Own Your Choices Own Your Life
As we approach Christmas and the end of the year, I’m excited to dive into a topic that has been transformative in my life: scripting. This technique, which I began exploring about ten years ago, has evolved significantly for me over the years. Initially, I used colourful markers and creative writing to express what I wanted to change in my life, unaware of the deeper principles of NLP and subconscious programming that would later enhance my practice. In this episode, I reflect on my journey with scripting, starting from dissatisfaction in various aspects of my life—business,...
info_outline 797 | The Heartbeat of My Business - Own Your Stage & Activate Your VoiceOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this Heartbeat of My Business Podcast Series, I am thrilled to welcome my dear friend and strategic performance coach, Meghan Weir. Together, we dive deep into owning your stage and activating your voice. This is episode six of our series on The Heartbeat of My Business. We explore the profound connection between these concepts and how they can empower individuals to express themselves authentically, whether on social media, in public speaking, or everyday life. Meghan shares her journey, recounting a pivotal moment from her university days when she faced a public speaking...
info_outline 796 | Rewriting Your Stories to Change Your LifeOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
I was recently a guest on a friend and client’s podcast, Renee Walker of the Spiritually Wired Podcast. Renee was an incredible host, and she asked so many great questions about rewriting stories and how NLP has supported me with this work. I knew I wanted to reshare the episode on this show, too. Be sure to tune in as Renée and Marsha chat all about the transformative work that can come from Neuro Linguistic Programming, also known as NLP, and demystifying what they are all about when it comes to breaking through the barriers of your unconscious mind and unhealthy thought...
info_outline 795 | What Did 2024 Teach You?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode of the podcast, I reflect on the transformative journey of the past year and share a powerful practice for you to try as we approach the end of 2024. It is so important to take a moment to pause and consider what this year has taught you before we rush into setting goals for 2025. This year has taught me that I cannot escape who I am, and it is time to embrace my authentic self rather than conform to external expectations. Throughout the episode, I explore the concept of duality, sharing how I have simultaneously experienced significant growth in my business and personal...
info_outline 794 | The Heartbeat of My Business - Bold Moves and UnBreakable ConfidenceOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this Heartbeat of My Business Podcast Series, I am thrilled to welcome my dear friend and strategic performance coach, Meghan Weir. Together, we dive deep into the dive deep into the transformative power of sisterhood and collaboration. This is episode five of our series, and we are excited to explore taking bold moves and having unbreakable confidence in growing and scaling your business. Throughout the episode, we explore the concept of bold moves—how they often feel daunting at the moment but can lead to significant growth when reflected upon. I share my strategy of asking...
info_outline 793 | It's All Connected Through Your Fascia with Anna RaheOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, we speak with Anna Rahe, GST Body's Founder, CEO and educator. For the past 25+ years, Anna has delved deep into a liberating and empowering relationship with fascia so that as many people as possible can invest in their health, restore their vitality, and heal themselves with the proprietary tools she has created. As the founder, CEO and educator of GST Body, Anna has spoken about holistic body care through fascia around the world, partnered with top athletes, surgeons, physicians and celebrities, and been featured in various publications, from Shape to Elle, Net-a-Porter to...
info_outline 792 | How Important Is It for You to Be Right?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I dive into a topic that resonates deeply, especially as we approach the holiday season—when many of us find ourselves in close quarters with family members we may not always see eye to eye with. The stress and chaos of the holidays can often exacerbate tensions, leading to conflicts that leave us feeling drained and frustrated. Throughout the episode, I encourage listeners to consider their energy in conversations, especially during disagreements. I discuss how our words and thoughts can create a toxic cycle of conflict, likening it to "spewing poison" that ultimately harms...
info_outline 791 | The Heartbeat of My Business - The Power of Sisterhood & Collaboration Ep #4Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this Heartbeat of My Business Podcast Series, I am thrilled to welcome my dear friend and strategic performance coach, Meghan Weir. Together, we dive deep into the dive deep into the transformative power of sisterhood and collaboration. This is episode four of our series, and we are excited to explore how to explore and highlight the power of sisterhood and collaboration in growing your business. As we share our personal experiences, I reflect on my nine-year journey as an entrepreneur and how I initially felt isolated in my work. I discuss the importance of community and how...
info_outline 790 | The Realities of Entrepreneurship and Personal Growth with Carly OttawayOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Carly Ottaway. Carly is the CEO of Web of Words, an award-winning boutique marketing agency that empowers entrepreneurs to amplify their online presence and grow their businesses. As a journalist turned copywriter turned agency owner, Carly thrives on helping people and brands articulate their stories with authenticity and purpose. Her passion lies in guiding entrepreneurs to lead from their intuition and embrace more flow in their growth journey. With a decade of experience scaling her business and expanding her family, Carly is dedicated to...
info_outline 789 | Breaking Free from the Cycle of Self-CriticismOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, as we approach the end of 2024, I dive into the often challenging process of self-reflection that many of us face at this time of year. It's common to find ourselves caught in a cycle of overthinking and self-criticism, questioning our achievements and feeling like we haven't done enough. I share my personal experiences of being my own harshest critic and how this mindset can hinder our growth and success. I explore the idea that we tend to be most critical of the very things that showcase our unique gifts and talents. I discuss how this self-doubt can stem from external...
info_outlineIn this episode, I dive into a topic that has been weighing heavily on my heart: the importance of keeping our hearts open to receive. I share my journey of learning how a closed heart, often shielded by emotional armour, can prevent us from fully experiencing life and connecting with others.
To protect ourselves from past hurts, judgments, and fears, we inadvertently block not only negative but also positive emotions. This self-imposed limitation restricts our ability to express our true selves and to be seen by others. I emphasize that when we wear this armour, we are not just protecting ourselves but also missing out on the richness of life and the connections that come from vulnerability.
Throughout the episode, I highlight the paradox of being kind-hearted yet closed-hearted. Many people overcompensate for their closed-off feelings by excessively giving excessively to others, which can distract them from their emotional needs. I stress that giving and receiving are two sides of the same coin, and to truly experience the joy of giving, we must also allow ourselves to receive.
I share practical strategies for opening our hearts, such as practicing gratitude, self-care, and vulnerability. I encourage listeners to recognize that they are not their thoughts or emotions but rather the observers of these feelings. By normalizing our emotions and allowing ourselves to feel them without judgment, we can dismantle the barriers we've built around our hearts.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction to the Heart's Role in Receiving
00:01:00 - The Impact of a Closed Heart
00:02:30 - The Cycle of Emotions and Self-Protection
00:04:00 - The Connection Between Giving and Receiving
00:05:30 - The Challenge of Accepting Compliments
00:07:00 - Practicing the Art of Receiving
00:09:30 - Daily Practices to Open the Heart
00:11:00 - The Importance of Gratitude and Vulnerability
00:12:30 - The Interplay of Masculine and Feminine in Business
00:13:30 - Conclusion: Embracing the Power of Receiving
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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