Make Discomfort Your B*tch
Listen, life's throwing us some serious curveballs, but guess what? Embracing the twists and turns isn't a bad thing - it's an opportunity for healing and growth. I believe we give way too much power to the discomfort and therefore miss out on a lot of joy, connection, success and more. Join me as we explore how to navigate discomfort in various areas like work, friendships, entrepreneurship, love, parenting, and more. I'm here to guide you toward turning those challenging moments into your secret sauce for experiencing more ease in work and life. Get ready to transform discomfort into your greatest superpower!
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Ep. 66: Listening for Your Own Wisdom in Grief with Sundari Malcolm
11/09/2025
Ep. 66: Listening for Your Own Wisdom in Grief with Sundari Malcolm
A TIME SENSITIVE NOTE FROM SUNDARI: A Healing Doula Academy Winter Scholarship In honor of Anandi Malcolm, A Healing Doula Academy is offering one Full and one Partial Scholarship for its Winter Cohort. Founded by her daughter, Grief & Death Doula and Author Sundari Malcolm, this spiritually rooted training prepares Grief and Death Doulas to hold space through ancient ritual, modern grief care, and soul-centered guidance. Recipients will receive lifetime access to the Academy’s online, and self-paced, certification program and a personal mentorship session with Sundari. Apply by November 15th Recipients announced November 17th Feel free to reach out to Sundari at with any questions! Now for our scheduled programming... In this week’s episode, I sit down with the luminous Sundari Malcolm - grief expert, author of Grief Gems, and founder of A Healing Doula Academy - to explore what it really means to quiet our lives and listen for our own wisdom, especially in seasons of grief. Sundari shares how grief can untether us from who we thought we were—and how simple, ancestral practices can anchor us back to ourselves. Together, we talk about why stillness isn’t avoidance, but an act of deep care, and how tending to grief can become a portal to transformation, freedom, and truth. If you’ve ever wondered how to hold yourself through loss - or how to begin again - this conversation will meet you where you are. MORE ABOUT SUNDARI: Sundari Malcolm is the founder of A Healing Doula Academy, an online training program for Grief and Death Doulas rooted in ancient ritual, spiritual wisdom, and intuitive care. She is the author of Grief Gems and a recognized Grief Expert with the For Grief Speakers Bureau. A lifelong practitioner of spiritual care, ancestral healing, and ritual, Sundari’s work is informed by both personal loss and deep spiritual lineage. At 27, after nearly a decade as her mother’s caregiver, she lost her to breast cancer. Four years later, she lost her father to brain cancer. These profound experiences transformed her path and ignited her devotion to guiding others through death, grief, and the rebirth that follows. Today, Sundari has trained and mentored grief and death doulas around the world, offering a lineage-based approach that honors cross-cultural traditions, sacred ceremony, and intuitive energy care. Her teachings blend reverence for the ancestors with practical tools for navigating life’s thresholds. , an online training program for Grief and Death Doulas rooted in ancient ritual, spiritual wisdom, and intuitive care Author of the book Grief Gems and a Grief expert with the . BIPOC Grief Educator for . MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 65: Ruin, Rise and Return with Sarah Carter & Corinne Shark
11/03/2025
Ep. 65: Ruin, Rise and Return with Sarah Carter & Corinne Shark
NOTE: IF YOU'RE IN THE PHOENIX AREA, SARAH AND CORINNE WILL BE SIGNING COPIES OF THEIR BOOK AT CHANGING HANDS (PHX LOCATION) BOOKSTORE ON NOVEMBER 21ST! What if the moments that break us open are the same ones that reveal our deepest creative power? In this episode, I sit down with Sarah Carter and Corinne Shark, authors of The Skies Are Full of Us and hosts of the Spiritual Pyros podcast, for a luminous conversation about the arc of life we all travel — ruin, rise, and return. We talk about the courage it takes to tell our stories honestly, how their own creative process became a dambreaker for healing and expression, and how each of us has the ability to transmute hurt and harm into creative energy — the kind that fuels Good Work in the world. If you’ve ever wondered how to alchemize pain into purpose or turn your own story into a force for connection and light, this conversation will remind you that wholeness isn’t about perfection — it’s about returning to yourself, over and over again. MORE ABOUT CORINNE AND SARAH: Corinne Shark is a storyteller, dreamer, and wild soul forever in search of adventure. Her writing is equal parts anthem and memoir fueled by the glow of honesty and the power of women finding each other by finding their own voice. As a recovering rule-follower who exchanged her death-grip on certainty to return to the wide-open wandering of her Arizona desert, she has deep convictions about what constitutes a good taco, stopping for sunsets, and always needs more ice. She is forever sending up flares and lighting bonfires on the bluff for women telling the truth about their lives - even if only a whisper, even if only to themselves. Sarah Carter is a writer, poet, and artist. Her writing explores the evocative dynamic between poetry and life, creatively braiding story, memoir, and myth into a language of holistic embodiment, and feminine empowerment. She grew up on an Arizona horse ranch and spent most days stowed away under giant Mesquite trees, imagining adventures and losing track of time. Now, she resides near a wildlife preserve outside Chicago, writing stories, riding horses, hiking with her dogs, creating abstract paintings in her studio, and hanging with loved ones. She still loves the desert and always stands barefoot under a full moon. Nothing makes her happier than witnessing women reclaim their worth and return home to themselves. Shared instagram @sarahandcorinne and linktree: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 64: Stay Uncomfortable With EJ Jamele: The Real Edge of Growth
10/19/2025
Ep. 64: Stay Uncomfortable With EJ Jamele: The Real Edge of Growth
