward. 'Shrinking the problem' is a key strategy in solution-focused counseling. Visualizing problems as smaller can shift a client's mindset. Clients often want to solve their own problems, not have them solved for them. Problem talk can lead to solution talk when managed properly. The future is bright, and clients can take steps towards it. MTSS will be discussed in the next episode. Cher encourages listeners to explore past episodes for more insights. The podcast aims to help listeners grow and become their best selves You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. You might ask: Cher how did you go from being a school counselor to a top ranked podcast host? It's because of the business support at SPI (Smart Passive Income) Here is my special affiliate link to check it out:
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Access Kindness Anytime with Solution Focused Skills
02/21/2025
Access Kindness Anytime with Solution Focused Skills
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this conversation, Cher discusses the importance of kindness and mindfulness in school counseling, emphasizing the need for individuals to access their best selves. She shares various activities designed to help students identify their personal strengths and attributes, and how these can be leveraged to foster kindness in daily interactions. The discussion highlights the transformative power of kindness and the role of self-reflection in personal growth. You can get access to the slide deck: Let my know how it helps your pratice grow! takeaways Kindness is a powerful tool in personal development. Mindfulness activities can help students identify their strengths. Accessing your best self is crucial for positive interactions. Everyone has moments of kindness, even if hidden. Self-reflection can lead to better outcomes in relationships. Activities like hand tracing can help students own their attributes. Random acts of kindness can change perspectives. Positive energy is contagious and can uplift others. Identifying personal qualities is essential for self-awareness. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Empowering Conversations and Staying the Course (episode 227)
01/18/2025
Empowering Conversations and Staying the Course (episode 227)
Have you watched Cher's TED? In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of staying on course despite distractions and setbacks. She emphasizes the need to start again when faced with challenges and introduces her GPS Conversation Navigation System as a tool for maintaining focus in conversations. Cher shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to empower oneself and others through solution-focused conversations, ultimately fostering growth and progress. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: Takeaways: -Staying focused requires intentional effort and self-reflection. -It's essential to recognize when we give up too soon on our goals. -Starting again is a powerful tool for overcoming setbacks. -We often have control over our daily actions and choices. -Self-talk can spiral negatively; it's important to manage our thoughts. -Fear can hinder progress, but it also serves a protective purpose. -Using the GPS conversation navigation system in conversations can lead to better outcomes. -Asking the right questions can empower others to find their own solutions. -Recognizing personal growth is crucial for motivation and progress. -Hope is a vital component in conversations and personal development.
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Lori Woodley-Langendorff: All It Takes and What Really Matters (episode 226)
01/07/2025
Lori Woodley-Langendorff: All It Takes and What Really Matters (episode 226)
In this engaging conversation, Cher and Lori Woodley-Langendorff discuss , an organization dedicated to empowering youth and those who serve them through experiential learning and social emotional skills. They explore the importance of understanding barriers in parenting, the role of adult behavior, and the concept of taking 'two steps further' in personal growth. The discussion emphasizes compassion and the significance of small steps in achieving larger goals, ultimately highlighting the journey of self-discovery and the importance of communication in relationships. Takeaways: Experiential learning is crucial for personal growth. Understanding barriers is essential in parenting. Adult behavior impacts children's actions significantly. Taking two steps further can lead to personal growth. Empathy is a noun, while compassion is a verb. We have 18 years to prepare our children for life. Small steps can lead to significant outcomes. Building trust and agency is vital for youth development. Communication is key in fostering understanding and relationships. learn more at Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Tiffany Edith Interview: Hearing The Label Bell; Breaking Down the Big Idea Episode 225
01/01/2025
Tiffany Edith Interview: Hearing The Label Bell; Breaking Down the Big Idea Episode 225
Watch Tiffany Edith's TEDx: with this link: In this engaging conversation, Cher and Tiffany Edith explore the profound impact of labels on identity and personal growth. Tiffany shares her journey from being a TEDx coach to a speaker, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and emotional awareness. They discuss the challenges of gender norms, the significance of community support, and the power of words in shaping our perceptions. The conversation highlights the necessity of overcoming limiting beliefs and embracing one's story as a means to inspire others. takeaways The journey of self-reflection is crucial for personal growth. Labels can significantly impact our identity and self-perception. Challenging societal norms can lead to greater self-awareness. Emotional awareness is key to understanding our reactions. Community support plays a vital role in overcoming challenges. It's important to focus on the emotions behind our labels. TEDx provides a platform for sharing powerful messages. Overcoming limiting beliefs is essential for achieving goals. Personal stories can inspire and connect with others. We are all navigating the same storm, albeit in different boats. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Curiosity and Transformation: The Heart of Connection (episode 224)
12/23/2024
Curiosity and Transformation: The Heart of Connection (episode 224)
In this live podcast, Cher shares her journey of stepping out of her comfort zone to connect with her audience in a new way. She discusses the importance of setting intentions, exploring solution-focused questions, and fostering meaningful conversations. Cher emphasizes the power of curiosity and transformation, encouraging listeners to reflect on their hopes and aspirations as they navigate the holiday season and beyond. The episode concludes with a celebration of achievements and an invitation to engage with her work further. Setting intentions can help reduce stress during busy times. Solution-focused questions can guide personal reflection. Curiosity can lead to deeper connections with others. Transformation often requires intentionality and preparation. Asking meaningful questions can enhance conversations. Hope is essential for personal growth and resilience. Cher shares a personal story about connecting with a student. The importance of being present in conversations is highlighted. Cher encourages listeners to embrace their own journeys. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Announcement! Celebrate with Cher Kretz LIVE! (episode 223)
12/18/2024
