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67: Overcoming Past Rejection to Thrive in Marriage

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Release Date: 01/22/2025

Martha vs. Mary: Finding Focus in Your Marriage | 81 show art Martha vs. Mary: Finding Focus in Your Marriage | 81

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Podcast Outline Show Notes Page: Episode 81 - Martha vs. Mary: Finding Focus in Your Marriage Introduction Welcome and Episode Introduction Encourage liking, following, subscribing, and sharing. Heather poses the question: If Jesus were coming for dinner, what would your focus be? The Story of Martha and Mary  Reading of Luke 10:38-42. The universality of the story: We are all Martha and Mary at different times. Martha: The Hostess with the Mostess  The pressure of preparations: Planning, purchasing, preparation (the 3 P's!). Cleaning and cooking and the desire for perfection....

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5 More Communication Strategies - Part 2 (Episode 80) show art 5 More Communication Strategies - Part 2 (Episode 80)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast. We are continuing to talk about communication in this second of a 2 part episode.   Continue strengthening your marriage communication! In this episode, we dive into 5 more practical strategies to help you and your spouse connect on a deeper level. Strategies discussed: Avoiding blame and criticism. Maintaining eye contact. Practicing patience. Managing your tone. Agreeing to move forward. These tips build on our previous episode, offering a complete set of 10 strategies to transform your communication. Get access to our FREE resource,...

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5 Practical Communication Strategies - Part 1 (Episode 79) show art 5 Practical Communication Strategies - Part 1 (Episode 79)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast.   In this episode:   Struggling with communication in your marriage? You're not alone! In this episode, Heather and Brian share the first 5 of 10 practical communication strategies to help strengthen your relationship. Strategies discussed: The power of prayer. Choosing the right time to speak. The importance of forgiveness. Staying fully present. Sticking to the issue at hand. Learn how to build a foundation for healthier communication. Get access to a FREE resource: "" to further deepen your understanding and practice. Key...

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When God's Plan Doesn't Make Sense (Episode 78) show art When God's Plan Doesn't Make Sense (Episode 78)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Welcome back to Love How Deep Podcast. In this episode:   Heather shares her journey through a challenging season where God's plan didn't align with her expectations. She opens up about the emotional turmoil, the struggle to trust, and the invaluable support she received from her husband, Brian, and her community. Discover how to find strength in vulnerability, accept God's will, and lean on your support system during unexpected seasons. Learn about the importance of humility, acceptance, and allowing God to order your steps, even when you don't understand the path. Heather also...

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How Do You Connect With God (Ep 77) show art How Do You Connect With God (Ep 77)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Episode Title: How Do You Connect With God? Episode Summary: Brian and Heather from Love How Deep explore the nine spiritual pathways outlined in Gary Thomas's "Sacred Pathways," discussing how couples can understand and appreciate their differing ways of connecting with God. This episode aims to foster understanding and strengthen relationships by exploring the diverse ways individuals experience their faith. Episode Highlights: Introduction to the nine spiritual pathways: Traditionalist, Visionary, Socialite, Intellectual, Caregiver, Contemplative, Activist, Naturalist, and Worshiper....

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Kitchen Chemistry & Cooking Together (Ep 76) show art Kitchen Chemistry & Cooking Together (Ep 76)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Episode Title: Spice Up Your Marriage: Kitchen Chemistry & Cooking Together! Episode Summary: Join Brian and Heather from Love How Deep as they explore the surprising benefits of cooking together as a couple! This fun and insightful episode delves into how shared kitchen experiences can boost communication, teamwork, and reduce stress. Discover practical steps to make cooking a bonding experience, tips for navigating kitchen dynamics, and how to keep God at the center of your relationship. Episode Highlights: Discover how cooking together can enhance communication and teamwork. Learn...

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Fighting Fair in Marriage (Ep 75) show art Fighting Fair in Marriage (Ep 75)

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Thanks for joining us for this episode of the Love How Deep podcast! Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship, but how you handle them can make or break your connection. Brian and Heather share practical, biblically-based rules for effective communication during disagreements, emphasizing respect, understanding, and a focus on solutions rather than blame. They also address the importance of safety and provide a free resource to help couples improve their communication. Key Talking Points: Disagreements are Normal: It's natural and normal to have disagreements in a...

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74:  The Blended Family Journey - Yours, Mine, Ours show art 74: The Blended Family Journey - Yours, Mine, Ours

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Welcome to the Love How Deep Podcast with hosts Brian and Heather Mayer JD and Shannon West share their inspiring journey of creating a strong blended family. Discover practical advice on co-parenting, communication, and prioritizing your marriage in a blended family. Episode Description (Long - for show notes, website, etc.): In this episode of the Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Brian and Heather welcome JD and Shannon West to share their powerful story of building a thriving blended family. JD and Shannon open up about their experiences with divorce, co-parenting, and the unique challenges...

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73: Marriage Benefits of Church Attendance show art 73: Marriage Benefits of Church Attendance

Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Welcome Back to the Love Deep Podcast with Brian and Heather Mayer.   Today we are talking about the importance of church attendance and especially attending the same church together as a married couple and family.   In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How to Eat discuss the five benefits of attending church together. They emphasize how attending church can increase family communication by providing opportunities to discuss sermons, Sunday school lessons, and other church activities. They delve into the spiritual connection fostered through shared worship, the...

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72: Reading Together to Strengthen Your Marriage show art 72: Reading Together to Strengthen Your Marriage

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Strengthening Marriage Through Shared Reading: Tips and Benefits   In this episode, Heather and Brian from Love How Deep delve into the concept of 'page turners and relationship builders,' explaining how reading books together as a couple can significantly enhance marital connections. They open the discussion by reflecting on their own journey, noting that while they didn't engage in shared reading early in their marriage, it has since become a valuable activity for them. The session is peppered with practical advice and personal anecdotes aimed at encouraging couples to explore this...

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Strengthening Your Marriage and Overcoming Rejection with Dr. Gary Lawrence

In this podcast episode, Brian and Heather Mayer discuss the complexities of marriage and overcoming the impact of past rejection with special guest Dr. Gary Lawrence. Dr. Lawrence, a seasoned counselor and best-selling author of the book 'Rejection Junkies,' shares his extensive experience in helping couples strengthen their marriages and their connection to God.

The discussion explores the formation of emotional patterns by age eight, the consequences of past rejection on marital relationships, and the importance of understanding and addressing these underlying issues. Dr. Lawrence provides insightful advice on identifying, isolating, and eliminating emotional problems, offering practical tools for couples to rebuild their lives and nurture a healthy, loving relationship.

The episode also tackles misconceptions about performance-based acceptance in Christian life and emphasizes the role of grace. Through personal anecdotes and professional wisdom, Dr. Lawrence illustrates how to overcome bitterness and rejection, making this a valuable conversation for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of emotional health in marriage.

Please check out Dr. G's website at https://rejectionjunkies.com/ where you will find his bestselling book called "Rejection Junkies."