In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant and dynamic EJ Jamele — CEO of crowdMGMT, producer, brand architect, and talent manager to some of the most sought-after artists in the beauty and entertainment industries. Our conversation goes far beyond brand strategy and success stories. EJ and I explore how discomfort can be one of our greatest teachers — especially when it comes to learning how to learn, growing our social awareness, and navigating a diverse world in values-based ways. EJ’s insight into leadership, collaboration, and creative excellence is both inspiring and grounding. He reminds us that growth doesn’t come from staying comfortable — it comes from being curious, humble, and willing to stretch beyond what we know. If you’ve ever wondered how to align ambition with authenticity, or how to lead with both courage and compassion, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. Tune in to hear how EJ uses discomfort as a tool for doing better, being better and building communities that thrive on awareness, integrity and creative freedom. MORE ABOUT EJ: EJ Jamele is the CEO and founder of crowdMGMT, a brand & talent management and full-service productions firm representing an exclusive roster of multi-faceted artists in the beauty and lifestyle industries. As a dynamic production house, crowdMGMT creates compelling content across all media - from targeted social campaigns to major advertising spots, television shows, streaming content, and film projects. The company's prestigious client list includes leading publications, global brands, TV networks, fashion houses and celebrities such as VOGUE, Vanity Fair, Essence, L'Officiel, #LEGEND, ABC, VH1, FX, The Kardashians, Ciara, Mary J. Blige, Jeep, Balmain, Versace, L'Oreal, PUMA, Jennifer Hudson, V Magazine and countless others. EJ's dedication to the industry extends beyond production and management - he served as a board member and annual state scholarship pageant producer for the Miss America Connecticut chapter, and co-produced the EFFIE Award-winning "Know Your Status" LIFE BEAT org stage concert series, where all attendees took confidential HIV tests as entry to the venue. He serves as an executive contributor to and regularly speaks and advises for a network of over sixty thousand pro and aspiring beauty industry artists globally. His commercial and entertainment work has garnered billions of impressions, featured on Good Morning America, VH1, MTV, BET, Billboard Magazine, V Magazine, Essence Magazine, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Complex Media and many more. As a talent manager to some of the industry's most sought-after artists, EJ brings his keen eye for talent development and media projects to every endeavor. He fosters a culture of high-level collaboration among clients and colleagues, facilitating inclusive projects within the crowdMGMT artist roster and network. EJ states, "I believe that by elevating one another, my clients will maintain both longevity and creative advantage in their respective industries and it's my job to curate a roster of like-minded elite talent to maintain and elevate that advantage for us all." Television audiences may recognize him from appearances on VH1's "Lala Anthony’s Full Court Life” and "The Real Housewives of New Jersey," highlighting his expertise and clients. He continues to forge forward in all aspects of his career, as he would say, "AVANTI!" IG: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 63: Welcome to Season Four! Big Changes Ahead...
10/12/2025
Ep. 63: Welcome to Season Four! Big Changes Ahead...
A solo episode to introduce the next season of the podcast! ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 62: When Grief Becomes a Guide: Finding Wisdom, Resilience, and Resolution with Ursula Taylor
09/29/2025
Ep. 62: When Grief Becomes a Guide: Finding Wisdom, Resilience, and Resolution with Ursula Taylor
What if grief isn’t just something to overcome, but a guide toward deeper wisdom and wholeness? In this episode, I sit down with Ursula Taylor - former litigation attorney turned holistic conflict resolution expert - to explore how grief, when approached with awareness, can transform both healing and leadership. Together, we discuss the power of emotional intelligence, embodied awareness, and the ways unresolved pain shows up in our personal and professional lives. Ursula shares how listening to the body’s signals - rather than relying solely on strategy - can foster resilience, unlock intuitive guidance and create more human-centered solutions, even in the most complex conflicts. If you’re navigating loss, holding space for others, or leading through challenging conversations, this episode will invite you to slow down, tune in, and reimagine what resolution truly means. MORE ABOUT URSULA: Ursula Taylor empowers individuals and teams to navigate and resolve conflicts effectively through strategic, holistic approaches that extend beyond traditional dispute resolution. With a unique blend of intuition, discernment, analytical expertise, and hands-on experience, she helps clients uncover the full scope of conflicts, including their emotional and psychological dimensions. She collaborates with individuals and leaders who value business success, collaboration, and productivity, offering innovative solutions to address and prevent costly, unpredictable disputes. Website: LinkedIn: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 61: Turning a Diagnosis Into Direction with Brandon Marshall
09/15/2025
Ep. 61: Turning a Diagnosis Into Direction with Brandon Marshall
In this episode of Make Discomfort Your Btch*, I talk with Brandon Marshall about the moment everything shifted - when he was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes as an adult. Brandon shares how that unexpected and life-altering diagnosis became a catalyst for radical self-responsibility, deeper self-awareness, and a renewed sense of purpose in both life and business. We explore how learning to live with a chronic illness forced him to stop outsourcing his well-being and start taking ownership of his mindset, habits, and choices. From this deeply personal journey came the values that now shape his leadership in his work. This is a conversation about resilience, rethinking your limits, and the power of turning a hard moment into your greatest teacher. You don’t want to miss it. MORE ABOUT BRANDON: Brandon is a driven entrepreneur and the founder of a specialized staffing agency focused on education and healthcare. With a background in recruiting and business development with nearly a decade of experience in the industry, he has built a reputation for creating people first staffing models that balance purpose and performance. Since launching his agency, Brandon has been recognized for his relationship driven approach—prioritizing trust, transparency, and long-term partnerships with both clients and clinicians. His leadership style reflects a deep commitment to supporting communities through meaningful, high-quality placements. Originally from the suburbs of Chicago, Brandon remains active in local AZ initiatives and is a familiar presence at education and healthcare conferences across the country. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 60: Relearning Hope with Sahar Modares
08/31/2025
Ep. 60: Relearning Hope with Sahar Modares
