.89 before you date again: the healing work that makes discernment possible
Own Your Revival
Dating again after divorce can stir up hope, fear, and a quiet sense of urgencyâespecially for people of faith who want to move forward with integrity and peace. In this episode, we slow the conversation down and talk about why healing has to come first, including the often-avoided annulment process, and how clarityânot rushingâcreates the conditions for real discernment. This is a gentle, honest conversation for anyone longing for love again but wanting to move forward in a way thatâs grounded, faithful, and free. đą Stay Connected ⢠Instagram: @andyarbie ...
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.88 why you feel stuck (and it's not a discipline problem)
Own Your Revival
If youâve been spinning your wheels, feeling foggy, or noticing that even small things take more effort than they should, this episode meets you right there. We talk about what itâs like to push without traction, why forcing yourself forward often backfires, and what changes when you stop demanding answers and start paying attention to what your system actually needs. This is a quiet, grounding conversation about making room â and why that shift often brings the clarity and momentum youâve been looking for. đą Stay Connected ⢠Instagram: @andyarbie â˘...
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.87 4 ways to start the new year with purpose, peace & holy intention
Own Your Revival
This episode was originally recorded at the start of 2024, and Iâm re-sharing it here because its message remains deeply relevant as we move out of the Christmas season and into a new calendar year. If you want to begin the year grounded, peaceful, and spiritually attuned â without rushing past the graces of the holidays â this episode is your reset. In this reflection, I walk you through four practices that shape my year emotionally, spiritually, and practically: Youâll hear: ⢠how to live liturgically (and let the Church â not hustle culture â set the rhythm) ⢠how to clear...
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.86 how to close out your year with gratitude: a gentle, faith-filled reflection practice
Own Your Revival
Most people wait until January to reflect â and then wonder why they feel rushed or behind before the year even begins. In this solo episode, I walk you through how to close out your year early so you enter January supported, peaceful, and spiritually grounded. Youâll learn: the âfiscal yearâ mindset that changed how I plan how to build a rhythm of reflection that reveals Godâs grace the video divina practice that opened me to awe and possibility guided journal questions to help you see how God moved in you this year I originally recorded this episode heading into late...
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.85 is it trauma or unforgiveness? understanding your healing journey with Ashley Montag, MS, LIMHP, LMFT
Own Your Revival
Many women wrestle with the same question: Is what Iâm feeling a spiritual issue, or is it trauma? Therapist Ashley Montag, MS, LIMHP, LMFT brings clarity and compassion to this often confusing experience. Inside this episode: ⢠how trauma lives in the body (even when your faith is strong) ⢠why forgiveness does not require reconciliation ⢠why âtrying harderâ doesnât heal trauma ⢠how to move toward wholeness with God and with your nervous system This episode originally aired May 13, 2025, and continues to be one of the most liberating conversations for women ready for...
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.84 trauma-sensitive holidays: navigating family, expectations & emotional triggers with Mackenzie Reed, LPC
Own Your Revival
The holiday season can bring joy â but it can also stir memories, emotional triggers, and complicated family dynamics. In this conversation with Mackenzie Reed, LPC, we explore how to navigate the holidays with gentleness, self-awareness, and realistic expectations. We discuss: ⢠why the holidays often intensify emotional responses ⢠how to prepare your nervous system for difficult gatherings ⢠practical, compassionate boundaries ⢠how to honor your healing while still entering the season with hope This episode originally aired November 18, 2024, and remains one of the most grounding...
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.83 the gap, the gain and the grace we often miss
Own Your Revival
If youâve ever walked into a holiday week carrying a mix of gratitude, grief, old wounds, big emotions, or the pressure to hold everything together, this episode will feel like a steadying breath. Iâm sharing a simple idea from The Gap and the Gain that arrived at exactly the right momentâplus how it unexpectedly connected back to Episode #20 of this podcast, where I talked about taking an inventory of grace. Together, these two frameworks help you see your life with clearer eyes and move through the complexities of the season with more calm, compassion, and groundedness. Whether...
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.82 what changes when you stop forcing love
Own Your Revival
If youâve ever found yourself rushing a relationship, confusing intensity with intimacy, or trying to make something âworkâ through sheer effort, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Weâre exploring what healthy foundations in love actually look like, why certain relationships collapse under their own weight, and how the Four Loves described by C.S. Lewis reveal the missing pieces many of us overlook. Whether youâre dating again, discerning your next chapter, or healing from the past, this conversation offers a fresh, freeing perspective on what changes when you stop forcing...
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.81 the quiet no: how to hold your boundary without losing your softness
Own Your Revival
Thereâs a kind of boundary that doesnât require a raised voice or a long explanation â itâs the quiet no that changes everything. In this episode, we explore what it looks like to step back, regroup, and let the line youâve drawn do its work. Through the story of a woman learning to pause instead of react, youâll hear how old patterns can hijack your peace â and how to reclaim it by shifting from soldier to sentinel to queen. Weâll look at what it means to live soft and steadfastinside your boundaries, drawing wisdom from Maryâs steadfast posture at the foot of the...
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.80 the power of repair (and the confession line that taught me)
Own Your Revival
We all carry the quiet pressure to get it right â in our faith, in our relationships, in the way we show up every day. And when we fall short, it can feel like failure is permanent, like weâre defined by our mistakes. But what if holiness isnât about perfection at all? In this episode, we explore a new way of living faithful and free â one where grace meets us in the mess, mistakes become opportunities for repair, and small, humble acts of presence transform our lives. If youâve ever felt weighed down by the need to be perfect, this conversation is an invitation to discover a...
info_outlineHey there, friend. Have you ever felt stuck between where you are and where you know youâre meant to be? Change is toughâbelieve me, I get it. For years, I wrestled with stepping into something I knew God was calling me to, and let me tell you, the process was nothing like I expected. But through it all, Iâve uncovered some truths about what it really takes to move forwardâtruths that could make all the difference for you, too. So grab a cozy spot, and letâs talk about the messy, beautiful work of stepping into the life God has waiting for you. Thereâs hope, even when it feels hard, and Iâve got something to share that might just be the encouragement you need. â¤ď¸
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