Ep. 57: Let Go or Be Dragged — Flow, Trust & the Wisdom of the Wave with Daniel A. Miller
Release Date: 06/29/2025
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In this powerful conversation, Sahar Modares and I unpack a truth that many of us are just beginning to understand: growth doesn’t have to come through suffering. We talk about how hope is a skill—one many of us need to relearn—and how reclaiming it can shift everything from how we lead to how we live. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the belief that struggle is the only path forward, this episode will breathe fresh air into your mindset and offer a new lens on healing, growth, and resilience. MORE ABOUT SAHAR: Sahar Modares is a catalyst for light, sparking transformation in those she...
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Ep. 58: Staying With The Discomfort With Hope Rose
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Ep. 57: Let Go or Be Dragged — Flow, Trust & the Wisdom of the Wave with Daniel A. Miller
Make Discomfort Your B*tch
In this episode, I talk with Daniel A. Miller - best-selling author, poet, painter and former attorney - about what happens when our need for control becomes the very thing holding us back. Danny shares how a series of life-shaking events forced him to confront his tightly gripped approach to life, which was leading to self-neglect and outcomes far from what he truly wanted. Through his book The Way of the Wave and our conversation, Danny invites us to consider a different way: one built on self-trust, acceptance and riding the natural currents of life rather than resisting them. If you’ve...
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Ep. 56: Skin Deep with Dr. Jeanne Retief: When Your Body Speaks the Truth Your Mind Tries to Hide
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Ep. 53: Danita Young, Founder of Booty Bands, on Moving From Overwhelm to Alignment
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Ep. 52: Navigating Teen, Young Adult and Your Own Mental Health with Tara Rolstad
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Ep. 51: The Power of the Pivot with Bianca Bee
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info_outlineIn this episode, I talk with Daniel A. Miller - best-selling author, poet, painter and former attorney - about what happens when our need for control becomes the very thing holding us back. Danny shares how a series of life-shaking events forced him to confront his tightly gripped approach to life, which was leading to self-neglect and outcomes far from what he truly wanted.
Through his book The Way of the Wave and our conversation, Danny invites us to consider a different way: one built on self-trust, acceptance and riding the natural currents of life rather than resisting them. If you’ve ever white-knuckled your way through change or tried to force clarity before it’s ready, this episode is your permission slip to soften, trust and let the wave carry you forward. 🌊
Tune in for powerful insight on how surrender isn't giving up—it’s the beginning of truly showing up.
MORE ABOUT DANNY:
Daniel A. Miller is a best-selling author, former attorney, painter, poet and nationally ranked senior tennis player who spent much of his life tightly gripping control—until a rapid-fire series of traumatic events brought him to his knees. His latest book, The Way of the Wave: Nature’s Model for Navigating Life’s Currents, distills the lessons from his nearly 40-year journey of learning to “go with the Wave”—a path that helped him let go, find peace, and move forward with greater clarity and trust. He is also the author of Losing Control, Finding Serenity and The Gifts of Acceptance.
Website: https://danielamiller.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielamillerauthor
Book Link: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Wave-Natures-Navigating-Currents-ebook/dp/B0D9HZY1GR
MORE ABOUT ME:
I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces.
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