In this powerful conversation, Sahar Modares and I unpack a truth that many of us are just beginning to understand: growth doesn’t have to come through suffering. We talk about how hope is a skill—one many of us need to relearn—and how reclaiming it can shift everything from how we lead to how we live. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the belief that struggle is the only path forward, this episode will breathe fresh air into your mindset and offer a new lens on healing, growth, and resilience. MORE ABOUT SAHAR: Sahar Modares is a catalyst for light, sparking transformation in those she meets. She helps people move from their head into their heart and body, where authentic connections and true collaboration can flourish. Her background in sales and marketing and studies in psychology lead her to become an entrepreneur, writer, energy worker, and mother. Her journeys span continents building businesses, creating executive support, conducting and supporting luxury sales, and finally ghostwriting for CEOs. Through her work, she amplifies leaders’ voices, crafting stories that inspire growth and deepen trust. Sahar’s mission is to help others remember their own brilliance and make a positive impact, one meaningful connection at a time. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 59: Becoming Your Own Authority with Tanya Ruckstuhl
08/18/2025
Ep. 59: Becoming Your Own Authority with Tanya Ruckstuhl
What does it really mean to become your own authority? In this episode, I sit down with the brilliantly quirky Tanya Ruckstuhl - psychotherapist, writer and author of How to Be a Human and Not An A$$hole - to talk about self-trust, personal growth and why social skills matter now more than ever. We explore how to stop outsourcing your power, navigate relationships with more clarity and embrace the messy, magical work of being fully human. Tune in for wisdom, humor and a few unexpected truth bombs that inevitably drop when two therapists get together. MORE ABOUT TANYA: Tanya Ruckstuhl, LICSW is a writer and psychotherapist working with individuals and couples in North Seattle, and a mother and step mother to three twenty-three-year-olds who crown her biggest dork on the planet. She loves gardening, dancing and hanging out with friends. She recently published a self-help book on social skills, How to Be a Human and Not An A$$hole, available at Amazon.com. You can find her website at www.TherapistSeattle.net as well as her award-winning mental health blog at https://seattletherapist.wordpress.com/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 58: Staying With The Discomfort With Hope Rose
07/13/2025
Ep. 58: Staying With The Discomfort With Hope Rose
What does it look like to move through discomfort without rushing to escape it? In this honest and powerful episode, I sit down with Hope Rose - former ultra-endurance athlete, self-published author and master of navigating the middle - to talk about what it means to stay with hard things while they’re still happening. We dig into: 🔥 The power of not bypassing discomfort 🧭 Daily practices that support staying present through struggle 🌱 How living intentionally—even in pain—creates lasting transformation 💡 Why discomfort isn’t the enemy, but a teacher Hope doesn’t just talk about resilience - she lives it. This conversation is raw, grounded and full of wisdom for anyone in the thick of it. Press play when you’re ready to make discomfort your b*tch! MORE ABOUT HOPE ROSE: Sometimes life calls us to a purpose we never expected. That’s exactly what birthed Hope Rose. A movement inspired by the Founder’s own extreme loss and grief. Believing that a life altering event this big serves a divine purpose, she is lending her voice to share with others that their story can be transformed into a beautiful masterpiece. Rising from the ashes can be beautiful but often times lonely. The vision is to bring Hope Rose to every soul that is in desire of support, guidance, and a way to transform their ashes into alchemy. Hope Rose’s background in several decades of entrepreneurship is the perfect foundation for this next endeavor. A previous sponsored ultra endurance athlete, a self-published author of a health+wellness book, and featured in many publications such as NBC Nightly News, Today Show, Hope Rose is excited to birth the next chapter of her life and serve+support as many souls as possible. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 57: Let Go or Be Dragged — Flow, Trust & the Wisdom of the Wave with Daniel A. Miller
06/29/2025
Ep. 57: Let Go or Be Dragged — Flow, Trust & the Wisdom of the Wave with Daniel A. Miller
In this episode, I talk with Daniel A. Miller - best-selling author, poet, painter and former attorney - about what happens when our need for control becomes the very thing holding us back. Danny shares how a series of life-shaking events forced him to confront his tightly gripped approach to life, which was leading to self-neglect and outcomes far from what he truly wanted. Through his book The Way of the Wave and our conversation, Danny invites us to consider a different way: one built on self-trust, acceptance and riding the natural currents of life rather than resisting them. If you’ve ever white-knuckled your way through change or tried to force clarity before it’s ready, this episode is your permission slip to soften, trust and let the wave carry you forward. 🌊 Tune in for powerful insight on how surrender isn't giving up—it’s the beginning of truly showing up. MORE ABOUT DANNY: Daniel A. Miller is a best-selling author, former attorney, painter, poet and nationally ranked senior tennis player who spent much of his life tightly gripping control—until a rapid-fire series of traumatic events brought him to his knees. His latest book, The Way of the Wave: Nature’s Model for Navigating Life’s Currents, distills the lessons from his nearly 40-year journey of learning to “go with the Wave”—a path that helped him let go, find peace, and move forward with greater clarity and trust. He is also the author of Losing Control, Finding Serenity and The Gifts of Acceptance. Website: Instagram: Book Link: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 56: Skin Deep with Dr. Jeanne Retief: When Your Body Speaks the Truth Your Mind Tries to Hide
06/15/2025
Ep. 56: Skin Deep with Dr. Jeanne Retief: When Your Body Speaks the Truth Your Mind Tries to Hide
