When the ADHD Entrepreneur Finally Puts Themselves First | Dr. Brandie Keates
Release Date: 07/06/2026
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In This Episode:
- Why “putting yourself first” is non-negotiable for ADHD Entrepreneurs
- Setting boundaries and learning which clients and team members still respect you
- Regulating your batteries before your brain and business crash
What You'll Take Away:
- Running your own company doesn’t mean anyone else gets a say
- Survival mode isn’t strategy — it’s your ADHD brain in panic spinning its wheels
- Doing work that makes you angry or bored is a signal, not a moral failing
- You can drop 75% of your revenue and still come out ahead — if your boundaries are right
- If you’re burned out and overwhelmed, it’s time to quit validating your decisions with outside opinions
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Dr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.
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ABOUT THIS EPISODE
The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Brandy Keats get brutally honest about business breakups, burnout, and why ADHD brains refuse the slow death of “steady” growth. They talk about why boundary-setting is everything for ADHD Entrepreneurs and what really happens when you decide to put yourself first. This conversation digs into overwhelm, the real cost of bad-fit teams and clients, and the guilt that comes from doing less but getting more. It’s a direct look at neurological regulation, dropping work that kills your batteries, and how to build a business that survives the ADHD cycle. If you’ve ever felt the urge to burn it all down or start over, this episode is your permission slip. Hit play if you’re ready to stop apologizing and actually run things your way.
Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
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