Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption
Release Date: 04/25/2023
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Summary: In this episode of the Fostering Voices podcast, Brian and Kim explore what happens when we shift our focus inward—toward what we can control, what we need, and how we choose to respond—and how that shift shapes our relationships with others. They kick things off with a few real-life moments we can all relate to, from navigating chaotic drivers to the unique stress of New Year’s Eve, using these everyday experiences as a springboard for deeper reflection. From there, the conversation turns toward intentionality: how we want to show up in the world, the power of choosing our...
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Summary: In this week’s episode of Fostering Voices, Kim and Brian dig into the recent presidential executive order released on November 13th: Fostering the Future for American Children and Families. After receiving many questions about what the order means for the foster care community, Kim and Brian break down the key components, highlight potential benefits, and raise important concerns. They begin with an overview of the order’s call to modernize the child welfare system, including improved data collection, better information sharing, and enhanced collaboration with non-government...
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Summary: This week, we’re diving into a topic that many of us would rather avoid—how stress and trauma affect our bodies. If you’re like Kim, it’s not a conversation you’re eager to have, but it’s one that matters deeply if we want to live as our healthiest, most authentic selves. Joining the discussion is our friend and regular guest, Estefana Johnson, who helps unpack what happens “when the body says no.” Together, we explore the hidden ways internal stress and unresolved trauma can shape our health, behaviors, and overall wellbeing. From understanding Adverse Childhood...
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Episode 215: Empowering Children with Learning Disabilities
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Summary: School is back in session, and for parents raising kids who need extra support, the start of the year can bring more than just new routines; it can stir up anxiety, frustration, and countless questions about navigating the system to get the right resources. In this episode, we sit down with Joey Taylor, an education advocate, foster parent, and adoptive parent whose journey is as inspiring as it is unique. Raised and educated in Arizona, Joey’s path has taken him from the halls of jail to the desks of exceptional students, and into the homes of families in crisis. His experiences...
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What happens when you choose to put your comfort space aside and open up your heart and home to a child in foster care? Spoiler alert, it can be humbling, messy, and chaotic at times, but it can also be the most rewarding experience that will change your life and the life of another, forever.
Join us as we have a conversation with Stacy Bradley on Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption. Stacy is an adoptive mom and former foster parent who has gone on the journey, advocated hard for her kiddos, and is a pretty cool person to boot!
Chapters:
0:02 - Introduction
0:31 - Welcome
0:45 - Introduce Stacy Bradley
1:22 - Get to Know Stacy Bradley
3:08 - Learning Experiences
4:40 - Sharing the Journey
5:25 - Learning to Compromise
7:01 - Fear Associated with Stigmas
8:57 - Getting the Wrong Impression
11:28 - The Response to the Wrong Impression
13:09 - What are the Different Stigmas?
14:48 - There's Something Wrong with these Kids
16:59 - Birth Families are Scary
19:48 - These Kids are Lucky
20:38 - The Emotional Journey
22:37 - These Kids are Orphans
23:42 - It's a Learning Experience Every Day
24:35 - When the Answer is Found on Pinterest
25:30 - It's a True Partnership
26:42 - Getting Fired by a 5-year Old
28:56 - Stepping Through the Fear
31:52 - It's not About Being Brave
33:04 - Be Willing to do Something
36:27 - A Smile Goes a Long Way
36:59 - Episode Takeaway
37:35 - The Hope
38:08 - Resources
38:22 - Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey
38:39 - SAGE Journal
39:41 - Poverty by America by Matthew Dezmond
41:12 - Outro
Links:
What Happened to You : Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
Hardcover – April 27, 2021
by Oprah Winfrey (Author), Bruce D. Perry (Author)
Keeping secrets: how children in foster care manage stigma
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0308575918823436
Poverty, by America
Hardcover – March 21, 2023
by Matthew Desmond (Author)
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