What do skincare, panic disorder, and high-achieving women have in common? In this powerful conversation with Dr. Jeanne Retief, we explore what it means to find genuine control when life feels out of control. Jeanne shares how her journey with panic disorder became the catalyst for creating FIGGI Beauty—an intentional skincare line for sensitive souls—and why true healing starts from the inside out. We dig into how mental and emotional strain can show up physically, why looking inward is the most courageous first step, and how self-care is more than bubble baths—it’s a radical act of resilience. Tune in to hear Jeanne’s story of turning discomfort into purpose, and how you can, too. 💫 MORE ABOUT JEANNE Jeanne is a skincare innovator, mental health advocate, entrepreneur, and mother. After building a successful career in international human rights law, she faced a life-changing diagnosis of Panic Disorder in 2015. Instead of letting it define her, she used it as a catalyst to create , a skincare line designed for sensitive souls, and FIGGI Soul, a platform dedicated to open, honest conversations around mental health. FIGGI is currently sold online and at various indie beauty retailers across the USA, with two major retailer collaborations set to be announced soon. They’ve also just launched in the UK, marking a huge milestone in their global expansion. As a business owner, mother, and mental health advocate, Jeanne brings a unique perspective on balancing ambition, self-care, and well-being. She can offer an engaging discussion on: Turning personal struggles into purpose-driven entrepreneurship The power of self-care as a mental health tool Breaking the stigma around anxiety and high-achieving women The science behind FIGGI Beauty’s formulations and why skincare is more than skin-deep The journey of scaling a beauty brand from a passion project to international success Motherhood, entrepreneurship, and navigating life’s curveballs with resilience MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 55: We Are ALL Creative with Pia Leichter
06/01/2025
Ep. 55: We Are ALL Creative with Pia Leichter
What if creativity isn’t a talent, but a birthright? In this energizing conversation, I sit down with Pia Leichter—creative partner, coach, and author of Welcome to the Creative Club—to talk about what really fuels creativity: self-trust, pausing, and the courage to follow your inner spark. We explore: ✨ How creativity lives in the smallest moments ✨ What gets in the way of creative expression (spoiler: it's not lack of talent) ✨ Why building self-trust expands your capacity to create ✨ The radical idea that all humans are creative If you’ve ever said, “I’m not creative,” this one’s for you. Let’s reclaim the joy, mess, and magic of making life your biggest art project. SHOW NOTES: Article MORE ABOUT PIA: Ready to press play? Pia Leichter is a creative partner, published author, certified coach, and entrepreneur. Her path has been anything but ordinary: a recovering nomad, she’s reported as a journalist in Sri Lanka, graduated summa cum laude from NYU, and worked as an award-winning creative director for some of the biggest brands in the world. Now, as the founder of Kollektiv Studio, she’s uniquely positioned to co-create wild visions and ventures. She recently published Welcome to the Creative Club, a book that challenges everything people thought they knew about creativity. Praised by Google's Global Head of Creative & Innovation as "life-changing" and by iconic fashion designer Betsey Johnson as "a wild ride," this part-memoir, part-guide invites readers to make life their biggest art project and reclaim their creative power. Get a copy of her book: https://www.amazon.com/Welcome-Creative-Club-Biggest-Project/dp/B0DPJ8L4NM/ref=sr_1_1 Book a chemistry call: More about her work: Connect through weekly field notes: https://kollektiv.studio/newsletter Connect on social: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 54: Innovation, Ingenuity and the Pivot That Changed Everything – with Tara Harris
05/18/2025
Ep. 54: Innovation, Ingenuity and the Pivot That Changed Everything – with Tara Harris
In this episode, I sit down with Tara Harris—visionary CEO and founder of Femeflex, the revolutionary brand behind the world’s first Pantiless Panty Liner—to talk about the power of the pivot. Tara shares how a bold life shift opened up a new world of possibility for her and others, and how her lifelong pattern of ingenuity and being solutions-focused helped her disrupt an entire industry. From college halls at Morris Brown to Emmy gift bags in Hollywood, Tara’s journey is one of innovation, empowerment, and redefining comfort on her own terms. 💡 If you’re navigating a transition or dreaming up something big—this one’s for you. 🎧 Tune in now wherever you get your podcasts. MORE ABOUT TARA: Tara Harris is the visionary CEO and Founder of Femeflex, a groundbreaking brand behind the world's first Pantiless Panty Liner. A proud graduate of Morris Brown College, Tara brings a unique perspective to entrepreneurship in the feminine hygiene industry. With a mission to empower women and redefine comfort, she has created a product that challenges traditional approaches to feminine hygiene and personal freedom. PROFESSIONAL HIGHLIGHTS • Founder and CEO of Femeflex, innovator of the Pantiless Panty Liner • Graduate of Morris Brown College, a Historically Black College and University • Collaborator with Impressions of Beauty on HBCU campuses • Disruptor in the feminine hygiene industry • Featured in Hollywood Emmy Award Nominees' gift bags in 2023 • Entrepreneur focused on women's empowerment and liberation MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 53: Danita Young, Founder of Booty Bands, on Moving From Overwhelm to Alignment
05/11/2025
Ep. 53: Danita Young, Founder of Booty Bands, on Moving From Overwhelm to Alignment
What if transformation didn’t have to be so hard? In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Danita Young—transformational coach, founder of the Align Method, and creator of Booty Bands—to talk about how real change begins when we start asking ourselves different questions. We dive into how most of us are unconsciously asking contracting questions—the kind that keep us small, stuck, and spinning in anxiety and procrastination. Danita shares how to shift into expanding questions—the kind that open you up to possibility, clarity, and empowered decision-making. Her Align Method has helped thousands of high performers move from overwhelmed to aligned in under an hour a week—without meds or surface fixes. If you're ready to lead yourself with more clarity and intention, this conversation is for you. ✨ You don’t have to suffer to grow. ✨ Ask better questions. Make empowered choices. Step into expansion. MORE ABOUT DANITA: Danita Young is a transformational coach for 15 years. She's dedicated her life to finding the solution to creating a lasting transformation to overcome anxiety, procrastination so you can step into your full potential. She calls it her Align Method, it is simple and effective and it works in under 1 hour per week without meds or surface fixes. Align has helped 1,000's of people around the world 🔗 Learn more at 💪 And check out for more of Danita’s work. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 52: Navigating Teen, Young Adult and Your Own Mental Health with Tara Rolstad
04/29/2025
