.63 🚦 feeling stuck? 3 signs you're holding yourself back & what to do next
Release Date: 03/03/2025
Own Your Revival
Dating again after divorce can stir up hope, fear, and a quiet sense of urgency—especially for people of faith who want to move forward with integrity and peace. In this episode, we slow the conversation down and talk about why healing has to come first, including the often-avoided annulment process, and how clarity—not rushing—creates the conditions for real discernment. This is a gentle, honest conversation for anyone longing for love again but wanting to move forward in a way that’s grounded, faithful, and free. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie ...
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If you’ve been spinning your wheels, feeling foggy, or noticing that even small things take more effort than they should, this episode meets you right there. We talk about what it’s like to push without traction, why forcing yourself forward often backfires, and what changes when you stop demanding answers and start paying attention to what your system actually needs. This is a quiet, grounding conversation about making room — and why that shift often brings the clarity and momentum you’ve been looking for. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie •...
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This episode was originally recorded at the start of 2024, and I’m re-sharing it here because its message remains deeply relevant as we move out of the Christmas season and into a new calendar year. If you want to begin the year grounded, peaceful, and spiritually attuned — without rushing past the graces of the holidays — this episode is your reset. In this reflection, I walk you through four practices that shape my year emotionally, spiritually, and practically: You’ll hear: • how to live liturgically (and let the Church — not hustle culture — set the rhythm) • how to clear...
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Most people wait until January to reflect — and then wonder why they feel rushed or behind before the year even begins. In this solo episode, I walk you through how to close out your year early so you enter January supported, peaceful, and spiritually grounded. You’ll learn: the “fiscal year” mindset that changed how I plan how to build a rhythm of reflection that reveals God’s grace the video divina practice that opened me to awe and possibility guided journal questions to help you see how God moved in you this year I originally recorded this episode heading into late...
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Many women wrestle with the same question: Is what I’m feeling a spiritual issue, or is it trauma? Therapist Ashley Montag, MS, LIMHP, LMFT brings clarity and compassion to this often confusing experience. Inside this episode: • how trauma lives in the body (even when your faith is strong) • why forgiveness does not require reconciliation • why “trying harder” doesn’t heal trauma • how to move toward wholeness with God and with your nervous system This episode originally aired May 13, 2025, and continues to be one of the most liberating conversations for women ready for...
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The holiday season can bring joy — but it can also stir memories, emotional triggers, and complicated family dynamics. In this conversation with Mackenzie Reed, LPC, we explore how to navigate the holidays with gentleness, self-awareness, and realistic expectations. We discuss: • why the holidays often intensify emotional responses • how to prepare your nervous system for difficult gatherings • practical, compassionate boundaries • how to honor your healing while still entering the season with hope This episode originally aired November 18, 2024, and remains one of the most grounding...
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If you’ve ever walked into a holiday week carrying a mix of gratitude, grief, old wounds, big emotions, or the pressure to hold everything together, this episode will feel like a steadying breath. I’m sharing a simple idea from The Gap and the Gain that arrived at exactly the right moment—plus how it unexpectedly connected back to Episode #20 of this podcast, where I talked about taking an inventory of grace. Together, these two frameworks help you see your life with clearer eyes and move through the complexities of the season with more calm, compassion, and groundedness. Whether...
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If you’ve ever found yourself rushing a relationship, confusing intensity with intimacy, or trying to make something “work” through sheer effort, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. We’re exploring what healthy foundations in love actually look like, why certain relationships collapse under their own weight, and how the Four Loves described by C.S. Lewis reveal the missing pieces many of us overlook. Whether you’re dating again, discerning your next chapter, or healing from the past, this conversation offers a fresh, freeing perspective on what changes when you stop forcing...
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There’s a kind of boundary that doesn’t require a raised voice or a long explanation — it’s the quiet no that changes everything. In this episode, we explore what it looks like to step back, regroup, and let the line you’ve drawn do its work. Through the story of a woman learning to pause instead of react, you’ll hear how old patterns can hijack your peace — and how to reclaim it by shifting from soldier to sentinel to queen. We’ll look at what it means to live soft and steadfastinside your boundaries, drawing wisdom from Mary’s steadfast posture at the foot of the...
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We all carry the quiet pressure to get it right — in our faith, in our relationships, in the way we show up every day. And when we fall short, it can feel like failure is permanent, like we’re defined by our mistakes. But what if holiness isn’t about perfection at all? In this episode, we explore a new way of living faithful and free — one where grace meets us in the mess, mistakes become opportunities for repair, and small, humble acts of presence transform our lives. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by the need to be perfect, this conversation is an invitation to discover a...
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Ever feel like you're waiting for the perfect moment to take action—but it never seems to come? In this episode, we’re diving into three sneaky ways you might be holding yourself back and what to do about it. Whether you’re hesitating, second-guessing, or just hoping for a sign, this conversation will help you recognize where you're stuck and how to finally move forward. If you’re ready to stop waiting and start stepping into what’s next, this one’s for you!
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