Managing A Career
“Be quick to decide…but slow to act.” This isn’t just a pithy saying you nod along to and forget; there’s real weight behind it. It’s a quiet strategy that shows up again and again in fast career growth and strong professional reputations. If you’ve ever watched someone get promoted and thought, That seemed sudden, there’s a good chance this was part of the story. From the outside, it looks like an overnight decision; behind the scenes, it’s anything but. They were making clear decisions early, then deliberately working the back-channels; socializing ideas, pressure-testing...
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When it comes to AI, a lot of professionals are still telling themselves the same story; “I’ll get around to learning it when I get the chance.” That mindset made sense when AI felt like a curiosity…or a distant threat that might someday take everyone’s jobs. But that phase is already over. AI is no longer a hypothetical technology sitting on the sidelines; it’s being quietly woven into daily workflows, baked directly into the tools you already use, and increasingly embedded into what managers and companies expect from their employees. At this point, AI isn’t going away. The...
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I heard a quote on a recent of the Hidden Brain podcast that really hit me. It was so powerful that I had to rewind the podcast just to hear it again. It was simple, almost obvious once you heard it; “Just because you’re scared doesn’t mean you do nothing.” The line came from a story the guest was telling about his mother. The story had nothing to do with careers, promotions, or performance reviews…but the moment I heard it, I knew it applied perfectly to work. Fear shows up any time you’re trying to grow. Any time you’re pushing beyond what’s familiar....
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If you’ve been listening to this podcast for any length of time, you know I like to pull ideas from real situations… not theory, not hypotheticals, but things people are actually living through at work. This week’s episode came together exactly that way. I was scrolling LinkedIn and came across by about an engineer who had been stuck in a mid‑level role for more than thirty years. Thirty years. Not because this person wasn’t talented… not because they were lazy or disengaged… but because they focused exclusively on technical excellence and didn’t care what their managers...
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As we wrap up the year and head into the holiday season, many of you are taking a well‑deserved break—stepping back, recharging, and hopefully celebrating everything you’ve accomplished over the past twelve months. I’m doing the same. And even though I’m pausing new episodes for a bit, I still want to leave you with something meaningful to support your growth during this important stretch of the year. Because for a lot of professionals, the end of the year isn’t just about holidays and downtime. It’s also the season of annual reviews, performance conversations, and...
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I hope you’re finding a little space to breathe as we head into the final stretch of the year. This is the season when everything seems to converge at once—deadlines, holidays, planning for next year, and of course, the annual review cycle. And because I’m taking a few weeks off, I’m replaying some of my favorite past episodes that still feel incredibly relevant, especially right now. Today’s episode is one of those. Before we jump into it, I want to set the stage for why this particular topic—speaking with finesse—matters so much at this time of year. If you’re like...
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Hello everyone, and welcome back to the podcast. I hope you’re enjoying the holiday season and taking some time to recharge. I’m doing the same this week—stepping back for a little rest—but I didn’t want to leave you without an episode. So, I’m bringing back one of the most impactful conversations we’ve had on this show: Episode 73, Put Yourself In Their Shoes. It's all about one of the most underrated skills you can develop for both your career and even everyday life: the ability to understand the motivations of the people around you. It’s not necessarily about...
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We've all experienced it. You're at a training session or a professional meet-up or maybe you're wandering the expo hall at an industry conference. A bit of downtime leads to a quick exchange with the person next to you... five minutes of conversation, maybe ten if everyone’s particularly chatty. You swap LinkedIn profiles or trade business cards or even promise to follow up later. Then nothing happens. The moment ends, the event ends, and the relationship ends right along with it. But it doesn’t have to. Those tiny talking windows you slip through at conferences and workshops can evolve...
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I was talking with someone last week who’s been in the same role for years. Smart person; dependable; someone who always gets things across the finish line. Their question hit me hard because I’ve heard it so many times before: “Why do people who seem less competent than me keep getting promoted?” My answer was simple… and frustrating… and completely true. Advancement isn’t about competence; it’s about story. The people moving up aren’t always better at the work; they’re better at talking about the work. They’ve learned how to turn their accomplishments into a narrative...
