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Loving and Living the Quran

Release Date: 09/02/2020

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Loving and Living the Quran

"…and so that you complete the number and glorify Allah for having guided you, and that you may give thanks." — Surah Al-Baqara (2:185) 🌙 Episode Summary As we approach the end of Ramadan, we reflect on what it means to truly keep Allah at the center of our lives. Ramadan has been a time of spiritual focus, self-discipline, and connection to the Divine. Now, as we prepare to celebrate Eid, we are reminded to exalt Allah’s greatness and express gratitude for His guidance. This is not the end—but a launchpad for the rest of the year. 💡 Key Themes Allahu Akbar as a...

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Loving and Living the Quran

Count Your Blessings Verse Reflection: “And if you count Allah's favors, you will not be able to number them.” — Surah Ibrahim (14:34) 🌟 Episode Summary In this episode, we reflect on the Qur’anic reminder that Allah’s blessings are infinite—too many to count. From the seen to the unseen, the obvious to the hidden, His favors surround us constantly. True gratitude lies not just in counting our blessings but in recognizing them, reflecting on them deeply, and allowing that awareness to nurture our faith and wellbeing. 🧠 Why We Can’t Count His Blessings They Are...

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Pay It Forward Qur’anic Verse: “…And do good to others as Allah has done good to you.” – Surah Al-Qasas (28:77) 🌟 Episode Summary This reflection centers around the Quranic command to use our blessings—wealth, knowledge, time, and influence—not just for ourselves, but in service to others. Drawing from the story of Qarun, a man who failed to recognize his blessings as a trust from Allah, we are reminded that our resources are tests, not trophies. Doing good with what we have is how we build our Hereafter and bring light to this world. 💡 Key Themes Blessings...

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Loving and Living the Quran

"And I swear by the self-accusing soul." – Surah Al-Qiyamah (75:2) 🧭 Episode Summary: In this reflection, we explore the concept of Nafs al-Lawwama—the self-accusing soul—as a divine gift that keeps our spiritual compass aligned. Rather than seeing guilt as something to suppress, the Quran invites us to embrace it as a sign of life in the heart and a tool for growth. During Ramadan, when our spiritual awareness is heightened, let’s learn how to work with our conscience, not against it. 💡 Key Takeaways: Allah swears by the self-accusing soul, emphasizing its deep...

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Loving and Living the Quran

“Repel (evil) with what is best, then the one between whom and you was enmity will become like a close friend.” — Surah Fussilat (41:34) 🧭 Episode Summary: Conflict is inevitable, but how we respond is a powerful reflection of who we are. In this episode, we explore the Quranic invitation to repel negativity with what is best. Instead of mirroring anger, sarcasm, or aggression, we are reminded to stay rooted in our values, respond with calm, and create the possibility of transformation—even in strained relationships. 💡 Key Takeaways: Don’t mirror negativity:...

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Loving and Living the Quran

“Let not hatred of a people incite you not to act equitably; act equitably, that is nearer to piety.” — Surah Al-Ma’idah (5:8) 🧭 Episode Summary: In today’s episode, we reflect on the Quran’s powerful guidance to uphold justice and fairness, not just with those we love, but especially with those we disagree with or dislike. True justice, as Allah commands, is rooted in principles, not personalities. The verse reminds us that rising above personal bias and maintaining equity, even in emotionally charged situations, is a sign of deep taqwa (God-consciousness). It is through...

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Loving and Living the Quran

🧭 Episode Summary: “O you who believe! Let not one people deride another; it may be that they are better than they.” Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11) In today’s reflection, we explore the serious spiritual and emotional consequences of mockery and ridicule in relationships and community life. While sarcasm and making fun of others may feel like harmless humor, the Quran reminds us that such behavior erodes the foundation of peace, respect, and brotherhood—and may be deeply offensive in the sight of Allah. 🧠 Key Points: Mockery = Contempt: Ridiculing others, even subtly, falls...

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Loving and Living the Quran

In this episode, we explore a subtle but powerful relationship principle from the Quran: how our interpretations of others’ behavior shape our emotional well-being and relationships. Suspicion and negative assumptions can harm even the strongest bonds. But with awareness and compassion, we can choose more balanced, kind, and healthy interpretations. 🧠 Key Insights: 🔹 The Human Mind Is a Meaning-Making Machine We constantly interpret others’ words and actions—but those interpretations are often shaped by our own insecurities or past experiences, not reality. 🔹 The Double...

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Loving and Living the Quran

  “And do not quarrel, for then you will lose heart and your power will depart.” [Surah Al-Anfal 8:46] Conflict is natural in any relationship, team, or community—but how we handle those differences determines whether we grow or fall apart. In this episode, we explore the Quranic warning against internal division and how unresolved quarrels can strip us of our energy, effectiveness, and unity. Key Takeaways: 🔹 Differences are Natural — Mismanagement is Destructive The verse reminds us that conflict isn’t the issue—division is. When we quarrel endlessly, we lose...

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Loving and Living the Quran

In this episode, we explore Surah Al-Hujurat (49:10) which calls us to a higher standard of community: “The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy.” This verse emphasizes that we are not just acquaintances or allies—we are spiritual siblings, bound by faith. Disagreements are inevitable, but the Quran commands us to be active agents of reconciliation, reminding us that conflict resolution is a deeply spiritual act. Key Themes Covered: 🔹 Brotherhood in Faith Islam defines the believers as one family—a...

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Ihsan towards parents and the challenges of multigenerational relationships.

The story of an ideal family:

  • The contract of a parent is time-limited till the child reaches the age of 21.
  • Age 0-7: build a relationship of trust with the child. 
  • Age 7-14: train the child in life skills. 
  • Age 14-21: act as a consultant.
  • Age 21 onwards: a parent’s duty is now discharged to God.

Continuing responsibilities after the age of 21:

  • Children are still entitled to respect and care.
  • Children still need advice but they should be treated as adults.

Status that Allah has given parents seen in the light of the Holy Quran:

  • Children are first supposed to spend on parents.
  • Children must not do shirk and must do Ihsan.
  • Parents are the second closest relationship for children after God.
  • Children must pray for their parents and serve them.
  • The responsibilities of children towards parents grow much more as the latter get older.
  • Children must not show any sign of disdain or frustration towards their parents.
  • Children must show compassion and humility towards their parents.
  • According to Hadith, a mother who dies whilst serving her family is given the same status as a martyr on the Day of Judgement. 
  • A mother has jannah under her feet- she is their first Rabb.

How should parents deal with children who have made mistakes:

  • Pardon them and ask pardon for them.
  • Consult and advise them gently.
  • Build relationships with your children.

Responsibilities of children towards their parents:

  • Children’s duties towards parents increase as the latter age.
  • As children become stronger parents are heading towards a decline.
  • A healthy multi-generational relationship is good for all generations.
  • Show pleasure at taking care of parents.

Four keys to having strong inter-generational relationships:

  1. Respect the other person even if they have an outlook different from yours.
  2. Reciprocity: treat one another in a kind manner.
  3. Resilience.
  4. Real communication.

LINKS:

SURAH BAQARAH VERSE 215

SURAH NISA VERSE 36

SURAH IBRAHIM VERSE 41

SURAH ISRA VERSE 23, 24

SURAH ANKABUT VERSE 8

SURAH LUQMAN VERSE 14

SURAH AHQAF VERSE 15, 16, 17

SURAH NUH VERSE 28

SURAH ALI’ IMRAN VERSE 159

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