Announcement! Celebrate with Cher Kretz LIVE! (episode 223)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: Instagram: In this podcast episode, Cher Kretz celebrates the anniversary of her TEDx talk and announces an upcoming live event to engage with her audience. She emphasizes the importance of solution-focused conversations and shares her insights on overcoming communication challenges. Cher expresses her excitement for the future of her podcast and her desire to connect with listeners in a more interactive way. takeaways Cher is hosting a free live event on December 23rd to celebrate her TEDx talk anniversary. Listeners who participated in her How to Lead with Hope Challenge will get exclusive access. The live event will allow for real-time interaction and Q&A. Cher emphasizes the importance of solution-focused conversations in communication. She acknowledges the challenges of effective communication, especially when triggered. Cher encourages listeners to be patient as she navigates the live format. The podcast aims to create a space for real talk about mindset and relationships. Cher's TEDx talk focused on helping others feel heard and cared about. She expresses excitement for future podcast developments in 2025. Cher invites listeners to check the show notes for more information Instagram: TikTok: Tis The Season! Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. Website:
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Do This Before Setting New Year Goals (episode 222)
12/10/2024
Do This Before Setting New Year Goals (episode 222)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: Instagram: In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of embracing the holiday season while reflecting on personal growth and achievements. She emphasizes the need for self-cheerleading, writing letters to oneself, and celebrating accomplishments as we transition into the new year. Cher also addresses managing stress and the significance of hope in navigating life's challenges, encouraging listeners to focus on the present and take small steps towards their future goals. Instagram: TikTok: Tis the season! Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. Takeaways You can have a renewed feeling of accomplishment. Focus on the joy of your gifts and talents. Pause to reflect on the year and your growth. Self-talk can be negative; hold yourself accountable. It's important to accept who you are right now. Hope drives our life and helps us see pathways. Writing letters to yourself can be empowering. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Anxiety can be managed by focusing on the present. Believe in the future that is meant for you. Chapters 00:00Embracing Self-Celebration During the Holidays 02:59The Importance of Reflection and Hope 04:50Intentional Living and Gratitude 05:06Embracing Challenges and Celebrating Successes 07:47The Power of Self-Reflection and Acceptance 10:40Choosing Gratitude and Positive Self-Talk 13:28Writing Letters to Yourself: A Journey of Self-Care 15:56The Importance of Celebrating Progress 19:05Navigating Anxiety and Embracing the Present 21:53Looking Forward: Setting Intentions for the New Year
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The Mindset Shift That Creates Gratitude and Joy (ep. 221)
11/28/2024
The Mindset Shift That Creates Gratitude and Joy (ep. 221)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode, Cher discusses the importance of embracing gratitude during the holiday season, especially amidst the anxiety and worries that can arise during family gatherings. She emphasizes the significance of a hope-centered mindset, which allows individuals to shape their memories positively and focus on joy rather than fear. Cher encourages listeners to take mindful moments to appreciate their loved ones and to approach situations with intention and positivity, ultimately leading to enriching experiences and lasting memories. Takeaways: Gratitude can transform our experiences during the holidays. Mindfulness helps us appreciate the people in our lives. We have the power to shape our memories positively. A hope-centered mindset can alleviate anxiety. Choosing joy can lead to more fulfilling interactions. Planning our mindset before gatherings is crucial. Our memories are influenced by what we choose to focus on. Fear can cloud our experiences if we let it. Practicing gratitude can enhance our relationships. Living with intention leads to a more joyful life. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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How to Meet Them Where They Are (Ep 220)
11/21/2024
How to Meet Them Where They Are (Ep 220)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode you will find out what I learned after visiting the places that the homeless and transient call home. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Tis the season to give back. Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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The Art of Boldness in Communication (ep 219)
11/15/2024
The Art of Boldness in Communication (ep 219)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher Kretz explores the themes of boldness, communication, and the importance of listening. She shares her personal journey of understanding the balance between speaking and listening, emphasizing that boldness should be used to uplift others rather than dominate conversations. Cher reflects on her experiences at a TEDx event, highlighting the power of vulnerability and connection in conversations. She encourages listeners to recognize the right moments to share their voices and to embrace their unique perspectives to make a positive impact in the world. takeaways Giving out hope is far more important than giving out advice. Boldness can sometimes lead to dominating conversations. Listening is a crucial skill that can transform relationships. It's important to know when to speak and when to listen. Vulnerability can create deeper connections with others. Sharing your story can uplift and motivate those around you. Don't shrink back from sharing your thoughts and feelings. Recognize the moments when your voice needs to be heard. Your unique perspective can make a significant difference Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Putting in the Reps and Getting Results (Ep 218)
11/14/2024
Putting in the Reps and Getting Results (Ep 218)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this podcast episode, Cher reflects on her experience at the 2024 TEDx event in Ocala, where she coached a speaker and shared her insights on personal growth, the importance of taking action, and the value of preparation. She emphasizes the significance of loving the present moment and continuously listening to your inner wisdom that will show you what your next step should be. Making a goal is nice, but you need to be willing tro put in the reps to move towards the goal like each of the Ocala TEDx speakers did this year. You will love this solution-focused message that is sure to help you grow. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. Takeaways Cher reflects on her TEDx experience and coaching role. The importance of sharing heartfelt messages. Being in a place of service is special. Embracing the present moment. Taking bold actions leads to growth and opportunities. Preparation is key to overcoming nerves. Life is a continuous journey of learning and growth. Setting goals is important, but action is essential. Cher is excited about future podcast guests and topics. Listeners are encouraged to take action towards their goals.
