What Could it Mean to Honour Queerness at a Wedding? with Charlie Sprinkman, founder of Everywhere is Queer
Release Date: 12/03/2023
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What Could it Mean to Honour Queerness at a Wedding? with Charlie Sprinkman, founder of Everywhere is Queer
The Feminist Wedding Podcast
I'm joined by Charlie Sprinkman (he/they), founder of Everywhere is Queer, a global directory of queer-owned businesses. Before we even got started, we talked a bit about safe vs. safer spaces, and this is a thread that runs through our entire conversation. Charlie had some questions for me, which I was happy to answer, such as: What is it like being a queer wedding vendor? What’s a queer wedding like? We also talked about: Why it’s important to hire queer vendors; Keeping queer vendors safe on Everywhere is Queer and what we can do to keep queer guests and vendors safe at...
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info_outlineI'm joined by Charlie Sprinkman (he/they), founder of Everywhere is Queer, a global directory of queer-owned businesses.
Before we even got started, we talked a bit about safe vs. safer spaces, and this is a thread that runs through our entire conversation.
Charlie had some questions for me, which I was happy to answer, such as:
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What is it like being a queer wedding vendor?
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What’s a queer wedding like?
We also talked about:
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Why it’s important to hire queer vendors;
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Keeping queer vendors safe on Everywhere is Queer and what we can do to keep queer guests and vendors safe at weddings;
Find Charlie as @everywhereisqueer on Instagram and TikTok, and on their website, www.everywhereisqueer.com
Find me on Instagram, where I answer all of my DM'S, and check out my website to see how you can get me as your personal wedding coach!
Music is Blackout Romeo by The Spin Wires.
RESOURCES
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
Incidentally, you can hear me talk a lot more about Parker’s book and hwo to apply the concepts in it to your event on this episode of Medium Lady Talks.