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This is one of the toughest job markets we’ve seen in a long time. Every week, it feels like another company is announcing sweeping layoffs and tightening their roster. In , I talked through what to do if you suddenly find yourself on the wrong side of those decisions. This week, though, I want to shift the focus. Let’s talk about the moves you can make right now to put yourself in the strongest possible position to avoid being laid off. Nothing is guaranteed; no strategy is bulletproof; but the concepts we’ll cover today can help you protect your role and make yourself a far less...
info_outlineI pull inspiration for my episodes from many places. The inspiration for this week's episode came from the June 19th episode of the Help Wanted podcast with Jason Feifer and Nicole Lapin (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-find-solutions-when-there-are-no-good-options/id1456031960?i=1000713535785). In that episode, Jason outlines a specific problem solving technique, but it reminded me of a critical fact when it comes to your career. I'll get into Jason's technique later, but first, I want to take a step back and talk about the importance of taking action.
If you think about your job in the simplest of terms, your JOB is to take responsibility of SOMETHING so that your leader doesn't have to think about it. That may be small responsibilities early in your career or larger responsibilities as you gain experience and seniority. Even your boss is expected to take responsibility of something so that THEIR boss doesn't have to think about it. As much as possible, there is an expectation that you continue to move those responsibilities forward with very little input from anyone else. If everyone does their part, the organization will continue to make progress on it's goals.
This is why it's important that you continue to take action, even when faced with a problem with no obvious solution. In Episode 084 (https://www.managingacareer.com/84), I talked about the phrase "Don't bring me problems, bring me solutions". This episode is sort of a continuation of that.
In Episode 084, I talked about the three reasons you might engage your leader in your responsibilities. You need their authority, their permission, or their insight. Because they have their own responsibilities, leaders are looking to minimize how much of their time you consume. If, every time you face a difficult decision, you escalate to your leader, they will begin to question why they delegate tasks to you since you aren't showing ownership of the problem.
"But," you may think, "I want to make sure that I make the RIGHT decision." But that desire to be right may lead to decision paralysis. Over-research, waiting for others, or meetings to discuss the options AGAIN. All of these factors are just putting off progress. Sometimes, there IS no right solution.
This is where the technique that Jason mentioned in the episode of the Help Wanted podcast (https://www.jasonfeifer.com/podcast/) is useful. When you have imperfect choices, it's often better to pick one to move forward and deal with the imperfections than it is to stall out your project. By taking action, you showcase your ability to make tough decisions and allow your leader to continue to focus on bigger things.
Jason calls this strategy "List before you Leap". Or you can consider it to be the "Least Flawed Option". Start by listing every option that you've considered; even the ones that you have already dismissed. When you consider each solution one by one, it's easy to say "no" because you can identify the flaws. However, when you have the list of options, focus on determining to which solution you will say "yes". By flipping from a "no" mindset to a "yes" mindset, you're preparing yourself to move forward.
With the list of options before you, it's often easy to eliminate most of them when compared to the few stronger candidates. This is where applying the approach that Jeff Bezos uses for making decisions. Some options may lead to 2-way doors and others may lead to 1-way doors (https://blueprints.guide/posts/one-way-vs-two-way-doors). Consider how reversible a decision will be. If you can easily undo a decision, that represents a 2-way door because once entered, you can always exit. But, if a decision is irreversible, that decision is a 1-way door and you must take extra cautions when making that choice. After you have narrowed your selection of imperfect solutions down, if you are struggling to decide, it is better to select a 2-way door solution instead of a 1-way door solution. As you encounter the flaws, if they cannot be overcome, it may be useful to reverse track and choose the other option.
When you've made a decision on which imperfect option to choose, the next step is to present it to your leader. As mentioned earlier, when you escalate to your leader, it's for authority, permission or insight. It requires a lot less of their time when you ask for permission to proceed than if you ask for their insight. You've indicated what was considered in making the decision, so you've provided the insight; you're just asking for permission to proceed.
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