EP23: From scout camp to Hollywood: How Shane learned to command any room
Release Date: 12/14/2025
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The world isn’t just challenging; right now, the mood is heavy and, frankly, fucked . In this episode, therapist and author Andrew Sloan explains why smart, capable leaders feel like they are drowning despite their proficiency . We move beyond "toxic positivity" to explore the structural systems of disconnection that have unplugged us from our own nervous systems . Andrew reveals how to move from the "accelerator pedal" of stress into the "green zone" of ventral vagal safety, the literal neurobiological infrastructure of presence . This isn't a mindset talk; it’s a survival guide for...
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EP23: From scout camp to Hollywood: How Shane learned to command any room
Command Your Presence
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build, one uncomfortable moment at a time. Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast with Jacinda! In this episode, she reconnects with long-time creative friend and filmmaker Shane, whose journey from Scout Camp leader to Creative Director reveals powerful lessons on confidence, leadership, and authentic communication. Shane shares how his early experiences commanding a noisy dining hall of 400 campers taught him to project his voice, connect with an audience, and earn respect. Those lessons would later shape his success in...
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EP22: From failure to fierce: How Kateesha rebuilt, refocused, and commanded her presence
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Have you ever poured your heart, time, and money into something only to watch it fail publicly? Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast, where Jacinda sits down with Kateesha, a bold entrepreneur and branding expert who’s mastered the art of resilience and authentic leadership. In this episode, they unpack how devastating setbacks can become the foundation for unstoppable growth and why commanding your presence starts long before you step on a stage. Kateesha opens up about investing $40,000 in a business that never took off, the grief that followed, and the powerful mindset shifts that...
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EP21: From shy kid to confident coach: How Jess Elford found her power (and why “Fake It till you make It” actually works)
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Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 21! Okay, picture this: you’re five feet tall, training to be a jockey, and your horse decides you’re the one getting trampled today. That’s how Jess Elford’s fitness journey began, not exactly the typical “I found my passion” story, but definitely one for the books (and the blooper reel). In this episode, Jacinda chats with Jess, a personal trainer, former almost-jockey, and self-proclaimed early bird who believes confidence can be learned… preferably after a lemon water and a good stretch. They laugh their way through Jess’s...
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EP20: Performing for millions, seeing no one: why large audiences are easier
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When I was in high school, I performed at the Rugby World Cup opening ceremony in front of 80,000 people. The lights were blinding, the crowd was roaring, and my heart was pounding so hard I could feel it in my throat. But once I stepped onto that field, something strange happened. The fear disappeared. Years later, standing in a small boardroom with just two people watching me, that same fear came rushing back. My palms were sweaty, my voice shaky, and every glance felt like a spotlight. How could performing for two people feel scarier than performing for thousands? In this...
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EP19: How to effectively use humour in presentations
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Welcome to Command Your Podcast Episode 19! Did you know that over 75% of presenters admit their jokes often fall flat? And many never try humor again because of it? That’s a huge mistake, because when used correctly, humor is one of the most powerful public speaking tools you can use to build trust, connect with your audience, and make your message unforgettable. In this episode, Jacinda reveals how to use humor effectively in presentations (even if you don’t consider yourself a “funny” person). She breaks down why humor works, how it helps you create engaging presentations and a...
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EP18: They want you to succeed: Reframing fear and embracing adrenalin
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Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast Episode 18! Commanding a room isn’t about being the loudest voice; it’s about presence, authenticity, and connection. Jacinda is joined by Ben Marshen, a former research scientist turned financial services leader, consultant, and advocate who has spent nearly two decades shaping better systems for consumers. Beyond his corporate roles, Ben brings a fascinating mix of curiosity, creativity, and performance experience that has shaped the way he commands a stage and captivates audiences. In this episode, Ben shares his unconventional journey, from...
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EP17: Four shows a day, six days a week: Surviving the ultimate performance grind
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EP16: How to stop saying “UM” and “AH”
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EP15: From physio to women’s health coach: Sophie Horne on reinvention, presence, and the power of owning your story
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Welcome to Command Your Presence Episode 15! What happens when you realize the career you’ve built no longer lights you up? And you take a leap into an entirely new path? In this episode, Jacinda is joined by Sophie Horne, a former physio who boldly transitioned into women’s health coaching and cycle education. Sophie shares her journey of following curiosity, stepping away from the traditional healthcare system, and finding her voice in the women’s health space. From the awkward realities of learning about periods in school to the freedom she discovered living in London, Sophie reflects...
info_outlineConfidence isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build, one uncomfortable moment at a time.
Welcome to Command Your Presence Podcast with Jacinda! In this episode, she reconnects with long-time creative friend and filmmaker Shane, whose journey from Scout Camp leader to Creative Director reveals powerful lessons on confidence, leadership, and authentic communication.
Shane shares how his early experiences commanding a noisy dining hall of 400 campers taught him to project his voice, connect with an audience, and earn respect. Those lessons would later shape his success in film and creative production. Together, Jacinda and Shane explore what it really means to “read the room,” how to balance empathy with authority, and why the best leaders are also great listeners.
Whether you’re a speaker, creator, or entrepreneur, this conversation will inspire you to step up, take space, and own your voice wherever you are.
Episode Highlights:
01:40 Who is Shane beyond his job title?
03:00 The moment he first learned to command presence
05:40 From camp counselor to confident communicator
09:00 The power of adapting your communication style
13:20 Lessons from film school and working in production
17:30 Big-budget sets vs. indie projects: what fuels creativity
20:00 Finding your best “room” as a speaker or performer
22:00 Why great speakers are great listeners
25:00 The difference between being a great performer and a great communicator
27:00 How to practice your voice and build presence through repetition
29:00 Reframing wins and losses into wins and lessons
31:00 Shane’s high-pressure story from a live film festival
35:00 Staying calm and taking control when things go wrong
37:00 How to zoom out and focus on the bigger picture under pressure
39:00 Connecting the dots between different skill sets and experiences
40:00 Quick-fire lessons on public speaking and success
42:00 The importance of listening to your head, heart, and gut
🎧 Listen now and discover how to command your presence with confidence, empathy, and purpose.
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