Ep. 52: Navigating Teen, Young Adult and Your Own Mental Health with Tara Rolstad
⚠️ Trigger Warning: We discuss (at a high level, with no details) topics like suicide ideation, self-harm, and other unhelpful coping strategies. Please check in with yourself before listening. Parenting is hard enough—navigating a teen or young adult’s mental health crisis can feel overwhelming and isolating. In my conversation with Tara Rolstad, we dive into the complexities of supporting young people through mental health struggles This episode is for you if you: ✔️ Parent, mentor, or support young people in any capacity ✔️ Want to be better equipped to help those in your life struggling with mental illness ✔️ Need guidance on how to show up without needing all the “right” answers Tara brings over 15 years of experience as a mental health expert, speaker, and advocate, offering practical, compassionate insights. As she reminds us: “It is not about perfection, or about having the perfect answers. It’s about your PRESENCE.” This is an important conversation that can help you support yourself and those you care about. Listen in—you won’t want to miss it. 💙 Tara Rolstad is a mental health expert, professional speaker, author, and trained advocate with more than 15 years of experience who helps organizations break open powerful conversations about mental health, wellness, and resilience. Her unique, skillful combination of expertise, authenticity, and humor helps audiences better understand mental health, know when to get help and understand optimum wellness. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 51: The Power of the Pivot with Bianca Bee
04/20/2025
Ep. 51: The Power of the Pivot with Bianca Bee
What if just one person believing in your dream could change everything? In my latest conversation with Bianca Bee, we dive into the immense impact of support—whether from a mentor, a friend, or even a peer who sees your potential. Bianca shares her journey from Detroit to LA at just 17, how she built a media empire, and why therapy, peer mentorship, and paying it forward are essential for navigating discomfort. Join us for an inspiring discussion on resilience, ambition, and the power of pivoting to achieve your goals. You won’t want to miss this one! MORE ABOUT BIANCA: Bianca Bee, an entrepreneur and author from Detroit, moved to Los Angeles at 17 to attend film school. She has since worked with major brands like The Oprah Winfrey Network, TMZ, VH1, E! News, and The Steve Harvey Show, before relocating to New York City as a Booking Producer for The Mel Robbins Show and Nick Cannon Daytime Talk Show. At just 19, Bianca created her own talk show, highlighting young entrepreneurs and interviewing celebrities. She also became a self-published author with The 20’s Chronicles, Plot. Plan & Slay, and her latest release, Resting Bee Face. Bianca's passion for beauty led her to found BFF Cosmetics Company, a brand dedicated to empowering millennials. She has collaborated with companies like Fenty Beauty, Ipsy, and Rolling Out, and received the Young Entrepreneur Award from the Small Marketing Business Association. Website: IG: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 50: Embracing The Juicy Middle: Why You Can’t Bypass Discomfort with Brittni Cosgrove
04/13/2025
Ep. 50: Embracing The Juicy Middle: Why You Can’t Bypass Discomfort with Brittni Cosgrove
On this episode of Make Discomfort Your Btch*, I’m joined by the incredible Brittni Cosgrove, a transformational life and business coach who helps ambitious souls step into their most magnetic, confident, and authentic selves. We dive deep into the dangers of bypassing the hard work of navigating discomfort—because no, you can’t just mindset your way through it or slap on some toxic positivity. Brittni breaks down why embracing all parts of ourselves is key to true growth and shares two powerful strategies for making discomfort your b*tch. If you're ready to stop self-sabotaging, push past subconscious limits, and actually see the results you crave, you won’t want to miss this conversation. Tune in now and get inspired to lean into that juicy middle of transformation. MORE ABOUT BRITTNI: Brittni is a Transformational Life & Business Coach. She helps ambitious souls become their most magnetic, authentic, and confident self so they can create a bigger impact doing what they love. Whether you’re scaling your business, starting a nonprofit, or deepening your relationships, Brittni will help you overcome subconscious set points and master your mindset so you can stop self-sabotaging and see the results you crave. Brittni is a certified Mastery Coach, breathwork facilitator, and speaker. Additionally, Brittni sits on the board of the nonprofit Travel Through Trauma and is the organization's resident Life Coach. Brittni uses her voice to help humanity break free from self-imposed limitations, shaer glass ceilings, leap into the unknown, and collectively uplevel to shift the world into one of more passion, purpose, and peace. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 49: Taking Bold Risks with Clenetta Frazier
04/06/2025
Ep. 49: Taking Bold Risks with Clenetta Frazier
If you’re in this space, you must believe that leaning into discomfort is a key to unlocking more opportunities. My guest Clenetta Frazier also believes this to be true. She joins me today to share how embracing the unknown has pushed her to take bigger risks—personally and professionally. We also dive into why being surrounded by the right people and cultivating a mindset aligned with your future self are essential for your growth. If you need some inspiration to step outside your comfort zone, this episode is for you! MORE ABOUT CLENETTA: Clenetta Frazier, The HR Whisperer and CEO of Edmund Enterprises, is a serial entrepreneur, author, and Fortune 50 Sr. HR Leader with over 20 years’ experience in the Automotive, Manufacturing, Oil & Gas, and Healthcare industries. She leverages her expertise to lead her team through a business first lens with HR infused that provides clients with Strategic Whispers that deliver Bold Results, The HR Whisperer Way! Edmund Enterprises is a holding company that houses both an HR Firm, The HR Whisperer, and Financial Services Agency, FIT Agency. They are your one-stop shop for ALL things people-related! With over 100 years of executive HR experience (combined) the firm provides Strategic People Solutions. Whether you need Recruiting, Employee Relations, Compensation, Offshore Virtual Assistant Staffing, Payroll, Employee Benefits (Insurance & Beyond), or benefits for yourself, they've got you covered! The HR Whisperer, doesn't just help businesses stay compliant—they turn these challenges into opportunities for growth, retention, and strategic workforce alignment. Book: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 48: Navigating Discomfort in Dating with Cat Cantrill, the Scottsdale Matchmaker
