Martha vs. Mary: Finding Focus in Your Marriage | 81
Love How Deep Marriage Podcast
Podcast Outline Show Notes Page: Episode 81 - Martha vs. Mary: Finding Focus in Your Marriage Introduction Welcome and Episode Introduction Encourage liking, following, subscribing, and sharing. Heather poses the question: If Jesus were coming for dinner, what would your focus be? The Story of Martha and Mary Reading of Luke 10:38-42. The universality of the story: We are all Martha and Mary at different times. Martha: The Hostess with the Mostess The pressure of preparations: Planning, purchasing, preparation (the 3 P's!). Cleaning and cooking and the desire for perfection....
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5 More Communication Strategies - Part 2 (Episode 80)
Love How Deep Marriage Podcast
Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast. We are continuing to talk about communication in this second of a 2 part episode. Continue strengthening your marriage communication! In this episode, we dive into 5 more practical strategies to help you and your spouse connect on a deeper level. Strategies discussed: Avoiding blame and criticism. Maintaining eye contact. Practicing patience. Managing your tone. Agreeing to move forward. These tips build on our previous episode, offering a complete set of 10 strategies to transform your communication. Get access to our FREE resource,...
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5 Practical Communication Strategies - Part 1 (Episode 79)
Love How Deep Marriage Podcast
Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast. In this episode: Struggling with communication in your marriage? You're not alone! In this episode, Heather and Brian share the first 5 of 10 practical communication strategies to help strengthen your relationship. Strategies discussed: The power of prayer. Choosing the right time to speak. The importance of forgiveness. Staying fully present. Sticking to the issue at hand. Learn how to build a foundation for healthier communication. Get access to a FREE resource: "" to further deepen your understanding and practice. Key...
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When God's Plan Doesn't Make Sense (Episode 78)
Love How Deep Marriage Podcast
Welcome back to Love How Deep Podcast. In this episode: Heather shares her journey through a challenging season where God's plan didn't align with her expectations. She opens up about the emotional turmoil, the struggle to trust, and the invaluable support she received from her husband, Brian, and her community. Discover how to find strength in vulnerability, accept God's will, and lean on your support system during unexpected seasons. Learn about the importance of humility, acceptance, and allowing God to order your steps, even when you don't understand the path. Heather also...
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How Do You Connect With God (Ep 77)
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Episode Title: How Do You Connect With God? Episode Summary: Brian and Heather from Love How Deep explore the nine spiritual pathways outlined in Gary Thomas's "Sacred Pathways," discussing how couples can understand and appreciate their differing ways of connecting with God. This episode aims to foster understanding and strengthen relationships by exploring the diverse ways individuals experience their faith. Episode Highlights: Introduction to the nine spiritual pathways: Traditionalist, Visionary, Socialite, Intellectual, Caregiver, Contemplative, Activist, Naturalist, and Worshiper....
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Kitchen Chemistry & Cooking Together (Ep 76)
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Episode Title: Spice Up Your Marriage: Kitchen Chemistry & Cooking Together! Episode Summary: Join Brian and Heather from Love How Deep as they explore the surprising benefits of cooking together as a couple! This fun and insightful episode delves into how shared kitchen experiences can boost communication, teamwork, and reduce stress. Discover practical steps to make cooking a bonding experience, tips for navigating kitchen dynamics, and how to keep God at the center of your relationship. Episode Highlights: Discover how cooking together can enhance communication and teamwork. Learn...
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Fighting Fair in Marriage (Ep 75)
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Thanks for joining us for this episode of the Love How Deep podcast! Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship, but how you handle them can make or break your connection. Brian and Heather share practical, biblically-based rules for effective communication during disagreements, emphasizing respect, understanding, and a focus on solutions rather than blame. They also address the importance of safety and provide a free resource to help couples improve their communication. Key Talking Points: Disagreements are Normal: It's natural and normal to have disagreements in a...
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74: The Blended Family Journey - Yours, Mine, Ours
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Welcome to the Love How Deep Podcast with hosts Brian and Heather Mayer JD and Shannon West share their inspiring journey of creating a strong blended family. Discover practical advice on co-parenting, communication, and prioritizing your marriage in a blended family. Episode Description (Long - for show notes, website, etc.): In this episode of the Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Brian and Heather welcome JD and Shannon West to share their powerful story of building a thriving blended family. JD and Shannon open up about their experiences with divorce, co-parenting, and the unique challenges...
