#52 When Helping Others Starts to Hurt You: Managing Therapist Burnout
Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists
Release Date: 01/22/2025
Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists
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This one is SO important... we're doing it again. After originally posting this episode earlier in the year, I've had so many messages from therapist colleagues about how helpful and important this info was, I wanted to put it back at the top. Additionally, I have created a free cheat sheet with the changes that I made to my own disclosure statement after recording this interview (because I too, learned a lot) and I'm happy to share this with you. DM me on Linkedin or just shoot me an email (). xo, Lisa = There's something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared...
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info_outlineTherapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery.
You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice!
Timestamps:
00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs
00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert
06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence
09:43: Coping as a therapist
18:29: Burnout Symptoms
25:45: Rest and Recovery
28:27: When to pivot professionally
30:27: The Power of Community
34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next
43:21: Your Identity Beyond Work
If anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help.
I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive.
Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you.
Xoxo
PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