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When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But
Release Date: 03/17/2025
When We're Not Hustling: Sex Workers Talking About Everything But
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info_outlineIn this episode of When We're Not Hustling, Jessie Sage speaks with Zalika U. Ibaorimi, PhD, about the complex intersections of race, gender, and sex work. They discuss how Blackness disrupts conventional categories of identity and the limitations of the term "sex worker" in encompassing the diverse experiences within the sex industry. The conversation delves into the historical and systemic dehumanization of marginalized bodies, particularly focusing on the concept of "no humans involved" as a police code and its broader implications in Black studies. Zalika, an anti-disciplinary artist and professor, shares insights from her projects exploring Black femme identities and the societal constructs of humanism. Together, they examine the relational dynamics within sex work, the politics of coalition building, and the nuanced realities of being labeled a "whore." Through laughter and lived experiences, the episode offers a profound exploration of identity, existence, and the ongoing struggle for recognition and rights in both academic and sex work communities.
In this Episode:
04:16 - Introduction of guest Zalika U. Mbararimi, her background, and her work on Black sexualities and humanism.
05:08 - Jessie and Zalika discuss their involvement in a book project with Working Girls Press.
09:15 - Explanation of the term "No Humans Involved," its implications, and its relevance to Black studies and sex work.
28:28 - Discussion on the complexities and critiques of the term "sex work" and its political implications.
41:40 - Jessie and Zalika discuss the challenges of coalition building, especially in relation to anti-Blackness and self-serving allies.
01:01:41 - Discussion on how Blackness disrupts traditional gender categories and the concept of womanhood.
01:06:48 - Zalika talks about her excitement for the I Hate My Job book and her critical porno project.
01:07:17 - Closing remarks, where to find Zalika and Jessie online, and podcast sign-off.
Guest:
Instagram: @hauntedfemme
Books:
The Witch's Flight by Kara Keeling
Showgirls: Portrait of a Film by Paul Verhoeven
Music:
The Rest:
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Host: Jessie Sage
Producer: Emily Foster
Music: Benjamin J Benamati
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