How to Spot a Master Manipulator, Scammer, or Con Artists (Afternoon Live Interview)
Release Date: 08/05/2024
Why the People You Help the Most Betray You
She Saves Herself Podcast
Why do some people betray the very person who helped them most? In this episode, Shannon Kaiser explores the hidden psychology behind betrayal, people pleasing, overgiving, resentment, and emotional debt. Drawing from both personal experience and the teachings of Friedrich Nietzsche, she unpacks why helping others can sometimes create imbalance, rejection, and unexpected betrayal, and how to support people without abandoning yourself in the process. If you’ve ever felt blindsided after giving your heart to someone, this episode is for you.
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The Real Reason Relationships Fall Apart: When You Stop Romanticizing People
She Saves Herself Podcast
In this episode of The Real Reason Relationships Fall Apart, Shannon explores the hidden psychology behind why so many relationships slowly unravel — and why the pain often comes from the collapse of fantasy, not just betrayal itself. Inspired by the teachings of Carl Jung and reflections explored and excerpted from the YouTube channel Jung Thoughts, the video “The Day You Stop Romanticizing People,” this conversation dives into the masks people wear, the unconscious roles we assign each other, and the emotional patterns we mistake for love. You’ll learn why some people only feel...
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Am I the Other Woman? Signs You’re in a Hidden Relationship
She Saves Herself Podcast
In this episode, Shannon Kaiser explores the subtle red flags she ignored before realizing she had become part of someone else’s hidden reality. From inconsistent availability and emotionally intense conversations to vague explanations, shifting stories, and the feeling that something never fully added up, this episode unpacks the psychological and nervous-system impact of relationships that leave you confused, hypervigilant, and questioning yourself. The narrators shares how emotionally intelligent, empathetic people often override their instincts in the name of love, understanding, and...
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Surprising Signs You're Dating an Exploiter Not a Soulmate
She Saves Herself Podcast
This episode explores the subtle first-date behaviors and emotional manipulation tactics exploiters often use that can be mistaken for chemistry, romance, or soulmate-level connection. Inspired by Shannon Kaiser’s original written resource, the narrators unpack the early warning signs many empathic and self-aware people overlook, including fast emotional attachment, low-investment “romantic” dates, premature closeness, boundary testing, and emotional grooming disguised as intimacy. This audio experience is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute...
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How to Prevent Your Empathy from Being Exploited in Relationships
She Saves Herself Podcast
Why do empaths and highly sensitive people often attract toxic or emotionally unsafe relationships? In this conversation, the narrators explore and discuss Shannon Kaiser’s resource on emotional safety, unpacking why empathy can become a target for manipulation — and how to recognize when a relationship is draining your nervous system instead of supporting it. Inside this episode: • Signs someone may not be emotionally safe • Why empaths often overlook red flags • How manipulators test boundaries and gain trust • The difference between compassion and self-abandonment • Ways to...
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The Subtle Behaviors That Don’t Look Like Red Flags
She Saves Herself Podcast
With everything being revealed right now, and as more is being exposed about how women are being treated, from the Epstein files to major CNN investigations in the media, it’s clear these patterns aren’t isolated. They’re learned, repeated, and often start in subtle ways. In this episode, we break down the subtle behavior patterns that seem harmless at first, but are flags. These behaviors often lead to dynamics where you don’t feel safe, or respected.
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The Courage to Write What You're Still Living (with Andrea Owen and Shannon Kaiser)
She Saves Herself Podcast
Shannon and Andrea discuss the importance of writing as a form of creative expression and healing. They emphasize that writing is not limited to professional authors but is a vital outlet for everyone. Shannon shares her journey from writing poetry as a child to releasing songs and cookbooks highlighting the personal joy and healing it brings. Andrea talks about her shift from writing self-help books to memoir despite industry challenges. They both stress the significance of writing for oneself and the transformative power it holds. They also announce a free webinar on April 14 and a six-week...
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What it Feels Like to Be Me Listening Party
She Saves Herself Podcast
In this special listening-party episode, Shannon Kaiser shares select tracks from What It Feels Like to Be Me, the second album in the She Saves Herself music journey. Offering candid reflections on the lived experiences that inspired the lyrics and music style. She opens up about people-pleasing, betrayal, emotional healing, living in Mexico, and the path back to self-trust, self-respect. Sharing some of her favorite songs from the new release, listeners are in for a true treat. .
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Early Red Flags in Dating: How Manipulators Test You in the First 10 Minutes
She Saves Herself Podcast
In this Afternoon Live segment, Shannon Kaiser breaks down the subtle but powerful early red flags that often appear within the first five to ten minutes of meeting someone new. While most people focus on chemistry and connection, Shannon explains why recognizing someone’s intentions is far more important, especially when dating. Drawing from her lived experience with a con artist and a romance scammer, Shannon shares how manipulators use psychological “compliance tests” to assess boundaries, empathy, and vulnerability. If you’re dating, or re-entering the dating world, this...
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She Saves Herself: A Listening Party
She Saves Herself Podcast
In this listening-party episode, Shannon Kaiser shares select tracks from her debut album She Saves Herself, offering brief behind-the-scenes reflections on the emotional arc behind the music. The songs move from seduction and disorientation to clarity, self-respect, and sovereignty—an invitation to listen, feel, and recognize what no longer needs explaining.
info_outlineAfternoon Live TV Show invited me on to help viewers learn the signs of master manipulators, con artist and scammers. "After learning that her friend was actually a con artist, she set out to learn more about master manipulators so she could help others avoid getting conned. Trauma-informed coach Shannon Kaiser, author of, "Find Your Happy", shares how we can all protect ourselves from falling victim.