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Episode 205 - What If The Competition Has The Same Price?

Maximize Your Influence

Release Date: 09/13/2017

Beat Prospect Procrastination - Close Deals Faster show art Beat Prospect Procrastination - Close Deals Faster

Maximize Your Influence

Let’s talk about the silent killer of sales, influence, and motivation: Inaction Inertia. This psychological trap is costing you deals, delaying decisions, and keeping your prospects stuck in neutral. Inaction Inertia happens when someone misses an opportunity and becomes less likely to act on similar ones later. It’s not just hesitation—it’s psychological sabotage. Studies show that when people pass on a good deal, they feel regret, and that regret makes them avoid future decisions to protect themselves from more disappointment. This isn’t just psychology—it’s persuasion...

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Poker - Your Secret Weapon to DOMINATE Influence & Negotiation Most people think poker is about luck or counting cards. WRONG. The game of poker is a masterclass in influence—reading people, and understanding human nature. If you can’t influence at the table, you’re getting crushed in the corporate world, sales calls, and life.   Poker is influence training on steroids.  Want to crush negotiations and close bigger deals? Discover tools and techniques that will help you become a power persuader.

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Cognitive Defusion for Smarter Decisions and Stronger Influence show art Cognitive Defusion for Smarter Decisions and Stronger Influence

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In today's fast-paced world, your mindset is the ultimate game-changer. It shapes how you respond to challenges, build meaningful connections, and influence others. But what if you could step back from the mental chatter that holds you back? Understanding cognitive defusion—a powerful psychological tool—can transform your inner dialogue, triggering increased motivation, and personal growth. It's not about suppressing thoughts; it's about mastering them to live more intentionally and effectively. Beyond personal benefits, cognitive defusion can be a secret weapon for influencing others. By...

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The Deal Killer: Top Negotiation Mistakes to Avoid show art The Deal Killer: Top Negotiation Mistakes to Avoid

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The Biggest Negotiation Mistakes  Negotiation skills are essential in both personal and professional life, empowering individuals to resolve conflicts, and secure better deals. Whether closing a business contract, discussing salary raises, or navigating family disputes, effective negotiation leads to win-win outcomes, fostering trust and efficiency. Poor negotiation, however, can result in lost opportunities, financial setbacks, or damaged partnerships. Failing to prepare adequately undermines even the strongest positions, turning potential successes into regrettable failures. By...

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Influence Up - How To Leverage Your Persuasion Power show art Influence Up - How To Leverage Your Persuasion Power

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Unlock Your Inner Persuasion Superpower: Your Personal Power Effective persuaders recognize and apply various forms of power. However, for many, the term "power" evokes discomfort. Is it an appropriate topic for discussion? Does it carry positive or negative connotations? Can it be exercised ethically over an audience? This depends on the type of power, its application, and the intent behind it. Individuals inherently possess different forms of power in every situation. It is a fundamental aspect of human behavior to acknowledge and align with authority and expertise.  When an audience...

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Permanent Retention - Primacy vs. Recency Effect show art Permanent Retention - Primacy vs. Recency Effect

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Imagine commanding any room, captivating every listener, and leaving a lasting impression that seals the deal—whether you're pitching a product, leading a team, or inspiring change. In a world where attention spans are shrinking to mere minutes, this show reveals how to make your message stick, ensuring your audience stays hooked and persuaded.    Why do some messages linger while others fade? The primacy and recency effects explain it: people remember what comes first and last most vividly. Going first in a pitch, like a keynote speaker setting the tone, leverages primacy to plant...

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Metaphor Mastery: Unlock the Secret Language of Influence show art Metaphor Mastery: Unlock the Secret Language of Influence

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Metaphor Mastery: Unlock the Secret Language of Influence Imagine unlocking a hidden superpower in your everyday conversations—one that turns ordinary words into irresistible forces of persuasion, capable of swaying opinions, closing deals, and inspiring action like never before. Metaphors are powerful tools for shaping minds and hearts. Whether you're a salesperson pitching your next big idea, or a leader motivating your team, this show equips you with the secrets to influence effortlessly.   At the core of metaphor mastery lies the understanding that metaphors bridge the abstract and...

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Persuade Without Pushing: The Art and Science of Storytelling In a world overflowing with information, stories are the key to grabbing attention and holding it.  Stories captivate your audience, forge unshakable connections, and influence without ever feeling like a hard sell.  Whether you’re a business leader, marketer, or entrepreneur, stories make your message unforgettable. Stories do more than entertain—they persuade without detection.  By weaving your ideas into compelling narratives, you can guide your audience toward your goals without them feeling pressured....

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How To Close The Closer - Tools for Persuading Persuaders show art How To Close The Closer - Tools for Persuading Persuaders

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Ever wondered how to close a hard core closer?  Did you know that salespeople are easier to sell then the average person? Enter "How to Close the Closer," the podcast that demystifies the art of persuading the persuaders.   Whether you're in B2B sales, pitching services, or just honing your influence skills, this podcast equips you with tools to flip the script on even the toughest prospects. Maximizeyourinfluence.com

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Surroundings Sell - How Ceilings, Plants, Colors, and Temps Influence Your Prospect show art Surroundings Sell - How Ceilings, Plants, Colors, and Temps Influence Your Prospect

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Imagine boosting your close rate by 30% just by tweaking your surroundings. What if the real culprit isn't your words—it's the room you're in OR your Zoom background? Introducing "Surroundings Sell," the groundbreaking podcast that reveals how everyday elements like ceiling heights, room temperatures, colors, and lighting secretly shape your prospect's mindset. This show dives deep into the science of environmental influence, showing you how high ceilings can spark creative "yeses," warm temps might create objections, and strategic lighting can build instant trust. Whether you're closing...

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Charisma is influence.  In other words, getting others to do what you want them to do and like doing it.  People get uneasy when you talk about influence, but just like power, it is neutral.  Some feel it can’t be learned, others get uneasy that it might get misused and some pretend it is not that important.   Charisma and influence go hand in hand.  It can be used with your leadership, your company, your children and even for making the world a better place.  Influence can get people to accept your ideas, brings people together and helps change stick.  I am not talking about selling skills.  I am talking about long-term sustainable change that people want to implement.  There is a direct correlation between your ability to influence, your charisma and your income.

The challenge is most people influence the wrong way.  You tend to influence how you like to be influence and that is completely wrong.  You need to adapt to the person and to the situation.  Most influence happens with subconscious triggers (see the subconscious section).  Everything you do, everything you say or how you make them feel will affect how your audience feels about you.  You are repelling people and you don't even know it. When people sense a hint of force, deception, hype, or selling underlying any of your influence attempts, you will lose your charisma.

Audiences are tough.  People have built a lot of resistance to the old style of persuading and influence; many people have built a brick wall of resistance even before you've even meet them.  What can you do to overcome this tendency?  Your influence attempts must be nonthreatening and natural.  Forget loud and flashy.  That strategy only encourages more resistance.  And most definitely forget about high pressure.  Not only does that solidify resistance, it closes the door to influence.  When people feel they have been pressured, bullied, or coerced into doing something they don't need or want, they become rebellious and resentful.

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