Finding liberation through sacred rage with Cory Scott | EP41
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Release Date: 09/08/2024
This Tantric Life with Layla Martin
Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin’s top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises...
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Shownotes Layla’s most powerful manifestation ritual Why you have to grieve to step onto a new timeline The key to digesting a negative or heavy experience How to do Sex Magic in 10-15 minutes Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™...
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Shownotes Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us Mel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone Bio Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and...
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Shownotes The story behind the quasi-cheating incident that ended the relationship Why Ryan and Layla’s first kiss went horribly wrong How to take full responsibility for your actions and impact on others Why Ryan showed up at the Stanford campus in a full-on chicken costume How radical love is different than self-sacrificing What Ryan and Layla learned from opening their relationship Bio Ryan Cheney is a therapist, seeker, and guide devoted to the process of inner transformation. Based in Austin, TX, he works with individuals and couples to uncover what...
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Shownotes What Eva learned through menopause that she wishes she had known The science behind body changes in perimenopause and menopause Some of the key practices Eva recommends for midlife How meditation supports perimenopause and menopause How Eva’s needs with men and relationships changed through menopause Why Eva calls Kali the Patron Goddess of Menopause Bio Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of...
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Shownotes Exactly what Internal Family Systems therapy is The actual mechanism that creates the most profound level of healing Psychedelics as a loving catalyst to know ourselves more The truth about psychedelic stigma Why it’s important to prepare your set and setting with psychedelics The difference between doses of psilocybin Bio Nick Brüss, EdD, LMFT, is a leading licensed psychedelic therapist, researcher and educator who is passionate about inspiring and helping people heal, grow and live creative lives. He’s pioneering treatments and programs that...
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Shownotes What people misunderstand about the feminine How to surrender into letting life be good What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership Why men are attracted to different life force energies in women Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion What it truly means for a man to be present sexually How submission is different than surrender Bio Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest...
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Shownotes The science behind nervous system imprinting in childhood The importance of going through both concealing and revealing cycles in life How Layla knew there was something inside her worth fighting for The power of turning your pain into medicine Exactly what led Layla to the Tantric path How to break free from the story that we have to be special to be worthy Why the theory of Tantra is nothing compared to the actual practices Bio Layla Martin: Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to...
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Shownotes 4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real Why inspiration is always supported by action Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership Important ground rules for safe communication 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast! Bio Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people...
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Shownotes Why 1+1=3 in love and relationships The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools Dr. Nasserzadeh’s “soak together before you sink together” method How to show up with compassion even if you don’t understand someone Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry Bio Building world peace, one relationship at a time is the mission of , a globally renowned and award-winning author, speaker and relationship expert. With a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in the fields of human sexuality and...
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What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma
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Exactly what an angergasm is
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Why emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain
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The importance of presence in trauma healing
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A simple practice for containing emotions and pain
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Foundational steps for emotional liberation
Bio
Formally, Cory Scott is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), a EMDRIA certified Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) therapist, a licensed yoga teacher (RYT-500) and a VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coach and senior teacher.
As a trauma integration coach, she specializes in supporting highly successful people to resolve lingering trauma patterns that have kept them stuck. She helps them to integrate their experiences, harness their strength and live into freedom and expansion beyond their wildest dreams.
Cory’s coaching draws on her extensive experience working with clients and her deep knowledge of trauma, somatics and interpersonal neurobiology. She combines energetic and embodiment practices, along with rewiring and integration tools to unwind trauma responses and re-create a strong, stable, balanced internal ecology.
Along with her private client work, Cory also teaches part-time for VITA™ Coaching and provides professional consultation to coaches and therapists.
She lives on a 78-acre farm in the mountains of southern Appalachia with her partner of 19 years, their two beautiful children, an old dog, a young dog and a clowder of cats. In addition to her extensive studies, she has gained much of her integrated and embodied wisdom from her own journey of deep trauma healing and personal transformation.
To learn more about Cory’s work and connect with her, click here to visit her website.
Timestamps
00:01:43 - Guest introduction
00:03:38 - Cory’s perspective on trauma healing
00:05:14 - What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma
00:06:52 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com
00:09:06 - What can stabilization after trauma healing look like?
00:11:47 - Layla shares one of the few regrets she has in life
00:14:44 - Why anger is the same energy as passion
00:16:37 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification
00:20:33 - The importance of safety in the trauma world
00:27:22 - It’s possible to experience pleasure and joy in the height of shame and anger
00:29:07 - Layla explains exactly what an angergasm is
00:34:18 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements
00:35:27 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure
00:36:36 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery
00:43:04 - Layla explains how she’s working through relational shame
00:47:56 - Cory shares her personal journey through trauma
00:55:15 - Emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain
00:59:18 - When to go into safety and calm vs feeling your emotions
01:02:04 - Why presence is so important for trauma healing
01:02:48 - Cory shares a simple practice for containing emotions and pain
01:06:50 - Foundational steps for emotional liberation
01:14:07 - “VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching is for the leaders of our world”
01:19:23 - Conclusion