Episode 39: From Chaos to Control: Mastering Motherhood, Business, and Self-Care
Release Date: 11/01/2023
Neka Said
Let’s be real—setting boundaries with clients can feel like walking a tightrope. You don’t want to be a pushover, but you also don’t want to lose business. So how do you find that sweet spot? In this episode, we’re talking about how to set firm (but fair) boundaries that protect your time, energy, and sanity—without scaring off good clients. I’m breaking down: ✅ The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make when trying to enforce boundaries ✅ How to say “no” with confidence (without the guilt trip) ✅ Why boundaries actually attract better clients and more money ✅ Scripts...
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Let’s talk about pricing—because I know so many of you are out here undercharging, overworking, and wondering why your business isn’t hitting those income goals. If you’ve ever stressed about what to charge, felt guilty about raising your rates, or worried that clients won’t pay your worth… this episode is for you. I’ve been there. I used to let fear set my rates, and guess what? That left me overbooked and underpaid. Not anymore.Today, I’m breaking down exactly how to: - Shift your mindset and stop undervaluing your work - Use my Confidence Formula to price your services...
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You started your VA business for freedom—to make money on your terms, work with dream clients, and actually enjoy your life. But let’s be real… the hustle can take over real quick. One minute, you’re excited to grow, and the next, you’re drowning in client tasks, saying yes to everything, and feeling like there’s never enough time to work on your business. I’ve been there. And let me tell you—working 24/7 is not the move. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to grow your income and impact without sacrificing your well-being. We’re talking boundaries, smarter...
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If you’re short on time but still want to grow a wildly profitable VA business, this episode is for YOU. If you’re looking to automate, work smarter, and thrive, keep listening. But if you love chaos, well… this might not be your vibe. Today, I’m breaking down the must-have tech tools every VA needs to save time, boost productivity, and streamlinetheir business. I’ve seen so many VAs struggle with overwhelm simply because they’re not using the right systems. And let’s be real—missed deadlines and inefficiency? They’re killing your sales. So if you’re juggling a...
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Struggling to land your first client as a Virtual Assistant? You’re not alone—but the good news is, I’ve got you covered. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to craft a pitch that gets noticed, confidently sell your services, and book your first (or next) paying client. We’ll cover: ✅ The key elements of a winning pitch ✅ How to position yourself as the go-to VA (even if you're just starting) ✅ The #1 mistake new VAs make when reaching out to potential clients ✅ Simple sales strategies to turn conversations into contracts If you’ve been waiting for the perfect...
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In this episode of the Neka Said Podcast, we’re talking about something that literally changed the game for me—taking fast, messy action. If you’ve ever found yourself waiting for everything to be “perfect” before launching, posting, or pitching, then this episode is for you! I’m breaking down why perfectionism is actually holding you back, how messy action leads to real progress, and how I went from cringing at my first client pitch to running a thriving business—just by getting started, imperfections and all. You’ll learn how perfectionism is just procrastination in disguise,...
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If you’ve been thinking about starting your VA business but feel stuck on where to begin—this episode is exactly what you need. I’ve had so many people asking me how I launched my VA business and signed two clients within my first two days! And the truth? Success isn’t about luck—it’s about strategy, confidence, and taking action the right way. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the step-by-step guide to launching your VA business with clarity and confidence in 2025. We’ll cover: ✨ The most SKIPPED step in starting a VA business (and why it’s holding you back) ✨ How...
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Setting goals is the easy part—the real challenge is staying committed when the excitement fades, distractions creep in, and the work gets messy. In this episode of Neka Said, we’re talking about the Messy Middle—the space between setting a goal and actually achieving it. If you've fallen off track, need to realign your business goals, or want to set goals in a way that guarantees success, this episode is for you. I’ll break down the SMART goal-setting method, share strategies to stay consistent, and give you real-life examples of how I hit my goals (even when motivation was low)....
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We’re diving deep into a topic that every entrepreneur faces at some point—self-doubt and imposter syndrome. Whether you’re just starting your virtual assistant business or scaling to your next income milestone, these feelings can creep in and hold you back. I’m sharing my personal journey—how I went from second-guessing every move to hitting my first $10K month by leaning into my secret sauce. You’ll hear the raw, real moments of doubt I faced, the fears I overcame, and the mindset shifts that helped me break through. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ What imposter syndrome...
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Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been in the game for years, this one shift in your focus can take your business from struggling to thriving practically overnight. Trust me, I learned this the hard way after spinning my wheels for far too long. But once I honed in on my secret sauce, everything changed. We’ll dive into: ✅ How to uncover your unique strengths (hint: it’s your superpower as a VA!) ✅ Why your secret sauce helps you stand out and attract dream clients effortlessly ✅ Real-life examples of how focusing on your strengths leads to high-ticket clients ✅...
info_outlineIn this inspiring conversation, we delve deep into the heart of a challenge faced by many women, one that transcends the boundaries of motherhood, career, and personal identity.
Picture a young mother, barely 21, finding her way through the labyrinth of motherhood while also confronting a daunting diagnosis for her son: cerebral palsy. This episode peels back the layers of my story, revealing the intense juggling act I undertook – from college life to parenthood, special needs caregiving to a full-time job.
When the pressure was mounting, and quitting seemed like a tempting option, there was one unwavering source of motivation – my son's hopeful eyes, demanding more than just the essentials, but a life filled with possibilities.
Discover how routines, schedules, and habits became my steadfast companions, transforming the chaos into a harmonious symphony. Friends and family now refer to me as "the planner girl" – a testament to my meticulous approach to managing the multiple facets of my life.
If you're a woman striving to balance the roles of mother, partner, employee, and self-entrepreneur while still nurturing your personal life, this episode is a must-listen. I share invaluable insights into my journey as a Virtual Assistant, successfully signing high-ticket clients without missing crucial school events or those cherished moments with my family and friends.
Join us for a truly empowering conversation that redefines what it means to maintain, juggle, and conquer life's many challenges while preserving your essence, mind, and purpose.