Ep 49: The Let Them Theory: Boundaries, Bold Claims & Being True to You
Release Date: 06/29/2025
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info_outline- What the “Let Them” theory is all about—and why it’s taking over Instagram
- The good, the bold, and the controversial: from self-acceptance to plagiarism rumors
- Cultural differences—does “letting them” look different in Australia vs. the US?
- How to set boundaries without building walls (especially if you have a trauma history)
- Real talk about self-help claims: can two words really change your life?
- Chelle and Leanne’s personal stories of trying out the “Let Them” mindset in everyday life
- Why the book might be extra helpful (or a little tricky) for women who carry the emotional load
Is “letting them” always the answer, or do some situations call for speaking up and staying connected? Chelle and Leanne don’t shy away from the tough questions—and they want to hear your take!