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How Mentorship Creates Leaders (episode 217)
10/24/2024
How Mentorship Creates Leaders (episode 217)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this podcast, Cher discusses the importance of mentorship programs in schools, emphasizing the need for collaboration and empowerment among students. She shares her experiences in developing the 'Solution Squad' program, which focuses on peer mentoring and building connections. Through real-life examples, Cher illustrates how student mentors can positively impact their peers, fostering leadership skills and emotional support. The conversation highlights the transformative power of mentorship in educational settings and encourages listeners to seek ways to empower others. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you.
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Stretch Yourself: Solution Focused Scaling Can Help! (episode 216)
10/14/2024
Stretch Yourself: Solution Focused Scaling Can Help! (episode 216)
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: In this transformative episode of The Focused Mindset Podcast, we delve into the art of stretching ourselves to become the person we truly aspire to be. Discover how solution-focused scaling can be a powerful tool in your personal growth journey, helping you push past boundaries and embrace change with confidence. Through engaging anecdotes and practical insights, we explore the necessity of stepping out of comfort zones to achieve your deepest goals. Tune in for actionable strategies that will inspire you to implement this solution-focused approach in your life, empowering you to scale new heights in your personal development journey. You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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Avoiding Common Communication Pitfalls (episode 215)
10/09/2024
Avoiding Common Communication Pitfalls (episode 215)
In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher reflects on her journey in counseling and the importance of effective communication. She shares personal anecdotes about her experiences with conversations that didn't work and the lessons learned from them. Cher emphasizes the significance of listening, understanding, and fostering hope in conversations to create lasting change. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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How Are You Telling Your Story? Focusing on Hope. Episode 214
09/09/2024
How Are You Telling Your Story? Focusing on Hope. Episode 214
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Tune into Cher Kretz TEDx talk right now on YouTube! If you wuld like to look into the amazing coaching specal going on in September of 24 click here: and look up the Instagram: TikTok: In this episode you get to hear how different the same story can be told. This powerful expamle of how we choose our narrative will help you look at your experiences through a solution-focused lens. Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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They Complain. They are Angry. How Can You Help? Episode 213
08/31/2024
They Complain. They are Angry. How Can You Help? Episode 213
Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: go to In this episode, Cher Kretz explores the essential quality of caring, especial when your in the middle of a challenging conversations. This is the firs of several episodes that focuses on the IB learner proviles. Cher emphasizes the significance of the "caring" attribute in personal and community development. Cher delves into the transformative power of empathy, sharing a personal story about a "pocket reference" she received from a co-worker years ago, which has guided her communication strategies. This episode provides listeners with practical techniques for managing difficult interactions, such as maintaining personal space, using open body language, and allowing others to express their emotions. These strategies are shared to help individuals engage in more meaningful and empathetic dialogues. By choosing a positive tone and being observant of others' reactions, listeners can navigate even the most heated discussions with grace and understanding. Tune in to learn how to incorporate these caring strategies into your life and transform your interactions for the better. Hello and welcome to The Focused Mindset Podcast, I hope you ae enjoing the show. I'd love for you to be a part of my Hope Notes Newsletter community at . It is free and you will get a three-day mini course when you do. I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes. Warmly, Cher Kretz Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you.
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How to Quiet Fear Talk and Hear Hope (episode 212)
08/20/2024
How to Quiet Fear Talk and Hear Hope (episode 212)
Fear and hope are both present within us, and it's important to acknowledge and accept them. Fear can cause anxiety and panic attacks, but we can learn to overcome it. Visualizing outcomes that you truly want and focusing on what is true can help combat fear. Breathing exercises and celebrating small wins are effective tools in managing fear. Choosing to listen to the hopeful voice within us and living with a hope-centered mindset can lead to success and finding solutions. Start your free Solution-Focused 3-day training here: You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the t, and you can now join for free with this link. ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. Instagram: TikTok: Your generous support helps me create more free resources and keep this podcast going strong. Thank you. You might ask: Cher how did you go from being a school counselor to a top ranked podcast host? It's because of the business support at SPI (Smart Passive Income) Here is my special affiliate link to check it out:
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