Ep. 40: Mastering Intimacy with your Partner, with E. Michelle and Derrico
Release Date: 03/22/2024
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info_outlineIn today's episode, we are thrilled to welcome a dynamic duo who are transforming the landscape of sexology: E. Michelle and Derrico. Together, they navigate the complexities of human sexuality, guiding couples and individuals toward deeper connections, enhanced intimacy, and more fulfilling relationships.
E. Michelle is a certified sexologist with a wealth of expertise. As the founder of the Pleasure Master’s Institute, she is dedicated to shaping the next generation of sexuality professionals, empowering them to become leaders in the field.
Derrico brings a unique perspective, having immersed himself in the study of the sexuality industry through his partnership with E. Michelle for over a decade. His mission is to break down antiquated patriarchal systems, creating space for men to access pleasure free from shame and judgment.
In our conversation, we explore a myriad of topics, including helping couples navigate intimacy, pleasure, and vulnerability. We delve into the intricacies of working as a couple to support other couples in their journey towards fulfilling relationships and satisfying sex lives. We also tackle important issues such as the Pleasure Gap, debunking gender tropes, and helping individuals discover and embrace their desires.
Join us as we uncover invaluable insights on overcoming performance anxiety, challenging societal stereotypes, and reigniting passion in long-term relationships, including how empty nesters can reconnect with their partners. This episode promises to be enlightening, empowering, and essential for anyone seeking to cultivate deeper intimacy and pleasure in their lives.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
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Helping Couples with intimacy, pleasure, and vulnerability
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What is the Pleasure Gap?
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Debunking gender tropes
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Helping women discover pleasure and desire
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Helping men with vulnerability and intimacy
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Performance anxiety
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Gendered societal stereotypes, pressure, and fulfilling roles
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Reconciling your beliefs around sex and intimacy
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How couples can enhance pleasure and intimacy
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Empty nesters and reconnecting with your partner
You can find E. Michelle and Derrico here:
IG: @sexologistemichelle | @sexologist4hire
TT: @thepleasuremasters | @sexologistforhire
Please support their foundations of choice:
The Cupcake Girls provides confidential support to those involved in the sex industry, as well as trauma-informed outreach, advocacy, holistic resources, and referral services to provide prevention and aftercare to those affected by sex trafficking.
The Source LGBT+ Center, whose mission is to provide supportive spaces within their communities for LGBTQ+ people to learn, grow, belong, and thrive.
Let’s connect: @headsouth.world | @Kittycatmeyer