#152 - How to Explain Autism to Children: Neuro-Affirming Tips from an Autistic SLP
The Autism Little Learners Podcast
Release Date: 12/09/2025
The Autism Little Learners Podcast
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Have you ever wondered how to talk to children about autism in a way that feels natural, positive, and empowering? In this replay episode, I’m bringing back my incredibly insightful conversation with Andi Putt (Mrs. Speechie P) — an Autistic SLP who specializes in autism evaluations and neuro-affirming support. Andi shares compassionate, practical ways to talk to autistic children about their identity, how to approach conversations with peers and siblings, and why starting these discussions early can make a profound impact on a child’s confidence, self-understanding, and mental health....
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info_outlineHave you ever wondered how to talk to children about autism in a way that feels natural, positive, and empowering? In this replay episode, I’m bringing back my incredibly insightful conversation with Andi Putt (Mrs. Speechie P) — an Autistic SLP who specializes in autism evaluations and neuro-affirming support.
Andi shares compassionate, practical ways to talk to autistic children about their identity, how to approach conversations with peers and siblings, and why starting these discussions early can make a profound impact on a child’s confidence, self-understanding, and mental health. We also dive into how to use everyday moments to normalize autism, reduce stigma, and help all children grow in empathy and acceptance.
This is one of those episodes that educators and families continuously return to… and for good reason.
Takeaways
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Why conversations about autism should start early — and continue over time
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How explaining autism positively can support a child’s self-concept and emotional well-being
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Simple, child-friendly ways to describe autism using strengths-based language
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Strategies for helping peers understand behaviors through empathy (including Andi’s amazing “bear in the classroom” analogy)
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How open discussions reduce stigma, prevent bullying, and foster more inclusive classrooms
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Why kids are often more accepting and adaptable than adults assume
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How to avoid common mistakes adults make when talking about autism — and what to say instead
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The power of validating children’s needs, identities, and differences without shame
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The importance of individualized support and asking children what they prefer or need
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How to talk about stimming, sensory overload, fight-or-flight responses, and regulation in ways young kids can understand
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Tips for sharing information with classmates (and when parent/child permission is needed)
Bio:
Andi Putt, also known as Mrs. Speechie P, is an Autistic Speech Language Pathologist specializing in team-based Autism evaluations and neuro-affirming support. She is dedicated to empowering families and helping Autistic children understand and embrace their authentic selves while also advocating for each individual’s unique needs. When she’s not advocating for others, you can find her indulging in a good book, planning her next travel adventure, procrastinating literally anything, or enjoying time with her family.
Links:
Andi’s website: https://www.mrsspeechiep.com/
Andi’s resources for talking to children about autism: https://www.mrsspeechiep.com/shop-all
Andi’s IG account (@mrsspeechiep): https://www.instagram.com/mrsspeechiep/?hl=en
Watch the YouTube version of this podcast episode here: https://youtu.be/8YA5QELKAnc?si=CcMulQitmKXs-Yfi
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