Why You Should Let People Yell At Your Kids with Marina Lopes (#68)
Release Date: 03/10/2026
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Marina Lopes, a Brazilian American journalist, shares insights from her global research on parenting practices. Learn how international insights can transform American parenting and community support systems, emphasizing practical strategies to build a nurturing environment for raising children. Key topics The importance of community support in parenting Cultural differences in parenting practices Strategies to build a supportive village The role of government and policy in family support Involving fathers and redistributing caregiving responsibilities Chapters 00:00 The Importance of...
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info_outlineMarina Lopes, a Brazilian American journalist, shares insights from her global research on parenting practices. Learn how international insights can transform American parenting and community support systems, emphasizing practical strategies to build a nurturing environment for raising children.
Key topics
The importance of community support in parenting
Cultural differences in parenting practices
Strategies to build a supportive village
The role of government and policy in family support
Involving fathers and redistributing caregiving responsibilities
Chapters
00:00 The Importance of Learning Through Practice
01:19 Cultural Insights on Parenting
03:28 The Loneliness of American Parenting
04:48 The Need for Community in Parenting
07:45 Cultural Changes in Parenting Roles
09:38 Learning Through Failure: Dads in Charge
12:37 The Role of Mothers in Parenting Dynamics
14:48 The Breaking Point of Parenting Support
16:45 The Need for Policy Change
17:41 Redefining Family and Community Responsibilities
19:49 Cultural Practices in Parenting
22:37 Building Community Support
24:25 Integrating Global Parenting Practices
27:18 Creating Visible Community Spaces