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Yesterday we reflected on the cost of holding onto grudges. Today we turn to the motivation the Qur’an offers for choosing the difficult path of forgiveness. Allah says: “Let them pardon and overlook. Do you not love that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.” (24:22) Before addressing the motivation embedded in this verse, we must acknowledge something honestly: forgiveness is difficult. The Qur’an itself describes it as an act of courage. Why is it so hard? When someone wrongs us, the injury often feels like a threat to our dignity. Holding onto the grievance...
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Thirty days ago we began this series exploring the journey of the human nafs toward Allah. We reflected on the full spectrum of who we are: a noble creature before whom the angels bowed (38:72), and a creature of weakness who forgets (4:28). We explored the fitrah, the inner compass of conscience that Allah placed within us. We examined the nafs al-ammarah that pulls us toward desire and the nafs al-lawwamah that awakens discomfort when we stray. We discussed the path of returning to Allah through tawbah, and the courage required to repair our relationships with others through apology,...
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Yesterday we reflected on verse 42:40 and discussed “aslaha” — making amends with others, which is an important part of setting things right with Allah. Today we turn to the word that comes before it in the verse: “The recompense of evil is an evil like it, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.” (42:40) Before reconciliation comes forgiveness ‘afw. The Qur’an begins by acknowledging something deeply human: if someone wrongs you, you have the right to respond proportionally. Justice is permitted. The Qur’an is not asking you to pretend the harm...
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Allah says: “The recompense of evil is an evil like it. But whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah.” (42:40) This verse recognizes something important: when someone harms us, we have the right to respond proportionally. Justice is permitted. But the verse then points to something higher. Whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, their reward is with Allah. Over the past few days we have been talking about tawbah — returning to Allah and repairing our relationship with Him. Today’s verse shifts the focus to another dimension of repentance: repairing our...
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Allah says: “Then Adam received words from his Lord, so He turned to him mercifully. Surely He is al-Tawwāb, the Merciful.” (2:37) The first time the Qur’an introduces the Divine name al-Tawwāb appears in the story of Adam (as). After being tempted by Iblis and leaving the Garden, Adam experienced the weight of what had happened. In that moment of remorse, he turned back to Allah. But the Qur’an highlights something remarkable: Adam’s turning did not begin with him alone. Allah taught him the words of return — the kalimāt through which he repented. This reveals something...
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Allah says: “Surely Allah loves those who turn to Him repeatedly, and He loves those who purify themselves.” (2:222) The Qur’an does not simply praise those who repent once. It praises al-tawwābīn — those who return again and again. The word tawwāb in Arabic implies repetition and continuity. It describes a person for whom returning to Allah is not a rare emergency response after a major mistake, but a regular spiritual rhythm. Repentance becomes a disposition. The people Allah loves are not those who never drift. They are those who do not stay away for long. Imam Khomeini reflects...
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Allah says: “Whoever does evil or wrongs his own soul and then seeks forgiveness from Allah will find Allah Forgiving, Merciful.” (4:110) This verse contains a powerful promise. It acknowledges two kinds of wrongdoing: harm toward others and harm toward one’s own soul through sin. Yet the verse does not end with condemnation. It ends with an invitation. If such a person turns and seeks forgiveness, the Qur’an says: “he will find Allah.” The verb used is yajid — he will find. It is immediate and certain. To find something implies it was already there. The verse suggests that Allah...
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Allah says: “O you who believe! Turn to Allah in sincere repentance (tawbatan nasūḥā). Perhaps your Lord will remove from you your evil and admit you into gardens beneath which rivers flow.” (66:8) This verse addresses believers — people already in relationship with Allah. Tawbah is not only for those far away. It is part of the ongoing life of faith. The Qur’an emphasizes the quality of repentance: tawbatan nasūḥā — sincere, wholehearted repentance. Scholars explain the word nasūḥā in several ways: A repentance done purely for Allah’s sake. A repentance that...
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Allah says: “Say: O My servants who have transgressed against their own souls, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Surely Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” (39:53) This verse is often described by scholars as one of the most hope-giving verses in the Qur’an. Notice how Allah addresses the very people who feel most distant: “O My servants.” Even in the moment of transgression, the relationship is not severed. The belonging remains. The Qur’an describes sin as “transgressing against your own soul.” It frames wrongdoing not primarily as...
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Allah says: “No! Rather, what they used to do has become like rust upon their hearts.” (83:14) Over the past reflections, we have explored the inner landscape of the soul — the fitrah, the states of the nafs, the pull of desire, and the voice of conscience. Recently we reflected on how communities help protect that conscience through mutual guardianship. Today we ask a difficult question: what happens when the soul drifts and does not return? The Qur’an uses the word rān, often translated as rust or a covering over the heart. Classical scholars explain that the human soul begins pure...
info_outlineToday’s reflection is from Sura Furqan and over the next few days, we will look at selections from verses 63-76 in Chapter 25 Sura Furqan, where the Quran talks about the qualities of Ibad ur Rahman or the Servants of the Most Merciful.
