S4E9: Can One Mistake Ruin My College Chances?
Admittedly: College Admissions with Thomas Caleel
Release Date: 04/04/2025
Admittedly: College Admissions with Thomas Caleel
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info_outlineIn this episode of the Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel addresses a question that has been coming up more and more often: “I made a mistake—am I done?” Whether it’s academic dishonesty, a suspension, or even a school dismissal, students are understandably afraid these missteps have ended their college dreams. But as Thomas explains, what matters most is how you respond, own your mistake, and demonstrate growth.
This episode dives into the real consequences of disciplinary and academic infractions, how colleges evaluate these issues, and—most importantly—how students can take back control of their narrative and future. Redemption is not only possible, but it can be powerful—if handled the right way.
Key Topics Discussed:
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Can one mistake really ruin your college admissions chances?
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The difference between academic and disciplinary issues in the application process
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Why academic dishonesty is taken so seriously—and how to move forward
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What to do if you’ve been suspended or disciplined
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How and when to disclose infractions on your college application
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The importance of owning your mistake and showing maturity and growth
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Steps to rebuild trust with your school and future colleges
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Letters of support: who to ask and why they matter
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Stories of redemption and what admissions officers are truly looking for
Everyone makes mistakes—it’s part of being human. What sets successful applicants apart isn’t perfection, but their willingness to take responsibility, grow, and keep pushing forward. If you’re facing a setback, don’t despair. Get in front of it, take the right steps, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Your future is still in your hands.
We want to hear from you. If you've gone through something similar and come out stronger—share your story with us on social media @admittedlyco on Instagram and TikTok. Let’s uplift and support each other.