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Selfishness Is a Setup (Part 1)

The One Thing That's Needful

Release Date: 05/19/2026

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In this episode of The One Thing That’s Needful Podcast, Dr. Siohvaughn Funches-Dunham launches a new series, “Selfishness Is a Setup,” with a message that exposes self-absorption as a spiritual trap. She begins by grounding the teaching in God’s love, reminding listeners that love gives, and that the clearest picture of that love is seen in the Father giving His Son for the world.

Using 1 Corinthians 13, 1 Peter 4:8, and other scriptures, she shows that spiritual activity without love is empty, and that true love is always expressed through giving, covering, and serving others. The message emphasizes that selfishness can keep believers stuck in a cycle of pain, because when people become consumed with their own problems, they stop sowing into others and miss the freedom that comes from living God’s way.

Dr. Funches-Dunham also teaches that believers are one body in Christ, so when one member refuses to help another, everyone suffers. She ties this to the principle that God blesses His people to be a blessing, and encourages listeners to sow prayer, encouragement, counsel, and resources even in the very areas where they themselves need breakthrough, trusting God’s promise that what is sown will be reaped.

The episode closes with a strong reminder that Jesus came not to be served but to serve and give His life for many, making service and generosity central to the Christian life. In the end, the message calls believers to break free from selfishness, walk in love, and trust that as they give, God will bring increase, healing, and blessing in return.

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
01:08 Series Intro and Prayer
02:41 Gods Rhema Moment
04:14 Love Gives John 316
06:01 Love Over Gifts
11:17 Selfishness Is the Trap
15:06 Midroll and Share
17:10 Trouble Is Inevitable
18:47 One Body One Care
24:55 Sow and Reap Blessing
30:17 Be Like Christ Serve
31:08 Closing and Resources