03/30/2025
Ep. 48: Navigating Discomfort in Dating with Cat Cantrill, the Scottsdale Matchmaker
If dating feels like a minefield of awkward moments, self-doubt, and uncertainty—you’re not alone. But what if those moments of discomfort were actually the key to deeper connection and personal growth? In this episode, I sit down with Cat Cantrill, the Scottsdale Matchmaker, to talk about how she helps clients take ownership of their dating experiences, lean into curiosity, and navigate the process with more confidence and ease. Cat’s approach isn’t about playing games—it’s about showing up as your most authentic self and learning to embrace the journey. This episode is the perfect follow-up to my guest spot on Cat’s podcast, —so start there, then come back for even more wisdom from Cat! You don’t want to miss this conversation. 🎧💡 Just to note, there were a few internet glitches in our conversation that couldn’t quite be edited out so I apologize in advance for any of those tiny disruptions! SHOW NOTES: Dear Matchmaker Podcast Episode MORE ABOUT CAT: Cat Cantrill is a renowned matchmaker and dating coach, leveraging her expertise in psychology and sociology to guide singles toward meaningful connections since 2015. As the founder of The Scottsdale Matchmaker, she offers bespoke matchmaking, dating coaching, and styling services, utilizing empathy and relationship science to refine clients' dating strategies. Her approach is practical and no-nonsense, helping individuals gain clarity on what they truly seek in a partner. Host of the top-ranked podcast, Dear Matchmaker, Cat has been featured on ABC, CBS, PBS, and has been recognized in major publications, including DatingAdvice.com as an industry leader and Fortune Magazine as an elite matchmaker. A native of Scottsdale, Arizona, she divides her time between Iowa and Arizona, balancing her professional endeavors with community involvement. Links: Website: IG: Facebook: TikTok: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 47: A Solo Episode About Aging After Turning 47 This Month
03/24/2025
Ep. 47: A Solo Episode About Aging After Turning 47 This Month
Just my thoughts on aging, gratitude and choosing self-trust today on the podcast! MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 46: Turning Rejection into Clarity: The Magic of Knowing What You Want with Tracey Gee
03/17/2025
Ep. 46: Turning Rejection into Clarity: The Magic of Knowing What You Want with Tracey Gee
Rejection and disappointment are inevitable, but what if they didn’t have to derail you? In this episode, leadership coach and author Tracey Gee shares insights from The Magic of Knowing What You Want, offering a powerful framework to help you navigate setbacks with clarity and confidence. We’ll explore how to reframe rejection, uncover the wisdom in your desires, and take aligned action—so you can move forward with resilience instead of staying stuck. If you’ve ever felt lost in the fog of uncertainty, this conversation is for you! BOOK DESCRIPTION: The Magic of Knowing What You Want: A Practical Guide to Unearthing the Wisdom of Your Desires "A comprehensive toolkit designed to help you navigate the intricate paths of ambition and self-doubt. . . an invaluable companion." — Jennifer Alvarez, SVP of Brand and Chief Creative Officer of the Miami Heat What do you really want? It's an uncomplicated question until you try to answer it meaningfully. Whether prompted by transition, disruption, or curiosity about how to live more aligned with your values, we've all been there, feeling frozen, stuck, or lost in the fog of competing, half-baked desires, unsure how to move forward. In The Magic of Knowing What You Want, leadership coach Tracey Gee walks you through a proven framework of identifying, clarifying, and embodying your desires. With interactive exercises, relatable case studies, and thoughtful questions, Gee helps you discover what you really want, teaches you how to turn those desires into action, and shows you that a thriving, abundant life is closer than you think. MORE ABOUT TRACEY: Tracey Gee is a certified leadership coach and consultant dedicated to guiding individuals toward transformative self-awareness and meaningful personal and professional growth. As an author, Tracey draws insight from her extensive experience across workshops, speaking engagements, and personalized coaching sessions. She is also a certified facilitator in four frameworks — Gallup CliftonStrengths, Working Genius, Enneagram, and Cultural Intelligence. Her diverse clientele includes UC Berkeley, Firm Foundation, AltaMed, Nomi Network, Coca-Cola, Amazon, and the Miami Heat. Tracey is originally from the Bay Area of California and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband, children, and dog, Kona. She loves coffee shops and every dog she's ever met. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 45: Becoming the Person Who Takes Action: Identity, Goals, and Student Well-Being with Dr. Brian Smith
03/10/2025
Ep. 45: Becoming the Person Who Takes Action: Identity, Goals, and Student Well-Being with Dr. Brian Smith
If you’ve ever struggled to put your knowledge into action, this episode is for you! Dr. Brian Smith, co-author of The Recipe for Student Well-Being, shares how choosing an identity that aligns with our goals can be the key to real, lasting change. With a decade of experience in mental health counseling and deep expertise in behavioral science, Brian has dedicated his career to translating research into practical strategies that drive real impact in education and beyond. But these tools aren’t just theoretical—they've been invaluable in his own life as he navigated cancer and recovery, helping him stay grounded, resilient, and forward-focused. Tune in to hear how adopting the right mindset and strategies can empower you to take action, overcome challenges, and create meaningful change for yourself and those you support. MORE ABOUT BRIAN: After a decade in community and school-based mental health counseling, Dr. Brian Smith sought science-backed answers to effectively support young people's social, emotional, and behavioral success. This pursuit led him to his PhD studies and a career dedicated to translating research into powerful interventions, training, and professional development that drive meaningful change. He is the co-author of The Recipe for Student Well-being, published by Solution Tree, alongside Clay Cook and Aria Fiat. Dr. Smith has led multidisciplinary teams at two organizations focused on developing effective K-12 Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) curricula. Through his work, he has collaborated with top researchers, consulted with schools, and utilized Human-Centered Design methods to create impactful, research-based solutions for educators. With deep expertise in behavioral science research on child and adolescent thriving, education outcomes, positive behavior change, and resilience, Dr. Smith is a skilled writer for both scientific and professional audiences. His passion lies in developing practical, evidence-based strategies to foster well-being and success for young people and the adults who support them. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 44: Bridging the Gap: Embracing Wisdom and the Magic of Yes with Lori Pappas