The verse reads: The servants of the Compassionate are those who walk humbly upon the earth, and when the ignorant address them, say, “Peace.”
The word “ibad” which is usually translated as “servants” or “slaves” means so much more than that. An Abd is in essence, one who is so aligned to the wishes of the Master that he has no wish or no self of his own.
From head to toe, he is enslaved to the wishes of the one whom he serves. And whom does he serve: The Rahman or the Most Compassionate and most merciful.
It is interesting to note that previously in this Sura, when the disbelievers had been told to submit to the Rahman, they mocked the Holy Prophet [saw] by asking “What is the Ar Rahman?”. In these verses, it is almost as if Allah [swt] is taking pride in introducing Himself through identifying what characteristics are held by those who are His ibaad. The implication is that when His servants are so dignified and lofty, the magnificence of Allah [swt] the Beneficent, will be understood better.
The word that Allah [swt] uses in this verse for Himself is not Allah or not any of His other beautiful names. He is specifically identifying Himself as the Most Merciful, the Compassionate.
And so, if we are to be the ibaad of the Rahman, of the Most Compassionate, then in the first instance, we have to reflect this quality of Rahma, compassion within ourselves.
The verse goes on to identify two qualities that these special ibaad have: the first one being that they walk humbly upon the earth. [we will cover the second one tomorrow inshallah]
To walk humbly is interpreted by scholars to mean with dignity, tranquility, and forbearance and refers not only to walking, but also to the general conduct of one’s life. Humility begins as an internal attitude and then shows in outward behaviour such as how we walk and talk.
Scholars point out that the fact that humility is the first characteristic mentioned tells us that just as arrogance is considered the mother of all evil, humility is the door from which all goodness and spiritual elevation can be accessed.
Scholars also explain that humility and its application in our lives can be understood in two ways: General humility and specific humility.
General humility refers to our overall conduct. It is a quality that should be embedded in our souls which subsequently exemplifies itself in all aspects of our life, especially our relationship with Allah (swt). Such humility is best nurtured by continuously recognizing our complete dependence upon Allah [swt] and His self-sufficiency. The fact that every single thing we have been granted is a gift, a gift that is fragile and the realization that we cannot control the continuation of it helps in recognizing how completely dependent we are on Him and this creates an ongoing sense of humility.
Specific humility is refers to how our internal humility expresses itself in outward action and in this verse the act of walking is particularly mentioned. The way we move through life, how we hold ourselves up and how we walk, the mark we leave on the earth, all speak to our internal level of humility.
Another verse of the Quran advises something very similar: Do not walk exultantly on the earth. Indeed, you will neither pierce the earth, nor reach the mountains in height (Holy Quran 17:37).
In order to implement this verse and the quality of humility in our attitude and our actions, let us become mindful of the message our body language is sending. Are we strutting about, do we have an attitude of entitlement that shows up in how we treat others and the resources of the earth?
Let us also reflect on these two prophetic narrations:
“Humilty and modesty increases the rank and dignity of one who is humble, then be humble so that Allah exalts you.”. In other words, Allah raises the ranks of those who are humble.
“The fruit of knowledge is humility.” (Imam Ali (as). Meaning that true knowledge [both acquired from outside and from within] shows up as humility not arrogance.
For those of us who struggle with pride and arrogance, here are some recommendations to foster humility within ourselves:
1. Reflection on the Attributes of Allah: Reflecting on the greatness, mercy, and infinite wisdom of Allah can naturally evoke humility within oneself. Recognizing one's own limitations in comparison to the vastness of Allah's creation can help foster humility.
2. Gratitude and Remembrance: Engage in frequent remembrance of Allah (dhikr) and express gratitude for His blessings. Acknowledging that all blessings come from Allah fosters humility by reminding oneself of dependence on Him.
3. Self-Reflection and Repentance: Regularly reflect on one's actions, intentions, and shortcomings. Seek forgiveness from Allah for past mistakes and resolve to improve oneself. Genuine repentance requires humility to acknowledge one's faults.
4. Serving Others: Engage in acts of service and charity for the benefit of others without seeking recognition or reward. Serving others humbly reminds us of our shared humanity and dependence on each other.
5. Associating with the Humble: Surround yourself with people who embody humility and modesty. Their example and company can inspire and reinforce humble attitudes and behaviors.
6. Reminding oneself about the source of all blessings: Remind yourself of the transient nature of worldly achievements and possessions, and strive to remain humble in success as well as adversity.
7. Regular Self-Assessment: Regularly evaluate your thoughts, words, and actions to ensure they align with Islamic teachings and values. Humility involves constant vigilance against the ego's tendencies towards arrogance and self-centeredness.