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EP 16 Evolving Together: Our Therapy Experiences

Over Dinner

Release Date: 07/02/2024

EP 36 How to Set Goals and Stay Consistent in 2025: Expert Tips for Personal Growth show art EP 36 How to Set Goals and Stay Consistent in 2025: Expert Tips for Personal Growth

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Episode Summary In this episode, Jarrod Sammet dives into the art of goal setting for personal and professional growth. He emphasizes the importance of reflection before setting goals, identifying internal motivations, and understanding who you want to become by year-end. The conversation explores acquiring new skills, preparing for challenges, and creating actionable steps. Jarrod highlights that while achieving goals is important, the true value lies in the discipline and growth experienced along the way. Key Takeaways Goals provide direction and set a target for personal and professional...

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EP 35 New Year, New Intentions: Reflecting, Growing, and Goal-Setting Together show art EP 35 New Year, New Intentions: Reflecting, Growing, and Goal-Setting Together

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Summary As we step into a new year, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki dive into a thoughtful discussion on reflecting on the past year, setting meaningful intentions, and fostering personal growth. In this episode, they explore how realistic goals, self-awareness, and shared support can lead to lasting change for individuals and couples alike. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why reflection is the key to understanding your true desires and guiding your goals. The difference between intentions and rigid resolutions and why flexibility matters. Practical techniques for goal-setting as a couple,...

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EP 34 The Art of Savoring: Transform Your Life with Gratitude and Mindfulness show art EP 34 The Art of Savoring: Transform Your Life with Gratitude and Mindfulness

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Summary In this episode, Jarrod Sammet dives deep into the transformative power of gratitude and savoring. As the holiday season approaches, he encourages listeners to slow down, savor their experiences, and appreciate the present moment. Jarrod shares personal reflections on how gratitude has shifted his mindset and improved his emotional well-being, helping him move from stress and fear to empowerment and fulfillment. Whether you're navigating joyful or challenging times, this episode will inspire you to find gratitude in every experience and embrace mindfulness through your five...

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EP 33 Living with ADHD: Challenges, Gifts, and Self-Acceptance show art EP 33 Living with ADHD: Challenges, Gifts, and Self-Acceptance

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In this episode of Over Dinner, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki open up about the intricacies of living with ADHD and embracing neurodiversity. Drawing from Nikki’s personal experiences, they discuss how ADHD shapes her daily life, relationships, and approach to challenges. From emotional regulation struggles to executive functioning hurdles, the duo dives deep into the unique obstacles and opportunities ADHD presents. Listeners will gain insight into the powerful impact of support systems, the importance of understanding neurodiverse needs, and techniques like body doubling that can help manage...

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EP 32 Honesty in Relationships: When to Speak Up, When to Hold Back, and How to Build Trust show art EP 32 Honesty in Relationships: When to Speak Up, When to Hold Back, and How to Build Trust

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Episode Summary: In this episode, Dr. Nikki and Jarrod tackle one of the most important yet nuanced topics in relationships: honesty. They dive into how honesty shapes trust, strengthens communication, and sometimes challenges boundaries. From exploring the impact of personal experiences to discussing how therapy has helped them navigate tricky conversations, they share a heartfelt and relatable discussion about what it means to communicate openly without causing harm. The couple reflects on how dietary choices, emotional intelligence, and childhood experiences influence their perspectives on...

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EP 31 Autism Diagnosis Grief: What Parents Need to Know show art EP 31 Autism Diagnosis Grief: What Parents Need to Know

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Summary:  Dr. Nikki and Jarrod get personal about their parenting journey, sharing raw and honest reflections on raising a neurodiverse child. They discuss the emotional challenges of parenting, insights from a recent couples therapy session where they opened up about their son Jake’s development, and the importance of understanding asynchronous growth in autism. Together, they explore themes of grief, the power of support networks, and the critical role of self-care in navigating life’s complexities. Whether you're parenting a neurodiverse child or navigating life’s ups and downs,...