03/02/2025
Ep. 44: Bridging the Gap: Embracing Wisdom and the Magic of Yes with Lori Pappas
How do we close the gap between who we are personally and who we strive to be professionally? In this episode, award-winning entrepreneur and philanthropist Lori Pappas shares insights from her new book, The Magic of Yes: Embrace the Wise Woman Within. We explore how to recognize wisdom in our own lives, navigate reinvention, and apply the DREAM framework to turn challenges into opportunities. Through powerful storytelling and life lessons, Lori reveals how saying “yes” to curiosity and self-discovery can unlock deeper fulfillment and purpose. Don’t miss this conversation on resilience, transformation, and charting a path that truly aligns with who you are meant to be. MORE ABOUT LORI: Lori Pappas has led a remarkable life as an entrepreneur, mentor, and philanthropist. Her early experiences fueled her drive to redefine her beliefs and chart a life of success and service. In her 50s, Pappas founded a transformative charity in Africa, impacting lives through water, sanitation, literacy, reproductive health, and women’s empowerment initiatives. Now in her 70s, Pappas inspires others through her reflections and storytelling. Website: Facebook Group: Substack: MORE ABOUT HER BOOK: From a traumatic childhood to becoming an award-winning entrepreneur, philanthropist, and now acclaimed author Lori Pappas, her story is one of resilience, transformation, and triumph. Her new book, , invites readers to explore their inner strength, rediscover their essence, and chart a life filled with authenticity and purpose. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 43: Stop Gaslighting Yourself...Honoring Your Pain & Finding Your Voice with Monique Elliott
02/23/2025
Ep. 43: Stop Gaslighting Yourself...Honoring Your Pain & Finding Your Voice with Monique Elliott
This week, I sit down with Monique Elliott, a powerhouse in mental health, coaching, and leadership, to unpack a topic we all wrestle with—honoring both our emotional and physical pain instead of dismissing it. Monique dives deep into how we gaslight ourselves, often internalizing the dismissive messages of others as a misguided way to cope. She shares her own journey of finding her voice, breaking free from these patterns, and helping others do the same. As a licensed clinical social worker, executive life coach, and founder of Savy Counseling Services, Monique has worked with high performers—including celebrities and executives—guiding them through life transitions with clarity and confidence. Her insights will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and ready to stop minimizing your own experiences. Don't miss this conversation! Tune in now and let’s start honoring our full selves. MORE ABOUT MONIQUE: Monique Elliott is a licensed clinical social worker, executive life coach, and dynamic entrepreneur, dedicated to empowering individuals and athletes through life transitions. With a master’s degree in social work, Monique has built a distinguished career by offering tailored coaching and support to help clients reach their personal and professional goals. As the founder of Savy Counseling Services and Monique’s Locker, she works with clients across various sectors, including celebrities and business executives, guiding them to overcome obstacles and achieve success. Her leadership extends to S.A.V.Y. Success Achieved When Visioned by You, a platform focused on fostering personal growth and vision realization. Monique is also the producer and host of the impactful TV show Mind Health Matters, where she shares insights on mental health, wellness, and personal empowerment. An in-demand speaker, she motivates business executives and entrepreneurs to achieve monetary success while maintaining a balanced and fulfilled life. A global author, Monique’s writing and speaking engagements inspire countless individuals to embrace resilience and strive for excellence. Her work in women’s empowerment is reflected in her leadership at prominent conferences and events, where she continues to champion the voices of women in business, leadership, and beyond. With a passion for transforming lives, Monique Elliott remains at the forefront of coaching, growth mindset, and empowerment, helping people vision and achieve the success they deserve. Email: Website: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep.42 : Alexia Hoffman Makes Bold Leaps Towards a Fulfilled Life
02/16/2025
Ep.42 : Alexia Hoffman Makes Bold Leaps Towards a Fulfilled Life
In this episode, I’m joined by Alexia Hoffman, creator of The Fulfillment Blueprint, to discuss her belief that achieving your goals sometimes requires blowing up your life—and embracing the discomfort that comes with it. Alexia shares how leaving a lacrosse scholarship at 19 led her to an incredible real estate career, building a portfolio of over 60 properties by age 23. Along the way, she discovered the power of aligning ambition with fulfillment, creating environments that foster growth, confidence and work-life balance. We also explore how Alexia balances multiple businesses, including real estate acquisitions and coaching, while raising three daughters under two. From her entrepreneurial journey to founding Mom Boss Central, a supportive community for working moms, Alexia offers insights and strategies to help others bridge the gap between where they are and their most fulfilled life. This conversation is packed with inspiration and actionable advice for anyone ready to take bold steps toward their goals. MORE ABOUT ALEXIA: Have you ever realized that your goals aren’t big enough to live the life of your dreams? Alexia Hoffman spent years setting goals that others said were too big, only to discover they weren’t big enough. Starting her real estate career at 19, she sold just one home in her first six months. Less than a year later, she was making six figures, and within three years, she had completely transformed her life. Now, Alexia sells real estate, hosts a podcast, coaches entrepreneurs, has an online community for entrepreneurial moms, and continues to start new businesses. She is also the co-owner of a real estate acquisition and development company dedicated to bettering the community. Alexia helps people bridge the gap between the goals they are setting and their dream life. Links: MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 41: Executive Coach Ron Higgs Has Been a Trailblazer Since An Early Age
