My Failed D/s Relationships of 2023
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Boundaries, negotiation and communication in BDSM are not emotionally sterile. In the paid version of this podcast () I audit my relationship failures of 2023 and hopefully we all learn something new and valuable from them.
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The 5th Annual FUCK CHRISTMAS Event!
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Here we go again! It's my annual celebration of NOT celebrating! Join me this Christmas, be merry, be kinky, have fun! Bastienne.ca
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Greed, Freedom and Function
The Trust and Thrust Podcast
In this episode I talk about gut instincts, the natural progression of D/s relationships and the surprising moral boundaries that pop up in pro BDSM. Negotiation, communication and boundaries are buzz words that - in theory - feel straight forward but IRL can equal messy feelings. I talk about "giving away a subby" and feeling anxiety about it because if you love something, set it free and all that jazz. Check out the full podcast and archive of over 130 epidsodes on ! Thanks so much for listening, stay kinky until next time!
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Tagline Wars & Other Silly Things
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Hello Fellow Perverts! Hope you're staying kinky and cute and there’s something currently in your boot(ie). Things are changing at The Wiggle Room, slowly but surely including a new room being accessible in the next few months. In this episode, I talk about Americans and have a revelation about respect that kind of runs through the whole episode. I’m looking for fart, ballbusting and wedgie subs! I’m also doing lots of audio customs on OnlyFans which has led to me starting a new, wedgie focused podcast on Patreon called . If you’re currently wearing tighty whities…. you know what to...
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UPDATE!
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Hey! It’s me and my cleavage! Did you miss me? Well, I’m back to give you a wee, little update. I’ve been busy over the summer, capering about, through nature and online. I started a wedgie podcast over on Patreon called , I’ve been collecting data (and souls) over on my , I’m trying out a new and I’m getting ready to completely redesign The Wiggle Room! I also wrote a mini book called and it’s available for $10 on my website, go buy it right meow! It’s all very exciting, listen to the audio for all the juicy details. PS. I’m also looking for experienced ballbusting subbies...
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The Perfect Submissive
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Perfectionism, control freaks, narcissism, codependence, feedback, rejection, acceptance, self aftercare, lifestyle surrogacy, behavioural democracies and a delightful lack of notes. Thank you for listening, go to BASTIENNE.SUBSTACK.COM for the full episode and visit BASTIENNE.CA/LINKS for all the places that I exist on the internet! xo Bastienne
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DECEPTION: A good person doing dirty things.
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Hello Fellow Perverts! I’ve returned with more revelations! This episode is all about healthy compartmentalization versus destructive secrecy in kink (and in life). There’s a LOT of mental homework to keep up with, as an adult, with, any level of responsibility. I think it’s fair to say, we all get overwhelmed and lost at times. We get stuck in ruts, deal with shame, feel alone, struggle with anxiety and depression - all that fun, grown up, bullshit. What we do with those experiences is important. I view kink as a release valve, a healthy, therapeutic outlet for dark feelings - but -...
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MY NEW BOOKING PROCESS!
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Hello Fellow Perverts! It is me, Bastienne, and I am (momentarily) popping out of my hiatus to tell you some exciting news! I am officially saying goodbye to time wasters - GOODBYE FOREVER! 👋 SEE YA NEVER! This means, I’m not taking new clients currently (and haven’t for a few weeks) and in the meantime, I’ve been scheming up an entirely new way to vet newbies. This involves a $10 application fee, deadlines, and a couple of quizzes and some other, lovely, time-saving mechanisms! The application will only be available on which I’m making publicly available in May, but I’m actually...
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HIATUS
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Goodbye (for now) Fellow Perverts! It’s break time for Bastienne! I’m not doing a weekly podcast anymore, well, at least not for a bit. I feel like I’ve filled the archive () chock full of good, kinky stuff and I can feel myself getting vague and repeating myself a lot on here. The classic BDSM lines of “it’s all about communication” - “it depends on the person” - “BDSM is all about boundaries”. YADA YADA. It’s not wrong, it’s just redundant. Anyhoo, I’m very proud of the archive I’ve created so please peruse that over at and if anything jumps out at you, you...
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ASPASIA & BASTIENNE! Your Dominatrix Buds.
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HELLO FELLOW PERVERTS! Toronto Dominatrix and fellow silly person, joins me once again for another, delightful chat session. We sat on astro turf, munched on oranges and croissants, sipped some adult beverages and rambled about our kinky lives til the sun went down! This week on the free version of the podcast, we answer where the person basically wants to be in a submissive mindset all the damn time. We each give our opinions about that situation. A chill pill may be in order. Want to keep listening? The full podcast is 1 hour + 45 minutes long and is available on both of our private...
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I’ve returned with more revelations!
This episode is all about healthy compartmentalization versus destructive secrecy in kink (and in life). There’s a LOT of mental homework to keep up with, as an adult, with, any level of responsibility. I think it’s fair to say, we all get overwhelmed and lost at times. We get stuck in ruts, deal with shame, feel alone, struggle with anxiety and depression - all that fun, grown up, bullshit. What we do with those experiences is important. I view kink as a release valve, a healthy, therapeutic outlet for dark feelings - but - that is certainly up for debate. Let’s talk about morality in the Den of Iniquity!
How to feel like a good person who does dirty things.
Stay Kinky!
xo Bastienne