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EP 30 Unlocking Your Creative Potential: A 4-Step Process for Leaders and Growth Seekers with Jarrod Sammet show art EP 30 Unlocking Your Creative Potential: A 4-Step Process for Leaders and Growth Seekers with Jarrod Sammet

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In this episode, Jarrod Sammet delves into the significance of creativity in personal development and leadership. He emphasizes that everyone possesses inherent creativity and underscores the necessity of allocating time and space to nurture this potential. Jarrod introduces a four-step process to enhance creativity: Identify Your Optimal Thinking Time: Recognize when you're most mentally alert and creative. Protect That Time: Safeguard these periods from distractions to focus on creative endeavors. Run Experiments: Engage in trials to explore new ideas and approaches. Learn from Failures:...

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EP 29 U.S. Election Aftermath: Trump vs. Harris, Cultivating Empathy, and Challenging Beliefs show art EP 29 U.S. Election Aftermath: Trump vs. Harris, Cultivating Empathy, and Challenging Beliefs

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Episode Summary: In this candid conversation, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki reflect on their emotional journey following the 2024 U.S. Election. They dive into the complexities of navigating personal relationships amidst political turmoil, discussing how empathy, curiosity, and open communication play a crucial role. The discussion also touches on the transformative impact of therapy in helping understand differing political perspectives. Together, they explore how embracing confusion can lead to personal growth, especially in the face of a divided political landscape. Key Takeaways: Nikki and Jarrod...

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EP 28: Election 2024 Navigating Political Differences in Relationships show art EP 28: Election 2024 Navigating Political Differences in Relationships

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Summary In this episode, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki engage in a candid conversation about the upcoming election, exploring themes of optimism, the impact of political decisions on personal relationships, and the importance of reproductive rights. They discuss the significance of basic human needs in political discourse and reflect on how their values and beliefs have evolved over time. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of respect and understanding in navigating political differences, particularly within relationships and families and concludes with a call to action for listeners to...

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EP 27 Breaking Free from Toxic Positivity: Embracing Real Emotions for Growth show art EP 27 Breaking Free from Toxic Positivity: Embracing Real Emotions for Growth

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Summary In this episode, Jarrod Sammet explores the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on the challenges of negative emotions and the concept of toxic positivity. He emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and empathy in both personal and professional relationships. Jarrod discusses the distinction between positivity as a strategy and optimism as mere hope, advocating for a proactive approach to emotional experiences. He encourages listeners to learn from every experience, viewing challenges as opportunities for growth and connection. What time...

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Summary

In this episode, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki explore their experiences with individual and couples therapy, including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Internal Family Systems. They discuss their evolving perceptions of therapy, the importance of personal work before couples therapy, and the benefits of connecting with emotions. They emphasize how therapy improves communication, deepens understanding of each other's stories and insecurities, and strengthens emotional bonds. They recommend couples therapy for all relationships, highlighting the value of open and honest communication.

Takeaways

  • Therapy can be a valuable tool for personal growth and healing.

  • Personal development work can enhance the effectiveness of therapy.

  • Internal Family Systems therapy can help individuals identify and work with different parts of themselves.

  • Doing personal work before entering couples therapy can enhance communication and connection.

  • Therapy is not about fixing, but about understanding and healing.

  • Therapy can be life-changing and is most effective when the individual is ready to receive it.

  • Individual therapy can help with connecting to and understanding emotions, as well as making connections between past experiences and present challenges.

  • Couples therapy, specifically using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), can improve communication, rekindle emotional and physical bonds, and help understand each other's stories and insecurities.

  • Couples therapy is beneficial for all couples, regardless of the state of their relationship, and promotes open, honest, and vulnerable communication.

Resources From Episode

Chapters

01:20 Introduction to Therapy Discussion

04:30 Discussion on Individual and Couples Therapy

18:28 Understanding and Labeling Different Parts of Ourselves in Therapy

24:08 The Importance of Individual Work Before Couples Therapy

26:02 Overview of Internal Family Systems Therapy

26:47 Conclusion and Individual Therapy Experience

34:32 The Role of Emotionally Focused Therapy

38:15 The Importance of Openness, Vulnerability, and Acceptance

44:56 Therapy as a Tool for Personal Growth and Strengthening Relationships

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