Episode 79 | How to Talk to Kids About an Upcoming Surgery
Release Date: 08/04/2021
Child Life On Call | Medical, Parenting, Healthcare, Grief, Trauma, Pediatrics, Coping Skills, Community & Support
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Katie, Certified Child Life Specialist gives specific language to use when talking with your child about an upcoming surgery.
+When to bring up the topic before surgery day
+Things to do prior to surgery to get prepared
+How to address pain, fear and the unknown
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