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The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Release Date: 11/13/2024
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info_outlineSusan Bratton joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD, on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, to explore the concept of arousal, arousal differences and the art of intimate relating. They discuss the complexities of sexual and emotional fulfillment in long-term relationships, offering practical advice, and describing innovative techniques designed to reignite passion. Susan highlights the significance of recognizing the innate differences in male and female arousal patterns and addresses the negative impact societal repression has on sexual health. She introduces powerful tools such as yoni massage and making small offers to help couples cultivate a deeper, more satisfying connection. In sharing these strategies, Dr. Alexandra and Susan guide listeners on a transformative journey setting out with routine sexual experiences and arriving at ecstatic pleasure.
Also in this episode:
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Deepen your understanding of the difference between a man’s quicker arousal patterns and a woman’s need for safety as doing so is crucial for mutual satisfaction.
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A vibrant and varied sex life is possible in monogamous relationships by focusing on mutual understanding and innovative practices.
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Communication is key to evolving sexual experiences, including verbal exchange about desires and physical responses to what is happening.
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The following Intimate Marriage Podcast episodes are referenced in the episode:
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Understanding the Complexity of Sexual Differences Between Men and Women – A deep dive into arousal differences and how understanding them can enhance intimacy. Listen Now
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Embodied Sexuality: Connecting with Your Partner Through Satisfying Experiences – Discover how to foster a more fulfilling connection with your partner. Listen Now
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