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What Great Lovers Know That Most People Never Figure Out

The Sex Doctors

Release Date: 05/29/2025

The Impact of Porn on Young Brains (Scary Truth) show art The Impact of Porn on Young Brains (Scary Truth)

The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how early exposure to porn is shaping young people’s views on sex, causing confusion, unrealistic expectations, and lasting effects on their brains and relationships. 00:24 – Early Exposure to Porn and Its Effects Dr. Brandon says most kids see porn around age 12, which can shape how they think about sex for years. 02:47 – Research Insights and Real-World Implications Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon share studies showing many college women were choked during sex and link this trend to lessons learned from porn. 13:20 –...

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The Science Behind Why People CRAVE Sex Tech (From a Sex Therapist) show art The Science Behind Why People CRAVE Sex Tech (From a Sex Therapist)

The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how sex tech hijacks our natural instincts by acting as a "supernormal stimulus"—something manmade that satisfies primal urges even more powerfully than nature ever could—and why it's especially compelling for men. 00:04 – Understanding Supernormal Stimuli Dr. Brandon explains that sex tech grabs our attention because it’s made to feel even more exciting than what’s natural. 00:42 – Bird Experiments and Supernormal Stimuli She tells a story about birds choosing fake mates or eggs that looked more extreme, showing how easy it is to trick...

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Tired, Sad, Unmotivated? This Hormone Might Be Why show art Tired, Sad, Unmotivated? This Hormone Might Be Why

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how testosterone levels relate to age, weight, vitality, and long-term health—highlighting surprising research, the impact of obesity, and why staying lean may be the secret to aging well. 00:08 Testosterone and Aging: An Overview Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon open the episode with a candid look at how aging affects testosterone—and why it’s more complex than most people think. 01:00 Symptoms and Diagnosis of Low Testosterone From low libido to lack of vitality, they explore subtle signs of low testosterone and the...

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This Is What Porn Is Teaching Your Kids (And the Talk They ACTUALLY Need) show art This Is What Porn Is Teaching Your Kids (And the Talk They ACTUALLY Need)

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how porn impacts adults and kids differently, why it’s becoming the main source of sex education for young people, and why parents need to start having real conversations about it. 00:00 – Introduction and Controversy of Porn In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler open up a real, honest conversation about why porn is still such a hot-button topic. 00:47 – Gender Differences in Porn Consumption They break down how men and women often view porn differently—and how that shows up in therapy sessions. 03:19 – Impact...

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Everything You Know About Men and Sex Is WRONG (What's Really Going On) show art Everything You Know About Men and Sex Is WRONG (What's Really Going On)

The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what women often misunderstand about men sexually—from emotional vulnerability and stress to how men experience love, arousal, and connection. 00:00 – Introduction to The Sex Doctors Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick off the episode by diving into what women may not fully understand about men sexually. 00:10 – Understanding Men's Sexual Experiences They explore how men and women can engage in the same sexual behaviors but experience them in completely different ways. 01:36 – Strip Clubs: A Tale of Two Experiences The...

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Erectile Dysfunction Cure? Top Urologist Shares the Truth show art Erectile Dysfunction Cure? Top Urologist Shares the Truth

The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler talks about how testosterone therapy can help treat erectile dysfunction in men with low testosterone—especially when vascular health isn’t the main issue. 00:14 – Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: Expert Opinions In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler explains why some experts say testosterone shouldn’t be used alone to treat ED—but why that’s not the whole story. 01:19 – Personal Experience and Treatment Approach Dr. Morgentaler shares how treating low testosterone alone has helped many of his patients improve erections without ED meds. 03:38...

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Still Want Sex… Just Not With Your Partner? Sex Therapist Explains Why (And What To Do About It) show art Still Want Sex… Just Not With Your Partner? Sex Therapist Explains Why (And What To Do About It)

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what it means when you still want sex—but not with your partner—and how honesty, biology, and effort can help bring the spark back. 02:21 – The Monogamy Problem Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how our biology craves variety, making lifelong monogamy a challenge for many couples. 06:36 – Revitalizing Desire in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain that rebuilding desire takes honesty, effort, and a willingness from both partners to grow. 13:26 – Engaging in Relationship Activities They encourage...

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2 Ways to Start Feeling Turned On Again (Your Sex Life Will Thank You) show art 2 Ways to Start Feeling Turned On Again (Your Sex Life Will Thank You)

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can reconnect with their desire by exploring touch, fantasy, and understanding that female arousal often kicks in even when the brain isn’t fully on board. 00:39 – Touch and Self-Discovery Dr. Brandon encourages women to spend time alone, reconnecting with their bodies through gentle, intentional touch. 01:01 – Experimenting with Sex Toys She recommends trying different types of vibrators to explore what feels good and reawaken physical pleasure. 01:55 – The Role of Fantasy in Arousal Dr. Brandon shares that many women lose interest...

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The #1 Bedroom Mistake Men Keep Making (And How to Fix It) show art The #1 Bedroom Mistake Men Keep Making (And How to Fix It)

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the emotional and physical misunderstandings men often have about women’s sexuality, and how clearer communication, confidence, and slowing down can lead to deeper connection and better sex. 00:49 Understanding the Double Binds in Sexual Dynamics Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler unpack the mixed messages men receive when asked to lead, yet told they’re doing it wrong. 03:23 The Importance of Nonverbal Communication They explain how tone, touch, and subtle cues often speak louder than words during intimacy. 06:06 Empowering Men in...

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In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses three powerful books that help you grow emotionally, deepen connection, and ultimately become a better lover—because great sex starts with self-awareness. 00:07 The Importance of Emotional Self-Awareness Dr. Brandon explains how understanding your own emotions helps you connect more deeply with your partner. 01:18 Book 1: On Self-Hatred by The School of Life A short, powerful read that explores self-criticism, people-pleasing, and how it impacts intimacy. 03:00 Book 2: Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life by James Hollis A thoughtful guide full...

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In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler get real about what makes someone a great lover—and it’s not about perfection, it’s about being present, giving, and actually feeling connected in your body and with your partner.

00:19 The Concept of a Great Lover
Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick things off by asking, “Would you want to make love to yourself?”—and unpack what it really means to be a great lover.

04:13 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Sexual Relationships
They dive into common issues couples face in bed, from mixed signals to unmet needs, and how much of it comes down to miscommunication.

12:36 Understanding the Male Perspective
Dr. Morgentaler opens up about how many men want to be great lovers but feel lost when nothing they try seems to work.

15:49 The Importance of Embodiment
The doctors talk about how being “in your body” (not just your head) is key to great sex—and how tech and stress are pulling people away from that.

21:21 Practical Tips for Better Intimacy
They share real, doable ways for both men and women to reconnect with their bodies and each other—including touch, movement, and slowing down.

With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon

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