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73: Marriage Benefits of Church Attendance
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Welcome Back to the Love Deep Podcast with Brian and Heather Mayer. Today we are talking about the importance of church attendance and especially attending the same church together as a married couple and family. In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How to Eat discuss the five benefits of attending church together. They emphasize how attending church can increase family communication by providing opportunities to discuss sermons, Sunday school lessons, and other church activities. They delve into the spiritual connection fostered through shared worship, the...
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72: Reading Together to Strengthen Your Marriage
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Strengthening Marriage Through Shared Reading: Tips and Benefits In this episode, Heather and Brian from Love How Deep delve into the concept of 'page turners and relationship builders,' explaining how reading books together as a couple can significantly enhance marital connections. They open the discussion by reflecting on their own journey, noting that while they didn't engage in shared reading early in their marriage, it has since become a valuable activity for them. The session is peppered with practical advice and personal anecdotes aimed at encouraging couples to explore this...
info_outlineHeather and Brian Mayer discuss the cyclical nature of marriage, comparing it to the four seasons. They explore the concept of new beginnings in spring, the busy and often stressful summer, the reflective and restful autumn, and the challenging winter. Each season brings unique challenges and opportunities for growth. They emphasize the importance of adapting to changes, being intentional in relationships, and seeking rest and reflection. Bible verses from Zechariah, Matthew, Psalm, and Isaiah are referenced to provide spiritual guidance. The conversation concludes with practical advice for maintaining a strong marriage through all seasons and the encouragement to seek help when needed.
Transcript
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Action Items
- [ ] Make Thursday nights "Family Night" to have a dedicated time for the family to connect.
- [ ] Schedule a date night or time to go for a walk in the park to slow down, rest, and reconnect.
- [ ] Reach out for help if going through a difficult "winter" season in the marriage.
Outline
The Four Seasons of Marriage: Introduction
- Heather Mayer introduces the podcast episode, number 55, and the topic of the four seasons of marriage.
- Brian Mayer humorously compares the episode number to the speed limit, emphasizing the cyclical nature of the seasons.
- Heather explains the cyclical nature of seasons, drawing a parallel to the cyclical nature of marriage.
- Brian adds that one can look at life in micro and macro seasons, suggesting that a decade can be a season in marriage.
Spring: New Beginnings
- Brian Mayer describes spring as a season of new beginnings, freshness, and regrowth.
- He relates spring in marriage to new beginnings, such as getting married, having children, or moving.
- Brian shares a personal anecdote about feeling overwhelmed when their daughter was born, emphasizing the uncertainty of new beginnings.
- Heather and Brian discuss the importance of allowing time to adjust to new changes and the biblical verse from Zechariah about not despising small beginnings.
Summer: Busy and Active Season
- Heather Mayer describes summer as a busy season with vacations, sports, and various activities.
- Brian and Heather discuss how summer should be a time of relaxation but often becomes busy with family activities.
- Heather emphasizes the importance of being intentional about spending quality time with family and not letting busy activities drive a wedge between spouses.
- Brian suggests slowing down and being fully present in moments to avoid the stress of a busy schedule.
Autumn: A Season of Rest and Reflection
- Brian Mayer describes autumn as a season to slow down, reflect on the past, and prepare for the future.
- Heather compares the fall season to a tree that stops feeding the leaves, leading to color changes, drawing a parallel to resting in marriage.
- They discuss the importance of pruning activities that no longer serve a purpose and making time for family and connection.
- Brian shares a personal story about finding rest and reflection in a pond in Fort Worth, emphasizing the need to take time to rejuvenate.
Winter: The Hardest Season
- Heather Mayer describes winter as the hardest season, characterized by emotional distance and disconnection.
- Brian and Heather discuss the challenges of winter in marriage, such as feeling stuck in a rut or going through difficult times.
- Heather encourages listeners not to lose hope during winter seasons, as spring is coming and God is working behind the scenes.
- They emphasize the importance of calling on the Lord, seeking wisdom, and trusting that God will bring about change and rebirth.
Conclusion and Final Thoughts
- Brian Mayer wraps up the episode by thanking listeners and mentioning the availability of free date night activities on their website.
- Heather shares a final encouraging verse from Ecclesiastes about the cyclical nature of life and the importance of being ready for change.
- Brian reiterates the importance of change and looking to God for rest and guidance during difficult times.
- They encourage listeners to subscribe to their podcast and follow them on social media for more content.