02/09/2025
Ep. 41: Executive Coach Ron Higgs Has Been a Trailblazer Since An Early Age
In this inspiring episode, we dive into the journey of Ron Higgs, a trailblazing leader, engineer and business executive. Growing up, Ron didn’t have models for what he aspired to be, but he found refuge and inspiration in his local library—a safe space that became the cornerstone of his path forward. Through a mentorship program, Ron discovered the tools and guidance to dream big and navigate a world that often presented challenges as a Black man in America. Ron shares how these experiences shaped his leadership philosophy and the work he does today. We’ll explore the obstacles he overcame, the strategies he used to achieve his dreams, and how he now pays it forward to the very library and youth organizations that set him on his path. Tune in for a powerful conversation about resilience, leadership, and the transformative impact of mentorship. MORE ABOUT RON: Ron Higgs is a seasoned leader, engineer, business executive, and published author with over 25 years of experience across leadership, operations, engineering management, and program management. He has successfully led teams in startups, small companies, and large corporations, navigating diverse industries and complex challenges. As an Executive Coach, Strategic Business Advisor, and Fractional COO, Ron leverages his naval aviation background to shape his approach to leadership and strategy. Coaching has been a natural extension of Ron's career, beginning with his role as a Naval Officer. With a strong foundation in mathematics and engineering and extensive experience in technical leadership, Ron specializes in coaching leaders and executives from technical fields. He guides them through the transition from individual contributors to effective managers and leaders, drawing on his deep understanding of the unique challenges they face. Ron holds a BS in Mathematics from the US Naval Academy, an MS in Systems Engineering from the Naval Postgraduate School, and a certificate in Engineering Flight Test from the US Naval Test Pilot School. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 40: Welcome to Season Three! Let's Get Into It...
02/08/2025
Ep. 40: Welcome to Season Three! Let's Get Into It...
I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with , where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who’s ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let’s partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 39: A Solo Session to Close Out Season Two
01/19/2025
Ep. 39: A Solo Session to Close Out Season Two
Welcome back to the show! In today’s solo episode, we’re diving into one of the most common defense mechanisms we all tend to lean on when we hear feedback we don’t like. If you’ve ever found yourself getting defensive or shutting down in these moments, you’re not alone—but what if there was a better way to respond? I’ll be sharing practical strategies to help you move past the knee-jerk reaction and embrace feedback as an opportunity for growth. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 38: Julie Jones Encourages Us All To Stop Waiting, Start Living
12/15/2024
Ep. 38: Julie Jones Encourages Us All To Stop Waiting, Start Living
In this episode, we're diving deep with Julie Jones, a former police officer and SWAT team member turned Award-Winning Speaker, International Bestselling Author, and Breakthrough Coach. Julie's journey from bottling up emotions to embracing authenticity offers powerful lessons for anyone feeling stuck. Join us as we explore her transition from the high-stakes world of law enforcement to empowering individuals and teams with the tools they need to thrive. Learn how Julie's story of courage and self-discovery can inspire you to stop waiting and start living today! MORE ABOUT JULIE: Julie Jones, a former police officer and SWAT member, empowers individuals to conquer fears, embrace authenticity, and seize each moment. An Award-Winning Speaker, International Bestselling Author, and Breakthrough Coach, she hosts the TV show "Stop Waiting Start Living" and the Get S#*t Done podcast. Certified in NLP, Mental and Emotional Release, and Hypnosis, Julie's expertise in the Working Genius facilitates personal and team breakthroughs. A dynamic networker, she catalyzes business growth and community impact. Recognized as a top influencer, Julie's legacy is defined by relentless fundraising for local causes. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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Ep. 37 : Author Jessica Fein Shares How Not Knowing the Future and Being Present Can Be a Blessing
12/08/2024
Ep. 37 : Author Jessica Fein Shares How Not Knowing the Future and Being Present Can Be a Blessing
In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Fein, the author of Breath Taking, to explore some of life’s most challenging uncertainties and unexpected blessings. Jessica shares her journey of learning to let go of the need to control the future and embracing the freedom that comes with being present. We talk about how fear of the unknown can paralyze us, but also how powerful it can be to release that fear and find victory in the moment. Tune in as we discuss what it means to live fully, find peace, and breathe through the unknown. This conversation is for anyone looking to find strength in uncertainty and beauty in the present. MORE ABOUT JESSICA FEIN: Jessica Fein is the author of Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes and host of the "I Don't Know How You Do It” podcast, which features people whose lives seem unimaginable and who triumph over seemingly impossible challenges. Her writing has appeared in Newsweek, Psychology Today, The BostonGlobe, HuffPost, Scary Mommy, Zibby Mag, Kveller, andmore. Jessica is a relentless warrior in the memory of her dynamic daughter whom she lost to rare disease in 2022. Her work encompasses hope and humor, grit and grace --the tools that make up her personal survival kit. Jessica serves on the Board of Directors of Mito Action. She’s the mother of three, whom she and her husband adopted from Guatemala. They live outside of Boston with their quasi-service dog, who trained himself. To learn more visit BOOK REVIEWS: "More than an honest and humorous memoir, Breath Taking can be the guide star so many seek when life hands them more than they ever imagined they could endure." --Daniel DeFabio, rare disease filmmaker and Co-founder of The Disorder Channel “A story of relentless heartbreak met with wit, strength, and resilience.” –Jennifer Weisel Bailey, ELLE Magazine MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a Email me at cher@cheranderton.com * Read or listen to my book An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.
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