Of Course You're Still Struggling (but it's Okay) with Jessica McCabe
Release Date: 10/19/2026
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This week I'm talking with the fantastic Jessica McCabe. Many of you probably know Jessica from her award-winning YouTube Channel, How to ADHD, where she has helped millions of people better understand how ADHD brains work. And Jessica is a returning guest, last time she was on we talked about her then upcoming and now New York Times bestselling book, How to ADHD: An Insider’s Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It) - which just came out in paperback.
And last time Jessica was on the show she was pregnant, so we dive into that a bit on this episode, discussing how having a kid really changed everything for her. And we really do dive into some of those struggles that come with parenting while ADHD and how those can compound with regular ADHD struggles as well through things like sleep, scheduling and how much pressure we put on ourselves. We also get to hear a little about the new book that Jessica is starting to work on.
How to ADHD: An Insider's Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It) - Barnes & Noble
How to ADHD: An Insider's Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It) - Amazon
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This episode's Top Tips:
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A system can be a great fit for how your brain works and still stop fitting the life you’re actually living. When something that used to work stops working, check what changed around it, be it your schedule, responsibilities, environment, or available support. Then look at what was useful about the old system and what needs to change to fit the life you have now.
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Try putting something you actually want to do on the calendar before everything else fills the space. That might also mean scheduling more time for rest or fun than feels strictly necessary, because if we leave those things to whatever time is left over, there often isn't much left. This is something I’ve talked about before and am still not particularly good at myself, but making space for it deliberately gives that time a much better chance of actually happening.
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Progress isn’t about reaching a point where everything suddenly becomes easy. Part of it is adjusting what you expect from yourself, and part of it is getting better at recognizing which tools and supports you need. So when you’re struggling, instead of making that struggle a verdict about yourself, ask: Why is this hard right now, and what can I do about it?