S3E5: How to Respond to Disciplinary Trouble During College Applications

In this episode of the "Admittedly" podcast, host Thomas Caleel advises families and students on how to proceed with college application preparation in the wake of a serious disciplinary issue. Admissions officers look for self-aware, mature students who understand their challenges and how they've grown from them. If serious trouble occurs senior year, taking a gap year to build a strong track record might be beneficial. Thomas emphasizes the importance of addressing mistakes during applications, as it shows growth and self-awareness, which are valuable for both undergraduate and graduate admissions.

Summary of Key Points:

1. Trouble is Common: Caleel starts by framing that serious incidents in high school, such as suspensions or expulsions, are becoming more common and can significantly impact students and their communities. It's important to address these issues rather than ignore them.

2. AO Perspective: Caleel describes that admissions officers have a challenging job but are generally supportive and looking for students who demonstrate self-awareness and maturity. They want to see applicants own their mistakes and show how they’ve grown from them.

3. Ownership and Redemption: Caleel advises that students should acknowledge their mistakes, understand the reasons behind them, and demonstrate genuine efforts to make amends and improve. This process of ownership and redemption is crucial for a positive presentation in applications.

4. Application Strategy: Caleel elaborates that when discussing past troubles during applications, students should provide a thoughtful explanation and evidence of change, rather than trying to conceal the incident. Demonstrating how one has learned from and addressed past issues can be compelling to admissions committees.

5. Timing: Caleel emphasizes that the timing of a serious incident can affect application strategies. If a significant issue occurs close to application deadlines, taking a gap year to build a credible record of improvement might be advisable. This allows for stronger recommendations and evidence of personal growth.

Conclusion:

For families reeling to recover from a disciplinary issue involving their student, Thomas Caleel gives his advice on the best way to continue them on a path towards college admission. Students should demonstrate a mature and empathetic attitude, taking steps to prove they have accepted their actions and are making efforts to amend and improve. Join him next week to discuss US boarding schools and how to decide if they are a fit for your student.

About Thomas Caleel

Thomas is an alumnus of the University of Pennsylvania. After earning his MBA at the Wharton School of Business in 2003, he moved to Silicon Valley. For three years, he was Director of MBA Admissions and Financial Aid at Wharton. He worked closely with admissions professionals, students, alumni, and professors to curate the best possible MBA class. Thomas has been an entrepreneur his entire life in the fields of finance, agriculture, wellness, and sporting goods. As the founder of Global Education Opportunities LLC, he works as a high-level admissions advisor to help families and students achieve their education goals. Thomas started the podcast Admittedly because he is passionate about demystifying the application process for all parents and applicants.

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