4 Communication Mistakes That Make Kids Ignore You (And How to Fix Them)
Release Date: 11/12/2025
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Ready to master balanced parenting in under 12 weeks? Go here: https://drlindsayemmerson.com/workshop-pod
In this episode, you’ll learn the four most common communication mistakes that make kids ignore you and the simple, science-backed fixes that actually work. These quick shifts in how you phrase requests, give directions, and connect with your child can transform daily power struggles into calm cooperation so your child listens the first time, not the 17th.
New to my podcast? I’m Dr. Lindsay Emmerson, a clinical psychologist and Mom of 4, and I help parents find that sweet spot between support and structure that psychology research tells us is best for families now and best for our kids in the future.
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