The Power of Healing: Turning Pain into Purpose

Join the Opening Doors LIVE Audience on Tuesday, March 25th, 6:30-8pm, Lower Merion HS, Ardmore PA. Rachel Dalinka hosts Suave Gonzalez, Jeff Abromowitz, and KimPedro Rodriguez for a discussion on Incarceration and Redemption.  Register: Main Line School Night.

In this powerful episode of Opening Doors Podcast, host Rachel Delinka sits down with author, deacon, and motivational speaker DANI, who shares her incredible journey from a traumatic childhood, addiction, and incarceration to healing, redemption, and purpose. DANI opens up about how she overcame decades of struggle, found her faith, and turned her pain into a source of strength for herself and others. She discusses the importance of taking responsibility for one’s own healing, the role of forgiveness, and the transformative power of service and community. Her story is one of resilience, hope, and the unbreakable human spirit.

Key Takeaways:

• Healing is a personal responsibility. While trauma is not your fault, taking charge of your healing process is essential.

• Forgiveness is a crucial step in moving forward. Holding onto resentment only harms yourself.

• Community and support matter. Surrounding yourself with the right people can make all the difference in recovery and personal growth.

• Service to others is healing. Giving back and helping others can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment.

• Every day is a choice. Living one day at a time with faith and determination leads to lasting change.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

• Pretty Little Bastard Child – DANI’s memoir about her journey through darkness and finding God’s light: https://www.amazon.com/Pretty-Little-Bastard-Child-Darkness/dp/B0CH37813W 

• The Love Language of Grief – DANI’s anthology exploring human connection and loss: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Language-Grief-Keisha-Brown/dp/1304194426 

• Echoes of Affection: Tales of Human Connection – DANI’s upcoming book

Books:

• What Happened To You: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience and Healing  – Oprah and Dr. Bruce Perry

• The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma – Dr. Bessel van der Kolk

Support Groups-Resources:

• Grief Support Resources for Parents Who Have Lost Children to Gun Violence: https://judishouse.org/childhood-bereavement/gun-violence/ 

• The Compassionate Friends non-profit organization exists to provide friendship, understanding, and hope to those going through the natural grieving process: https://www.compassionatefriends.org/ 

• Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families: https://adultchildren.org/meeting-search/ 

• Co-Dependents Anonymous (CODA): https://coda.org/

• Children of Incarcerated Parents: CAP4Kids -Philadelphia: https://cap4kids.org/philadelphia/parent-handouts/parenting-foster-care-adoption/incarceration-resources/

• Rainbows for All Children: https://rainbows.org/

Support for Children dealing with Grief from many traumas, including incarcerated parents:

• We Got Us Now: https://www.wegotusnow.org

• National Resource Center on Children & Families of the Incarcerated – Rutgers Camden: https://nrccfi.camden.rutgers.edu/resources/directory/national-programs/

• Youth.Gov: Children of Incarcerated Parents: https://youth.gov/youth-topics/children-of-incarcerated-parents/tools-guides-resources

• Sesame Workshop: https://sesameworkshop.org/topics/incarceration/

 

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