028 - Say “Yes, And!” to Creating the Impossible with Melissa Dinwiddie
Release Date: 04/14/2025
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In this episode, I sit down with Scott Cooksey, CSP, founder of Leadout Performance Group, to talk about building teams that can adapt and win, especially when the plan meets reality. Scott explains why most “one-and-done” trainings fail, how to diagnose the real problem behind symptoms like conflict, and how leaders can modernize their playbook for a world reshaped by COVID and AI. We cover his Tour de France model for team strategy (sprinters, climbers, and support), what a useful return-to-office looks like (create experiences you can only have in person), and the role of empathy...
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In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with fellow improviser and change-maker Kathy Klotz-Guest. Kathy’s career path is anything but boring. She went from being a rare female leader in Silicon Valley tech to blending her love of improv and comedy into transformational work with corporate teams. We talk about her journey, the power of “yes, and” in leading change, why vulnerability and honesty matter more than ever in the age of AI, and how embracing fun isn’t just good for morale - it’s good for business. If you're a leader navigating uncertainty, this conversation...
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In this episode, I talk with Penny Zenker—the Focusologist—about her Reset Mindset approach. We dive into what exactly a reset moment is, explore her three‑step framework (Step Back, Get Perspective, Realign), and apply it to everyday life—from emotional triggers to workplace pivots. Penny also breaks down how to ask powerful questions like “What else?” to shift thinking, how to scale reset practices, and why it matters now more than ever. Key Takeaways Recognize Reset Moments: These are small or large interruptions—your alarm, emotional trigger, organizational shift—telling...
info_outlineIn this episode of Yes, And with Avish Parashar, I sit down with creativity expert Melissa Dinwiddie. Melissa shares her journey from a Juilliard-trained dancer to a professional artist and creativity instigator. She introduces us to her Create the Impossible framework, which helps individuals and teams harness the power of play, take risks, and learn from failure to spark innovation. Melissa emphasizes that it’s not about making things perfect but making things, experimenting, and allowing space for mistakes. We dive into how leaders can foster creativity and encourage their teams to take playful risks to solve complex problems.
Key Takeaways:
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Play Hard: Embrace your inner child by experimenting, exploring, and being curious.
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Make Crap: It’s okay to fail! Making mistakes is a crucial part of the creative process.
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Learn Fast: Turn every failure into valuable data. Rapid feedback loops drive innovation.
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Practical Tips: Start with small, playful actions like asking creative questions in meetings or implementing “wild idea Wednesdays.”
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Gremlins: Recognize the self-doubt voices in your head and replace them with a playful, “Yes, And” mindset to keep moving forward.
Relevant Links:
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Melissa Dinwiddie’s website: MelissaDinwiddie.com
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Get the first 50 pages of Melissa’s book The Creative Sandbox Way: Download Here
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Follow Melissa on LinkedIn: Melissa Dinwiddie on LinkedIn
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Melissa’s YouTube channel: Melissa Dinwiddie on YouTube